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boys...:(
So there was this one guy, we'll call him Michael, and I found out that he REALLY liked me, like aloooot. He told my friends how hot he thought I was and he "couldnt stop thinking about me" and "man you gotta get me with her." So at first I didnt like him, but then I eventually did. So he asked me out to the movies but i didnt talk to him alot because i was shy, but i was smiling and stuff. Then the next day friday at our schools football came he told me "I think your really hot and stuff, but maybe we should just be friends. Im sorry.."
Does anyone have any idea why all of the sudden he would just say that to me? He had been hurt in a previous relationship, I thinkk.. THANKS SO MUCH!
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Its not your fault. no matter what you think. I feel that it could be a joke. he only went out with you to see what your reaction was and what his friends would think. I think you should just forget about him. hes not anything special if hes gonna do that so dont try to get him back. that would be pointless. but move on. find someone else. His friends could've also told him to break up with you or not to be mean but maybe he started to like another girl and watch if its true hee'll do the same thing to her. anyways dont get down on yourself. like i said. hes nothing special if hes gonna do that. your better that that and a guy should like you for who you are like personality and looks. not just if your hot or not. well hope i answered your question as best as i could. please feel free to email me anytime at scdgirl288@yahoo.com. bye.
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okay, well, either way it's not your fault. he may have thought you were going to be something that you are not, which isn't a problem, he might have just been looking for a girl with a different personality than yours is. i'm sure your personality is really adorable, and i bet you are a great girl, but some guys just are jerks, and after actually spending time with a "hot" girl, they realize that they want something else. really, it's not your fault. he might be a nice kid, but i think in the long run, you'll be happy to know you had the experience, and maybe happier to know that you still have the chance to date other people now. :)
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Maybe he felt insecure because you didn't talk to him much. Guys tend to be bad with subtle hints. Trust me, my boyfriend felt the same way the first time we went out. It may be because he was hurt in the past, but I think it's because he didn't want his ego to be hurt because he was worried you didn't really like him.
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He probably has been hurt before and maybe he isn't ready to start another relationship yet. He also might of thought you didn't really like him all that much, since you were being shy and hardly talked to him. Guys don't like to make an effort without feedback back from girls. He made the move by talking to his friends about you and asking you out to the movies. It was your turn to show your interest in him and you didn't make the move. He might of felt rejected and decided you were being too shy or too mysterious with your feelings and decided you weren't worth the risk. Guys are just like girls. They are just as shy at making the first move as we are. But maybe you didn't consider him asking you out as the first move. Whatever the case, I still don't know what you guys did after the movie... Did he take you back home? Did you guys talk about anything? Was their anything awkward that happened on the date? Did you guys really talk much after the date, like at school? If I knew some of those answers I probably could answer your question a little better. I hope the advice I gave was help enough, but if you have anymore questions just note back my inbox and I'd love to give you more advice. Best of luck hun!
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