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i'm Brittany and though I'm only 14, I'm really good at the psycology of teens. I usually don't use the answer "you should go to a counsler" or anything similiar to that. Although that is a good idea in many situations, I tend to realize that most teens have thought about that and most of them refuse to talk to a counsler about it. If you want a straight up answer without all the "you shouldn't have done that" talk, let me know.

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OMFG. how do you make it so that when you click on a link in an email, (for example, aim mail where the window is small), it makes either a new tab or opens in a new window??? i hate it when you click on the link & it opens IN THAT WINDOW & you can't scroll up and down cause there's no scroll bar, address bar, or standard toolbar!

thanks in advance

right click on the link the either click "open in new window" or "open in new tab".

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I smoked pot last night for the first timee
I didn't like it very much, but I've got soo many questons
I DID get high, 100% positive because I thought I was going to die, and no it wasnt in my head I promise.
I felt like I would leave my body and then fall asleep, but then wake up, and i wasn't aware of movements or couldn't feel anything for about a minute at a time. I was extremely tired, becuase I normally need to sleep a long time WITH a nap, and i slept for short w/o one.
So maybe the heat and the fatigue caused this, but I truly think I was high.

Does this make sense because my friends think I was faking it, even though I deffinantly wasn't. Has anyone experienced something like this before

Also what are some effects (long and short term?) of smoking marijuana

PS for people that havent done drugs doont do it!

What a coincidence! I tryed it for the first time yesterday also!! Well, the first thing I noticed was my heart beat speeding up... and it still hasn't gone away. The reason they probably think you were faking it was because most people don't look, or get very high their first time. Most people also don't get delusional like you. I researched a lot before I did it because I knew I was going to do it soon. XD

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do i have a chance being a cheerleader if i cant do tumbles,pushups (i can do like 2), cartwheels or roundoffs, and i wanted to go for the 9th grade team? and i'm not light enough to be flipped in the air. should i still try out? but i dont want to waste my time or embarse myself... be brutely honest..thanxs

at my school anyone that can't do a roundoff usually won't even make it on freshman team. One of my friends could dance super great (which, for some reason, is a big part of trying out) and do cartwheels, but she couldn't do a roundoff and she didn't make it. 20 people tryed out and 16 made it.

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what fast food, mcdonalds, subway, taco bell, any other one there is.. is the healthiest? i haven't eaten fast food in a long time since i eat healthy now but which one is best? is subway really healty or is tehre some kind of trick

Subway is basically the most healthy fast food place I can think of. Also Qdoba is pretty good. It's like a Mexican food Subway. They aren't a big brand so I'm not sure if there is one by you or not. If you go to McDonalds or where ever, the most healthy thing you can get there is the salads WITH OUT dressing. The dressing there is like, 400 calories or something my dad told me (He went from 240 pounds to 215 pounds in 2 months).

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ok so i do stuff with my boyfriend and everything so i have to shave down there and it will be all fine for like the first day like right after i shave but i usually dont take a shower the day i chill with him bc i usually go to his house right after school but by then i have really bad red bumps and it burns i think its razer burn but i use a new razor and shaving cream.and i dont only wanna do this for him it for me to bc i hate how it kills but i dont like being beastly and nair dont work to well eather and i get it on my bikini line to and summers basicly here and all so what can i do

Do you shave down? If you shave against the hair it sometimes tends to bleed. Just go soft and go with the hair down the same area repeatedly. It prevents it from stinging... believe me.

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Ok so I am a prep, all the way around, its the group I hang out with and the label I am given, my thing is recently my mother went through an extreme pay cut, I am used to shopping at Hollister and AE, but since I wouldnt be able to do that does anyone know some good stores where I could still get the style I wear on a budget?

Maybe consider a new style. One that isn't as critical on what brand it is. I used to be sorta preppy, but then I got really bored with the same old drama about nothing, so now I dress "bro-ho" is what most call it. It's so much more comfortable too. You could wear brands like famous and volcolm and stuff. Even if you wear brands that no one has heard of that look bro, they still look cool and no one will judge you.. unlike alot of preps. Sorry to say, but if you go from HCO and A&F to Kohl's... people at your school will know. There's something about that little bird and moose that make the shirt SO much better to some poeple. *sarcasm*

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what is a "hot" thing I could wear that would get guy's attention, without being too over the top?

I made myself a little rule a while ago =]. If I'm wearing a skirt or shorts, I cannot wear a tube top,spaghetti straps/tank top. If I'm wearing jeans, I have to wear a tube top/spaghetti straps/tank top. That way I don't look too prude or too slutty.

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Is it true that most girls like sex and thinking about it as much as guys do, like they love doing sexual things as much as guys do so if you just ask them they will most likely say yes??

Yes, most girls do love sex. But most don't say yes to it as much as guys do because of the terrifying risk of pregnancy and reputation. If guys score a girl, they usually brag about it. If I girl gets fucked, she's known as the whore. Pregnancy is a huge issue for younger girls doing it in their first time or two. But basically, yes, girls get just as horny as guys do.

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is there anyway on myspace i can view the persons friends even though they dont show? not top friends but the overall ? thankss.

Yes. In the URL box enter this:
http://friends.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewfriends&friendID=
But make sure after the equal sign you put in the users ID number. its probably around 8 numbers long. It should work if done correctly.

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does anybody on this site cut themselves ? i need to talk to someone who i can relate to .. PLEASE!! i/m me at x3MOxL0V3x thank you so much

Beleive it or not, I used to cut. I try to not cut anymore though.

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what is "the ATL"? where is it?

The ATL is Atlanta, Georgia. Many rappers and r&b artists were raised there, so it is their hometown and they are proud of it.

Ex's and Oh's,
-brittany

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I'm 14/f. I weigh about 102, give or take. I haven't danced in like 7 months and I noticed my stomach is getting soft. My friends tell me that I'm still very skinny, but I think otherwise. What do you suppose I should do to get back in shape.

PS > I'm taking yoga this year. Will that be good?

I've never done anything that really helped me lose weight... until very recently. I started doing step arobic and boy, that's a great way to lose weight.

Ex's and Oh's,
-brittany

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What is that song from the ABC Family A New Kind Of Family commercial? It's not the slow one, but the faster one where they keep saying something like "He- He- Hello Hello". And Who is it by, I know it's a guy duh buy I really like it and want to hear it. Thanks to anybody that can help me!!!

I think the song your thinking if is called "vertigo" by "U2".

Ex's and Oh's,
-brittany

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I like this boy named Steven. and we talk a lot but we've never met (I know him through my ex boyfriend, haha). and we're pretty much eachother's type. But he really really likes my friend who he's never met either. and they barely ever talk. only like twice online. she's really gorgeous but has no personality. and I know he only likes her for her looks and it makes me really sad because we're good for eachother. I'm not ugly, I'm just not as good looking as her. but I'm a lot funnier and nicer.

so, what do I do?
We're all supposed to hang out and I want to tell him. But he's just so shallow, and I hate that. it's just a crush. so should I let it go or tell him to see what he says?

the thing is, he considers me a good friend. and if he knew I liked him, he might not talk to me as much. and I don't want that. but I do like him alot.

help?:)

haha. thats so ironic cus i sort of like a guy named steven. anywaiz, just play it cool with him. dont go out with him cus when yall break up itll be really awkward. sorry, but youre just gunna have to deal with him liking someone else. and actually, you are not eachothers type if he doesnt like you back. if hes shallow and shes gorgeous without a personality, then let them go out and maybe he will realize he doesnt like her cus shes a bitch or sumthin.

Ex's and Oh's,
-brittany

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16/f
well there is this guy that i kinda am starting to like. but he was like ohh yeah i cant go out with a girl that cant dance! and i was like yeah blah blah but you see i cant dance for shit! haha like ive never really danced with a boy before..like grinding and stuff. so im worried if a guy asks me to a dance or something and they want to dance i will be so embarassed about it because i wont know what to do! and people will laugh and be like haha she does not know what she is doing! ahhh and this guy doesnt know it either otherwise he will tell his friends and everyone else and they will be like oh my god you dont know how to dance? AHAHA.

yeah.i dont know what to do..

Grinding is actually really simple. I know this sounds dumb and repetitive, but you'll catch on. Just follow his lead. Your hips move at the same rate and his. The main point of grinding is to get the guy horny by shoving your ass into his dick. So as long as you are close to him, he will probrally think you are good at grinding. I'm horrible at actual dancing, but grinding is pretty easy. And people don't usually say that. If they do, it is because they are jelous you are dancing with a guy and they aren't. It's usually so crowded at school dances that no one really stares at you dancing. So all you can really do is wait til the time comes.

Ex's and Oh's,
-brittany

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`m 14 and i need help with these math questons.
i had 300 hundred math questions but these are the ones i need help with.
Okay
1.Multiply your 4`s while taking each answer to the power of 6.
2.3% of 100 is?
3.25% of 200 is?
4.19 divided by 28 is?
5.34 divided by 4 is?
6.W=5 P=10 && C=1
W x C=
P x C+W x P divided by 7=


please show some work or some sort..
these are the only six i needed help with..
thanks in advance!!

1. I don't understand #1.

2. 3% of 100
3% is the same as 3/100 (since percent means over 100)
3/100 is the same as 0.03
0.03 x 100= 3
So 3 is you answer

3. 25% of 200
25 is the same as 25/100 (or 1/4... either one really.)
25/100 (or 1/4) is the same as 0.25
0.25 x 200= 50
So 50 is your answer.

4. 19 divided by 28 is 2.375
(just use a calculater for that.)

5. 34 divided by 4 is 8.5
(also use a calculater.)

6. W=5, P=10, and C=1
part a:
W x C=
replace the letter with the numbers that they equal so it would be 5 x 1=
then just do basic math to get the answer.
5 x 1= 5
part b:
P x C + W x P divided by 7=
replace the numbers as you did in part A so it would be 10 x 1 + 5 x 10 divided by 7=
Then do order of operations (multiplication and division, then do addition and subtraction.)
10 x 1= 10 and 5 x 10= 50 so as of now the equation would be...
10 + 50 divided by 7=
50 divided by 7= 7.14
10 + 7.14= 17.14
So 17.14 is your answer.

Ex's and Oh's,
-brittany

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Hello.
My boyfriend recently graduated so I'm going to strip for him when we go on vacation to the beach.
The thing is I don't know which song to stripdance to!
We both like alternative and rock but pop is okay.
I need a song that I can dance to in stilettos, seductive/sultry songs are preferred, but with enough of an update beat to dance to

Thanks!!!

"buttons" by pussycat dolls
"sexyback" (it IS ONLY one word, no i didnt forget a space.) by Justin Timberlake
That's all i got :). good luck and have fun.

Ex's and Oh's,
-brittany

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is spaying and neutering a pet wrong?

No, it helps prevent overpopulation of that pet breed. Some animals are so overpopulated, we have been pushed to slaughter many... including horses =[. Many people neuter their pet because a neutered dog is less hyper than a sexually active dog. =] I saw a really cute lisence plate frame that said...

I ♥ my cat.
so I ♠ her.

(I don't know if I did the codes right for the symbols though.)

Ex's and Oh's,
-brittany

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why do people like hemp things?

People like it because it is made with marijuana. Apparently they somehow take out the stuff that makes you high though. They have hemp cheese, lotion (which is really good), hemp bread... hemp everything!!! According to John Tucker Must Die, there is hemp bras. =]

Ex's and Oh's,
-brittany

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okay. im 14... i dont see how people geet fat... i mean theres alot a big people in this world always complaining about their weight..&& ive never been fat before..im like really skinny...and i eat alot...when i see that im gaining a few pounds i cut down a little..&& it helps me keep my figure...alot of people even think im anorexic but im not..trust me.....what i dont get is why is it a really big person all like look at me im fat..i dont fit in&& low self exsteem and stuff...when really they can control that fat of theirs...unless someones making you eat alot...if you really want to be skinny...work for it you fat cows...just kidding...just saying...if you really want to be skinny WORK...and if you think you dont fit in cause you're different(fat )..you are different..cause you take up more space so get over it seriously..im tired of listening to them fat people...most people who are fat are fat because theyre 'GREEDY'
get over it..or do something about it..WORK..


My question really is: why are there so many fat people in this world??? cant you learn how to cut down..you GREEDY people...why cant a fat person just stop eatting so much..and WORK..come on people!! if you are one who eats alot..it helps to cut down by eatting less..dont even look at the food that is saying"eat me!!!"...so please help me understand thanks...

wow. I know what you mean, but that was a bit harsh. Some people have desieses that cause them to gain weight. Some people have exteremely slow metabolisms. I have a sorta slow metabolism, I need to limit myself to a bowl of cereal and soup for the day. But I agree with you for the most part. Many people are call themselves fat ALL the time and then they go to McDonalds and buy 2 bigmacs.

Ex's and Oh's,
-brittany

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