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I'm about 5 foot 7 and 13 years old, but i sound a lot older then i am. I'm a brunette with green eyes. I've been wanting to have an advice column forever and i finally made one. I think i give good advice and i hope i can help everyone. I can answer pretty much any question. Esspecially about friendship, love lives, and music (i'm a guitar player) I never give useless answers so feel free to ask anything!
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can you be in love in 7th grade? i mean, if you think about this person a lot and stuff, is it love? is love even possible in 7th grade? (link)
well, i dont think it really matters about age. If your too young, u wont be sure what love really is. I kno u think about him a lot, but love is wanting to spend your life with a person. wanting to always be with them. And love can't work if only u love him. he has to love you for it to be TRUE love. It's not imppossible to be in love in 7th grade, but i doubt that it's true. You're still a kid, think about things more. Do you think you're really in love? Hope i helped!


why is it that every time you are realy in love with someone they go and break your heart? (link)
It seems like u haven't fallen in love with the right guy yet. When you do, he won't break your heart, but mend it. Hope i helped!


does any one a good website for quotes?
besides hellzangelz or firehotquotes?
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http://www.best-love-poems.com/ That's good for quotes and poems. I go there all the time. They have a lot of heart warming stuff. And depressing stuff for when ur feeling low. I love this site and i bet u will too. Hope i helped!


i am the girl that said she was anarexic for six months and was 5'8 and 13 years old... i now weigh 120 pounds cuz i checked into a hospital and they made me gain ALOT of weight... is 120 to fat for a 5'8 13 yr old? my doctor said that that is how much im suppost to weigh since im so tall... but is that still to much? (link)
No, ur fine. I'm that tall and weight more then that. So feel lucky.


Okay, I'm friends with my best friend's ex boyfriend.We've always been friends. But I've also always hada little bitty crush on him. He lives in PA and we live in DE though, so boy me and my friend never get to see him. Lastngith he said he missed me and he wanted to come visit me. I asked him why he didn't ever call, and he said he didn't have any minutes, but if he did, I would be the first person he would call. Is that just me or does he sound like he likes me just a little bit? Help me! I rate good!

xoxo (link)
IT sure soudns like it. Go for it!


what things can i do when a friend is over?
[i am a 13 yr old girl, what are somethings i can do w/ a girl my age over?please try to give me more than movies and music.]
Thanks x0x!
P.S I RATE HIGH ;-)LoL (link)
I just was at a sleepover and the girls mom had a Mary KAy lady come by with all this make up (mascara, eye liner, eye shadow, foundation, lip gloss, etc) and we all tried them out. It was alot of fun and we got facials and pedicures and manicures for free. If your mom gets MAry Kay, all of this could work out. Hope i helped!!


hey i went out wit this kid tom and we went out for almost 2 months and i really liked him but i broke up wit him twice and we havent gne out since n now wen i think about it i didnt realy like him like that i didnt even make out wit him it felt wrong because i saw him making out wit my friends for no reason before at parties bu that was before we went out and anyways i went out wit this kid matt after him for 3 weeks and i really eally like him like i think it might even be love i cant stop thinking about him i broke up wit him though because i had no time to see him and he understands and we still hang out and he messages me on his phone calls me flirts wit me in school anything u kno i never seen him wit a girl an maybe thats why i htink mor of him i dunno i need ur help i didnt make out wit him yet either well our tongues touched but it was for a sec he was wasted so i didnt want to do anything so help me if u can thanks i rate really good but i wanna know do i feel this way about him cause i didnt se him wit a girl b4 or becuase i really like him and should i make a move on him and if yes then wat???

thanks for reading i rate good xoxo toodles (link)
The first guy seems a lil more easy then the second. MAtt seems like a good guy and wont go to fast. Unlike the first dude who was making out with all of ur friends. I think you like Matt b/c of that and u have good taste to feel that way. I'd stick with Matt and ask him out again. I kno u dont really have time, but i'd get him back b4 he gets taken. Hope i helped!


what are some good eyeshadow colors for someone with green eyes? (link)
goldish yellow. I have green eyes and gold looks awesome with green eyes. I use velocity gold from MAry Kay. Hope i helped!


For a school dance I'm the music person...one problem I dont know what to play. Its a highschool dance for like the winter and stuff and one of the songs they asked me to get goes like "and in the end its right I hope you had the time of your life." but I dont know who sings it...ahhh what do i do...please help!

*no style* (link)
That's "Time of Your Life" by Green Day.


What are somethings you can add to coffee to make it taste better. I hate coffee with nothing in it, and I need ideas on what to add.

**I Rate High** (link)
cream, not too much. And sugar (it depends on the size of the cup bt 3 small spoons usually works)


okay, to those of you that listen to country, lately I've been thinkin of these lyrics, and now I'm getting them messed up, so before I 4get, duz any1 know this song

What if God quit trying
he just turned away....
What would you do
You'd probably give up too
if nobody believed in you

Then in another stanza, I know it says something about taking his name out of the pledge of allegience. If you atleast know who sings it, or the name, or a full stanza of lyrics it'd be appreciated (link)
I'm pretty sure it's "If no body believed in you" by Joe Nichols. Hope i helped!


I really really want to learn guitar. I looked into lessons but their like 20$ a half hour! Its crazy. My friends tell me to just teach myself, but I have no idea how. And my sister told me to get a book or DVD on it to learn from. What do you think? And guitsrists around that could help me? lol. And anyone who taught themselves, how did you and how long did it take? (link)
Teaching yourself NEVER works! You need a teacher or someone who is a professional. And i wouldn't go to a parent or something b/c they usually dont have time. Look in the yellowpages and call around for a session for less the 20 dollars. My lessons are 14 dollars. and my teacher is awesome. Hope i helped!


There is this person on here that keeps harassing me beacause of my user name. I've explained to him/her that it's just a username but s/he mail me again to antoganize more. THis is an advice collumn and I'm getting mails in my inbox every day from the same person who never leaves his/her name. I'm getting annoyed, whoever it is they are not asking for advice. What should I do? (link)
what's ur username, and who's the person harrasing u?


Does anyone know any really good books about like teenage situations but is like a fictional story. (like the Gossip Girl series). I love that series and would love to read other books just like that! I'll rate. Thanks for your help. (link)
the Alice series, they're AWESOME!!!! there's a million of them too. U'll find them at Borders or Barnes and Noble in the teen fiction section. Hope i helped!


I've been getting depressed lately...like people make me feel stupid. Sometimes, they roll their eyes at things I say, especially when we're around guys. I wanna ask them to stop, but IDK how, and you see, I CANT, becus they would just deny it and not understand. What should I do? (link)
Your friends should be there for you when ur depressed, tell them that. Real friends are there for u no matter what mood ur in.


there is a guy that i like and he just broke up with my friend..i heard that while they were going out he liked another girl and she liked him and she still does and they talke on the phone..and he doesn't go out with girls very long and if i were to go out with him i wouldn't want to find out that after we break up he would like another girl while we were goin out should i like him or not? (link)
I wouldn't, he seems like he can't get into a REAL relationship. I'd stay away from him, hope i helped!


is it alright to date a guy that is 3 to 4 year younger than you? (link)
it depends on how old u are. I wouldn't but if u like them, go for it. Hope i helped!


Okay, There's This Kid Named Jacob That I Really Really Like. Problem Is, I Live In Pennsylvania And He Lives In Florida! I Didn't Meet Him In A Chat Or Anything, My Friend From School Moved From Florida And Knew Him. He Visits Pennsylvania A Couple Times A Year To Visit His Friend!! And He Said He Really Likes Me And He's Just All Confused Cuz He Really Wants To Date Me And Stuff! I Like Him Alot.. And I'd Be Able To Meet Him Eventually. And I Don't Mind Long Distance Relationships, Do You Think This Is Okay?? (link)
i wouldn't get too in to it. But if ur like in love with him, it's worth it. But if ur not, and it's just school love, then dont do it. Long distance relationships almost never work. ALMOST! Hope i helped!


My hair is really long..and very very thick..I have trouble straightening it myself..but whenever anyone else straightens it for me it turns out beautiful..Does anyone have any good tips to help me get my hair super straight and look good..and does anyone know any good products to use? (link)
Divide the thickness of ur hair so the straightener has an easier time on ur hair. Dont just get one big chunk and try to straighten it. Hope i helped!


k, i'm 5'4", 116 pounds, long brown hair to the bottom of my back, greenish eyes, long legs, and i'm wondering what would be some make up/fashion styles be for me. i have really fair skin if that helps any, i'd just like some tips to look cuter/hotter/whatever

please and thank you (link)
i think a shorter hair do would be good, maybe halfway down ur back. Mascara looks good on greenish eyes. I recomend putting on just a little lip stick, and then put on sum bon bons red strawberry lip gloss (it's the kind that u put ur fingers in). it looks awesome, trust me. Hope i helped!




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