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Im a 22 year old single mother and a beautiful baby i work full time and love spending time with my family when im not shopping. im single but very ready for love when it comes my way.

advice

does it hurt you or feel weird when you take out a tampon?!?!

thanx,
anomonyous


No not at all!

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Can you get prenaunt from fingering?

NO!

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me n my friend sam have this big arguement goin on for months now wen you put a tampon in do you insert it upwards or downwards? plz help me!

You ALWAYS ALWAYS put it in upwards!!!!!!!!!!!

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So tonight I got my first hickey. I always told my boyfriend not to give them to me cause I'll get in trouble but NO! What do I do to get rid of it, I can do makeup but it just wont work covering it up. Any ideas? Thanks!

Oh i get them alot but noone seems to care anymore but you can use a cold spoon. that should work!.i hope i helped.! :0

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There have been questions about hickeys on here, but what exactly are they?

its when like someone sucks on your neck and it like turns like red and turns a different color from you skin.i hope i helped.! :)

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does fingering hurt if your a virgin?

No it does not hurt..it may feel weird your first time but after that it wont any more..

You'll know what im talkin bout.

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Hi I am 16 f and i was raped and the guy who did it told me not to tell anyone.so i havent said a word to anyone until now but the thing is my bf wants me to have sex with him but im not ready cuz it was just recently that i was raped. should i tell someone what happend or just not say a thing and try having sex with my bf? I rate.

WHAT! the first thing you should have done was told someone about it the day it happend!! and yes i have sex with your boyfriend but when your ready..but i would tell your mom and dad what happend do you can get that punk ass bitch that did that to you locked up i wouldnt care if he told you not to tell.!i hope i helped.

Thats sad im sorry about what happend to you and im also sorry if i sound rude.

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what kind of underwear do you guys wear when horseback riding? i wear thongs with my breeches and most of the time it really hurts down there if i sit correctly lol i ride english.. should i buy those padded equestrian underwear or something? what do you guys do?

Hey i ride english too..when im in a lesson or a show i always always only wear Thongs!thats the only thing that feels right..i hope i helped..
IM me sometime so we can talk more about riding..
MiAssIzLykeWoh13

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for people who've been riding for a while...

first of all i take lessons. second of all i found this really great horse.. hmm a little skiddish but i ride him.. well next time im cantering jumping him.. im sorta nervice... please give me some reassurance and advice on how to handle it...

i have been riding for 4 years. i have been in the same place you are right now.!. DONT BE NERVICE! stay cool and the horse will stay cool..your coach will be there for you just listen to what he or she tells you..your really have fun..when i rode a horse like his name was Danny he bucked he did everything to get out of jumping or centering you just gotta be strong i mean i ended up showing him for two years! i hope i helped.!.

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Hey im 13 and i think that is a good age to make out but my mopm dosnt ! what do i do! im ready she isnt!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

First of all i think its a good age.and its not like your mom is there with you all the time watching you..and your mom doesnt have to know everything its not like shes the one kissing him~! i hope i helped. :)

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me n mi boyfriend have been tagether for almost a year now nd we've done everythin but have sex and well tanight he was fingering me nd that nd it got a little out of control nd ima virgin nd hez lyke well jus let dem meet nd i waz lyke k nd he did nd there wasnt a condom nd it wasnt long but im really afraid that i culd get pregnant i dunt no what happen lyke with him 'down there' but im so scared can i get pregnant from that it was only like a minute but idunno is there a possibility ? PLEASE HELP im way to young ta get pregnant im so scared

First ask him if he came..then see what he says even if its no go to the DR.!.

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ok..im not extemely popular..i`d say im in the middle. Well anyway theres a guy..we went out..then broke up.
Lately ivve ben so lonely that ive been thinking of getting backk together with him...maybe just to hook up. I think he`d be fine with this idea..but I dont want it getting around. i dont want ppl to know WHAT we will do..or that i did it with him. Ive had bad experiences with this kinda stuff getting around school. Give me advice on wat to do? Thanks

Ok first dont tell ANYONE what you do.i know that that hard way..and just tell him you dont want anyone to find out and if he really cares he wont tell..i hope i helped.

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does ne riders have some good tips on riding?? Like... good ways to stay calm and in control

hey i have been riding for 4 years now all you need to know is that the horse wont hurt you. just go to have fun. stay kewl your coach will help you..IM me if you need anything else.
MiAssIzLykeWoh13.

Hope i helped.!. :)

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my friends r still mad at me and i asked them why and they will not tell me the school year is coming up and i do not want to be without any friends i want to have friends and i want some of the same friends but they wont talk to me someone help me plz how can i keep them as my friends?

well if they wont tell you why there mad at your ther not real friends..if they really your friends they would just come out and tell you why there mad at you...i just think that it maybe time to make new friends and move on but keep all the memorys yall had together. if you need anymore help just write back.

Hope i helped.!.:)

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my best friend is really kewl and everything but she's stubborn and she wants to have sex but she just turned 14 and she doesn't even have a boy frined but how do i talk to her about the dangers and stuff?
signed,
confused

Ok im only 14 and i have had sex before..tell her to wait till she falls in love with the right guy and when its right it will just come dont just let her give it up to anyone.!. Hope i Helped.

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I've been sexually active for about 6 monthes or so now, and I'm going to the gynocologist sometime this week. Will she be able to tell that I'm not a virgin? I'm only 16. Oh, and if she can find out, are they supposed to tell your parents? PLEASE, PLEASE HELP!

Omg im in the same thing but im not going to the dr. anymore. i have been sexually active 11 months and i just now told my sister my mom and dad dont know..my sister told me that they cant find out when you go and if you go in the room alone you can ask them not to tell your mom or dad..i hope i helped.!. just IM me if you have anymore ?s MiAssIzLykeWoh13.

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Okay herr it goes.. My best friend is haveing a swimmin party at her house. On the same day i get my peroid. It would be my 2nd period ever so is therr a good chance i won't get it cause i'm not on a regualr cycle.. or ami most likely to get it? i'm a pad wearer.. i'm swichin to tampon in bout a year or so..so i really done wanan try 1 but i have to go kuz she's my best friend.. wut do u all think..
Signed,
Help!

Ok first off all your going to get it unless it comes late.and when you swim you cant wear pads so your going to have to wear a tampon or just not swim. i hope i helped.

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i dont know why, but my boyfriend dumped me. its been lyk 2 weeks. my friend asked him if he would go out w/ me again. he said he didnt know. i called him 1 or 2 timez and he said he wanted to hang out soon. o yeah, the reason he dumped me wuz b/c we didnt c eachothr alot...ok, anyways, do you think we still have a chance or not?plz tell me!thanx

Yes i still think yall have a chance because i went through the samething you just have to put more work in yalls realationship (hope i spelled that right) and make sure yall see eachother alot more then you did before and it will work out trust me i know im still in my after 15months! i hope i helped.!.

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i like this guy at skool and he really loves me and he asks me out all the time.hes not very popular tho and im afarid that ppl will make fun of me. plz help me!!! thanks

Ok dont take this in the wrong way but why dont you care what people think.?. all you need to do is think about you and him and how he would fell if you told him no and he found out its because he doesnt fit in with everyone..from me i think thats just rude to care what people think and you not going out with him hurts his feeling and then hes going to think something is wrong with him and not know what when he could be the sweetest guy youll ever know so think about it before you say no and hurt his feelings.

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He's 20. I'm 16.

My current boyfriend started as a crush. We didn't rush into things we started out as just friends. Now that we are together he has changed. I think he tries too hard to please me and becomes irritated very easily. He seems so insecure and ...well ... just different from the person I knew when we were just friends. Our phone conversations have become a so unbearable I hardly return his calls. HE senses that there is some tension but I don't think I can explain to him exactly what's wrong. How can I get him to be himself around me again?

The first thing you need to do is talk to him about it..i know its going to be hard but you have to..something like this may help you come closer. well i hope i helped. if you need anything else just IM me @ MiAssIzLykeWoh13.

Oh yeah and if the age has ever had anything to do with it. just know that age is nuttin but a number and its nothing big.!.

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