Gender: Female
Location: whiteboro, texas
Age: 14
AIM: xx9brooke9xx
Member Since: May 21, 2005
Answers: 37
Last Update: August 21, 2005
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Okay, I consider myself kind of pretty. I have had guys admit to like me but I have never had a guy ask me out! Why will the openly tell me what they would like doing to me (sexually) but never have enough courage to ask me out? (link)
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I had the exact same problem...they are just scared of being rejected. They will feel like a complete idiot if they get turned down and they prolly all think that you are too good for them and that you will turn them down, so they never ask you out. But sooner or later a guy with enough balls to ask you out will come along...I promise. I hope I helped
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Urghh okay... well there is this boy (lets just call him Ben) and i mean i always go on and off liking him .. we already went out once and we both were invited to a pool party yesterday and we were there with a lot of our other friends and me and him were swimming together and then we both went underwater and our eyes were open and he kissed me UNDERWATER!! ya weird but w/e and then that night i had basketball practice and my friend Britney (she likes Ben) came up to me and was like "omg today in the pool i was hugging ben and he was like 'Britney, i really really like u a lot'" and i mean nobody really knows that i like ben besides my best friend but im just so confused because he kissed me and then told her he really liked her?.. that doesnt make sence.. please help! (link)
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well ya never know, britney could be lying!!!
If he kissed you and only hugged her it seems like he likes you more. He might just be figuring out which one of you he likes more and who he wants to go out with. But it sounds to me like your in the lead. I mean I wasn't at the party so I don't know if he flirted wiht britney or you....I would let him know that you are interested in him but don't be forward. Ask him over sometime or something like that.
good luck
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there is this guy that i really like but he's really shy and he also sorta likes this other girl what can i do to make him really notice me or really make him want me? thanks. (link)
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play hard to get....bacause every guy that I have ever talked to always said that girls who play hard to get are hot. But first you have to get his attention and stop and say hi...since he is shy you might have to make the first move. Let him know that you are interested (without being forward). Then he will be interested in you and then you play hard to get.
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i bought a really cute sweatshirt at aeropostale but when i tried on at home it was too small. i bought it at an outlet mall in st. augustine but i'm not there anymore. can i return it at a normal aeropostale store?? (link)
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I am not sure but you could return it to anoth outlet!!!
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okay i've cheered 2 seasons already, but i was wondering how to get my jumps higher & better for this season(starts in 2 weeks)..and if any cheerleaders on here have any tips for doing better on anything else?..mainly i need to know how to better my jumps and higher them (link)
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I had the exact same problem...go to a sporting goods store and buy leg weights(either 2.5lbs or 5lbs) do 100 jumps in a mirror with them on and then do 100 more without them. Trust me they will be 5 times better in a week if you do it every night!!!
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get ready for a long one..please help!
ok well one day i met this girl online, jackie, she seemed cool..over time we became best friends and called eachother all the time and stuff, gave eachother b-day presents in the mail (( by the way i live in fl and she lives in Ny )) and yah well one day i scammed her favorite sn and jackie didnt know it was me..yes she has a verry good reason to dislike me!!.. so0o its been about a year and i told her..she hated me for a while, but we soon became friends. now on the othher hand, jackie has a friend named paige and she is always trying to break me and jackie up..well she finally did, paige hacked all of jackies sns and then changed the password to caroline,((that was the pw of the sn i scammed)), and made it look all like i did it but i didnt and jackie doesnt belive me, now shes leaving me nasty messages and mean calls on my phone and i didnt hack it i tryed to explain that to jackie, but i want my best friend back, please help me!! will rate HIGH
luv, x3 hannah
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Maybe you should talk to this Paige girl about it. You need to call jackie on the phone and talk to her about it. Tell her the truth about everything. If she doesn't forgive you, then Jackie isn't a very good friend in the first place.
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Hey you,
Missc here. My boyfriend, Jesse, and I, have been dating for...going on (7) months at the end of this month (July). Anyway, I know this is kinda early in the year to ask for advice, but I REALLY want to make this special! I want to ask my boyfriend to my homecoming (because he goes to a different school), but I don't know how and what I should do. I want it to be cute and something he will never forget.
Got any ideas that you could share?
~*~Missc~*~ (link)
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maybe you could have the roses leading to the living room and he finds the chocolates and the chocolates say "surprise outside" and then he walks outside and you have christmas lights set up where the lights say 'homecoming dance?' or something like that....and then you are standing by the lights!
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okay so i have had a crush on my sisters boyfriends brother but they leave in palm springs so he dont really seen to like as much as i like him i dont see him as much as my sis sees him isaw him this weekend and i might not see him till like 5 more months what could i do to make him like me the next time i see him ps try not to make it really nasty cuz my sis will freak out i just want him to notice me.will rate high. (link)
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well just stop and say hi.
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Hi. im not writing this question for people to tell me im unique and crap, but lately, ive just been feeling bad. I think im ugly. People always tell me that im ugly. its just my face..i mean my nose is just so weird that i feel so self conscious and whenever im with my friends it hurts me so much always seeing guys all flirting with them and stuff. ive never been asked out, and people always tell me that im ugly. i know its mean, and only sometimes i feel pretty. i know that if i feel beautiful, i am beautiful, and being confident is bueatiful, but i dont want that crap. i need some way to make me feel better about myself....any suggestions? (link)
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Just because someone hasn't asked you out...that doesn't mean your aren't beautiful. I am a model and I didn't get asked out until I was a freshman!!! Guys are jerks and sometimes they can't see true beauty. God has a wonderful plan for your life and the right guy will come along. Trust God with your life and pray about it every day. Anyone can give you advice...but no one can fill the emptiness inside you. The only one who can ever fill that is God. So just pray and trust Him....and eventually it will all work out. One of my favorite verses is "All things work for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose." Romans 8:28
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I have been dating this girl for almost a year. Our relationship had been going great, accually it was amazing and I fell in love with her, and she says she fell in love with me. Then she took a trip for about a month and became close with a whole group of people that I dont really know, we talked a lot during the begining of the trip but kind of faded during the last half. She denys cheating on me while there, even though I kind of think she did. Now that shes back, she barely touches me. We have had sex 3 times in the past 5 weeks (we see each other maybe 2-3 times a week). She says when we get back to school things will be back to normal, and that us dating is the first time she has brought her school life home, because it is different for her. I just dont know what to do, she barely touches me anymore and is becoming harder and harder to get her to hang out with me. We used to do everything together, now it seems like we only hang out if I bring it up. Whats going on with her? (link)
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Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil, but protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
1 corinthians 13 4-7
This is what true love is...if this does not describe the love in yalls relationship, then you aren't truely in love. Don't accuse her of cheating...if she didn't she will be upset w/ you for accusing her of that but if she did..she should come out and tlel you. She might come around...it just takes TIME.
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Ok this is going to be pretty long but it's worth reading!! Ok... me and this guy kyle were friends since like december. in febuary, i went over to his house and he was telling me all about how him and his girlfriend were broke-up and he was very upset about it. so later in the month i went over to his house and we kinda messed around (we didnt' have sex though). so kyle moved to california in March. (i live in arizona)i didn't talk to him again until like july. i truly love him. he feels the same way. although the other day he texted me and told me that his girlfriend (from before we started talking again) called and wants him back. now he's not sure wat to do (i don't really blame him). But i still love him and he said he loves me and always will but he isnt' sure wat to do about his gf who just came back!!! Please HELP Me!! I'm 15 and he's 18.
Thx,
Jessica (link)
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well I know this isn't what you want to hear but if he truely loved you then he wouldn't have to think about who he wanted to be with. If he can't chose between you, then he obviously likes you both the same, and he is not in love with you. I am sure he told him other g/f that he is in love with her too! Sry ya need to move on, plus long-distance relationships don't really work out that well either!!!
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im 14 and im a girl, well theres this kid that i like and he likes me too, but i dont think he will ask me out because hes afraid that i will say no. I dont know if i should ask him out or just wait to see if he asks me. what should i do? (link)
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Don't ask a guy out. Let him step up and be the man. Don't make things so easy for him, cause he wants everything to be easy for him and that is not the way it should be. If he likes you enough, he will ask you out. Besides, it is a turn-off to some guys when the girl asks him out. Give him time, and get to know him then he will work up the courage to ask you out if that is what he wants. JUST DON'T ASK HIM OUT!!! If you do ask him out, then everyone will know that you are easy to get and not a challenge, and everyone loves a challenge!!!
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Ok so there was this girl i went to a dance with a while back. i had actualy jsut met her earlier that day and at the time i liked her but it wasnt really a major thing. we were planning on going out again after the dance but she kept avoiding me. i had asked her if to tell jsut tell me if she didnt like me but she said she did. a while after that i just gave up i fugred she was playing me or something. any ways its been a while and i really thought i was over her but every once in a while something will remind me of her and ill start really wondering what happened and feelings i didnt even have back then will start rushing at me. if it matters im 18.
anyways i have a two part question
1. what do you thing happened in the first place? shes not teh type to play a guy?
2. what can i do so taht i dont start thinking about her everytime soemthing remidns me of her? (link)
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OMG it was one date and you have the rest of your life to find someone. Go to college(if you aren't already)..there are hundreds of girls there. Obviously, she wasn't that interestd in you if she avoids you...sorry!!! MOVE ON
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I'm never really sure what to say to the question "I love your shoes! Where did you get them?" or any other clothing item because I really don't want to say anything to incriminate me. The popular kids will laugh if you answer anything like "target", "payless shoe store", or some other department store, and the kids that I'm friends with call me stupid if I tell them that I bought them at Hollister. What is a generic answer that I can say that will satisfy everyone? (link)
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Tell them "I don't know, I got them for a gift"
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I'd tell you my name, but I want to keep this anonymous...so anyway, I have this problem with someone called, let's just say "Robert". Since last year, we had been going out for ten months, up until the 11th of May, when he quickly dumped me. He said that he wasn't happy with me, mainly because I have this little issue with stretching the truth....don't know why, I just do. I tried to tell him that I don't do that to him at all, and he wouldn't listen to me. He says that he still loves me and always will, but as of right now, he wants to be friends. It's been almost two weeks now and I understand where he's coming from, and I have tried to respect him and his decision, but I want to date him again. What should I do? I want him back. (link)
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well, if you do want him back don't make it obvious...play hard to get. You should look around for new guys too! It is always fun to be single, ause you do need to know if he is the one so maybe it is good that yall will date other people. and if yall were meant to be, it will happen later on when it is supposed to happen. Right now, just let him have his space and see if things work out. BUT PLAY HARD TO GET IF HE COMES BACK....you never want to look like you have been waiting for him this whole time
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I used to be in gymnastics but I quit and I lost all my flexibility, now my dance teacher is expecting me to do the splits and I can't!
I can't even touch my toes without bending my knees anymore!
How can I get my flexibility back apart from practicing loads, haha? (link)
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stretch a litle every morning and every night for at least 30 min and you'll get it back in no time....don't over due it, but stretch until it hurts and hold it for AT LEAST 30 SEC. if you don't stretch for 30 seconds then it doesn't do any good at all
~brooke~
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ohk so i've had many boyfriends b4. yeah i've also made out with them b4. but now that we all are getting older all they seem to want to do is touch kiss nd SEX ! so i like this guy nd he likes me, the problem is dat when he asks me out i always say i dunno! i dont have a clue why. i get really nervous b4 i go out with some1 nd its not even funny i get so like scared. but once im goin out with them i am happier than ever. so i dunno why that happens ? help me please (link)
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NEVER LET ANY GUY PRESSURE YOU INTO HAVING SEX!!!!!! If all he wants is sex, then he doesn't like you and he is not right for you. We all get nervous when we really like someone. Just be yourself, and do't be afriad to talk to him. If you always say 'i dunno' when he asks you out, then maybe you know that he isn't right for you and maybe it is a sign that you shouldn't go out with him. It won't be hard to say yes if you really really like them, so maybe he just inst the guy for you.
Let me know how it goes
~brooke~
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