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He's not sure.


Question Posted Tuesday October 5 2004, 8:38 pm

Ok this is going to be pretty long but it's worth reading!! Ok... me and this guy kyle were friends since like december. in febuary, i went over to his house and he was telling me all about how him and his girlfriend were broke-up and he was very upset about it. so later in the month i went over to his house and we kinda messed around (we didnt' have sex though). so kyle moved to california in March. (i live in arizona)i didn't talk to him again until like july. i truly love him. he feels the same way. although the other day he texted me and told me that his girlfriend (from before we started talking again) called and wants him back. now he's not sure wat to do (i don't really blame him). But i still love him and he said he loves me and always will but he isnt' sure wat to do about his gf who just came back!!! Please HELP Me!! I'm 15 and he's 18.

Thx,
Jessica


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BWvolley answered Sunday May 22 2005, 9:01 pm:
well I know this isn't what you want to hear but if he truely loved you then he wouldn't have to think about who he wanted to be with. If he can't chose between you, then he obviously likes you both the same, and he is not in love with you. I am sure he told him other g/f that he is in love with her too! Sry ya need to move on, plus long-distance relationships don't really work out that well either!!!

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iburiedalie answered Wednesday October 6 2004, 4:46 pm:
All you people who ask for advice are a bunch of drama queens........

but hey look on the bright side if he goes back out with that girl go over to his house have sex with him then sue his ass.

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kris567 answered Wednesday October 6 2004, 2:15 pm:
i dont see how he could love u but doesnt kno which one out of u or his g/f 2 choose. i would think that if he loved u like he says he does he would pick u.
wat did he mean by love?i would ask him becuz he could mean i love u or im in love with u.they r to different things.
hope i helped

~*~kris~*~

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BJ2004 answered Wednesday October 6 2004, 12:03 pm:
i think that you should tell him how you feel he might be a bit to old for you but maybe not it only matters on how you feel about the other person.

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keremisluna answered Wednesday October 6 2004, 11:59 am:
I know he told you he loves you and I believe it. But you know what they say: You never fall all the way out of love. Perhaps he loves you, but maybe he still has feelings for his ex. After all, they went out and share a lot of memories with each other. If he were completely over her, he wouldnt be lost like this right now. Or perhaps his relationship with his ex were more of a friend-lover kind. Meaning she were his friend at the same time as she was his girlfriend. So it might be possible that Kyle just doesnt want to hurt his ex's feelings by rejecting her.
Make sure you dont pressure him to make the decision, because he seems to be in stressful and tough situation. Just let him know you'll always be there waiting for him because you love him so. Let him know you respect his decision because you know for truth he loves you.

I sincerely hope your relationship works out well.

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Sherry answered Tuesday October 5 2004, 10:04 pm:
Well even though you love eachother, you both have to move on. Sure you'll always love him but you cant stick to him forever. Let him go, and even though its gonna hurt..you'll find someone new!

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