I like this guy but hes older then me!! He's gonna be a junior and im gonna be in 8th grade!! is that a big difference to guys? do they care how old there girlfriend is? thanks!
It is diffent for ever guy. Some guys dont mind becuase they really like the girl, other guys just like younger girls because they believe a younger girl will do anything he wants. My advice is to stay with a guy your age. You are probally mature and old enough for a relationship, but your maturity level is completly different from a juniors. You two think differently and that may get in the way. Just be careful.
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ok so, i am only 13 years old. and i think i might be in love! my boyfriend is only 13 too. and i heard that he is like...an intch close to loving me! so now im scared bc i have never been in love before and i really dont want to get hurt. so do i break up with him before i get hurt or do i go with it and get hurt! i really need some help and ill rate high to anyone that gives some good advice.
Part of love is getting hurt, its a part of becoming who you are. YOu cant always try to run from that fact of getting hurt, and your first love is always the most meaningful. Yes you will get hurt, and yes you will be upset for a long time, but after a while you will understand that is was all worth it. besides how would you feel if he left you just because he didnt want you to hurt him. dont hurt HIM for no reason, always try to think about his feelings too. Good luck.
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im really tired of being single and miss having a boyfriend, but im gonna be a Jr. and i think i should get serious about school and my future. Should i get a boyfriend or just worry about school?
THANX
-twiSted
Do you really NEED a boyfriend? It's ok if you have one and its ok if you dont. Its fun having one but yes you wont concentrate on you grades, and you will get distracted easily. Do whatever you think is best, if its that important go for it, but whats more imporatant a fling or a lifelong education?
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I have this friend that i really dont like and i really didnt want to be her friend in the first place..she pretty much took my BEST friend away from me in the first place..! i really cant explain why i hung out with her .. but i really need to end our " friendship " and i really dont know how! Please help i rate high!
Just dont come out and say "I hate you" becuase you know that will help her. try to hang out with her AND other people, that way maybe both of you can find new people. tyr to hang out with new people, but always include her. hope i helped, good luck.
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Okay people think that i stuff my bra when i really dont and then people are like oh i saw it but i really dont what should i do?
Signed,
Screw this
.P.S. I rate high
people are just jealous. try not to wear tight clothes and tight shirts. this people arnt you friends so just ignore them. your are beautiful and curvey, which is something not everyone can have. enjoy your body but be careful of what you do with it.
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I like this one boy very much but he doesn't like me because I'm not "sexy/seductive" enough. For example, the girl he likes is very confident and a tease. How can I be a bit more like that?
No guy falls in love with girls that are "sexy/seductive" or slutty. If he really liked you he wouldnt care if you were like that. Sure you can wear make up, or shorter skirts but dont go overboard, you never want to get a bad rep, or to have guys like you for the wrong reason. in my opinon you can do better than someone like this guy.
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hey well me n this guy started going out and he broke up with me cause I guess he just tstpped likeing me but we wer going out for like 3 weeks and I had liked him so much to the point where when it came to him asking me out.. I cared soo unbelivably much for him! after we broke up I still cared up for him and still do what can I do that will get him back or help me get over him because I am really heart brokenn.. and is this like weird?
Heart Break is a part of life, it's ok for you to be hurt, its apart of who you are. its ok for you to still like him, but in time you will realise he wasn't right for you. "a guy isnt worht crying over, and if he is, he wouldnt make you cry" just try to remember that. you could ask him out agian, but i think you should leave alone and start to look for someone else.
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16/f Okay, ive known this guy for like ever..he wants me to give him head..i I reallly wanna, but im kinda scared. Like i dk if I should or know. Hes never had it before..so can i still get anything?..plz help!! I rate ALL awnsers 5s!! ;) thx so much!
your young and you dont have to go that far so fast!! you dont want to have a bad reputation, or to get any STD's. besides, any guy that loves you wont pressure you into anything. just be careful, you can do what you want but everything you do has concequences. you have to deside what YOU want to do...be careful, good luck, and think before you act.
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ive had 20 boyfriends. does that make a slut. im a 14/f
No as long as you wer'nt sexually active with them, but you are young. whats the rush? slow down and enjoy being young. its ok to have boyfriends but you dont have to have one. just be carful what you do, because some people will call you a slut. it doesnt matter if you have been with five guys or fifty, someone out there will hate you and spread rumors about you being a slut. just be careful what you do and slow down. i hope i helped.
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my friend and her boyfriend broke up and decided to be friends. When I seen them they told me and he was like yeah do you wanna go out I think he was joking but I don't know. I do kinda have a crush on him if I give them time to fix whatever they are doing would it be wrong to go out with him?
You probaly should'nt. She is your friend and you dont want to hurt her, and a friend is more important than any guy. If he asked you out just say that you dont want a relationship at the moment. If you go out with him you friend will be hurt, no matter what she says. good luck! just do what you think is best.
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ok, i went out with this guy a couple of times and i love him and he loves me but when he is around me if we're dating he starts getting all quiet and shit. thats not what this is about though. we split up about a month ago and i have a boyfriend now but i still love him. he asked out one of my friends and it made me want to cry. what does this mean. i would still be going out with him but he changes so much. i need help with all of it. it might be hard to answer but thanx to those who try
you love him...and he is shy because he loves you. it probally did hurt when he asked your friend out, but you did go with somebody else to. you have to follow your heart and remeber "Dont leave the one you love for the one you like, because the one you like will leave you for the one they love." I wish i can say more, but the rest is your decision becuase leaving your boyfriend is harsh, but you have to do it if it doesnt make you happy.
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I NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!!!i am in love w/ this guy named Travis...we have been "Friends With Benefits" 4 quite a while now...he knows that i luv him...We say "I Love U" EVERYTIME that we r on the fone together...he treats me like a PRINCESS...last nite he told me that i was like a sister 2 him.....i was CRUSHED....i cried myself 2 sleep.....he is my EVERYTHING!!!!!....i dunno what 2 do....i feel like giving up on EVERYTHING...including life....I NEED ANYBODIES HELP!!!!!!
*~*~*~*Emmy*~*~*~*
Well you have to look at what you want to do...you can tell him you like him A LOT, or you can look at what he said as being a good thing. For example what if you guys got together and broke up? what would happen to your realationship? And if he said that to you...if could bring you guys closer. I think that you guys probally wil start dating, and if you dont still know that he loves you in some way, which is better than nothing. Dont give up...life will get better, and everything happens for a reason. whether you were meant to be with him or not, you life will get better. follow your heart.
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There is this boy that I am crazy for. I've been getting to know him very well now and he is great. And I know he feels for me but I don't think he's attracted to me. What are some little ways to flirt and flounce around him to come across as more attractive?
Just wear a little bit of a different style like hair, or clothes, but dont change competely. if he has a thing for you, he probally doesnt wnat you to change. if he does dont go over the top, just do what you feel comfterable doing. wearing a little lip gloss is always cute, but that doesnt mean you have to go around looking cheap. hope you do well with this guy.
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my dad recently died and i cried a lot when it happened but the day after i didnt really cry but i think about it a lot. I was wondering if if it is wrong not to be crying and should be.
Im so sorry to hear that. I kinda know where you are...my grandfather passed away when i was to little to understand anything, so i didnt cry or even really feel sad. now i feel bad about it, but then i know that he knows what is in my heart. you father knows you love him, its ok if you didnt cry, you still miss him and love him and that is what matters. i hope everything goes ok in your life.
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I saw the Grudge last night, and I thought it was pretty scary,and now I'm really scared. Like when I'll be in my room, (my light always does this)the light will go on and off and I've never been scared by that, and now I'm totally freaked out! what should i do?!!
You are not alone, i was terrified when i saw it. Just get a new light, at night try to get on the phone with a good friend so you can laugh, watch tv, listen to music etc. whatever gives you comfort. Just remember that there is nothing to be afraid of.
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I don't like this kid but he's been inviting me and my friend to the park with his friend. What should I do? I say no, but he keeps asking. My friend thinks its really funny and wants to go with him one time. I don't want to go because he is a jerk and has gotten into some trouble lately... what should I do? I don't want my friend to be mad or I don't want her to think I'm scared of him or something. He said that we should meet him on a certain day because my close friend would be there... I love that girl but that still won't persuade me to go with them. Why does this kid keep asking me to go with him?? I really really don't know what to do!
_**Confused**_
Tell your friend what you think. Tell your friend that you dont want to mixed with his crowd, and that you dont think going with him is a good idea. And tell him to leav you guys alone. If he is really bothering you than dont be afraid to be agressive! He shouldnt be bothering you like that if you dont want him to. Of course he made not be that bad of a guy, so you need to decided how you really think of him, tyr not to judge him, but than again if you know him you know him. hope i helped.
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Ok, this boy at my school was joking around, and kept saying that I liked this boy who is kind of weird. Soo, that was a week ago, and I found out today that people believe him! I didn't think that anyone knew, but apparently, they did. I'm afraid that it will get around to the boy I supposedly like, and that he will ask me out (there were rumors that he liked me). I never know how to say no, because I am afraid that I wil hurt their feelings. I don't like this guy! please answer seriously! thanks in advance!
If he askes you out say you really like him, only that you can see him more as a brother than a boyfriend. You cant be afriad if people might think he is weird, even if you think he is weird, its not right to crush his feelings. You have to be strong and choose what you think is right and wrong. The guy who was spreading the rumors seems like a jerk, and you shouldnt take that from anybody. It'll just hurt you and the guy who is "kind of weird" Good luck! eyerything will work out ok! hope i helped.
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I really really like this guy named Brian. He's so great and we've been good friends, since 2nd grade. He told me he likes me, but he just wants a break. We danced and hung out at a dance last month, and we had a great time. We started dating then, and we just broke up the other day, because he said he thought of me more as a sister figure and not a girlfriend. I'm totally beat up over the situation, and I'm really not sure what to do. He tells me that he wants to have sex with me (which i wouldn't do, and i think he's joking) he calls me pretty all the time, and tells me he loves me. =( What should I tell him?
Ask him why he's doing that. Tell him that you still like him, but you are starting to have mixed emotions from all he is saying. Tell him you are either his gf or not, and it bothers you how he cant seem to make up his mind. the best thing is to just talk to him and help him realise hoe confused you are. I hope i helped.
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I used to live with my brother but now i have to live with my other brother and he's constantly drinking and hitting me i don't know what to do if i go to the police then i'll end up in a home again and i don't want to go back to one of those places and if i run away then i'll end up on the street again and that's no good either, but i can't stay here it's getting harder and harder to deal with him and he keeps trying to rape me what can i do?
Tell someone. Yes it may get you in a home agian, but being abused is far worse. I was kinda in the same spot you were before. My brother would always hit me because he was going through a hard time. I finally couldnt take it and I told a teacher. The teacher was able to help me. No one can tell you what to do, but do you really want to go on living like this? Im sorry you have to go through this. But maybe going back to a home might be better for you. Living on the streets isnt, but what if he does rape you? what if he hits you so bad he breaks something or worse? Im sorry i cant be much help, but you have to think of what you want more. Going to a home, or being abused. If you need more help, ill do the best i can, just ask another question.
-my prayers are with you-
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I am friends with the most popular girls in school but sometimes it seems like they dont want me around. I dont know what im doing wrong. I have always wanted to be friends with them. My best friend doesnt talk to me when they're around and i dont know why.How can i be better friends with them?
You are probally doing nothing wrong, its just the way the popular people think. You can try to be friends with them, but you have to stop and think, Are they really your friends? Would you friends act like they wouldnt be around you? its true that your best friend is acting the same way, but thats because she might feel like you are ignoring her. you could be friends with the popular gruop, but do you really want to ruin your other friendship for a new group. just be nice, be yourself, and be caring. and whoever stays by you is your REAL friend.
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