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Ok, this boy at my school was joking around, and kept saying that I liked this boy who is kind of weird. Soo, that was a week ago, and I found out today that people believe him! I didn't think that anyone knew, but apparently, they did. I'm afraid that it will get around to the boy I supposedly like, and that he will ask me out (there were rumors that he liked me). I never know how to say no, because I am afraid that I wil hurt their feelings. I don't like this guy! please answer seriously! thanks in advance!
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honestly, from a guys perspective, a simple no im sorry i dont like you that way is really the way to go. you dont really need to make up any excuses or anything like that because they will only make it worse in the long run because it will leave him with hope that something can happen. i mean you dont want to be completely honest "i dont like you, you stupid freak" is obviously too mean, but something that along the lines of what i said in the first place is the best thing you can say, well second best, yes is the best thing you can say but you obviously dont want to so yeah...
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If he asks you simply say no. There really isn't a nice way to say it. His feelings may get hurt but that is a chance he takes. Just do it as politely as possible. :)
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I'm guessing that when you say "their" feelings, you mean "his" feelings. This is what general grammar is for.
You'll just have to tell him no. Do'nt sfice your feelings to make him feel good. And, once you tell him no, then your peers will get off your back.
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Well...Just tell people that you like someone else and that u dont want those rumors to get to the guy you supposedly like!!! then if the guy asks you out, you dont have to say no, you could just say "Im sorry but i like someone else" and i think he'll understand!!
Oh and you might want to make a rumor about the guy who started all of this!!! lol
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If he askes you out say you really like him, only that you can see him more as a brother than a boyfriend. You cant be afriad if people might think he is weird, even if you think he is weird, its not right to crush his feelings. You have to be strong and choose what you think is right and wrong. The guy who was spreading the rumors seems like a jerk, and you shouldnt take that from anybody. It'll just hurt you and the guy who is "kind of weird" Good luck! eyerything will work out ok! hope i helped.
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