i have a friend who is bi....but im ok w/ it .but she asked if i wanted to come over?and i told her no cuz i have plans..but i dont,and people have told me wen they stayed the night w/ her that she want to do stuff and im not like that at all....wat should i do???
Just because she's bi doesn't mean she is going to want to do something with you. If she does ask just say i'm not into that and she probally won't pressure you again.
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Girlz, I need your help! I've been seeing this guy for about 6 months now...Im supposed to go to his house tonite, he says he wants to have dinner and us cuddle and watch a movie, then he wants to tell me something he says will shock me and bring a smile to my face...Here's the problem, Im on my period..I do NOT want it to screw up what is going to be a great nite...Does anyone know or ever heard of any at home remedies or anything that can stop my period? I just started, so it's a barely there kinda' thing right now, but I dont want it at all! please help!!!! I rate HIGH
If it's not that bad and you still want to have intercourse, tell him first and if he doesn't mind then it's fine. Maybe try in a shower because the water will wash the blood away. Other then that you can still pleasure him or what I would do is while cuddling plan a special night and talk about what you want to make it special, and make sure you plan it when your not on your period.
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im 17 and my penis is not that big and im worried what my girlfriend will think does it matter to girls?
to me penis size doesn't matter AT ALL. It's what you do with it lol. When you going to do something with your girlfriend for the first time make sure you have it all planed and really romantic. She'll be so in love with you at that point she won't care. If you were to go into a bathroom at a resterant and u kno it might be different. I don't know her but I bet she'll love you no matter what. Just be confident. Atleast you have one lol.
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wat perfumes smell rlly godd but arent too expensive?
some drug stores have these perfumes that are made to smell like expensive perfumes but they are really cheep. I saw them at wallgreens.
My favorite perfume is So pink from gap. Gap has sevral nice ones, and as another person said Victoria Secrets has some good ones.
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i'm going to be moving soon and i was wondering if there are any teenagers out there with some good ideas on how to decorate a new bedroom?? you know, something fun yet classy, but not too crazy.
My best suggestion is to go to ikea and walk around and look at all the model bedrooms. They have so many awesome looking rooms. also, the potery barn catalog has awesome stuff in it and the pictures give a lot of ideas.
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wat colors n cloths n makeup n stuff will look rlly good on a redhead?
I think almost any color except I woulden't wear red just because then your hair won't stand out. For ideas I suggest watching tv and stuff ( as bad as it is to get ideas from there) but people like Debra Messing. Also I hate myself for not remembering but sometimes in the back of magazines I see little adds for this make up thats ment for red heads, it's mostly mascara and a few of those other things but maybe just search on google. Gosh, I wish I could remember the name.
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Sadies is coming up on Friday for our highschool, and I'm going with a group of 3 girlfriends. We have pink tights, white shorts, and a pink plain t-shirt. We wanted to have a white tank underneath and then slit the pink shirt in two places in the front, to make it look cool. Does anybody have any ideas on what to do on the sides of the shirt? Like cut up it and tie or something creative? We need help thinkin of somethin cute to do ... the shirts too plain.
Thanks a bunch!
when you cut the shirts, take the extra fabric and cut them into a long thin strand and use that.
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I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months and we really love eachother. We've talked about the whole sex thing and agreed that we'd wait until we were together for a longer period of time. My boyfriend said that he's ready whenever I'm ready but he doesn't want to pressure me into anything that I don't want to do. The thing is, I really AM ready. I know that he is the one that I want to lose my virginity to him and he wants to lose his virginity to me. Every time I see him, I get tempted to do more and more with him but I have to stop myself. It's not that I'm scared it's just that I feel that we haven't been together long enough to be doing anything like that. I trust him and I know he won't hurt me. I don't want to become tempted and do that. Does anyone have any ideas as to how I can avoid myself from being tempted? I can't have sex with him, it's not the right time for us yet. Thanks so much if you can help! If anyone is in or has been in my situation, tell me how you handled it or how you are handling it.
I think you should talk about it. Say, when we . . . and talk about ways to make it special. That way it's in the future and when it comes around it you'll be even more excited and it will be really special. Ask me if you need more advice...
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how can i proove to mi boifriend that i love him?..and how can i make him believe me that i didnt cheat on him?
I don't know what up in details but I suggest that you ask him on a date and treet him to dinner at a nice resterant. Then over dinner tell him how much he means to you and don't bring up the idea of cheating unless totally necessary but just stick to how special he is to you. Maybe buy him a present too. I'm not saying bribe him but do these things to show how special he is to you.
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wat are some good ways for a female to mastrabate
Ok it took me forever to get this and I never thought I would be the type of person who liked to do it but it's amazing. Ok so sometimes getting in the mood helps so read erotic stories or think about a fantacy and then take your clothes off. Then you can just play with different parts of you body to get comfortable. The true masterbation part you have to find your clit which took me forever but when you find it you'll know. It might help to look in a mirror. Theres sevral positions to do this in, sitting in a chair with your legs spread (which I do) laying on your back or squating, etc. Take one hand and open your vagania and then take the other finger and rub up and down. If you put your finger at the top where it first opens and put your finger stright behind it thats where your clit is and it's really sensitive. Rub it with one finer and try different speeds and try going in every dirrection and in circles. Soon you'll start to feel tingly and it's so amazing. If you still need any more help ask.
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I want to get rid of the hair on my upper lip. I don't want to get it professionally done, I want to do it myself. What should I try to remove it (I don't want to use a razor).
they sell this cream thats in a little bottle and you brush it onto your lip and wait a few minues and wipe it off. It works sooo well for upper lips. Look in the dipilitory cream section and make sure you get the one ment for lips and eyebrows, although i woulden't recomend it for eyebrows.
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I wear G-strings, and how can I dress out for athletics at shcool without everyone in the locker room seeing my butt?? Some people go into the bathroom stalls... i dont really want to do that though.
my technique: my shirt for pe is long, so i put that on first so that when i take off my pants you can't see ne thing because my shirt blocks it. If that doesn't work, don't wear g-strings lol or face your butt to a wall.
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ok so i really want a thong badly, but i have alot of problems
1. what if you have your period
2. my mom wont let me she thinks im not old enough yet, but im almost in high school
3. my friends tease me about it how i am not
wearing one
4. i dont want to sneak a thong in my bedroom i would feel so guilty
what should i do
1. You can use a tampon, or if it's light they have thong shaped pads. Or even when your on your period you kinda ehh so I just wear normal stuff then.
2. Tell her it's just underwear, and your not going to become a slut or anything.
3. Why do you're friends care about what underwear you have on?? You know what I mean?
4. If I was in your position, I would just wear cute victoria secret boy shorts or bikinies.
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Bush is a punk-ass bitch I can't believe he got elected
I'm so angry and sad, i was auctually crying!
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It's become a trend in my area for some very ignorant people to steal campain signs from public and private yards. Basically, all of the Kerry/Edwards signs have come up missing only to be found dumped with big W's spray painted on them. I am disgusted by this, as I'm sure any self respecting Bush supporter would be too. I am for Kerry, but I would never think of imposing on anyone's right to speak out for the candidate that they believe in.
It's gotten quite bad. I took a two minute walk down the road and saw three or four Kerry/Edwards signs. Four hours later they were all missing.
I want to express my views with a few signs in my yard, but I do not want them to be vandalized. Does anyone have any ideas as to how I could go about doing this?
I think that you should type a letter saying what you just said almost exactally because I really liked how you worded it, and staple it to the front of kerry edwards signs and put them back where they were when the vandles did stuff to them. Then we'll see what happens, but this will all be over with in a few days thank god (well only if Kerry wins :) Go Kerry!
If you use my idea I want to know what happens!
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There's a play in my school. Im interested in trying out for the main part, Winifred. Except i dont look anything like her. I can sing her solo song, shy, as good as the broadway performer, but 4 auditions we have to sing the star spangled banner. I've been practicing SHY for a long time and i'm not good at the star spangled banner! I dont no how to make my talent show singing that song, plz give me advice.
Don't get all hung up because you think you don't look like her. There is never a totally set way a character MUST look. It's flexable. and shy is such an out there loud belty song, you should be able to sing the star spangled banner. Just pretend your singing shy. Sing it the same way.
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I know this girl,Carly, we were friendly, but we werent really friends. Then we went to a mutual friend, Gavin's party. There, I found out she had a very big crush on Clay, and that night there was serious flirting between me and Clay. The next day teher was another party, and Carly was telling me that she thought Clay liked me. I was so happy, but I couldnt tell her. At some point throughout the conversation, I said it doesnt matter, its not like I'd go out with him if you liked him. The last day of school, me, Clay and two other friends hung out after school for like 6-7 hours. It was crazy, but soo much fun. And then, I went out of town. ME and Clay were talking online and he asked me out. I was like. I have to think of one person, and how it affects them. But Carly didnt sign on. So I just said yes. When I told her, she started warning me telling me hed break my heart. I was going crazy. She was bragging about her relationship with him in teh past. He doesnt even like her as a friend. So, whatever. I was always nice to her. But I never truly liked her. She was always trying to break us up. So when I came back to town, I was crazy about him. Pretty close to love. And he felt teh same way about me. At school, we'd hug in teh hallways, but I didnt wanna kiss him. She found out and told me how when they were in THIRD grade they made out through like 3 movies...proibably not true. But still..gross. I was like, okay whatever. My world was going great, everytime something bad happened, I'd think of him and my wolr dwould be complete again. I could face anything knowing he was at my side. All my friends told me he ALWAYS talked about me, and that we were the cutest couple ever. One of my firneds even told me that he looked at me different, he was my first boyfriend, so I wasnt used to this. I loved it. I was crazy for him. But then...my feelings truned into doubt, everyone was feeding me crazp about him. Telling me he was only different around me, but soon he'd be himself again. I didnt like who I heard he was. But I loved who I knew he was. After a while, my two best friends told me he wasnt worth the pain and doubt, so I decided to break up with him. I was kinda nervous, honestly,I'd never done that before. Just as I was about to do it, he signed on and we started talking he broke up with me. I'm grateful that he did, because he really wasnt worth it anymore. My feelings beacsme less and less, but they were still strong. It took me like three weeks to get over the break up, and I'm still not sure I'm complteley healed. However, hes a jerk to me now. He doesnt talk to me, he blcoked me when I finally got the guts to tellhim how I felt, and yet still, when I'm flirting or hugging or anything touchy with guys, he gives me this look. I dont know what to do about any of this. Not Carly, and vertainly not Clay. I may not think of him like that anymore, but I still care for him and want to be his friend. How do I do that? Not to mention, some of his friends are ditching me now. I just wanna feel teh same way I did when he used to hold me. I miss the feeling I had when I was around him. I miss him. But more importantly, I miss how I felt about him.
If you want to be his friend, I truely suggest randomly striking up a conversation, just ask him hows like and talk a lot, and say you were confused about what happend and your sorry if you hurt his feelings or anything. Make sure you stay on a friendly talking basis and more might happen from there, who knows. It might be hard to talk to him at first but try to find him when there aren't that many people with him.
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God, this is all really dumb...but, okay, here's the deal. There's this guy that I'm friends with and I've liked for about two years now -- I started liking him last year, but he ended up going out with a really cool friend of mine. I was happy for them, so I stopped crushing, but over the summer they broke up and my feelings started to come back...and then we started hanging out a little and flirting and stuff (a lot more than we used to) and all my friends and even people I hardly knew were telling me they thought he liked me...so a friend of mine asked, and he told her he didn't. But then later he was still flirting with me like mad, even though his (I think) girlfriend was with him -- but he blew me off at the dance the next day. So I bitched to my friend about it, and she griped him out...and the guy still doesn't really know what's going on, and I don't know what to tell him because he doesn't like me anyway and I don't want things to get weird between us. Jeez! It's all so stupid and frustrating and I seriously could use some advice.
My best advice is to act like nothing happened since your friend did all the asking and you weren't too involved. Keep flirting like you used to, because he probally does still like you and didn't want your friend to know.
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I am no stranger to the behaviour of most guys. Very sexual, like the jokes about sex but I have a slight problem, I don't know how to react. I have a few guys that are bothering me at this time I will explain. Well this boy called karl right he's 17 and i'm 14, well basically he wants sex and he keeps pestering me he tried to touch me up and I don't know what to do. Some boys just fancy me and I can take that. There's this other boy called Steve who's 16 but he thinks i'm going to go out with him and tries to get me to cheat on my boyfriend and his girlfriend which gets me in trouble with his girlfriend. Another boy I don't see but he's really nice, prob is he calls me all these names and keeps asking me out. A little younger boy who's a few months younger than me is asking me to strip i don't know how to answer these there a no but how do I say that assertively?
Say, I have a boyfriend, I'm sorry, I would never do anything to be unloyal to him. Also, do your best to stay away from these guys and never be alone anywhere with them because i'm scared they are going to try and take advantage of you. Expecally Karl who you said was touching you.
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Well its my first year in college and I am like 500 miles from home and I only know 3 people up here at college. I have joined the softball team at my college and that has really been my only way off meeting people and all the girls on the team are really nice. My thing is, is that I would like to go and hang out with the girls on the team outside of practice and seeing them at school. But they seem to have their own little groups between them and me being a freshmen, I feel like they don't want me to hang out with them. They talk about going to parties and going out during practice but never tend to invite me, and I don't want to feel like a bug and invite myself or say anything about me coming along. But I am just getting sick of hanging out with the same 3 people everyday and night. I would like to have some other people to go and do things with instead of sitting in my room doing nothing. See my problem is, is that I am shy so I don't talk much while at practice or games so that might be why they don't invite me but thats just how I am for a while when meeting new people then after a while I open up. So what do you suggest that I do? Any advice would help. Thanks a bunch!
Sorry this is long
My situation is in high school but it was really similar. I hung out will all upperclassmen when I was a freshman and I woulden't get invited to their partys because I was younger, and also, I don't think they realised much, but I expressed my feelings to one of them and she said she totally didn't realise it and now I feel so much more included. I didn't guilt them into it or anything (I know it kind of sounds that way) I suggest maybe making plans to go to the movies with a group of them and then from there, you'll become stronger friends and you'll be included more. Also, joining other clubs on campus would help too.
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