Question Posted Wednesday October 27 2004, 7:17 pm
God, this is all really dumb...but, okay, here's the deal. There's this guy that I'm friends with and I've liked for about two years now -- I started liking him last year, but he ended up going out with a really cool friend of mine. I was happy for them, so I stopped crushing, but over the summer they broke up and my feelings started to come back...and then we started hanging out a little and flirting and stuff (a lot more than we used to) and all my friends and even people I hardly knew were telling me they thought he liked me...so a friend of mine asked, and he told her he didn't. But then later he was still flirting with me like mad, even though his (I think) girlfriend was with him -- but he blew me off at the dance the next day. So I bitched to my friend about it, and she griped him out...and the guy still doesn't really know what's going on, and I don't know what to tell him because he doesn't like me anyway and I don't want things to get weird between us. Jeez! It's all so stupid and frustrating and I seriously could use some advice.
AdviceMistress answered Wednesday October 27 2004, 8:37 pm: first off askin' 4 advice isn't dumb ... don't feel dumb because ur askin' 4 help!! second he may just be flirtin' with u because he is one of those guys who likes to flirt around with girls in general!! he may not like u like that may he just wants attention that's what normally boys do to get attention. u can play along if u like him and maybe want to keep him as a friend or if you an't stand him anymore than just ignore him he will eventually go away!!
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