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Hey, i'm April. I'm 17 and live in Indiana. On September 2nd 2009 I had mt lovely daughter Avril Jane. Being a mom is not as hard as everyone always says it is. I have been dating my wonderful boyfrendd Jarrod since Sept. 28, 2008. I'm pretty relaxed and I love to help people!

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I am an 8th grader he is a 9th grader and he is definitely not the goodest guy to like. He smokes weed,drinks,smokes,sex and shit like that.I am not no goodie goodie.But yah what do you reccomend? stay away or what

Even though you like him, this time it may be best to stay away. The drinking and smoking weed might get you into trouble, and who needs that?

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Me and my best friend have been wantin to smoke weed fer a hella long time.Well this guy who does was like oka this weekend we going to smoke. So heres my questions will i like throw up he thinks we will.and when we get back home whats the best way to disguise it and when will it like ware off?

Dont tell me not to do it cause i get it from everyone of my friends so just answers these questions okayy

You most likely won't throw up, but it all depends on how much you smoke. Some people don't even get high their first time. Before you go home chew gum or brush your teeth. Buy some eye drops because your eyes will get red and glazed over. Eat before you go home so you don't have the munchies. Spray perfume to cover them smell, but not too much because then you'll reek. For first timers the high will usually last for about 2-2.5 hours. But again, it all depends on the person.

*Hope I helped and Happy Smoking

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all ages comedy clubs in philly? my boyfriend is still 17....

or gift ideas for boys

You could always get him:

-Axe colonge,bodywash,deodorant,and shampoo
-A poster of his favorite band
-A movie he likes
-Bake him cookies or a cake
-A CD
-Jeans or a Hoodie

Does he have a XBOX or PS3, or any other type of gaming system? Get him a game.

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my husband and I have been married for 2 years now and I am happy being married to him. Since he has come back from a 15 month deployment we have been fighting alot. Alot more than normal and it usual ends with me crying and him pissed off and we hate each other and it's always the same thing we fight about, him not helping me around the house I feel like I have to do everything. I'm tired of the fighting and so is he I want to go to marriage counseling but I'm afraid he wont make the effort. Yesterday he brings up the discussion of divorce and asking me if we ever did get a divorce what would I do. Does this mean he wants a divorce? I don't know if we should go to marriage counseling if he already believes our marriage is over. Should I just start the paperwork and give up? Help me please..

I have faith in relationships, don't give up! Ask him about the counseling and if he says no, ask him if not doing it is worth losing you. Also, tell him about everything you have to do around the house and how it overwhelms you. Ask him if he would atleast be willing to do 1 or 2 small chores for you, and how it would help you so much.

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my boyfriend's 18 & i've narrowed down what i want to get him for christmas, either-
- new earring
- new sweatshirt / pair of jeans
- cologne
in addition to (all of these)
- homemade cookies (he LOVES to eat... like, obscene amounts..)
- a giant hershey's kiss
- a hemp necklace (he loves them, i'll make it myself)
- and possibly an 'inside joke' gift... funny boxers ;)

im afraid cologne will be one of those "oh.. again?" gifts. same with the clothes. but the thing is, my boyfriend doesnt exactly switch up his wardrobe that much... he pretty much wears the same three shirts, which arent bad, but ruins them by wearing this gigantic sweatshirt, which i wouldnt mind outdoors, but he wears it indoors, and its literally three sizes too big for him. and, to complicate things, he refuses to buy "brand names" (of which he considers anything in a mall, even including stores like aeropostale??) so i doubt i could find a good sweatshirt for him elsewhere. and the jeans- i HATE the jeans he has now, and i want to get him some sexy hollister jeans, but i doubt he'll wear them.

the earring, he said he wanted, but i have no idea how to pick out earrings for a dude lolll.

we've only been going out for two months (we started dating almost as soon as we met), but i feel like we've been together for ages, and he's already asked me to his senior prom. so he is worth spending some money on.

advice?:) thaanks!

Since you bf doesn't BUY Hollister, if you give him the jeans for christmas he may wear them. As long as you get the kind of wash(light or dark) he likes he has no reason to complain. Old Navy has nice sweatshirts that aren't really "name brand". In addition to the giant hershey's kiss, bake cookies and when they're still kind of soft stick hersheys kisses in the top of them. What bands does he like? Buy him a poster or CD of his favorite band.

And for the earring:http:www.e-earring.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/cool-earrings-for-men.jpg

That style is pretty non-femenine.

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I just got a 6 week old german shepard, dalmation, and shar-pei mix female puppy. I have always crate trained my dogs so I dont have to worry bout them going to the bathroom in the house while I'm gone. My 7 month old male does just fine in his crate but the female is having some problems. everytime I put her in the crate for bedtime or to leave the house she cries. She doesn't stop crying the whole time she is in there. It's hard for me to go to sleep when she is crying and it bothers my husband. what can I do to make it easier for her to understand that her crate is her home? Someone please help me so I can get some sleep..

For my puppy I used a clock to help the crying. The ticking sound reminds baby animals of their mothers' heartbeat and helps soothe them into sleep.

*Hope I helped!

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Is it horrible for me to hate my sister?

We have never really gotten along before. I am 21 and she is 19. We have both had very different up bringings. I was raised by my grandparents and she was raised by my mother.

She is a very attention seeking person and will do what others tell her or do or say things to fit in a crowd.. She doesn't work, throws in all her jobs because she doesn't want to work.

She has very minor 'operations' (its just like having a pap smear) and writes it all over face book for everyone to see. She never even finished school.

where as I, I have always worked since I finished year 12. In good jobs to, first in a lawyers office now in a doctors surgery. I have also studied through TAFE.

My grandfather who raised me passed away suddenly in August. He was only 58 and was never sick before, he suffered from a stroke and was in a coma for 30days before passing.

Now the problem is my sister is putting all over face book that she 'misses and loves her poppy' Um hello... she never had anything to do with him for 4 years!!! Every time our parents told her she had to come to nanna and pops house she would make herself vomit so she didn't have to go.

She's never really had anything to do with me before either. This isn't the only things that are contributing to my feelings of hate towards her.

Should I confront her and tell her that I wont don't want anything to do with her anymore and that she should stop writing things about my pop whom she's had nothing to do with for 4 years? Other wise i'm going to end up doing something childish that I will regret!

Thank you

First off, congrats for finishing school and getting a good job!

If I was you I would confront her. Keeping things inside just makes it worse because the anger builds up until you pop. Tell her how you feel. If anything YOU should be the one missing him since he and your grandmother raised you. Tell her it hurts you to see the lies she's telling people about her missing her grandpa. She's probably begging for attention because she's lonely, but that is her own fault. She could have finished school, and made friends, and found a decent job to keep her happy; but she chose not to.

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My husband and I have only been married for a few months. For about the past month we cannot get along but maybe for 24 hours. We argue over everything. We just bought a house, and can't seem to agree on anything. I feel ike I compromise constantly because he gets so angry if he doesn't get his way. For instance, he doesn't like flouresent light bulbs and I do,, but in order to avoid extreme arguments all the fluorescent bulbs have to be changed back to regular. Also, I have a 4 year daughter that calls him daddy, and he allows this to happen. When he gets mad at me he tells me that he is not her dad and he wouldn't care if we got a divorce. AFter our fights he will come to me later that night and act like everything is okay and nothing happened. He will apologize for saying dicvorce but we never work through anything. I have tried to explain to him the need to work through our issues but he refuses. I have suggested a marriage counselor and he refuses. I don't kjnow what to do and I think that I am headed toward divorce very quickly. Any advice? I don't want a divorce and I love my husband, but I can't live like this much longer.

Ok, well i've been dating my boyfriend for almost 15 months and we have this problem. I almost gave up the relationship because EVERY little thing became a fight,and he just never seemed to want to talk things out. The way I got my boyfriend to talk was pretty simple. I asked "Is us fighting all the time and not working things out worth losing all the love and memories we have?" Also, compromise, but in a different way. Ask him if you can have a few flouresent lights in the house, because it is YOUR house too.

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this boy in the year aove me in school an i really really like him so much that im kinda obsessed with him and i cant stop thinking about him. (he has a girlfriend by the way ) when ever i see him around school i always ignor him and block him out and i really dont know why, but my friend always says to me '' he just looked at you then'' so it made me think does he like me ? or is he thinking that i dont like him anymore, i really dont know. i really wont to get to know him abit better and have the guts to go up to him an say hi.
can someone help me please (: thanks
14-f-uk

This might not be the answer you're looking for, but it comes fron presonal experience. If he leaves his gf for you, then he may leave you for another girl. I had this happen to me, and it doesn't work out very good. His ex-gf's friends all followed me around school and yelled "slut" and "whore" at me, called me a homewrecker and threatened to beat me up. Just try to wait until he's not in a relationship, then you can chat him up. Notice the books he carries and strike up a conversation about if the class is hard, or which classes he enjoys. Everything should build from there.

*Hope I helped!

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my boyfriend and i are trying to pick a song

any ideas?

1,2,3,4 by Plain White T's

Spotlight by Jennifer Hudson

Candy Kisses by Amanda Perez(kinda of girly but a really good song)

I'm Yours by Jason Mraz

The Reason by Hoobastank

With You by Chris Brown

Bubbly by Colbie Calliat

Realize by Colbie Calliat

Thunder by Boys Like Girls

Stop and Stare by One Republic

Fall for You by Secondhand Serenade(really sweet song)

My Love by Justin Timerlake

Let me Love You by Mario

No One by Alicia Keys

Why Can't I by Liz Phair

*Hope I helped!

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ok my boyfriend has A BBUNCH of stuff on valentines day weekend for me and him to do that he's keeping a surprise but idk what i could do because i have no money and i cant drive or take him anywhere what can i do?? please help!! :(

They say the way to a mans' heart is through his stomach. You could always bake him, cookies, a cake, or cup cakes. You could use pink or red frosting to decorate them. I'm sure he'd like them.

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okay so i get my legs waxed (full leg) and under my arms, but i shave my area.
i was just wondering how much it hurts to get a bikini wax ?
i know you cant really do it at home, but i highly doubt theyre going to let me do it concidering im 16 in august.
thanks :)

I get mine done regularly. The first time, I wont lie, hurts realllly bad.My eyes watered. you start to get used to it though, then it is just a mild sting.

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love songs are good too.
idontknow but they make me miss him.
here are some that i already like.

goodbye to you
tim mcgraw (taylor swift)
breathe
so contagious
the alamo is no place for dancing
with me
getting into you
your guardian angel
only one

i dont like metal/screamo.
or top 40 music.
so what are some songs that have to do with breakups? or love songs?



thanksabunchhxx

Breaking up:
-What Hurts the Most-Rascal Flatts
-Walk Away-Paula DeAnda
-So sick of Love Songs-NeYo


Love:
-With You-Chris Brown(makes me cry)
-Gallery-Mario
Sorry that's all I can think of, sad I know.

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My boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months now! Woo! I've got him chocolate, cologne, and a hat for previous holidays. (more than one of each hah) I can't take him anywhere or anything, we'll just be at his house. What can I get him?

What are his intrests? Does he like sports? If so, why not his favorite teams jersey? What types of movies does he like? Get him A DVD. Make him something homemade. A scrapbook of "(whichever #) of reasons why I love you. If all else fails you could always bake him cookies.

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I have had my hair highlighted blonde 2 times before.MY friend recnetly did it for me and it turned out fine but i wanted it slightly lighter. SO last night i decided to die it again and its come out ginger!! i really dont no what to do my parents say im paranoid but im really not its pretty bad! its turned a carrot orangy colour, it looks so cheap. parents said you'll have to learn from that mistake and let it grow out my hair is shoulder lengh. I asked if i could buy a colour removing kit but they wouldnt let me as it damages your hair badly, but anything it better than this!! i really dont no what to do im not aloud to die it anymore either!! i use to be known as the girl whch lushious hair but im dredding going back so school.. sad i know.. please help!! its making me depressed!!

This is going to sound odd, but it worked for me.
*WARNING*- This will dry your hair out, but it is fixable.

You take Dawn dish soap and apply it to your dry hair coating all of it. Take a shower cap and put it on your head. Let it sit for around 35-40 minutes.
*Optinal*- may use blow dryer to speed up process.
Rinse all of the soap out then use conditioner.

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does anyone know of any good, pure tea tree oil cleansers? thanks :]

I use 2.

Got2b "pore me" deep scrub. Has apricot, papya, and tea tree oil in it. It has those little beads that exfoliate the skin.


The second one is "Zhen Tea Tree Oil Facial Cleanser". That one is just your basic face wash.

Hope I Helped!

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i decided to stop smoking cigarettes -after 3 failed attempts-on friday. Its sunday today and ive started revising for exams. The thing is..i need a cig', and i dont want the feeling of needing one to put me off the work i have. So what do you lot think i should do? carry on smoking till june/july when the exams are completely finished, or stop smoking and let it affect my exams and revision, because the exams start in march....

It would be better and healthier if you quit now. Withdrawl will be very hard though. You will often find yourself needing a cig. When you feel a craving chew gum, tic tacs, or various types of hard candy instead. This will keep your mouth busy.

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since i hate shaving my "down below", would it be okay if i naired it with the stuff i use for my legs? or would that be bad..

Not nair for your legs. Tey make Nair for your bikini area. Don't out it by your vagina though, just on your pubic bone part.

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so i have pierced my belly button before, many many times. and out of all those times, i failed to either get it through, or to leave it in for a while. so basically now i am stuck with scar tissue that is very thick, about 3/4 cm thick and i want to know how to get rid of this. i plan on getting my belly button pierced profesionally when im 18 so what can i do to get rid of this. and please dont say time cause first time i tried to pierce if was when i was 12 and now im 16 and scar tissue is still thick. so what should i do to minimize the scar tissue?

There is nothing you can do to minimize it. Once it's there it's there. Mine was the same as yours. I pierced it myself (stupid i know) 3 times and there was scar tissue. The people who pierced it said that the needle will pierce right through it. I got mine done and it hurt much more due to the scar tissue but the needle went right through with no problem. Hope I Helped!

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ok so last night around 6:05 i finished my highlights and did the toner and everthing else it said to do. well today i knew my hair would be dry so i just put it up and didnt wash it or blow dry, straighten. ect. is it okay for me tonight to wash && condition it and then tomorrow morning wake up wash and condition it again then dry and straighten? [back to my normal sch. before school]
thankss in advance.

That's what I did to mine, and it should turn out just fine!

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