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Hey! My name is Ashley. I'm 15 years old and love to give advice. I am a Moderator on this site. I have blonde hair but in that picture I have brown(the one in the middle). I love to dye my hair, I've never dyed it the same color twice. I also have bluish/greenish/greyish eyes. I am Wiccan, and I am very in touch with Spiritual things. I love my friends(but who doesn't love thier friends). I listen to screamo, emo, punk, techno, and hip-hop music. I am very short compaired to my friends. I'm 5'2. I used to model, I don't anymore because it's too expensive. I have 3 sisters, 1 niece, and 3 nephews. Ask me anything I DARE YOU!!!

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I am really bored.People tell me to get a life.How do I do that.Please tell me how I should get a life,get rid of my boredom,meet new people and make new friends. Any answers are appreciated

In my opinion, start out slowly. Don't just put yourself out there all at once. Maybe start out with walks in the park or sign up for an activity at the YMCA or something like that. I'm sure you'll meet a few people at the YMCA. Then once you've made a few friends, you can maybe go to the mall, movies, have some fun and meet some more people. It can be frightening meeting new people and going somewhere you don't know anyone. It will be for the best and you'll eventually meen more and more people to hang out with. Even if you only meet one other erson, it's a start and you can meet other people together and build your group of friends. Best of luck and you can ask me any other questions if you need to. =]

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my eyelashes are so difficult. no matter what mascara i use. they still all clump together and turn all different directions! do you think i need to use a clear mascara? i dont really have long lashes though. but i do use a curler.

Maybe you should try this one. http://www.ulta.com/control/product/~product_id=2114126
hope I helped =]

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i need help !!
ok i have green eyes and blck eyeliner doesnt look very good (it makes me look kinda goth cuz of my eyes) what color should i use that would look the best for my eyes ?? plz help !!

try a caramel color. I think that would look best for your eyes. =]

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I know this is the WORST way to remove blackheads, but I was squeezing my skin with toilet paper on my index fingers.

Since I've done that, I've rubbed some skin off. Whenever I do this, I usually get a pretty nasty scab.

Any way to make it less noticeable besides piling makeup on the scab? It makes it more obvious.

put a moisterizer on it. It will moisturize the cut and make it heal quicker and make it less noticable. Hope I helped.

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okay, im getting my boyfriend a ring with our initials and the day we started dating engraved in it. but im also getting him a picture book with all of our pictures and some other things in a valentine's day box with our picture on it and im making him a cd with our song and some other songs that i like that remind me of him. okay my question is, does anyone know any 'loveish' songs that i could put, our song is once in a lifetime by keith urban. and he HATES rap and stuff like that, so country and rock pretty much.

it will be GREATLY appriciated if you could help me outttttttttttttt =)

the only one i can think of besides the ones that were already mentioned is: "Emily" by From First To Last.

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What is a real good hair conditioner that is sold?

I use Pantene(sp) and it makes my hair really soft. They have different kinds for different types of hair. hope i helped =]

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what some REALLY good deoderants.
im a girl by the way so yeah.

Personally, I use Degree Ultra Clear. You know the one that is "100% little black dress aproved"? haha it works really good though.

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ha. i know this is gross but like what color is discharge or does it like depened or something

discharge is usually a clear/white/yellow color. Sometimes it can be a slight brown color too, but thats just your bodys way of cleaning itself in between periods.

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alright, i know this may sound stupid, but how exactly do you flirt with a guy, especially, if he's a good friend? any tips would also be good

alright, to be honest there really is no certain way to flirt. all i can say is to not go overboard and do anything way unexpected. lol. Just ease into stuff thats all. hope i helped!

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Hey for people who have braces (or you got one before), can you tell me if you had more cuts on the top teeth or the bottom teeth? Because I just got my braces on my bottom tetth and the teeth are tinier then the top so it's so hard to brush and I can't even move my mouth around so I'm hoping I don't get cuts from them or else I'd be in deep trouble..

I had braces for 2 years and I got mine off in October. But, I got more cuts on the bottom.

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22/f
Yes I know my age is a little old for questions like these.

I am a still a virgin and I am proud of that. I am waiting for marriage and that is that.
Although…

Is it normal to feel very aroused with other guys even just talking to them?
-making out with them?

Why do I have discharge all the time not just around my periods? Is this because I get aroused?

I am I just going through those "crazy hormones" just very late in life?

When I masturbate what are some good tips? I have only done it with a vibrator I recently got for my birthday from some friends. Is it a good orgasm when I get pulsing movements from inside that I don’t have control over? If it is how do I keep it going for longer then 10 seconds?

Also is it normal that I don’t like anything up inside my vagina? Not even tampons if I can help it. Even when masturbating I don’t like to insert the vibrator inside me. It is very uncomfortable and feels strange. I only like it on the outside, I know I am 100% straight but I am also somewhat terrified of penises. They just kinda gross me out. Is that normal? I could really use some help with these questions.

I know that I'm 7 years younger than you, but I think I can handle this one. You should be proud that you are a virgin and there should be more people out there like you that give in to peer presure. yes, it is normal for you to feel aroused when making out with guys. Even talking to them can sometimes do that to you. You have discharge between your periods because your body is just cleaning itself more and it's not because you are aroused. When you are aroused you do get wet but it's not discharge. You most likely are just going through a "crazy hormone" stage late in life. And to be honest, I'm not really sure I can help you with the masterbating part of your question. I don't want to give you bad advice or anything. Believe it or not, but alot of girls don't like anything foriegn(sp) in thier vagina, even tampons. If you like to pleasure yourself on the outside of your vagina and not the inside, it's just your preference. No girl is the same. And to be honest again, I don't think I can help you with the fear of penises either. I'm sorry. Hope I helped you with what I could.

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this sounds really weird
but ive tried to masturbate before but i can never get to the point of an orgasm. could i be doing something wrong?

nope, nothings wrong. some people just don't orgasm when masterbating. actually, alot of people don't. hope i helped.

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Is there any FREE downloadable music like limewire or Rhapsody? If so where can I get it? I need it to make a CD for my school dance.
Thanks (keosha)

If you only want to download a few songs, go to www.singingfish.com. I know the name sounds weird lol but you don't download any software or anything, just the song you wanted. I hop ei helped.

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im going to the dermatoligist next week to get some medicine and products for my face.

has anyone ever been there and did they stuff they gave you clear up your acne fast? or did it take a long time?

I go to a dermatoligist and they gave me a perscription(sp) and i noticed that my skin was softer the second i used it. It cleared up the acne REALLY fast. I'd say it took about 2 weeks for it all to be gone. I swear it's like a miracle worker! haha

the answer from my feedback is: well, idk it does help with the redness alot, but i don't know how bad your acne is. Mine wasn't that bad and in my opinion, it did help the first day i used it. I know it's embarassing going to school and seeing all these "clear" people. But trust me, it will be worth the week to 3 weeks it takes to clear everything up. I was so confident when i went to school and my face was clear. So just try to think positive and it will be all worth it in the end.

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i use cover girl continuous wear cover up but i can never get my face to look very clear like i have litte spots that i want to cover up...like not zits but little like marks and it doesnt really cover them up? is there a diffrent way to apply it so you cant see blemishes and make it stay on longer?

mhmm there is a way. put a dot of foundation on the spot you want to cover. Next, blend it in. Then, put a layer of POWDER cover up on it. I hope i helped you.

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Hey, haha I'm sorta interested in Wiccan but haven't taken up time to actually get into it but its cool that you are. =] but anywhos, you said to ask anything in you column so here goes:

What is Mikey Way scared of? (2 things)
What's the relation of the letters "NJ" to Frankie Iero?
Where did the name "MY Chemical Romance" come from? [How was the name formed?]
How do you say milk in Korean?
Why is the sky blue and the ocean blue?
Do camels know the difference between 1 and 2?

lol, yes random. Well, the top three are from my obsession but anyways

1.)Bugs and Airplanes...? I'm not sure if that is true, but thats what I got out of a search.
2.) The letters NJ are tattooed on Frankie Ieros body to remind him of where he is from.(New Jersey)
3.)The name "My Chemical Romance" comes from a book. The book is named "Ecstasy:Three Tales Of Chemical Romance" and it's from Irvine Welsh.
4.)The word "milk" in Korean is written like this: 우유 and is pronounced like this: Woo Yoo.
5.)A clear cloudless day-time sky is blue because molecules in the air scatter blue light from the sun more than they scatter red light.Water molecules scatter blue light the most. This makes the ocean look blue.
6.)I'm not sure about that one.lol

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I was told to remove my makeup with certain cleaners/removers

Then wash my face with hot/warm water

And cleanse it with some cream OR pads.

then wash it off with cold water.

That.. is really not helping me.

What's your routine?

I don't really remove my makeup with remover...I just cleanse my face with a face wash. Then I put a toner. Then a moisturizer. I do that routine morning and night. Once a week I exfoliate my face. And once every two weeks I put a mask on it. I hope I helped and answered your question the way you wanted it to be answered. If you have any more questions just ask!

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I have no piercings what-so-ever; I got my ears done in 2nd grade and they closed so i re-did them myself because my dad wouldn't let me get them re-done. He won't let me get anything pierced. I've been begging for months. It's seriously unfair. How can i convince him to let me get my lip pierced?

alright...parents are not very willing to let their kids get piercings these days, i know. I have my ears pierced twice, my bely button pierced, and my tongue. To get my mom to let me pierce my tongue I got something less drastic done first, my belly button. When I did ask her to get my tongue pierced, I showed her that I'm responsible enough to keep it clean so it doesn't get infected. I also did research on the specific piercing too. Eventually I'll try to pshyc her up for the lip piercing too! She doesn't like facial piercings that much. Most parents don't. So try to go with something not too drastic, like an industrial, belly, or even your eyebrow if you want something on your face. Hope I helped.

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What should I tell my parents that I have so many cuts in my school? Im in the 10th grade. My parents got a letter showing all the absences. What should I do?

I think you should just be honest. They have the slip, there's nothing you can do about it. If you lie, they're just going to find out and get you in more trouble than you'll already be in.

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okay. i'm looking for some new bands out there. i really like emo screamo kind of stuff. but i can go into a little metal, and some rock is okay. but its mostly emocore bands like Silverstein and such.

got any good bands i might be interested in?

I also love that music! Senses Fail, Saosin, Bleeding Through, and Drive By are really good bands. Tell me how you like them!

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