Lots of questions from a virgin that all tie together
Question Posted Friday January 19 2007, 6:09 am
22/f
Yes I know my age is a little old for questions like these.
I am a still a virgin and I am proud of that. I am waiting for marriage and that is that.
Although…
Is it normal to feel very aroused with other guys even just talking to them?
-making out with them?
Why do I have discharge all the time not just around my periods? Is this because I get aroused?
I am I just going through those "crazy hormones" just very late in life?
When I masturbate what are some good tips? I have only done it with a vibrator I recently got for my birthday from some friends. Is it a good orgasm when I get pulsing movements from inside that I don’t have control over? If it is how do I keep it going for longer then 10 seconds?
Also is it normal that I don’t like anything up inside my vagina? Not even tampons if I can help it. Even when masturbating I don’t like to insert the vibrator inside me. It is very uncomfortable and feels strange. I only like it on the outside, I know I am 100% straight but I am also somewhat terrified of penises. They just kinda gross me out. Is that normal? I could really use some help with these questions.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? AllYouNeedIsAshley answered Friday January 19 2007, 6:58 am: I know that I'm 7 years younger than you, but I think I can handle this one. You should be proud that you are a virgin and there should be more people out there like you that give in to peer presure. yes, it is normal for you to feel aroused when making out with guys. Even talking to them can sometimes do that to you. You have discharge between your periods because your body is just cleaning itself more and it's not because you are aroused. When you are aroused you do get wet but it's not discharge. You most likely are just going through a "crazy hormone" stage late in life. And to be honest, I'm not really sure I can help you with the masterbating part of your question. I don't want to give you bad advice or anything. Believe it or not, but alot of girls don't like anything foriegn(sp) in thier vagina, even tampons. If you like to pleasure yourself on the outside of your vagina and not the inside, it's just your preference. No girl is the same. And to be honest again, I don't think I can help you with the fear of penises either. I'm sorry. Hope I helped you with what I could. <3 [ AllYouNeedIsAshley's advice column | Ask AllYouNeedIsAshley A Question ]
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