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My best friend Nicole has been my friend since 5th grade and were in 9th grade now. We're so close and we talk about everything together. One of our good friends who was 17 yrs old just passed away on december 5th from cancerous tumers on his brain. It was so sudden. We all got so scared after that becasue in our town, theres been alot of deaths from cancer. We didn't think it would actually effect someone so young, an ready to go off to college. The worst part about it is that his mother had already lost 2 other sons before him. So she basically just lost her 3rd son.
Sadly to say, just last week, about 2 days before Xmas, my best friend Nicole was diagnosed with cancer. The doctors said that the lumps on her neck were the beginning of Mono, but they were wrong. Her tests came back, and she now has cancer. Shes gonna be at Westchester hospital for about 4-5 weeks going through kemo and stuff. Me, and a bunch of our other friends are worried sick about her becasue its so sudden, and we dont want to lose her like we lost our other friend. I'm so sad, and I desperately need someone to make me think of positive things about her right now, becasue really all i can think of is our other friend who just died and if shes gonna end up like that. This is a very hard time for me, can anyone give me any advice on this? I just dont know how to think about something good. Thank You!
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Just try not to think about the bad things, visit her as often as possible and spend as much time as you can with her, maybe it would help to pray for her and donate to help the cure for cancer, and who knows, they have been working on the cure for a while, so maybe they will find one in time for your friend.
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On New Years Eve im going to my boyfriends house. I'm a virgin but that night i think i want to lose my virginity with him. I'm 14 almost 15 i know i'm young but i'm tired of being a virgin. We've only been going out for a week today but we went out for 7 months a while back. Please don't reply if your just going to call me a hoe or yell at me because i don't need that. Would i be making the wrong choice if i do? I already know about the whole getting pregnant thing im not stupid..but other than that am i making the right choice? thanks.. (link)
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If that's what you want..i guess you can do it, im not stopping you, but I do honestly thikn oyur too young, and what would happen if you WOULD become pregnant, what would you do?
I just think that you should wait because later on in life you'll regret it, you want your first time to be special dont you? I dont think that you'll want to look back and remember that your first time was when you were only 14...
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In school theres this kid who is always annoys me and when im around this guy I have A HUGE crush on he always say SHE LIKES YOUUU!! practicily screaming! I feel so embarassed and mad at this idiot. Before winter break let out about a week ago I told him he was a dirty bastard and to never talk to me again since then he hasnt but he keeps coming on to my friend and hes being REALLY PEVERTED and saying peverted things to her? What do I do? (link)
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You and your friend should talk to him, tell him how you feel, but dont be too mean about it..im sure he has feelings too..
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ok well I am kind of mad. I think my mom's b/f is just using her, And I am to scard to tell my mom. But when I do wont to tell my mom he is there. He is always over and he eats all of our food. But he never cleans up. My mom has not been dateing for a while because my dad went to jail. I dont know what to do.... PLEASE HELP (link)
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Well, just tell your mom you need to talk to her in private and tell her how you feel..hopefully she will understand..
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me and this guy "B" went out 4 a year. he then went 2 a different school, and now starting high school, we go to the same one. were talking again...were eachothers 1st loves...except we didnt lose it wit each other. when we broke up he got with someother girl and they ended up doing it a few times. but when this school year started we have been talking alot laytlee...and well do u think it'll b weird if i lost it with him?! (link)
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no..i think it would be ok if you lost it with him
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Ok. Well There's 3 Boys that i really like, the one i like the most, has a girlfriend, so i guess he doesn't count. But i still really like him, i also like 2 other guys, and the one asked me out, and i like him, but not as much as the one with the girlfriend, but he has a girlfriend, so i dont know if i'll ever get him, and the other dude, i just found out likes me. What should i do ? Sorry if this post is kindah confusing. ! *`' . (link)
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I wouldnt waste time liking the one who has a girlfriend because you might get over him and regret turning down the second guy..
Sooo, i say to pick the one you like most out of the 2 that are single
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i know its stupid but all my friends and other guys in my grade keep giving me crap about the guy i'm going out with. i love him so much. and he means the world to me. i hate it when people give me this crap though. and one of my friends that i thought was my friend did something that she "claims" she didn't do. its a long story, but i didn't think she'd do it. i don't know how to handle it. please help me. i need to know what to say to people when they give me this crap. thanks in advance. i rate high. (link)
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I had the same probelm..What worked for me was telling them to back off..whenever someone said anything i would talk to them and just be like "dont worry about me dating him, it has nothing to do with you, i love him and thats how its gonna be, get over it" i admit, i kinda snapped on everyone, but it worked b/c they all stopped..
Sometimes you just gotta be firm
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okay. i like this guy alot. We flirt alot, and he gave me his sn once. Well, he has a gf. he gets on every few weeks *almost every girl in school likes him* but he still flirts with me. But, i'm afraid to IM him i get nerve and afriad to emmbarrasse myself! should i? i mean he gave me his sn! and how to I NOT get nerve before i talk to him?!?!?! (link)
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How would you embarress yourself my IMing him? just do it..if he didnt want you too, he wouldnt have given you his screen name..
Go for it..
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Ok, I was just wondering what kind of Abercrombie fragrance for women is the kind that smells like the store- if there is a kind that smells like that. There's three different types: NOW Fragrance, Signature Fragrance, and 8 Fragrance. I would think it would be Signature Fragrance, but I'm not sure. Does anybody know?? Thanks! (link)
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Yeah, i'm pretty sure its signature..but..
if you cant figure it out you can ask someone that works at the store, or you can go to the store and smell them..
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what are signs that you are pregnant? (link)
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You miss your period, get morning sickness, crave certain things, you get mood swings, sometimes feel dizzy and sick..things like that..
And you should probably take a pregnancy test to see if you are
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I know someone who is really big on theater just as I am, but I don't think she likes me very much. I have tried talking to her, but she doesn't listen. What should I do? (link)
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Well, if she doesnt like you, then back off..
But maybe your wrong, talk to her friends about what she thinks about you..and what she says about you..
You should also talk to her about it and ask her why she wont listen
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I have chlostrophobia and my parents don't really know. Is this something i should ask my doctor about or is it just something normal?
Plz help. I keep having moments where i can't breath. (link)
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First of all, you should tell your parents, and then tell your doctor
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im 14 going on 15/f. ive never had a b/f but ive had this one crush for 2 yrs. now! Were good friends now and lately all of my friends have had b/f. i kinda feel left out, but being single is fun 2! i kno this sounds wrong...to me it does 2, but lately all ive wanted 2 do is grab my crush and just kiss him! i think i have a problem...what should i do! please help!~ (link)
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You dont have a problem..
I used to like this guy too, and i liked him for about as long as you have liked this guy..But i got over him and found someone new, and im pretty sure you will too..give it some time..
maybe you should talk to him about it and see how he feels about you..
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I'm a 15/f and I have this huge crush on a 17/m. He goes to school with me. He's a Jr. I'm a Fr. And I get mixed signals from him.We're both in marching band, so we have common interests, and i've bonded with him a lot more since camp this summer. We have this way of joking around that makes me think he likes me, but I'm not sure. I could say that if he liked me, I would be happy spending the rest of my life with him. He knows I like him, so do I risk asking him or not? (link)
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Well, talk to some of HIS friends, maybe he said something to them about you..and before you ask him out, talk to him, ask him if he likes you, and if you cant do that, then write hima note or something, but you should ask him out because you'll regret it in the future..because you never would have known what he would have said,..
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i am 13 and i went and got blonde higlights on my brown hair and i noe the highlights will start to go away but i was wondering if i striaghten my hair everyday and wash it everyday will it make the color go away faster?? and is there anything i can do to keep my highlight from not letting the color fade away so fast?? can u plz help me!! (link)
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If you straighten it and wash it, it will go away faster, or it did for me anyway..
I tried a lot of things to get my highlights to stay for a while, the best thing i can say to you is to just get your highlights redone after they go away
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I've known renee since the 5th grade we became best friends in the 6th grade she never really got any guys because she just wasnt liked by guys and i was usually the one getting the guys now we go to different schools and were in the 8th now its the other way around but she brags in my face about it and rubs it in my face which i never did to her she thinks shes all that and pretty now our relationship is totally crushed and i wanna hit her what do i do? (link)
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Maybe you should talk to her, and if she doesnt listen, take a break from your friendship...She probably doesnt deserve you, because you never did that to her
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okay.. me and this guy have been "talking.." like.. we like each other.. and me and his ex girlfriend DONT like each other.. well.. she IMed me last night.. and she was like.. " i just wanted to tell you im sorry and i dont hate you.. im just jelous of you because you have the one thing i want.. " and then she was being super nice.. well.. today.. he came over to my house.. and she called his cell and was telling him all these lies about me... ( she didnt know he was at my house ) okay.. so i got on the phone and i was like.. "um.. hes busy.. bye!" and then she wrote my advice column saying all this stuff about me.. and i dont know what should i do? should i end things with him? (link)
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If you really like him, then you better not end things, just ignore her, she only says this stuff because she knows it gets to you, so dont let it get to you..
The guy that you like should know that shes lying about you and if he cant understand that, maybe it wasnt meant to be
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How does a person get rid of stubborn black heads...especially on the nose...My nose looks like a strawberry(except skin colored)
Please Help! I RATE! (link)
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Did you ever see those commercials for the black heads? there's some kind of band aid type thing that you can put on it...if you have a walmart near you, they usually have those there..or another department store
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my friend didn't get a single thing for christmas what should i do? i feel so bad! so should i get something? (link)
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You should get her something..and talk to some of her other friends, and see if they will get her something too
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help help help...we will rate u... we no someone who is thinking about killing/cuting/or running away! She is the type of person who would really go out and do it. but whenever we try to call her she hangs up and now she wont answer her phone and she isnt on AIM anymore...we dont know what to do or think...all we think about it what the worst sanerio is!!!
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I know how you guys feel, my friend was acting like that and then he actually did kill himself, and then i have a lot of other friends who cut and want to kill themselves...
Just, make sure that you are there for her..Talk to her at school, and tell the guidence counseler, or her mom/dad because someone needs to know so that they can help her..
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