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16/f
Well there's this guy, one of my best friends and well I really like him alot. He doesn't know and I'm not planning on telling him for fear of losing our friendship so I don't need help about that. The thing is, the other day he texted me the wierdest message and then logged off. I havn't been able to ralk to him since so I don't know what it meant and I couldn't ask. The text he sent me was: 'I less than heart you'
Like what the heck does that mean? I asked a friend but she didn't know.
To clarify what I'm asking, I want to know what the message means and why he would send it to me if it's not something stupid.
Any help is appreciated. Thanks. (link)
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i may be completely off the mark here, but it sounds like he found out and wanted to tell you that he doesn't feel the same way :( if that is the case, i say screw him because that is a rude way if telling someone they don't like you.
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songs?
could you explain the songs candy shop & london bridge to me? and please, no links. Thank You. (link)
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london bridge and candy shop are basically about clubbing and sex. more specifically, london bridge is about fergie going into a club, dancing, being famous in gerneral, and how much the guys like her. candy shop is more about sex than anything else.
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Hello-sorry this may be long--will rate though
Well to start off I'm 15/f and sadly never had a boyfriend (that was real and truly "love") or a real relationship. And recently at school (I'm a freshmen so I'm meeting all these new people) but it almost seems like when I met a new guy I get a lil crush but then within a week or so I'm over it. Well, err I want to say Wednesday of last week my friend came over and we called some boys. (We called two boys one being my friend and the toher being her friend who's also friends with mine) So anyways all of us talked for awhile. And I was like hm my friends friend (the guy who well call Bob) seemed pretty cool. SO we went to the movies together him, my friend, and 2 other people, and me. I sat next to him we kinda talked thoughout the movie..he bought me a drink..and that night i was like slap happy. I had a really good night with him and the rest of my friends. So the next day which would now be Saturday my friend came over again and we called them and we talked. Then later that day he called me back on MY phone (usually he calls my friends phone) and him and I talked for ohh about and hour or so which i reallly liked. And then later that day I met him, "bob", at a school (which i had my father drive me too and pick me up from lol) and him and 2 of his friends and i hung out. And then from then on we've just talked like once on facebook. But see I don't know wether I like him for real or weather its just me being stupid wanting a boyfriend so ticking myself into liking him. And I want to call him but I read in CG! you should wait for him to call you...and ahh! I don't know what to do. Him, my friend, and another boy are hopeuflly hanging out this weekend. But idk what to do or how to tell if I like him for real or if i'm being stupid and faking myself into liking him cause hes just reall sweet. So if you could please just give me a little advise or something??
Thanks for reading and caring about my stupid boy problems =P (link)
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you should totally go for it and CALL HIM! CG doesn't know what they are talking about with that, this is the twenty-first century, women call their guys/guys in general all the time. if girls waited for the guy to make a move, nothing would ever happen, because lets face it, they are CLUELESS! and, as for the possible faking yourself into liking him, you'll never know untill you get to know him better.
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okay im not fat and inoe it. just ive been on vacation and im gaining weight. i need to lose the weight and ive been going to the gym working out a lot, pilates and everything but i cant stop eating. its not like im a cumpulsive eater or nething like that. and im not hungry all the time. jus im bored or i wanna eat something because of the taste and im not hungry. i duno its wierd. and i noe some of u are gonna say to eat snacks and stuff but have them be healthy... and i do that. but like i wanna stop eating soo much. because i finish lunch and i eat a banana and then i want something else. so i eat grapes and then like yogurt and then i go to the kitchen and eat some more.??? pleassee help me. wat are ways i can stop eatingg and cut down on my cravings because i noe its gonna get out of hand im gonna start eating unhealthy foods and gain weighhtt
help. (link)
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i know how you're feeling because i have the same problem. try to keep yourself doing something that involves your hands at all times, that way you won't be so bored, therefore less inclined to eat. puzzles, typing and other things that keep your brain occupied are great too.
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Hello, I just wanted to know any kind've a way to gain weight. I am 107 pounds and 5'4.5 inches and i am 15. I know i am a bit underweight but i dont want to gain just a couple pounds i wanted to gain like 10 more pounds or so. I was gonna start a high calorie diet, so like eat breakfast, lunch dinner, and have snacks in between each one and one before bed. Is that a good approach? If you have any suggestions, please let me know. Thanks :) (link)
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just eating food won't help that much because you will probably gain a lot of unwanted and unattractive pounds from FAT. you should probably do some muscle gaining excercises along with eating healthy foods ( remember that mucsle weighs more than fat) so you will gain the extra pounds but still be healthy.
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I have pale skin, usually. It isn't scary pale, its more like ivory, but when I'm in fluerescent (spelling?) lighting, I look really...sickly? It just doesn't look good. I look like a vampire, and I obviously don't like it. Plus, the entire school has fluerescent lighting, and I definitely don't want to look bad at school. My question is, is there anything I can do (makeup trick, etc) that won't make me look washed out? Thanks =] (link)
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hey there, i'm the exact same way! what i do is put on a very strong sunscreen (nothing is more unattractive than a burned face) and sit outside for about an hour everyday. it's relaxing and gives me a healthy glow!
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I really like this guy! he asked me out today adn i said yes! Things are going great! ((im 13/f by the way)) I'm sorat shy but i want to hold his hand nd stuf but i feel like mayb he is shy to. I dont want to have to make the first move so what do i do? i want to hld his hand but i dont think i should have to make the first move.... HELP!? (link)
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fortunately/unfortunatly guys are extremely shy, just like girls, and sometimes girls have to make the first move otherwise you'll never get anywhere. so, try some simple flirting and see what happens, but if that doesn't work, GO FOR THE GOLD and make a move! after all it could pay off in the long run!
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My hair is very damaged. I wash, dry, and straighten (with a CHI iron) my hair daily. I've dyed it numerous times professionally, but she didn't dye it right.
When she redyed it to touch it up, she didn't just put color on the roots then on the rest of the hair 15-20 minutes later. She put it all on at once.
I haven't dyed my hair since July and you can see where the damaged hair stops and the healthy hair starts. I know the only way to completely repair damaged hair is to cut it off but I'm looking for a product that will temporarily "fix" my hair and give it a healthy appearance.
Thanks=)
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i'm not quite sure if this will "fix" your already severely damaged hair, but it will keep your healthy hair heathy and might help out the damaged ends.
grab a thick hydrating conditioner (any kind will do in a pinch) and put several large globs in your hair, comb it through thoroghly and let it sit for...however many minutes you like(at least 15 minutes) then shampoo and condition (in the shower) as normal. you cando this about once a week. even if it doesn't help, it's soooooper relaxing lol
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14/f okay there is this i have liked for SOOOOO long and no matter what he has done i have always like him and he know i like him and i have made moves twoards him but they never have worked because he just doesn't like me....and i understand that but i just don't know how to get overh im because i miserable and i hate knowing i can't have him....how do i get over him (link)
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try to find a new guy or even a "project" ;) to get your mind off of your crush. who knows maybe once he sees that you are unattainable he might change his mind (don't get your hopes up though, there's only a small chance that he will)
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im fat. all i ever think about is food and eating. i cant stay out of the pantry and fridge, and i eat when im bored. i dont want to be this way. i already work out and it helps some. now i just need to control my eating. how can i not be so distracted by food? i talked to my mom and i asked her to stop buying junk but i have 6th other family members..and this is not an option. help me please. (link)
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this sounds like a self control issue and i know how hard it is to control yourself when eating (i often go overboard too) some tips that realy work are...
1)make a goal for yourself (like a bikini that you want to wear. hang it in your room or bathroom)
2)wear a hair elastic on your wrist and everytime that you think about food when you AREN'T hungry, snap yourself
3)carry some silly putty or playdough or even a kneaded eraser(anything that will keep your hands busy) and play with it when you think about food when you're not hungry
4)have a REALLY good breakfast because when you skip/skimp on a meal, you start to crave fatty, high calorie food products in large servings.
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i'm 5"3 and 118 pounds.
is this too heavy? honesty, please.
also, im a bit lazy. but i want to start excersising and toning my arms, stomach, and thighs. does anyone know of any specific workouts or specific excersise plans that i can try at home
thanks! (link)
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absolutley not! 118 lbs at 5'3" is perfectly healthy! however, if you want to get into shape the basics always help
arms:pushups (i know i know i HATE them, but they really work)
stomach/abs: crunches (keep in mind that they don't burn many calories they just tone the muscle) and leg lifts (sit straight against a wall with your legs in a wide V shape, lift one leg up, keeping it straight for 8 seconds and repeat with the other leg and then put your legs together and lift both simultaneously)
thighs: run up and down some stairs!!! it's easy and effective (and great for endurance too)
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So me and this guy have been going out for 3 months now, and we're 16. So when we're talking online, he tells me all these sweet things like how pretty i am, and how much he misses me, and stuff like that. But when we're in person, he doesnt talk about that kind of stuff. Ive asked him about it (on AIM), and he says hes just so shy. I dont know what to do to make him less shy, so he can talk about that type of thing in person. Any advice? Thanks. (link)
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most guys are like that, they think that by showing their sensitive side in public that their frinds/the general public will think that they are not "macho" enough. possibly if you take him out to a place (without his guy friends) where he feels comfortable, he might start to see that there is sothing wrong with saying things like...you're so pretty, etc. etc. etc. in place with actual people.
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I have been with my boyfriend, Derek for about, 8 months now. In the beginning, I was truly happy with him. We would spend time together every single weekend. Then, I started missing hanging out with my friends. So, I started hanging out with my friends with Derek there too. It was good until I started getting annoyed at the fact that Derek was so clingy and how we hung out every single weekend. I love him very much but he seems to not give me space. I've talked to him about it but it doesn't seem to get through his head. I want to break up with him but yet, I don't. I have these weird feelings right now and I don't know what to do. Half of me says I want to be single and the other half KNOWS I cannot live without him. HELP! :( (link)
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Many couples go through the same thing, they get to a certain point where the novelty of being together just sort of wears off a bit. maybe you should try to schedule some times where it is ONLY you and your friends (absence makes the heart grow fonder), and then something really fun and interesting between you and Derek (to spice it up ;) you could ask him questions about himself that you've never known the answer to. he might be acting that way because he feels threatened by your freinds, this will reasure him that he IS the most important man in your life.
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i was having a problem earlier about dealing with my then current school; basically it was just about going to all of my classes. on thursday, i found out, because of my lack of attending that school, i can't go their anymore. Which is perfectly fair. It's not another public school, it's 'thereputic', to say the least. But i don't think that's the point.
a few years ago when i was in sixth grade, a boy moved away that i really, really liked; all the way across the country. And i've only recently put that behind me. Now, two years later, i find myself in a similar situation. There's a boy i've liked for a few months now, and i don't think i'll see him so much anymore.
And i don't know much to do. I can't go up to him, and flat out tell him that i think he's sweet. I'm not really that in-your-face. And don't think i'm a basket case who everyone hates at that school, either.
That wasn't it, i've got to talking to this boy (he's one of my best friends twin brother) and he's told me i looked good, and on thursday when i went to school, from across the room in class, he's licked his finger and put it on his shoulder as if to indicate 'hot'. He's pretty in-your-face. He'll pick me up from behind when he see's me, and when he comes to the door a lot when his mom is picking up his sister, he talks with me.
i've got to liking him, a lot. but i don't know how to end this. I'm pretty confident that i need closure. I will ending up seeing him some because of his sister, but i won't be in school anymore, so i don't know what to say.
any advice or whatnot is welcome. (link)
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if he seems that into you i think that you should take a chance and tell him . a non-in your face way of doing so is sending him a cute note with a poem or maybe (if you're feeling lucky)an i'll miss you *gives huge sad puppy dog eyes* and a peck on the cheek (this is really effective if you just leave right after the peck). if it doesn't work out with him keep in mind that there are plenty of other fish in the sea, and you're bound to find that special someone someday :) OH AND remember, CHOCOLATE DOES WONDERS FOR A BROKEN HEART (jsut don't get addicted ;)
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haha, sorry for the dramatical title.
i have hair on my back and arms, now i know everyone has hair, but im italian and my hair is dark. how can i get rid of the hair on my back, i get bugged about it at school and i hate wearing close that bear my back or even a bathing suit. how old do you have to be to get laser hair removal, would this be effective? (link)
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first off, having hair on your back is NORMAL and nothing to be ashamed of, but so is getting rid of it. laser hair removal is EXPENSIVE, takes multiple treatments and it only targets some hairs. waxing is a more cost-effective alternative solution to your problem. you could easily call up your best friend, sister, or even your mom to help you out with it.
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Hi. I bought an "invisasheild" which was a total waste of money. I was looking at what little bit you can look at and thought..."hmm, I bet laminating paper would work better"
So, I'm wondering, if I go to Wal-Mart and buy the laminating paper. You know, the kind that just sticks on without heat or anything. Would I be able to take it off, and do you think it would damage my iPod?
Cause the "invisasheild" is just pretty much that.
Thanks. (link)
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it depends on if you are ever going to take it off. i wouldn't suggest it because tape and laminating paper have adhisives that aren't meant to come off and they might leave a sticky film if you try. if you still want to protect your ipod you should try the socks or a different type of shield.
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Well to start off I absolutely love milk! White or chocolate, I still love it. I drink it every day, getting my recommended, 3 glasses a day (and at a lot of times even more). I've been drinking it since I was 2, since before that I was lactose-intolerant before, but now I have no problem with it..
Until a few days ago I drank milk one morning. Not thinking much of it, I started getting really bad stomachaches just a couple of hours later. They were so awfully bad I couldn't pay attention in class, I felt like I was trembling inside. Laying down in the Health Room did not help. I tried drinking water, but it just made it worse. Later on, just before lunchtime I got sick in the bathroom. A half hour later it went away.
Again, the next day (wasn't realizing the milk was causing the problem), I drank a small glass of milk, because I had to do some driving lessons, and when I get nervous I usually drink something before I leave and it helps. Later on, my stomach aches were coming back. They hurt really bad but not as bad as the day before. Then I was assuming it was the milk so I stopped drinking it for a couple days.
And just this morning I tried a little milk again, and I felt no pain at all. I was completely OK. I had no idea what happened there! Could someone help me out?
And to help this never happened before. I was assuming it was either the milk, or if I am becoming lactose-intolerant but my parents doubted what I thought was happening. And when I drank milk after a couple of days it wasn't the same milk (it was meyer brand) I had from the other day with the pains. Also, I have been drinking that same kind of brand of milk (udf 1% fat) for years (the one that gave me pains).
Any thoughts what it could be?
Sorry that this is long! Thank you so much for reading this. I appreciate your time. Thanks! (link)
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okay, first of all, the pains could mean something entirely different is going on. you could have had a stomach bug (their going around) or maybe it was just coincidence. however, you might be somewhat lactose intolerant. the sympoms include
Diarrhea, which is the most common symptom
Nausea
Abdominal cramps
Bloating
Gas
and they usually begin 30 minutes to 2 hours after having foods including lactose.
so, first you should go a research it alittle
(i went to http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/lactose-intolerance/DS00530/DSECTION=2 and it had a ton of facts) and then if it persists i would go to the doctor and ask them about it:)
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