hey...i was wondering what can i do to get this guy i like to notice me and to let him know i like him?I'm 15 years old and female if that helps any. i know him (the guy i like) because i'm really good friends with his twin sister and i ride his bus alot with my best friend. we have alot of mutual friends but i havent talked to him personally i've gotten to kno him by being around him alot with some friends but i've never actually talked to him and up until recently i didnt realize i was attracted to him so now i'm wondering what i should do whether to just not tell him or go for it...usually i would know the answer myself but i've been screwed over to many times by going with my gut feeling Thanx to any one that helps!!!
ok i know this really is not a good answer or explanation but go for it, make him notice when your not doing friendship type things like long hugs, kisses mabey and staring at each other for a long time he'll get the picture lol laters
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Okay so I'm a 14 year old girl. I have 4 best friends...ish. It's really more like 3. One of my friends, is a complete snob! She thinks shes better than everybody else, and shes completely obsessed with shopping. I mean, I'm not against shopping, but whenever we go with her she flaunts about saying how she can buy anything she wants because her parents give her all the money she wants. I'm TIRED OF HER! Yet, no body else likes her, so if we abandon her, she'll be alone. at times theres nothing I would want more, but I don't want her a complete loner.
signed, confused
she must be white cause she is so rich lol but just tell her alone that not everyone can afford the things that she can and it hurts some people when she says that, just tell her to lighten down a little bit on the flaunting laters
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I've liked this guy for like, seriously, a REALLY long time, I mean we've been friends for longer than I can remember. A couple years ago my cousin was visiting from another state and I was takin her to hang out w. me and a few of my friends (including the guy i like). Now let me get this straight, I told her how much I liked him and how much he meant to me. Well, they meet each other and they decide that hey they like each other, so they start to go out (yea long distance n everything) and i'm like seriously, devastated, you don't understand how much i care for this guy. They broke up after awhile but i have never really been the same w. my cousin since. about a year after that happened, my guy started liking me, and he told me and so we dated for a few weeks and did some stuff n my cousin got soo pissed at me, and i think that i have a right to do what i please, considering she did like, almost hte exact same to me! even though i wasn't doing it to piss her off, i did it cause i really really like this boy. Well, me and my boy still talk alot, and he says that in a few years (i'm 14, he's 15) he thinks that we should get together again, but he doesnt want to right now, and i understand that. My cousins coming into town this weekend. I have plans to see a movie w. my guy and a bunch of my other firends and my mom told me i have to take my cousin, n i'm soo afraid that she and him will start likin each other again. what do i do.!??!
kill your cousin, lol just kidding i would say dont give that backstabing cousin of yours a chance to be with the guy, be with him the whole time, but dont be there to long and to obiuos that you become annoying lol just play it cool good luck.
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ok i just moved to this new skool in another country. it has about 250 total kids. and i've heard that like all the girls at my new skool like me. and i dont know if i like any of them, and i'm only goin to be here until the end of the skool year. and i dont know wat to do about this... should i like just ignore them or sumthin?
get to know them and youll know wchich one is best for you and pick that one then if you guys are still in love at the end of the skool yeer than she wont mind because true love can go anywhere laters
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Ok, well, I really like this one kid, but the major problem is he likes one of my best friends. I needa find a way for him not to pay attention on her and pay attention on me. I need to know what turns on a guy. Like what do you want in a girl, honestly. Thanks for your help
ok,lets see i tell most people with problems like this to give signs, sign like long hugs and stare at him long times and just tell him personal stuff that you dont tell other people as if you were married lol just be funny, and act "sexy" lol around him that should get any guy good luck laters
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Me nad this girl emily are kidna frends, we recentl ogt into a fight. She is having a sleepover for girl scouts on SAt and i odnt on if i should go. Will it be unfortibale, HELP
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Alex
i say go, dont let her think she won, and besides if you go, she wont be able to say stuff about you and try to steal your freinds becuase your there, just show that you could care less about her, act like shes another girl at the party have a great time at the sleep over and have a smile and laugh everytime your around her so she can see that your better than her and your not letting it bother you, your better than that, good luck
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me and my boyfriend..lets call him MOO.. well me and MOO started goin out 2 days ago... and before him i went out wit this kid lets call him COCOA, everyone still thinks me and COCOA are going out but we arnt! And well MOO found out that everyone still thinks that and they think its true, which it isnt! He believes everyone wen they say it to him, but he doesnt believe me wen i tell him that we arnt!! WHICH ME AND COCOA ARNT!! And when i tried callin him like 4 times he never answered his phone, not even to say... i cant talk sry.
you should just flat out tell him that ur not going out with him and if he doesnt beleive you, hes not worth it srry so meen but i know better to treat girls and believe and trust them but o well good luck srry it wasnt much help.
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Hey I realized my friend sorta WANTS to have sex and she is only 13, shes not going to have it, its just she wants to. I was on her computer and saw alot of porn websites, is this normal for a 13 year old??
I rate high!
well im not saying its not normal because were going through puberty and stuff but its not perfect though i wouldnt let her do that because it can become a habbit.
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this friend of mine, Lizzy*, is in a serious relationship with my other friend, Seth*. Lizzy adores Seth, but I know that he has stopped liking her...even though I am not supposed to know, and Lizzy does not know. The problem is, I adore Seth, and he might like me, but I don't know what to do. If I ask Seth if he likes me at all and he says no it would be really akward, but I can't imagine being happy as just his friend much longer...help?!
ok, if *seth says no he doesnt like you then just say ok and play it off just pretend like it was a question, not a special question. talk to him normally as you would any day because if you sound awkward, he will feel awkward and you will drift apart, if they break up, then dont seem to change like emotionally, sooner or later if he does like you and he was just lying because us guys are shy, then hell tell his freinds and it will get back to you, but if you cant wait that long just give him signs or look for signs like him staring at you for a long time and he wants to talk to you alot and just dont make a big deal about it if he doesnt like you, everything happens for a reason for every 2 guys who dont like you, 1 guy does and he is the one just try and find him dont be narrow minded. good luck
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Hi, im starting to like this kid in my class. Theo only problem is i know this other "almost popular" girl who likes him and is having her friends try to get him to go out with her. Whenever they try to ask him he leaves. Hes not really the popular type in all but im starting to like him. The other girl is really nice and funny, but i dont want to let a lot of people know incase she gets mad. Its just that sometimes he talks to me and like asks me the same questions and it feels like he likes me. But even if he asked me out i couldnt go out with him cuz i know about the other girls plan. Should i continue liking him, or just forget it?
* Screwed up lover *
ok i was going good with your question untill you said should i move on wrong choice that should't even be a choice. your funny, but i am a guy and i say just follow what your heart says if you like him take the initiative if he likes you and you give up, so will he and you will lose the fight without even raising a fist, if she gets mad at you who cares, shes not your friend if she gets mad, and then you have a guy with you that you like and he likes you he will stick up for you, its just sad becuase i dont want people walking all over you just do it ask him out people walk all over me and i regret it good luck bye.
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well i am a male and i am 15 i have a problem with my love life.... I am a tennis player and this 1 girl i was playing with i sorta like. I never talked too her... she seems nice... and she is pretty.. im sort of a shy guy though when it comes to me talking to a girl. I dont know y though. I am afraid of rejection. that is a maid reason i am afraid to talk to her. How do I get over my fear and work up the courage to talk to her?
ok rejection is horrible, but what is worse getting rejected and making a good friend or never make a move and never get the chance, i know how you feel i am a guy and its the worst to get rejected but just dont start up with "i want to go out with you" just get to know her and most of all DONT GET NERVOUS if u get nervous you will trip and sound retarted one way is to think about the joke your going to say before you say it because if she doesnt think its funny you will revert to our manly instinct and begin to try to explain it in a wierd way that doesnt make sense and that will quickly make you "annoying" sorry if that wasnt to helpful. good luck
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I know having bulimia,anorixia or anything like that isnt pleasing to God...but is it considered a sin?
i would'nt exactly say it is a sin, but it is a horrible thing to do because you should be pleased with what you have god made that body for you because its what he believes is good for you its all a part of his plan for you so just dont do that anymore lol and good luck
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i have this friend and we are really good friends. I am a 15 year old guy and she is a 14 year old girl. She wants me but i feel if we go out and something happens between us that we might not be friends afterwards. I dont want that to happen. How can i tell her this without hurting her feelings?
lol good question, girls tell me this all the time, if u like her then go out with her, and if she reely likes you than if you break up then she wouldnt hate you because she likes you so much, if you dont like her then just dont tell her that you might not be friends afterwards because guys and girls are sick of hearing that they kno wut it truly meens even if it doesnt, they think it meens you dont like them in a sensitive way, just tell her the truth, freindship is more of a good thing than a relationship at that moment with her. good luck
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hey so i had a boyfriend for like almost a year and we never really talked or anything so thats why we never broke up with each other and we were friends before but we haven't talked since this summer. all of my friends that were jealous of us (even though there was nothing to be jealous of) don't like him now but i kind of still want to talk to him. since we haven't talked in so long what would be the best way to approach talking to him without it being wierd?
hey just tell him that you guys are not seeing enough of each other and you dont want to hurt him by not having the relationship he wants because guys are complex as am i lol but we are all sensitive inside no matter how much we act opposite and we like to be with girls alot as in a hugging making out type thing lol srry to say but just tell him a friendship would work so much better untill you get to connect in a better way good luck
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ok well there was this guy, he was like a nerdy inda guy. i dont like him, at all. and at a party there were these guys having a kissing contest and were trying to see how many kisses they could get foom girls. and the nerdy guy wanted to too and he asked me for a kiss. i asked him to wait a second and i left and never came back, he look so sad. i feel bad cuz i never thought id break someones heart. i dee him at school sometimes. i feel really really bad. what should i say if he asks me about it? thanks, appriciate it
ok, i am a guy and i am going to tell you what i would want to hear. i would want a girl to tell me that she didnt mean to leeve so suddenly and that the kiss question just came as a shock and that it was nothing personal mabey tell him you sort of like someone else. basiclly dont come on to hard about it just sort of ease your way through it make it seem like its just a freindly joke laugh sometimes when your telling him so he doesnt think your mad and even through in a lie if u have 2 because a guy would rather hear a lie, than to be crushed and die. good luck
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ok well i like this guy. i dont know if he has a girl friend. he always says hi to me and gives me hugs. and were both like involved with singing adn stuff at school so we like sing songs together and stuff. and he kissed me on the cheek once when he was leaving somewhere. and he asked for my cell phone number. and once he tried to hook up with me. stupidly i didnt know and didnt even open my mouth! ha ha. anyway i wanna know if he likes me. and if he does then what should i do? should i ask him out, or wait for him to ask me out, or ask a friend to ask him to go out with me? i am really confused and i really like him. please help!
ok, lets see i am a guy as well and i'm going to tell you unfortunately, SOMTIMES guys flirt a little with other girls while in a relationship because they like the feeling of having two girls, but this sounds better, like other times they do it to release their emotions without reely letting them out to the public because guys are reely shy and its embarrasing when everyone is talking about who they like and giving them a hard time about it. i personally think he likes you and lets see if he gets out of his relationship soon wait about a week for him to ask you out, but if he doesnt and gives you signs like staring at you for a long time or not wanting to hang up on the phone and stuff not normal for a freind relationship, then i wud say ask him out. but this is only my opinion, not all guys are the same, good luck take care
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Ok I have problems trusting people..especially guyys! everytime I put my trust out there fully someone always smashes it... twice I had been cheated on, I have been lied to and ditched and I can't take it... but yea I want to know how do I trust guys more? I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years....at the very beginning of our relationship he cheated on me but we moved on... I can't seem to fully trust him, I tell him I do and I believe I should but I can't help question him after he has gone out... he is really annoyed of it ! and me to, I dont mean to question but my head is filled with them... how do I learn how to trust him ?? (PS pleasse dont go saying how i should break up with him because hecheated, or because i dont trust him, IDO trust him...i just cant show it)
ok, just to start out with, i have been cheated on too, i am a guy and i just want to say that i know how you feel, but you dont need to be with someone that makes you feel like you need to question him often(not telling you to break up) but if it was me, i would just sit him down and tell him how you feel, mabey its just me but i appreciate girls but if a girl sat me down and told me that she loved me and that she gets hurt when shes been cheated on because it makes her feel less meeningful, because thats how i feel wen i get cheeted on, i would listen, but i dont know about your boyfriend i kno my advice did sound kind of confusing, but i reely hope it helps, you sound like a nice sweet girl and i hope you dont get hurt again
good luck
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I have dark brown hair, it kind of looks black. People say I can't dye it blonde, but I kind of want to since people believe they can stop me. My skin has a natural tan, if that matters. My friend said I could dye my eyebrows to match. What do you think?
Hey, um lets see i am going through the same thing so what i say is just go with what you think is right, if you want to dye ur hair and eyebrows, then do it, and remember dont live your life pleasing people, BUT, be sure that its what you want, and you wont loose anyone close to you over a fight about this, this is only my opinion, laters.
good luck
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