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My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza

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alright well you see i have a boyfriend and we just started going out like a week ago and i really like him and all and i kno him really ggood cuz we have been friends for a while. and it seems like everytime we r next to each other and get eye contact he like come towards me to kiss me but then backs off. im 13 and i already hooked up with boys other times and had no problem but i dont kno if i should go in and kiss him when he does this. please help

When he trys getting closer to you move closer to him. And when he backs off I think you should make the move! I think he might be a little shy and he probablly thinkgs that you wouldnt want to kiss him back. If you want to kiss him and if you're comftrable enough then defenetlly go for it. Its not a big deal tho! [[ &hearts ♥ ]]

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does anyone know where i can get HTMl codes? i need some like makin the writing bold, italic, make the writing move up and down, stuff like that!!

Here go to this website!! http://www.buddy4u.com/view/?u=HtmL+fOr+YoU [[ ♥ ♥ ]]

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i need some theme ideas for my sweet sixteen...does anyone have any? i'll take anything! Thanks~!

If I were you I would throw a big party. You could try to find a place where you like. I wold make it at a hotel. I mean hotel parties are defenetlly fun!! There are swimming pools and just rent a big room with a dance floor and stuff! If you dont want to have it at a hotel you could have a BBQ. If you have a big yard that would be awesome! Before the party you could have some of yuor friends go out to dinner, get your nails done and stuff like that!! Happy early birthday and have fun !!! [[ ♥ ♥ ]]

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whats a really nice smelling prefume that i can get that smells really nice..isnt expendsive and i can find easliy ..

i rate high =]

Love Spell,Paris Hilton,Curis,Dream,Ralph Lauren,Hollister,August! [[ ♥ ♥ ]]

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for shaving below whats a good suggestion of shaving cream to avoid burns and red bumps?

Defenetlly Skintimate! I see that the 2 previous answers also said it but they're right. It works best! =D [[ ♥ ♥ ]]

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Heyy. okey i like this guy a lot.. and we always get close.. but then he has a girl that he always go's back to. then when he goes out with her he says he can't talk to me any more. then when they break up he starts callin me and comes over a lot. but i love him like more then anything and everyone tells me he just uses me when he gets bored with his girlfriend.. but now my best friend made me promise that i wont talk to him ever again.. because thats his cuzin.. but now he comes over all the time and calls me.. and i dont know what to do because i love him and his cuzin both and im scared that his cusin is gonna find out that i talk to him and hang out with him.. because hes my best friend.. and i don't know what to do.. they always make me choose. but now eaither way im gonna loose one of them.. what do i do??

Your friend isnt trying to be mean you have to understand that. Hes just looking out for you so you dont end up getting hurt by that guy. To me your friend is right. One thing he isnt is that he said you cant talk to that guy. I understand why but still. He cant get mad at you for talking to him. If you end up getting hurt again then you will see that your best friend was right. I mean thats just messed up if he doesnt hang out with your or talk to you when he is with that girl and when he isnt he comes over and stuff. That is defenetlly his issue. Have you ever thought about it? Maybe that girl didnt want him talking to you. You never know and if she did that then shes just ignorant and he should not listen to her!! Im not sure if he is using you or not but pretty much it seems like it. You have to talk to him and tell him you dont want it being that way anymore. Even tho you say you love him you dont want anyone to treat you like that at all!! If you end up loosing one of them I would rather want to loose that guy then your best friend!! He seems awesome and he is soo trying to protect you and you should be thankful for that!! Talk to them both. If you dont want to listen to me or your friend .. thats fine but if you do end up getting hurt and if that guy ditches and ignores you for his g/f then dont say we didnt try to help lol! Good luck! [[ ♥ ♥ ]]

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I'm not a very good kisser at all. On my last date, I could tell my boyfriend didn't want to say anything. I think it's because I'm not experienced enough to really know what I'm doing. Are there any tips (not just URLs that tell you the importance of good breath etc.) that anyone would like to share? Thanks so much!

xO* jAMiE

You will get better soon dont worry. Its not that hard! Just follow his lead,dont go too fast,tilt your head, and use just a little bit of tongue. If he starts going faster then you just follow his lead again. But I think that if you and him kept practicing then you will catch on faster and he would enjoy it!! [[ ♥ ♥ ]]

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hey ok well im going out with some one and i rele liek him alot but then yeterday i just noticed i like some1 else ther than him but idk what to do cus the guy im going out with i like him alot and i dont wnat to break his heart but the other guys is rele hot and nice but we fight but what do i do

Does the other guy like you?? Personally I would stay with your boyfriend still. I mean you like him a lot so dont take the risk of loosing him. Now the other guy.. since you fight alot and if you end up going out your fights might ruin your relationship. You can always stay friends with him but just stay with your boyfriend. Its the right thing to do. [[ ♥ ♥ ]]

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do most guys prefer shaved or trimed? if so how should i shave .. whats the most shave and clean way

Most guys do like it shaved. Make sure you use shaving cream and shave down because if you shave upwards its more likely to get bumps. So after you're done shaving put some lotion on so it will be more smoother. [[ ♥ ♥ ]]

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Hey, ok. i have a babysitting gig tomorrow night. And its 2 years old...what the heck do you do with a 2 year old?!?!?! i've only babysat kids over 5! HELP!!!!!

Since the kid is just 2 years old just give it toys to play with. The baby wont be running around the house just keep it busy and you both could watch TV or something. You have to talk to them because they like a lot of attention. But you'll be fine. [[ ♥ ]]

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this sounds dumb but.. how exactly.. do u give a guy a blow job?

Its just when you suck a guys dick. Nothing else! ♥//

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what is Mastervating or Masterbating?

Its masterbating. And its just basiclly pleasuring yourself. Like fingering yourself and stuff like that. [[ ♥ ]]

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whats up

L0L NOT MUCH KALEB! H0W ABOUT Y0U!? [[♥]]

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can someone get AIDS from mosquitos?

No, not at all.

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i have to pick between two things i reslly love a dog or a laptop what should i choose?

IF YOU ALREADY HAVE A COMPUTER THEN I WOULD GET A DOG. I MEAN DOGS LIVE FOR A REALLY LONG TIME AND THEY DONT GET BORING OR ANY VIRUSES AND THEY ARE SUPER ADORABLE AND FUN!! ♥ //

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what is cyber sex and is it fun and is it bad to do cuz someone told me that i should try it and someone els told me not so should i or not

CYBER SEX IS LIKE SEX ON THE PHONE OR ONLINE. ITS JUST TALKING WITHOUT ACUALLY DOING IT. ITS N0T BAD AND YOU SHOULD TRY IT IF U WANT. EVEN THO ITS KIND OF CREEPY AND WEIRD. [[ ♥ ]]

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ok.... i have this friend. her name is angela. we both have a crush on the same guy. his name is matt. and well... she also likes this other guy.... say his name is ken..(it is not him) well i like him 2.. she does not kno dat. i also like someone else secretly.. well i think i do.. wen im with him i like him.. but wen im not with him i hate him.. i dunno.. so we are all friends. so it is strange..bcuz.. if i go out with my secret crush... he is friends with ken so he would kno so then ken wouldn't think im available so he won't ask me out. but with me angela and ken and the secret guy.. okay say his name is kent......it is not though.. me angela ken and kent are friends but we torture each other.. and it is fun.. rite now we have a job together... tonite actually i love it... we do this camp thing so we are all alone together and it is so much fun. but i don't kno what i need advice on in this situation but i need advice.. like i don't know what i should do with my crushes/ friends.. considering i like them all... kuz if kent asks me out before ken then i will say yes.. but i want ken... but if ken asks me out i say yes.. but i want kent.. i am so confused... also... our parents arn't that friendly so it would be very strange. omg.. i am so confused.... wat should i do??? help.... sry this is long

THATS A PRETTY TOUGH SITIATUON. IT SEEMS LIKE YOU LIKE KEN MORE THEN KENT. SINCE YOU SAID YOU REALLY LIKE KENT WHEN YOU ARE WITH HIM BUT HATE HIM WHEN YOU ARE NOT THEN THAT JUST SAYS.. I'D RATHER BE WITH KEN. I MEAN YOU CANT ALWAYS BE WITH SOME1 24/7 BUT YOU DONT WANT A BOYFRIEND THAT YOU HATE WHEN YOU ARE'NT WITH THEM. YOU SHOULD TELL ANGELA THAT YOU HAVE FEELING FOR HIM. SHE IS YOUR FRIEND AND SHE DESERVES T0 KNOW. PLUS YOU SAID YOU THINK YOU LIKE YOUR SECRET CRUSH. IT DOESNT SEEM LIKE YOU HAVE THAT MUCH INTEREST IN HIM THO. DO YOU KNOW IF KEN LIKES YOU? BUT THEN AGAIN YOUR FRIEND LIKES HIM ALSO. DOES SHE LIKE HIM A L0T??? IF SHE DOES THEN I WOULD STAY AWAY FROM HIM FOR A WHILE? IF SHE DOESNT LIKE KENT THEN GO OUT WITH HIM? I REALLY DONT KNOW WHAT TO TELL YOU SINCE YOU WANT ALL 0F THEM!! AND THAT JUST CANT BE RIGHT. MAYBE YOU DONT HAVE TO BE WITH ANYONE RIGHT NOW. JUST STAY FRIENDS WITH THEM AND THEN LATER ON YOU WILL RELIZE WHO YOU LIKE MORE. YOU DONT HAVE TO FORCE YOURSELF TO CHOOSE RIGHT NOW. JUST TAKE SOME TIME!! [[ ♥ ]]

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is it true that if you sleep without ur bra on that you breast will grow bigger faster???

NO ITS NOT. YOU JUST FEEL MORE COMFTRABLE. BUT THE OTHER PERSON IS LIENG. L0L [[ ♥ ]]

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Hey, does anyone know why the ♥ thing doesn't work anymore? I know it doesn't work in questions, but now it isn't working in answers either. What's going on? Thanks...

IT DOES W0RK IN ADVICE COLUMNS AND ANSWERS SO ITS FINE AND YOU CAN STILL USE IT. [[ ♥ ]]

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ok i had this boyfriend for 6 months and i thought everything was going good. But after we did some stuff and my mom found out about it he broke up with me cuz he was scared. but he was my first love and i had never felt this way about a guy before. But now i think he likes another girl and i still love him. he told me we would probley go out agian but i am scared that he will hert me agian. what should i do with all of these emotions. everyone tells me i am to good for him but i always want him back. I really love him and hope he likes me agian. but what should i do???

please help! thnks

♥` I THINK THATS ITS TIME T0 M0VE ON. I MEAN EVEN THO YOU STILL L0VE HIM I THINK HE MIGHT OF MOVED ON SO I THINK YOU SHOULD TO. BUT I THINK THAT YOU SHOULD TALK TO HIM AND SEE WHATS UP. ASK HIM ABOUT THAT OTHER GIRL AND IF HE HAS MOVED ON AND IF HE WOULD EVER WANT TO GET TOGETHER AND JUST TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HIM AND YOU NEVER KNOW IF HE STILL FEELS THE SAME WAY. YOU NEED TO TELL HIM AND TALK TO HIM BEFORE ITS TOO LATE AND BEFORE HE HAS ANOTHER GIRLFRIEND. IF HE DOESNT END UP LIKING YOU ANYMORE IM SORRY AND YOU GUYS COULD ALWAYS STILL STAY FRIENDS. THEN YOU WILL KNOW ITS TIME T0 MOVE ON. JUST MEET NEW GUYS AND DATE OTHER PEOPLE. KEEP YOURSELF BUSY SO YOU DONT THINK ABOUT HIM AS MUCH AND YOU'LL BE FINE! ♥//

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