ok.... i have this friend. her name is angela. we both have a crush on the same guy. his name is matt. and well... she also likes this other guy.... say his name is ken..(it is not him) well i like him 2.. she does not kno dat. i also like someone else secretly.. well i think i do.. wen im with him i like him.. but wen im not with him i hate him.. i dunno.. so we are all friends. so it is strange..bcuz.. if i go out with my secret crush... he is friends with ken so he would kno so then ken wouldn't think im available so he won't ask me out. but with me angela and ken and the secret guy.. okay say his name is kent......it is not though.. me angela ken and kent are friends but we torture each other.. and it is fun.. rite now we have a job together... tonite actually i love it... we do this camp thing so we are all alone together and it is so much fun. but i don't kno what i need advice on in this situation but i need advice.. like i don't know what i should do with my crushes/ friends.. considering i like them all... kuz if kent asks me out before ken then i will say yes.. but i want ken... but if ken asks me out i say yes.. but i want kent.. i am so confused... also... our parents arn't that friendly so it would be very strange. omg.. i am so confused.... wat should i do??? help.... sry this is long
Teza answered Monday July 11 2005, 4:32 pm: THATS A PRETTY TOUGH SITIATUON. IT SEEMS LIKE YOU LIKE KEN MORE THEN KENT. SINCE YOU SAID YOU REALLY LIKE KENT WHEN YOU ARE WITH HIM BUT HATE HIM WHEN YOU ARE NOT THEN THAT JUST SAYS.. I'D RATHER BE WITH KEN. I MEAN YOU CANT ALWAYS BE WITH SOME1 24/7 BUT YOU DONT WANT A BOYFRIEND THAT YOU HATE WHEN YOU ARE'NT WITH THEM. YOU SHOULD TELL ANGELA THAT YOU HAVE FEELING FOR HIM. SHE IS YOUR FRIEND AND SHE DESERVES T0 KNOW. PLUS YOU SAID YOU THINK YOU LIKE YOUR SECRET CRUSH. IT DOESNT SEEM LIKE YOU HAVE THAT MUCH INTEREST IN HIM THO. DO YOU KNOW IF KEN LIKES YOU? BUT THEN AGAIN YOUR FRIEND LIKES HIM ALSO. DOES SHE LIKE HIM A L0T??? IF SHE DOES THEN I WOULD STAY AWAY FROM HIM FOR A WHILE? IF SHE DOESNT LIKE KENT THEN GO OUT WITH HIM? I REALLY DONT KNOW WHAT TO TELL YOU SINCE YOU WANT ALL 0F THEM!! AND THAT JUST CANT BE RIGHT. MAYBE YOU DONT HAVE TO BE WITH ANYONE RIGHT NOW. JUST STAY FRIENDS WITH THEM AND THEN LATER ON YOU WILL RELIZE WHO YOU LIKE MORE. YOU DONT HAVE TO FORCE YOURSELF TO CHOOSE RIGHT NOW. JUST TAKE SOME TIME!! [[ ♥ ]] [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
ShYbl0nD3 answered Monday July 11 2005, 4:21 pm: well it seems like you like ken and kent the same way. Maybe you should try going for someone who you can actually pic :P And umm.. lol this is confusing im not sure how to anwser but im trying lol. Since your friend likes ken too it think then let her have him. Then you can go for Kent. But since you dont really know who to choose then i would look for someone else unless your sure that one of them likes you back.
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