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Heyy. okey i like this guy a lot.. and we always get close.. but then he has a girl that he always go's back to. then when he goes out with her he says he can't talk to me any more. then when they break up he starts callin me and comes over a lot. but i love him like more then anything and everyone tells me he just uses me when he gets bored with his girlfriend.. but now my best friend made me promise that i wont talk to him ever again.. because thats his cuzin.. but now he comes over all the time and calls me.. and i dont know what to do because i love him and his cuzin both and im scared that his cusin is gonna find out that i talk to him and hang out with him.. because hes my best friend.. and i don't know what to do.. they always make me choose. but now eaither way im gonna loose one of them.. what do i do??
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Your friend isnt trying to be mean you have to understand that. Hes just looking out for you so you dont end up getting hurt by that guy. To me your friend is right. One thing he isnt is that he said you cant talk to that guy. I understand why but still. He cant get mad at you for talking to him. If you end up getting hurt again then you will see that your best friend was right. I mean thats just messed up if he doesnt hang out with your or talk to you when he is with that girl and when he isnt he comes over and stuff. That is defenetlly his issue. Have you ever thought about it? Maybe that girl didnt want him talking to you. You never know and if she did that then shes just ignorant and he should not listen to her!! Im not sure if he is using you or not but pretty much it seems like it. You have to talk to him and tell him you dont want it being that way anymore. Even tho you say you love him you dont want anyone to treat you like that at all!! If you end up loosing one of them I would rather want to loose that guy then your best friend!! He seems awesome and he is soo trying to protect you and you should be thankful for that!! Talk to them both. If you dont want to listen to me or your friend .. thats fine but if you do end up getting hurt and if that guy ditches and ignores you for his g/f then dont say we didnt try to help lol! Good luck! [[ ♥ ♥ ]]
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