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My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza

advice

My best friend and I have been friends for about 8 years and we go together like pb and j. Now I'm starting to feel jealous of her because she's got a lot more friends than me and I think she's a lot prettier and skinnier and funnier and all that. I KNOW she won't abandon me no matter how many other friends she has, but I just hate being jealous.

Its okay to be jelous at times but just remember she will never leave you.. like you said. You could start meeting more people or just meet her other friends. Being jelous is a normal thing but she will always be your best friend. [[ ♥♥ ]]

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I know this may sound weird, but i'm a girl, and i like hanging out with boys more than I do girls. It just seems that theres always awkward silences and I don't know what to say with girls. With boys, I can just act like myself and whats on my mind around them. Its not that im not friends with girls, i actually do have alot. but its more fun with boys. should I try to hang out with my own sex more or is this ok?? I feel a little weird and different thats all.

Well.. sometimes I like hanging out with my guy friends more then my girl friends. But there is nothing wrong with that. I think that you should hang out with both genders. Your girl and guy friends! Dont feel weird and different because many people are like that. Its just that sometimes.. us girls love to cause drama lol and guys really dont and its just guys are more energetic at times lol! [[ ♥♥ ]]

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ok well this is the same person as the one when i wrote about my friend telling me my boyfriend doesnt like me anymore cuz he otl dher and its tru and i dont kno if i should dump him or wait for him and that might take a while cause my friend wasnt suppose ot say anything and id ont wanna get her introuble. please help and dont tell me to just talk to him cause hes nto the kinda person i can. hes a jerk and i should of never went out with him in the first place

Dump him!! If he asks why just say you dont like him the same way anymore and it wont look like your friend told you. He is a jerk! Grr.. [[ ♥♥ ]]

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how come like in the middle of a kiss guys like to bite your lip a lil?..sorry if its a weird question. but please answer.thanks

Some guys like it and they think that its sexy and it kind of is. Some girls like it and some dont it just depends. [[ ♥♥ ]]

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okay well tomorrow or thursday this guy that i like is gonna come down to my house .. i only have one thing planed and that is watch a movie.. because we won't have to talk because well i won't say he's shy but he's not good at making conversation.. so i realised it would be a good way to just like chill and cuddle :-) but what else can we do because that only takes up like 2 hours or less of the time! any answers would be gladly appreciated.. easy 5

When you are with him you will feel much more comftrable in starting conversations. Before the movie make yourself some popcorn, baking cookies and cake is a good idea lol it would be fun. You could also invite your best friend over and you all could go outsite play some basketball or just go for a walk. Also you could go swimming or just lay outside with a blanket and cuddle and talk! Have fun! [[ ♥ ♥ ]]

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I'm 15/F turning 16 in october. I'm desperate to get a babysitting job, so my cousin told me to make flyers to put around my neighborhood.

What should kind of information should I put on the flyer, like my name and phone number.

How should I decorate it and what additional information should I add?

Lastly, what SHOULDN'T I put on my flyer?

Thanks guys. ♥

I think you should put flyers up. Its a good idea and a lot more people will know about you. You need to put your name, age, make sure you put you are good with kids with any age, responsible, your number. You should also make it coloful because it brings more attention and put a couple pictures of clip art. [[ ♥♥ ]]

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Ok..well the other day my best friend came over. We were in my room listening to music. I dontreally remember what happened much but we basically ended up kissing and doing other sexual things. Were both girls. I really like guys..but what I did felt good. I've never liked girls..but after what I did with my best friend, I just dont know. Were both 14. HELP!! am i lesbian? I like guys..but hooking up with girls doesnt sound bad either..

Noo you are'nt lesbian. You are Bi and that is when you like both sex. Its not a really bad thing so dont worry about it. [[ ♥♥ ]]

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ok, i have a dell computer((it is like 6 months old)) and yesterday i had to turn it off from the button on the modem cause it was frozen up and wouldnt even restart from the ctrl.alt.delete thingie. and then today i turned on my comp and everything is all big. the icons, start bar, windows and everythign. i have tried to fix it from the control pannel but it wont work...waht do i do??

On your desktop right click and click on properties. Then click on setting and try to fix it there. If that doesnt work click on Advanced. That got rid of my huge size once! But you probablly might have a virus. [[ ♥♥ ]]

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ok i am in love with a guy that is black... i honestly dont care about what color his skin is but my parents DO! they dont want me to go out wit a black guy... they can be really messed up like that and i have tryed talking to them about and they always said NO! and i always get mad about it... me and this guy are going out but my mom only knows we are friend but i still cant stand the fact she can be so racest..i love this guy i am wit he respects me and never would make me do soemthing i dont want to do..like yesterday we were at the mall and she say a black guy wit a whtie girl and she was like "omg look stephanie look how pretty that girl is with that black.. i can believe people can do that" i got really mad i thought to myself what if she say me like that... i need some advice on what to do i am 14/f and my bf is a 15/m.. someone please help me!!

Well to tell you the truth there is nothing you can do to change your parents' mind. To this day there is still racism and we cant do anything about it. If you want you could still continue to see this guy and lie to your parents. Your mother just doesnt see anything in him like you do.. maybe if she acaully met him she would see that he isnt a bad person and that he is a sweet guy. Who knows maybe she would'nt even want that. Im sorry if I couldnt help more its just that no one can chage her mind. Sometimes her opinion might not even matter because she is wrong this time. Just do whatever your heart tells you to do and if you truely love him like you say you do, stay with him. [[ ♥ ♥ ]]

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hey i just wanted to know if there is anyway that you could let people not see what your rating is? like take it out or something... anyone who can tell me how i'll give a 5 thanks

Sorry but there isnt. You can delete the question tho and if the person didnt leave a feeback commet then it wont show up on your column. Sorry again =( [( ♥ ♥ )]

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i was wondering while kissing someone should you have your eyes open or closed? or does it matter?

Woah.. a lot of making out questions today! Well no it doesnt matter but keep your eyes closed!! Its just a little bit weird if you have your eyes open. Its just more "pasionate" lol while they're closed. [( ♥ ♥ )]

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i just made-out with my bfs friend it was amazing but i think he just used plez help enyone !!!!!:{

Uhm.. you think he used you?? You just cheated on your boyfriend! I would tell him because thats just really mean of you and even if his friend did use you there is nothing you can do.. and plus making out isnt even a big deal so dont worry about it. But do whatever you think is right! [[ ♥ ♥ ]]

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ok how come guys like never call girls?like i dont get it ..its not that hard ..but they allways say they will and never do it..dont say its becuase they dont like you b/c ik cases where guys are liek in love with girls but still dont call..please no stupid answers! 5 to anyone who answers unless its a smart or stupid answer

Some guys are just shy to call you no matter how much they love you. My ex boyfriend called me more then I called him and that was acually better. But thats a good question. I mean all guys are different and you never know their exact reason for not calling. Sometimes they're eather busy,forget,not in the mood, or just shy. [[ ♥ ♥ ]]

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there is this girl who lives near me and she thinks she is my best friend..but im not even close with her. whenever me and my other friends go out without her she puts these away messages up that are like fuck you and all this stuff. its really annoying. we can never go anywhere and relax. she is always ruining it for us. she is very self conscious and sensitive. she is always talking about having sex or whatever with this kid who doesnt even like her and lives in a different town. me and my other friend think she might be a lesbian though because she is always wearing these low camis where you can see down her shirt and its only us and she always wants to like touch us. shes really hairy and has a lot of pimples and we dont want to be a part of her life.

is there any way you can help us say anything nicely without making her cry to her mom.

signed,
realllyy annoyed

Since she is really sensitive she might cry eather way. She is probablly doing that because she wants your attention maybe because she doesnt have that many friends! Just let her down easy and the next time you and your friends go out and she wants to just tell her the truth. You dont want her going places with you guys and its really bothering you. Just tell her exacly what you told me. Even if she does go and cry to her mom it defenetlly isnt your fault and you need your space. She doesnt always have to hang out with you guys. [[ ♥ ♥ ]]

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Hey this isn't really a question but i just wanted to say i really love your column but i can't read letter to read it!

Thanks but I dont know what you mean? You cant read it because the font is too light or what? Let me know. ♥//

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what does it mean when your cherry as been popped? lol

I dont know how to explain it really but when you have sex your cherry will pop and you will bleed a bit and it just means you are't a virgin anymore. But you can pop your cherry on exident in ways. [[ ♥ ]]

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My little sister is turning 16, and I want to get her a cool present. She doesn't like clothes, or perfume, or most typically girly things. What she really likes is anime and anything cute and cuddly. She also loves video games.

I've been considering getting her either a How-to-Draw reference book or a J-pop/J-rock cd.

Any ideas for a good present?

A car would be a good present! lol j/k but if she likes video games then get her a favorite that she doesnt have. J-pop/J-rock CD is also a good idea. But I would give her money. Since she is your little sister and she is turning 16.. I would give her $150-200! Trust me she would be happy! Then she could get herself whatever she wanted! [[ ♥ ♥ ]]

edit: You could also get her an iPOD,a new cell phone!

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i really need help .. ok

now just now i was talking to my boyfriends friend and he was like h/o your boyfriend has to talk to you and i was like ok. and i waiting for about 5 mins and he just randomly signed off. and like earlier i looked in his rpofile and it said nothing.. so im so confused. what should i do.

Well you never know what he had to talk to you abuot. Talk to him when he gets back on. Or you could jsut ask his friend and he might tell you. Dont start worrying tho. I dont think it should be a biggy. Even tho when someone says "we need to talk" it means breaking up but hm.. just wait until you tlak to him. [[ ♥ ♥ ]]

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ok there is this really long story about me fighting with my friends. so im not going to talk about it. but i want to know if there is an easy way to forget what happend between me and my friends

It depends on what the fight was about. But talk to your friends and tell them that it was a stupid reason for you all to be fighting about and just apologize to them. Im sure you guys will forgive each other in no time!! [[ ♥ ♥ ]]

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how do you kno if your cherry as been popped..does it hurt..bleed..do u have to have your period?

You dont have to have your period when you pop your cherry. It doesnt really hurt but yes it will bleed and you will be able to feel it a bit. [[ ♥ ♥ ]]

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