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I'm danika :) i'm 17 and i've been an advice columnist for almost 2 years i'm not on here a lot anymore but feel free to leave me and inbox and i'll get back to you asap

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Okay well i REALLY REALLY want a cell phone but my parents arent letting me get one and im 15 and basically everyone that i know has one! So i was thinking,my older sister has an old cell phone she dosent use anymore and its in my closet its a verizon phone and its like a metallic blue color its like 2 years old anyway,I was wondering if i could use it like i wouldnt have to pay for the phone just for the service to use it to activate it again.So i was wondering if you guys think i can use it? and how much would it be? thank you so much!

you should be able to =] to activate it... i'm not sure how much it costs.. i'm not even sure if it cost anything.. it might be free.. but what your going to have to do is figure out what plan you want and stuff and that'll prob. be all you have to pay for =]

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Ok, me and my boyfriend almost had anal the other night. We're both curious about it and might even try it. Does anyone have any advice on anal. I always said I would never do it, but I also said I would never have sex before marraige. Any advice to give me on anal?

the only thing i know about it.. is that make sure he goes really slow because your anus is extremely fragile and if he does it too hard he can tear tissue in there and it will hurt you really bad =/ hope i helped! =]

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I went to the doctors in like february and the doctor said I was going to get my period really soon and to be ready.

I still haven't gotten it.

Why is this? I mean i know they can't really tell when you're exactly going to get it or anything. But i think she just said that because i had hair down there. But i've had it for a while. and I've had discharge for about a year or 2 now. I just don't know when i'm going to get it. does anyone know why i havent gotten it yet and is that like weird? 14/f

don't worry about it hun =] you'll get it when your body is machore enough and ready for it =]

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can anyone give me some pointers on what are some of the foods that are good to eat to help you have more energy for working out n stuff.

o and how much should i run a day and should i do sprint exercise, or jog, or both. i'm lookin to lose some weight and become stronger. i'm already pretty atheltic

you have to supprize your body.. do both because if you just do the same thing everyday your body gets used to that excercise and it won't help you out =] as in energy.. your going to want to eat starches at night so you'll get the energy in the morning.. that includes pastas.. breads.. stuff that that =]

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If a guy is acting like he likes you then starts avoiding you...Then makes rude remarks on how he dislikes you wearing revealing dresses...Yet you always caught him peeping over your cleavage most of the time?...He makes sure you're there in the party he's attending yet will only be obnoxious to you making snide remarks on how you look...even goes overboard by calling you a slut... He studies every nook and cranny of your dress (even saw a very tiny hole once on my armpit!That's how crude he can be sometimes!)

Bottomline: he can be a total JERK sometimes yet I can't seem to put my finger on it. He made a pass at me on a drinking spree with friends yet he became cold and distant afterwards. He was an angel before...But lately he's changed into somebody I dont know? I'm just clueless... Talked to him about it yet he denies it meant anything? He's just hard to fathom. I think I need an expert on behavior on this?

i think he is just trying to control your every move... he is probably a jealous person.. and lately he's been seeing other people looking at you and he's getting jealous so he doesn't want you to wear some cloths that you do becase he doesn't other other men staring at you but he doesn't want to tell you about it because he doesn't want you to know that he is extremely protective over you.. that's my guess after some research that i've found =]

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Okay, EVERYTIME i try to download a text-document, like any document with anything written in it like a project, or just anythings..it wont work. It'll open..but just be a bunch of weird symbols and letters. What's wrong? What do I need to download?

I'm getting really frustrated here >.< computers really arent my thing.

i had the same problem. when i would take things on a floppy into school.. it would be a whole bunch of letters and symbols like rectangles and stuff.. this is whats wrong- you don't have the same version that they had to make the document... when you have to do is find out what they used to write the document and rather download that program or open it on a different computer.. =]

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what brings out green eyes?

natural colors (brown, tans,etc.), green, and sliver =]

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Hello, i'm new to here...
well I've been an airline pilot for 2 years and me and my girlfriend are talking about marriage and stuff. Generally speaking she is pretty attractive and hot...but if we get married, I will always think that she will cheat behind my back when I'm off to work...(usually for a few days)
What should I do? I'm not good at love relationship at all, i mean I can fly a big jet, but hey, i'm not good at this kind of stuff...

sweetie.. if you don't trust her then it's not going to work out.. i spose if you really love her you should go to counciling and build up your relationship and trust 'til you feel that your ready to get married...

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my boyfriend fingers me and when he does that afterwards when he is done i go to the bathroom and when i do i always see blood onto my panties and plus im just recovering because i just had a baby but is this a good thing or bad thing that afterwards when he fingers me that i got blood in my panties?

up to 6 weeks after the child blood is normal..after that you should see a doctor =/ hope i helped =]

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It's almost my boyfriend and I's 2 month anniversary... do I get him something or just ignore it? If I should get him something what should it be?

get him something and wait to see if he gives you something.. and if he doesn't just take it back.. because he might feel like a bad boyfriend if you give it to himm and he didn't get you anything you know? as to what you should get him i think a card would be okay .. and maybe something little like a frame with a picture of you both.. or a cd made or bought would be cute.

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I have started dating this guy a few weeks ago, and we have fun when we go out, when we hang out and everything. I just cant seem to make him want to have sex with me. I am very beautifull, but I do have very small boobs. (A cup) I am going to be 21 in a month, and I really like him and want to have sex with him. We can be totally naked with eachother and making out, but he just doesnt seem to want to do it. He knows that I want to have sex with him. WHen we make out he wont touch me down there and he also sometime looses his erection. Im not sure if he just doesnt like me or what? hmm well thats about it. some good advice is needed

he's probably a virgin and feels insecure about himself and thinks you have more experiece and he doesn't think that he will be able to pleasure you in the way that other men have. so he's probably just scared.. time will tell.. talk to him about it..

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I think my two best friends are bullying me! They act like my best friend when its just one of them indivally. but when they're both together with me they call me names and then say its a joke and take the piss otta me.
plz help
Madi
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sounds like there kinda bullying you emotionally by calling you names... i say you should probably get out of that friendship because it's just goign to stress you out.. if they were true friends they wouldn't call you names to make you upset. that's not what a true friend would do

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i heard a lot of people talking about how the first sign a relationship is going to end or when its going bad is when the guy er girl says "theyre too tired" er "rather sleep" then talk/hang out with you. it seemed kind've ridiculous to me, but i was wondering what other people thought.

thanks!!

not always true. me and my boyfriend always hang up the phone at night because were tired. i mean i'm sure sometime you got tired and told someone that you wanted to go to bed right? it seems ridiculous to me too ;]

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Is it possible to change your top 8 friend on MySpace? If so, how? Thanks.

at the bottom of the top 8 box it should say edit top 8 or change top 8.. then you change it by draging the people into the red area.. and then click submit =]

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is it normal to feel like you don't belong in your family cauze thatz how i feel but is it normal

it's normal at times. but if you feel like that all the time then no it's not normal.. maybe you should go to family counciling?

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Okay, this is really really embarrassing but...I can't think of what else to do but ask it on here...because it's anonymous.
I have these little bumps around my nipples, in the areola kind of, and I was wondering if that was normal...? I'm only 16, so I don't think it would be breast cancer lumps or anything like that...

most likely it's just a little fluid filled syst that will go away eventually.. believe me i had one too and i started flipping out crying.. and my mom told me not to worry it was only a syst and now it's gone =]

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what are some good quotes to put in an AIM profile? im chaing mine and i cant think of any...like songs or anything having to do with loving someone...im 13 so something teenager-ish (lol) ♥♥

when i'm with you i feel like i could die and that would be alright

thats my ultime favorite ;] it's by 3 doors down called semi-charmed life =]

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How many calories are in a coffee roll at dunkin donuts?

found it =] yesssss ;] i thought i woudl be nice and just tell you what it is instead of making you find it on your own =] there are 270 calories and 130 calories from fat hope that works for you =]

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I want to give this guy I like the "go-ahead" to ask me out if he really likes me, but I'd rather not just flat out say, "I like you as more than a friend." I've done that before, twice, and both times it ended badly and I was embarrassed. But, on the other hand, dropping subtle hints doesn't always do the trick with guys. What would be a sure-fire way to let a guy know that you like him without being blunt?

lol this is actually really cute =] because it kinda remind me of me.. because i flat out said to my boyfriend.. "sooo when are you going to ask me out" but were really close and comfortable around eachother so i don't know if you would want to do that so here are what i could say you can do

- give him looks like just stare into his eyes and smile.. that usually gives them the hint right off because he then knows that you were looking at him and think about him etc. lol
- ask him over your house or something to study.. then you'll have him there and you can let it all out etc.

i know you said you don't want to come right out and tell him.. but you probably should or else you'll never know what could happen between you two.. you know ?

hope i helped hun.. sorry i could give you more =/

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Could someone give me a website or a store that has brown converse slip-ons in kid sizes. I have small feet:]

i looked around for you and heres what i found..

http://www.zappos.com/n/p/dp/5150212/reviewcount/15.html

and

http://www.zappos.com/n/p/p/7185750/c/18.html

i don't know if that's what you were looking for but i tried =/

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