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I'm Clueless....
If a guy is acting like he likes you then starts avoiding you...Then makes rude remarks on how he dislikes you wearing revealing dresses...Yet you always caught him peeping over your cleavage most of the time?...He makes sure you're there in the party he's attending yet will only be obnoxious to you making snide remarks on how you look...even goes overboard by calling you a slut... He studies every nook and cranny of your dress (even saw a very tiny hole once on my armpit!That's how crude he can be sometimes!)
Bottomline: he can be a total JERK sometimes yet I can't seem to put my finger on it. He made a pass at me on a drinking spree with friends yet he became cold and distant afterwards. He was an angel before...But lately he's changed into somebody I dont know? I'm just clueless... Talked to him about it yet he denies it meant anything? He's just hard to fathom. I think I need an expert on behavior on this?
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Yes, a person like this sounds hard to fathom..I agree with you there. I must say though, this sounds much like my ex-husband about the time we started dating. The worst thing I ever did was marry him, but the best thing was to divorce him!
I think you might want to run the other way and not look back!
To me it appears as if this guy has some serious mental issues and would have a tendancy to be abusive.
This is not intended to diagnose the problem, I am only giving you something to go on.
A personality disorder comes to mind, antisocial or narcisstic possibly...
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i think he is just trying to control your every move... he is probably a jealous person.. and lately he's been seeing other people looking at you and he's getting jealous so he doesn't want you to wear some cloths that you do becase he doesn't other other men staring at you but he doesn't want to tell you about it because he doesn't want you to know that he is extremely protective over you.. that's my guess after some research that i've found =]
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Maybe he is into you, maybe he isn't. My question is: Do you like him?
It sounds to me like he isn't just a jerk, he also has some issues relating to people and is clueless on appropriate social behavior. In short, the boy has baggage you can't possibly understand at this point.
If you don't find him or his behavior attractive, and I certainly wouldn't, then it doesn't really matter what he thinks/feels/wants from you. Stop speculating on his bizarre behavior, he's the clueless one not you. As long as you know your own mind, you're doing just fine.
(If you do find him attractive, you're probably going to have to take the chance and speak to him about this behavior once more, 'cause it's way to weird for anyone to figure out without asking him. But since he's already denied being interested in you, I'd just let this one go.)
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I think he likes you, but he sounds like a complete asshole!
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