Q: I've been texting this guy and he definetly wants to hookup and he wanted a picture and everything (i didn't send him one). but it's weird because he said he just got out of a 2 year relationship and didn't want anything serious at the moment. but when I told him I wanted to wait to get to know him better before/if we have sex and that I didn't want to send him a picture because I didn't know him that well and he didn't try to force it out of me or anything he just accepted it. and he said he didn't want anything too serious but he stayed up texting me until 2 in the morning. I'm really confused what do you think he wants? he also goes to school an hour from me and doesn't have a car. i like him obviously and I want a relationship but I don't want to be pushy.

Q: When a guy texts you, does that mean that he likes talking to you or he's just bored? i've always wanted to know.

Q: I have been asking my mom for snakebites for about 3 years (I'm 13) everytime I ask her when I can get tem she says "once you move out" I don't know what age I'm moving out though...I have been on the computer researching everything there is to know about them, I even know all the types there are, I even have a job planned out if I get them ill work at HotTopic..... she thinks that they are horrible,I think they are awsome, what should i do to tell her how bad I want them I mean I REALLY want them. I did my ears by myself so if I was allowed I could just use some of my earrings instead of expensive lip rings, oh, and she threatened me if I do it before I move out that she will take me to the doctors and get them sewn shut (she sounded serious so I'm scared now) so how do I tell her how bad I want them and she will never listen to me when I do try to talk to her, THANX FOR READING AND SORRY IT WAS SOO LONG!!!

Q: I want to dye my hair. I have red hair like Shaun white and I am sick of being called a ginger and standing out. my parents will never let me do it and i'm abroad right now for a semester so i think this is the best time. they are coming to visit at the end of march, early april so i want a dye that will not last that long and wont cause any permanent damage. is there a type of dye that would not cause permanent damage and will wash out within like 6 weeks? i want to do a light brown so nothing dark or too drastic. is there a kind of dye that will wash out within a few washes but doesnt make your hair stringy or damaged? i like my red hair but i also want a little change for some time. is there a chance my hair won't return to how it is now?

Q: My fiance's best friends wife - constanlty belittles me and I just
take it. She is from New Jersey and I'm from the South -North
Carolina. we are about 8 years apart -both mothers of
grown children and we each have grandchildren. If I say
white she says black - I finally had it on a vacation and told
her she was very negative - oh boy did she dig into me -
I have sent her a nice note since the trip and two messages
no reply. My fiance still wants me to make amends- I miss
our friendship but I don't need a mother. I think she has
no idea how rude she is...... SUGGESTIONS PLZ
We all live in Florida now

Q: My "friend Z" was at my house yesterday and we watched a few movies- well he put his arm around me and was kinda rubbing my arm- so sweet. Lol but i wasnt sure where to have my hands.... It sounds stupid. but yha. Lol at one point i was holding his hand while he had his arm around me but i dont know if that was comfortable for him... and at another point i had my hand on his chest, with my head on his shoulder and his head was resting on my head. It was very sweet. But i figured i would ask for Yall's opinions on where you would put your hands/head or if your a guy where its comfortable for you...

Q: the inside of my eyelids are sorta white, im always out of breath, ive fainted quite a few times in my life, when I stand up I get very dizzzy sometimes, I get headaches often (i had a migrane for a full month 2 years ago) i bruise very easily, my period is irregular& im pale compared to parents.
im 17/f, with a child, so im always fatigued.
im waitin im waitin on health insurance, but does this sound like im anemic?

Q: ok so what i want to know is that should a dump a bff because i help her do anything i get here friends and then she said that her and my boyfriend were dating behind my back so should i drop both of them or who? and the problem is that my boyfriend is still realy cute and loving even though i told him i knew. what should i do? pls help me? sorry if its the rong category and not good speller. :-)

Q: i've hung out with this guy twice, and both times we hooked up (not sex, i'm a virgin and he knows that and i reallly dont want to have sex with him anytime soon...or at all now)
so basically he texts me at like 2:30 in the morning and i was up so i answered and he asked me what i was doing and stuff, but then he told me i should come over so we could cuddle. i told him i was tired but he kept persisting. he wouldnt stop texting me even after i told him that i really dont want to go out tonight. eventually i just stopped texting and pretended i fell asleep but he kept sending me texts and then even called me once. as i'm writing this it is 4:30 in the morning and i have turned off my phone so i don't have to hear it vibrate any more. i have at least 5 unanswered texts from him and a missed call. i really don't even think i like him, i just like hooking up with him (i know it sounds bad but it's the truth).. i don't know if he actually likes me or just wants to try to take my virginity? either way i don't like him and after tonight his neediness/clinginess just completely turned me off and i don't know what to do or say to him now. what should i do?

Q: will boys like me if i have big breast

Q: 17/f

Alright, I'm kind of grossed out or disturbed right now. My boyfriend just told me that his sister likes him, and that if they weren't related, his sister would want to date him. I asked him if he felt the same, and he said, "no." But why am I feeling a bit hurt and awkward right now? My perspective of him changed, I don't know how.. I don't know what has changed.. Maybe I'm just in shock??

The thing is, I kind of sensed it from her that she finds him attractive in some way, but I thought it was because they have a good close family.

I told him that I was a little bit weirded out, and he took it offensively. He thought it was rude, because she likes someone else but just that she likes his personality. I told him I thought it was still a bit weird, but he gave me the attitude.

I told him that I'm sorry to make him feel a bit uncomfortable but there are things that me & him would have a different point of view on. And he said that it was rude because he's the oldest brother and they rely on him a lot. I apologized, even though I felt like he was being rude too... Since he told me that he got tired of me because he sometimes feel sorry about my family status.

Q: Ever since i was little i would always have bad stomach aches i would go to the doctor and they would say it was just cause i was nervous or something now im 15 and i still get those stomach aches and the urge to wanna throw up . I dont know why but it just happens and my mother thinks its because something is stressing me or im nervous about something and its all in my head. She even told me to stop thinking about my stomache hurting and it will go away but it never does . I miss alot of school because of it . Please I need Help ! What Should I Do? Should I Do Some Type Of Excercises To Help Me? Could It Be Stress?
P.S. I am NOT sexually active.

Q: I'm 18/M


So my girlfriend of almost 9 months called me a week ago, and told me she kissed another guy. The big issue is that this one guy is the only person I've ever had a problem with in her life, and there's been a lot of issues involving him. About 4 months ago, she told me she had kissed him before we were dating, after she lied to me and said they never had. She violated my trust once, but I forgave her and told her, if there's anything else, this is your only chance to tell me and I'll listen. Well she promised me over and over that was it, and I believed her.

So she called me, told me it was on a night we watched a movie, and I said to her "That's after we started dating" and she kept saying it wasn't. I didn't believe her, so I made her call the local movie store and ask when that movie was rented, and sure enough it was after we started dating. It was also 4 days before my birthday. He kissed her, and she kissed him back for several minutes. What makes this worse is I was there that night, she kissed me many times that night and looked me in the eyes, kissed me goodnight, I left her house and she had him sleep over. She lied to me for 9 months. She promised this was the only other time anything happened, then after questioning more, I find out there was a 3rd time, when we were establishing our relationship, about a week before our first kiss. She said they kissed and he kissed her neck, then she again told me that was all. Then I find out, he took her shirt and bra off, kissed her chest, she had her hands down his pants....And she told me she had never done that before in her life. She lied to me about everything...Things that she had done before, and ever having any relations with this kid.

I was in love, and I got crushed. She kept lying over and over and yes, she cheated on me a few weeks into our relationship but then there was 8 months of perfection. I found it in my heart to try and forgive her and try to make things work, under one condition. This kid was to be out of her life completely, no matter what. She agreed, and a few days later she changed her mind. She told me I'm an awful person and completely unreasonable for making her choose between him and me, because he is a family friend. I told her it's me or him, and I want to know, do you think I should have taken her back, and am I being unreasonable telling her not to see him anymore?

Also,
He has also pressured her into drinking, and taking her shirt off for a stupid game, when he kept saying no. He texts her telling him to break up with me all the time, always talks bad about me, he talks bad to her, and always puts his hands on her.

Q: 14/ f
So, I've been through a lot. Ive been abused by my step mom, i haven seen my real momsince my 7th birthday (court order) because she has schitzofrania, and i was raped by my bioligical mothers boyfriend from age 4-7. Now i see a sycologist, but i feel no change. I feel worthless and horrible, and i feel any guy can take advantage of me because i already feel dirty because i was raped.
& i have no idea how to fix this.
I am still a virgin but i have done everything else, because i feel as if i was taken advantage of already so it doesn't matter anymore. Which sounds like an excuse but i dont know how to totally explain it. Can someone help me think of a way to stay away from guys and just hang out with my friends that are girls and be happy like a normal teenager? and where i can get my focus back onto school?

Q: Hey
i dont know whats wrong with me.
ive gotten migraine on the left side of my skull down to my neck. and i ALWAYS get them, even from the littlest of noise. i have tablets from the doctor for that, but they keep on giving me the same one and ive had it for years!! ALSO, the scary bit, on my left side of my body. i get chest pains.. real bad chest pains, on the side of my chest. and most times its the left side of my chest,arm and just below the chest. it feels like a big stitch/cramp. and like pins and needles. all on the same side on my arm chest and just below chest. is it anything to worry about, the pain strikes so bad and it very sharp and feels like needles, but it only lasts for 15 seconds or so when it happens. and it happens quite often. im only 16! please help!!

Q: i am 13 years old, i want to get my cartdilage peirced on both ears, my mom will let me. But does she legally have to be with me? Can if i wanted to go to the mall with my friends and get it peirced there, with just them there? Do i need parent consent? Because i know u need parent consent to get your tragus peirced.

Q: 18:f
I'm a very good girl and I had sex forthe first time last week. I have not had a period for like 3 months (idk why) and I am not on birth control. He came in the condom and then kept thrusting in me and the came more in te condom but never came in me. Then he kept going with another condom on and didn't cum. then we waited like 30 minutes and had sex again I gave him head( could Taste a little cum) and then he put a condom on and we had sex. He didn't cum. But he took the condom off and went inside again and didn't cum again. Is there anyway I could be preggo ?

Q: Let me first start by giving you a little back ground information. My ex wife became pregnant when she was 20 and I was 19. Even though it was earlier than we both expected to become parents, we were thrilled and so excited to start our family together. We got married shortly after she gave birth to our son Matt. Soon after that, we had another son, and then a daughter. From my perspective, everything was great. That's why I was so blindsided when my wife came to me 9 months after our daughter was born claiming she wasn't ready to settle down and be a mother with divorce papers in her hand. Almost overnight, I became a 23 year old single father with a 4 year old, 2 year old, and a 9 month old. After the divorce was final, I rarely heard from my ex wife. She had begun living a life that I didn't necessarily approve of filled with drugs and alcohol and, while I wanted to keep my children as far away from that as possible, she was their mother and I didn’t feel like I could entirely keep them away from her. The last straw, however, came when I let my daughter, Alyssa, (who was 6 at the time) stay with her when I took my sons on a hunting trip. I was supposed to pick her up at noon the Sunday we got back. I spent the entire afternoon calling my ex wife’s apartment with no answer. At 5 that afternoon, I finally just went over to her house where I found her front door wide open and her passed out on the couch from mixing a few too many drugs with alcohol. Her neighbor came over to the apartment and told me that my ex wife had taken Alyssa out one night and come home completely plastered. Thank god her neighbor had woken up and decided to take Alyssa back to her apartment. And this is just one example of many. After that, I told my ex wide that I didn’t want her to see our kids anymore which devastated her so much she entered rehab. She got clean and for the past ten years has seen the kids a few times despite my hesitance. My kids and I have been living a great life together away from my ex wife. A few years ago I began dating another woman whom I am now engaged too. She gets along great with my kids and is an amazing person who I know will be a good influence on my kids’ lives. My oldest son Matt is now in college, but Colton (my middle son) and Alyssa still live with me. Since I have become engaged, my ex wife has become crazy about spending time with the two of them. She wants them at her house every weekend and doesn’t want my fiancé to parent them at all. She is trying to tell my daughter all kinds of lies about why she left, and how I am a horrible person for trying to keep them from seeing her. She tells her that the entire thing was my fault and all kinds of horrible rumors about my fiancé, who went to high school with my ex wife. She has asked both of my kids to move in with her. Colton told her absolutely not, but Alyssa is confused about the whole situation and doesn’t know what she should do. I have full custody of them so essentially it is my choice about whether or not she can see them. I don’t want to take them away from my ex wife, but I don’t want to lose them myself. I am still worried that she will resort back to her old ways and put my kids in danger like she has their whole lives. Am I right to not let my daughter move in with her mom?

Q: My mom doesn't know how to save money! She'll get paid on Friday, we live like were the richest people on the planet for the weekend and then she pays all the bills and then tere is nothing left. My brother is on this basketball team abd she is going out even more. We have even less money. I've been living off soup and noodles for the past two weeks and I've lost 15 pounds. Today, I called her to ask when we were going to the store because I'm starving. She's out with her friends, I don't have a car or any money and I'm literally eating soup for the 15th day in a row. I have a job, but she always takes my money, and says she'll pay me back but never does! I'm so sick of this and her, next year I'm probably even going to move out because at least every day I'll know I have somethig to eat besides soup. I don't know what to do anymore, she won't listen to me abd then she even commented how I look kind of sickly lately. And it's like hellooooo all ive eaten was soup.

Q: I was with my boyfriend today and we went to the store to get some snacks, right when i went to get out of the car, my dad pulls up next to us so i put my hood up and my boyfriend drove away. my dad called me over and over so i didn't answer until i got home about 3 minutes later. He texted me saying that i'm lying and that he'll never buy me a car or anything like that. I'm 16, my bf is 17. I think i have the right to do what i want at my age. I live with my mom, so i don't get why he cares what i do when its not his visitation day. Ive been with my bf for 13 months. Should i just tell my dad or should i keep hiding it? I plan on moving in with my dad next month, but now im scared. He said he'll kill any guy who touches me, blah blah blah. and the thing is, that he's serious. how should i handle this? i'm so scared :(

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