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My name is Sami.♥ Wherever life takes me, you'll find me with a smile. Feel free to ask me anything, I will give you the best advice that I can :)
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I really dont know how to tell my boyfriend I love him...honestly, I dont want to be the first one to say it, but i really want him to know i do.
Then tell him =] dont think about it to much you will know when the time is right and it will just come out. But make sure your guys are together maybe doing something fun or at dinner or something Hope i helped =]
my boyfriend and i have been together for over a year,
we love eachother so much and i could never be happier
the other week we broke up because he was confused and wanted a break,a few hours later he told me he couldnt be with out me and things werent the same with out me. but now he is acting strange he barley kissed me today and was not acting himself, the night before he said he loved me so much but is confused, but than the night before everything was fine and he told me he didnt want to ever break up.its really scaring me.i know hes a guy and things like this happen with guys, but i dont want anything bad to happen to us again, how can i save things and make them better, i dont no what to do
please help me, thanks ):
Well show him what he would miss if he didnt have you anymore. I am in a relationship and have been for a year and 1/2 and things can get well not boring its just you guys get so comfotable around eachother that you dont try as hard to make the relationship work as you did in the beginning. So act like you care more than anything and flirt with him and i hope it gets better. Talk to him to and tell him that if he really loves you, you both can fix this together. Well hope i helped =] and good luck!
I miss my ex (we broke up about 2 years ago)
we are 'just friends' but really, really good friends; we share everything. EXCEPT that i still have feelings for him. and very strong ones...
should i tell him? if so help me about when/where/how
Honestly i would tell him. When your hanging out bring it up be like wow its crazy we were dating 2 years ago huh? and see his reaction if he acts like he misses you then straight up tell him that and i hope it goes well if not dont be mad at him because friendship is better than nothing hope i helped =]
i was with my exboyfriend for almost fourteen months. he was my first true love and i know i was his. we broke up & hated each other for about 3 1/2 months. we got back 'together' after that for about 2 months. he now hates me again bcus he believes that i moved on to another guy when i have been head over heels for my ex for almost 2 yrs. he said nothing was real over the past 2 months. he never meant i love you. he told his friend that he might talk to me again. he said he 'knows' he will bcus thats what always happens. he knows we're meant to be together, i think. but i don't know if i want to wait for him. i love him with my whole heart, but is it worth it to wait? what if he decides he doesnt want to be with me and i just waited here for a month or two? i need serious advice. do i wait for my first true love or should i leave it as it is and try and love again?
please help.
-bbbones.
Okay so if you honestly love him and you really think that you are meant for each other then it is worth the wait. They say that if you find a one in a million guy keep him because the next one in a million guy is a million guys away. If it is meant to be it will happen i promise and if he doesnt come back to you in a few months then move on that shows that it wasnt meant to be and just move on it will be ok =] but if i were you i would wait to see what happens, cause chances are you wont find anyone like him again. Hope i helped =]
ok the boy i had been datin dumped me so i guess he really didnt like me and he wouldnt give me a reason he jus said "i wanna just be friends" and now hes datin one of my best friends and I'm kinda mad at both of them but im not sure if i should be mad at her, because I dont think she knew I was dating him. But Im still kinda ticked at her. Should I be mad at her?
Well if she is one of your best friends she should have known that you were dating him in the first place and if she was a good friend she would have asked you if it was ok for her to be with him. I would be mad if i were you but thats just my opinion.... Hope i helped =] p.s sorry he was such a jerk =(
my boyfriend thinks its hot when i call him daddy, but i feel wierd calling him that, but i want to cause he likes it, how do i get over it and jus be able to?? lol
Well say it more often and you will get used to it but call him baby daddy, or sexy daddy and that also might make you more comfotrable. Hope i helped =]
i cheated on my bf. he forgave me and it has been 5 months since the cheating. he is having a hard time trusting me but is doing his best. i dont want to rush him with it. but i do want him to let me hang out with my guy/girl friends, without worrying. i dont want him to let me go to parties and trust me because thats silly. how can i help him or make it easier.
I know exactly how he feels ive been cheated on twice by the same guy.And it is really hard to let go and trust completly again. You just have to show him that you truly care tell him EVERYTHING, dont text a lot of other guys and hang out with your guy friends as little as you can until he trusts you again. It might take a while but if you work for it hard enough eventually he will trust you again.Hope i helped =]
is it trained? is it rare to find people like that?
No they aren't trained and actually a lot of people are good at keeping secrets, you just have to trust them. Most people who keep secrets have secrets of their own that they dont want anyone to know either so they know how it feels. Hope I helped =]
I'm 13 years old and my main dream is to become a model. I've tried all the modeling websites on how to get started and all asked me for my credit card number.. Nothing seems to be working out at all and I want to get a good head start before I get to old. What do I do now??
Well a lot of agencies that advertise for modeling are scams and dont fall for them! you pay thousands and get pretty much nothing out of it. So before you do anyhting do some research first alot of research! and then hopefully you will find one thats not a scam and fulfill your dream =] hope i helped and good luck =]
I was in a wonderful relationship 2 years ago. I ended up in the hospital for 2 months in a coma. When i woke up in the hospital i found out i was pregnant, but my boyfriend changed his number and moved. I think he thought I didnt want to be with him anymore, he didnt know I was in the hospital. I tried for a long time to find him, but could'nt until recently. I got his phone number, but he has a girlfriend. I want to tell him we had a little boy who died 4 days after birth. I am nervous to call him, but I'm not sure what to do.
CALL HIM SOON! he needs to know he most likely thinks that you just got bored and left him or something. He was probably really hurt and needed to forget about you so he moved. But now that you found him again tell him what happened and that you didnt leave him and tell him everything he needs to know about you and his little boy (which im so sorry to hear about =/ ) well i wish you the best of luck and i hope i helped =]
My friends and I have been debating all week on the meaning of love. I think it's more than a feeling etc. etc., but their opinions are more physically based. I'm running out of ideas...
What is love?
In my opinion its really a feeling base. When your in love you will know it its just a feeling i cant explain, like they are your other half, you dont know what you would do without them, like they complete you =] its the best feeling ever. But some people may think its more physical, but i think that if you love someone with how physical you are then you arent really in love you need the emotional first before the physical if that makes any sense. Hope i helped =]
theres a song with a guy rappin and a girl singin, and it says either 'i want you near me' or 'i want you next me'. well i cant find it on google. someone wanna help me out ? :]
it sounds like next to you by Mike Jones but if not i would need more lyrics. Hope i helped =]
Iam 13 years old and Iam about one month pregnant but I don't know how to tell my parents becouse my mom is really overprotective and i don't know how to tell her without upsetting her and my dad is really mean and he told me if I ever got pregnant really young he'd make me move out what should I do?
pleae help me!
Okay well your going to have to sit your parents down and tell them. If you hide it for much longer, they will find out and there are a lot of things you need to do to keep a healthy baby in the early stages. I know it will be hard but they will have to deal with it. Your dad may have said that but that was most likely just a threat, but just in case make sure you have somewhere to go if he does kick you out. Yes they will be mad at first but i promise you they wont stay mad forever. Good luck and hope i helped =]
my mom wont let me dye my hair.
im 16 years old and i can think for myself
and she doesnt get that. everyone dyes there hair these days and i still cant.
i dont understand why i cant. i get highlights
and my mom dies her hair. so i dont understand why i cant.
she keeps telling me its the biggest mistake. and youre gonna have to keep redoing it. blahblahblah
i have blonde hair. but my hair used to be sooooo much blonder. that my hair is like practically like brown. and i hate it.
i want to go like one shade lighter and she wont let me.
any suggestions?
Well next time you go to get your hair done have her do an all over highlight look and it will look like you went a lot blonder but your mom will think it is highlights and when your hair grows out you can barely tell =] Hope i helped.
I am going to try using tampons for the first time. Is it ok to practice putting one in when you dont have your period?
I wouldnt, it is going to hurt and it can cause something called tss Toxic shock syndrome. It will also be a lot harder to get in. Just try when your actually on your period its a lot better. Hope i helped =]
Hi i just turned 16 and i want a summer job.. I attend school and i should be getting out around june. I would like a job during the summer time.
should i start applying now or should i wait a little longer.
and what are some tips so i can get noticed by the people who are hiring and should i still ask for a application even if they do not have a "now hiring" sign out.. please help this is my first job. Please just give me some tips.
thank you ever so much:)
I would start applying now, everyone wants a job during the summer and so a lot of places are full at the very beginning of summer. If you go in for an interview dress really nice, act like yourself, and BE ON TIME! Yes you should ask for an application because a lot of people put your application on "hold" and they hold it until they need someone else and then you may be one of the first ones they call (so you beat all the other people that didnt think of that) hope i helped and good luck! =]
Hi guys!
I'm looking for a prank that I can pull on my friend using his car. NOTHING THAT WILL HARM IT PLEASE! I just want some fun, like the whole sticky notes idea. Got any others? I'd love to hear them!
Thanks!
Ha well this is kinda gross but... me and my friends decorated this guys car with pads and tampons and then put ketchup all over them, and in window writing marker put "toughen up" on his window. It was funny then but i dont know if thats what your looking for sorry. Hope i helped =]
13/f
i really like this popular guy. i have an insane crush on him, and ive had it for awhile. we talk to each other sometimes and everyone thinks he likes me but i dont see it. i really think hes hates me actually. i dont want to go and just ask him flat out so does anyone have any ideas on how i can do anything else.
Just keep talking to him if he really does hate you (which i doubt it) but you will be able to tell. Flirt with him a little bit but dont make it too obvious, and if he flirts back start flirting a little bit more every day and one day if it seems like he likes you, when your texting or talking just be like so who are you liking these days?? and then see where it goes from there =] good luck and hope i helped!
Okay so I don't usually carry purses/handbags because it's always kind of been inconvieniant for me, seeing as I'm very forgettful and always leave it everywhere. However, I've decided lately to go ahead and get one because I saw a girl who had a really cute dark blue one. I don't really know the girl and she's kind of known to be a little rude so I don't want to just randomly ask her o.o so I've been scouring the internet, looking for this bag. I'm not very good at looking for it though because, as I said before, I usually don't carry them so I don't really know the different types and brands and stuff. I did some research and I THINK this one that she had is called a hobo bag? Well, the closest thing I can find that looks like her is this one:
http://chic.imageg.net/graphics/product_images/pCHIC1-5457929t220x350.jpg
except it doesn't come in dark blue. I'd like the bag to have a bit more uh folds, sort of like this one:
http://www.splendicity.com/files/101/2007/12/sigrid-olsen-nora-hobo-bag.jpg
So I don't want it to be smooth, I want there to be folds. I just really like this bag but I can not for the life of me find it ANYWHERE. Thanks sooooo much to anyone who can help me. Sorry if this comes out confusing. Thanks!!!!!
Well it depends on where you live, and how much you want to pay for this bag... if your looking on the more expensive end try looking up kathyvanzeeland.com, dooney&burke.com, or gucci.com they usually have some pretty unike bags but if your looking on the cheaper end i saw a dark blue bag at target the other day, and sometimes icing (by claires) has some similar to that too. Im not sure if it will be the same where you live but if you need more help go to my column and ask me in detail. I hope i helped =] Good luck.
ok well i have been with my boyfriend for 10 months..................he always hangs out wit my "bff" like every day! we broke up for like 2 weeks.......and my friend was tellin him not to get back wit me..............i stopped talkin to her!im just scared they are doin something............he is always defending her and comparing me to her!!!!!11111 i just cant stand it anymore......what should i do? help me please
Well i had this same exact thing happen to me, I also stopped talking to her, and we had been friends for 3 years. Well this is what i did and i hope it works for you... After me and her stopped talking, i was hoping my boyfriend and her would too, but they didnt so i talked to him about it and asked him if she still flirted with him and he said yeah, and i told him that it kinda bugged me and he said he would stop talikng to her and they havent talked since. I hope i helped and hope this works for you! =]