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friend is questionable????
ok well i have been with my boyfriend for 10 months..................he always hangs out wit my "bff" like every day! we broke up for like 2 weeks.......and my friend was tellin him not to get back wit me..............i stopped talkin to her!im just scared they are doin something............he is always defending her and comparing me to her!!!!!11111 i just cant stand it anymore......what should i do? help me please
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Wow! That would aggravate me. What i would do is tell the guy "Are you dating me or her?" Tell him how you feel about him comparing you to next time he does it. It's not right that he is doing that. As for your friend, i wouldn't talk to her anymore. If she dosen't want you two dating, she isn't a true friend. Tell her how you feel about it also. Hope this helps! Good luck.
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Well i had this same exact thing happen to me, I also stopped talking to her, and we had been friends for 3 years. Well this is what i did and i hope it works for you... After me and her stopped talking, i was hoping my boyfriend and her would too, but they didnt so i talked to him about it and asked him if she still flirted with him and he said yeah, and i told him that it kinda bugged me and he said he would stop talikng to her and they havent talked since. I hope i helped and hope this works for you! =]
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First off, it is completely wrong of him to compare you to her. He sounds like a big jerk. Second, when my ex was cheating on me, he would always defend the girl he was sleeping with if I said something about her. He would deny they were sleeping together, but if I said one bad thing about her he'd jump to her defense.
This jerk isn't worth your time, & neither is your friend for saying those things.
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Break up with him, stop talking to her.
And move on.
Simple as that because apparently those people aren't worth your time.
Good Luck ..!! =]=]
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