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OK, when I was younger I had this really good friend. Then one time we got in a fight and went to the principles. My mom doesn't like my ex- friend. Let's call her Lucie. Well, I have a really good friend now and let's call her Peggy. Well Peggy has brought me and Lucie toghter and we have become really really good friends. Well, tomrrow night, Peggy invited me and Lucie to spend the night. My mom said yes. Then today, she asked who called and I said Lucie. And she was like are you friends with her. And I was like yea and we may be going to the mall on Sat. And my mom was like all uneasy. She doesn't like my new friend! What should I do?!

It's okay- she (your mom) doesnt need to be friends with her too.

:)

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ok, here's the deal. i'm an 18 year old dude. i know it sounds silly and stupid as hell but i think i've managed to fall in love with a girl in canada. i'm from the states and we've never met in person before but i'm absolutely crazy about her. i don't know whether or not i should pursue this at all or if it's just a lost cause. i'm not even sure she feels the same, but i have my hints. i know it sounds like such a pathetic/loser scenario but i think i'm mature enough to tell that this girl isn't just any other girl. any input would be nice.

go for it! :)

just be safe.

;)

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i'm 13/f and i weight 115!! i want to lose 15 lbs. and FAST, i already skip meals and sometimes i even make myself vomit... i know it's not healthy but i see myself as the fattest person on the face of this earth. i gained like 15 pounds over the summer and i have no idea how! i have a boyfriend that i havn't seen since the begining of the year and when i see him again i don't want to be all fat. but thats beside the point... does anyone know how to stop food cravings.. besides diet pills cuse i have no idea how i'd get those, and my friends said they don't work. help please

well, you arnt the fattest person. i mean that isnt fat. and dont make youreself vomit, its discusting, and can be a serious problem, go on weight watches, my friend did it and lost 10lbs.


---CuPcAkE

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ok well i have sweaty arm pits i want to tell my mom but i dont know how to..like i was think of saying mom i think i have a problem do you think you can take me to the doctors..and she would probably sat why..i would be like because i have been sweating and i want it fixed..but its to embarrasing to say anything about it...do you have any suggestions?

check my page, i already answered a question just like this. :)

and she said it helped :):):):):):)

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Im sorry you guys, but I noticed that a LOT of youngins say they love theyre boyfriend or gf...so I was wanting to know, what do you guys consider love...because 13-16 is really young, i dont know I could be wrong, but what do you consider love??

when they care about you and always put you first. are more than nice to you. dont care if you do stuff or not. treat your right. be sweet to you. stick up for you!

uh, Im inlove... :)

cupcake!

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AHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!! some time i think god is so not fair specaily this time...
im a 15 years old girl, have a nice family and 2 dog i got a happy life but at the time i was most happy is my sister tell me she is pregnet! i cant take it. i think when i telling ever one this no one gonna care about what is wrong with this but my family is so differient from others. when i was born my dad is really sad b/c im not a guy and so is my sister we grown up together have a really close relationship between sister and sisters and ever thing is happening ill tell her what is wrong with it so she is the most trusting and role model of me . one thing my dad doesnt like is she dont study hard and always makes my dad mad all the time but we still live happyly but now she is telling me that she is pregnet and let me explain to my partents i cnat do that b/c i kown i will break all my dad and my moms heart i cant be that selfish but thing over MY SISTER IS BEING MORE SEILFISH ! sorry for being so long plllz help me what to do and what should my sister do should she get a abortion or else?

PS: i want her to get married frist then have kids so they can starting off with a good life

not an abortion

people who supported slavery were free

people who support abortion were born


think about that

x0x0-
cupcake

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Ok my I have a friend Laura* and she is always copying me! For instance, I got my hair cut short and the next thing you know she decides to cut off her like 3ft long hair too! And the other day on the bus I was singing the Fresh Prince of Bel Air theme song (:D) and she goes " OH! I LOVE THAT SONG!!!! " I was like...goodddddd!!!!! It just gets on my nerves alot! Idk how to make her stop...anyone have any ideas? THANKS!

she just wants to be just like you bc your sooo cool :)

be honored

:))

xoxo-Cupcake

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I've never gotten a wax down there before i just shave but i do it everytime i take a shower because it bugs me if i dont and plus i got a boyfriend! lol anyways i know you can go get a "bikini wax" but i dont wanna do that! Is there a way that i can do it on my own? And how much do they cost and last w/ out growing back at all? Thanks...

i know that it will hurt real bad. and it has to be real long before you can do it again
and then you get ingrown hairs
its just bad
i've wanted that too
but i just stick to shaving, because you know what you're doing when your shaving
and when waxing, you can exactly see, and you wouldnt know what you're doing.

:)
xox
CupCake

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i'm 13/f. Okay, i like this guy. bu the problem is that He is good friends with my ex-boyfriend and I am good friends With the guy like's ex-girlfriend!!!! Would we be able to go out? or would we just get "in troble"

talk to the other two people. and see if they are okay with it.

xox-
Cupcake

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On my bus the older kids are mean to my best friend. They always steal her stuff. Like yesterday she had a gameboy with her and was playing sims and this kid stole it and wouldn't give it back until she gave him gum. She had to jump some seats to get it back. Then today she wouldn't give him gum again so he started stabbing her with a needle. He treatened to stab me with it if I didn't move so he could get inm our seat. They my best friend threw the gum out the window and he and his friends started cursing her off and trying to cut her with it. I want to find a way to help but I don't know how. What should I do?

911, and i am not kidding, if he is stabing her with a needel and thretning to cut her with it or thretning to stab you with it. 911 im a dead serious


xoxo-
cupcake

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Theres this guy I like and he just tried asking out this girl whos a grade ahead of us but he got turned down(plus if she said yes, this guy in her grade and his friends would have beat up "my guy". Now, all through the year. Ever since August, this boy has been flirtin with me and acting like he seriously likes me. We talk on the phone, chill together at school. We're almost always around each other when we're not in classes we don't have together. And whenever we are around each other, we always end up talking about something and everyone else in our group just talks amongst themselves. Well, last night, me and him were talking on the phone and he asked me who I wanted to go out with in our school. And I said, "I don't know. I have someone in mind. He's cute and sweet and funny and nice and..." and he said "Come on, stop talkin about me" and I laughed. Then he said, "But you know, a lot of people have been coming up to me telling me that you like me" and I was like "Ok, well you know a lot of people have been comin up to me telling me you like me" and he said(in a sarcastic tone that means the same as "duh") "No, really?" and so I was like "Yea" and well, I'm just wondering what you all think. I'm thinking hes liking me but I'm not too sure and I don't want to tell him I like him. At least not yet. I plan on calling him tonight and talking about it a bit more but, in the meantime I'd really appreciate any advice you all might have for me. Thanks.

yah i think he does!

xoxo-
CupCake

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A lot of people at school call me teachers' pet. I don't like any of my teachers, nor suck up to them. I only get good grades because I want to get into the Naval Academy. I don't show off or anything.. i think.. so what should I do to shut these bitches up? (13, F, 7th grade)

nothing, they're just jealous because you're smart and they arnt.

they just need a life.

try if you dont like me, then why are you talking to me?

or
get a life (they will probably say, i have one)
then
get a friend (then they will likely say, i have one)
then
Then why are you talking to me?

i duno, but thats stupid, if they dont like you then why are they wasting their time talking to you if they dont like you.

well, their probably just jealous of you, and people like that wont make it in High school.

they are probably just bored.

You're better than them!

x0xo-
Cupcake

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okay theres this and she kind of used to be my friend (we don't go to the same school and shes a grade lower than me) and she is a total prep (you can ask anyone and they'll tell you shes a bizotch), so i guess thats why were not friends anymore. I skateboard and i wear stuff from like zumiez, pac-sun, and somtimes hot topic, and she shops at like abercromie, A.E, and those stores. well the other day she shows up at this place wearing the same shoes as me (grey & pink etnies) and i was like "you don't skateboard" and she said shes learning, so i asked what kind of skateboard she has and she said she didn't have one. hmm... how do you learn without a skateboard? and none of her friends have skateboards cuse there all preppy bizotches too. then i saw her at youth group and she had on the same frikin pants as me too! (they were dickie's skateboarding pants) and then shes like "oh! look jeanine!! we almost have the same outfit!" and she was wearing this abercrombie shirt with it that looked so with the rest of her outfit. she tries to hang out with me 24/7... she calls me to talk about "skateboarding" and she doesnt even know what an ollie is. and she buys the same cds as me AND she got her hair cut and highlighted almost exactally like mine! HOW DO I TELL HER I DON'T LIKE HER TRYING TO BE LIKE ME AND FOLLOWING ME AROUND EVERYWHERE? AND THAT SHE SHOULD STOP TRYING TO BE SOMEONE SHES NOT?? help please. thanks.

You should be honnored!!
You're soo cool that she wants to be just like you! :)

xoxo-
Cupcake

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Hey, I would like to know if you all can tell what is wrong with my finger and if I should go to the doctor. Wednesday night, I was at gymnastics messing around, and as I went for a back tuck, my middle finger jammed into my leg... then about 3 minutes later, I jammed it again into a panel mat (a hard mat in case you dont know) same finger and everything. My coach didnt care because i shouldnt have been messing around, so I went through the rest of practice ignoring the pain. Its now 2 days later, and im getting shooting pains throughout it, my whole finger is about 1 1/2 the size of the other, and my knuckle in the middle of my finger is twice the size of the other and i cant feel from there down to the end of it. I have it taped together for now, but it hurts to even write, im typing this without it. Im sorry its long, but i cant decide if I should go to the docot Monday and get x-rays jus to make surem or relax and let it heal on its own because of an expierience with shoulda been broken foot since i didnt go to the doctor right away. Today, I had to call home for some medicine to help with the pain. So, what do you all think of this situation (any of you who read this)...?

doctor!! :)

Hope it feels better :)

xoxo-
CupCake :)

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hey im working on equations of perpindicular lines. i dont no what to do because i dont know what tehe reciprocal of 2.5 is? what is it? thanks

-2.5

i think

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I'm a dancer and in one of my dances I have to do a high kick and mine isnt that high and I want to improve it. Is there anything I can do to make it go higher?

stretch, but not fast or far
just gradually increase how far your streatch and hold it! in no time, you'll be doing the splits and kicking sky high! {worked for me!!}

:)

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Okay, i'm a ninth grader, and i can't stand all of the 7th graders, they're all stuck up. i got into a huge fight with one of them cuz they were sayen stuff about me. and then the one girls friends sister got involved and shes 16, and im on 14, she threatened to kick my ass, i duno if she'll actually do it though. i see her alot in the halls , i dont think she exactly knows what i look like either, but alot of people in my school know me, so they might tell her. should i skip school tomorrow, or just go? im soo worried.. thanks!!! and if i do skip school, what can i tell my mom, like what are some good tricks?

dont worry about it, i bet nothing will happen. and if it does, dont hurt her, unless you have to in self defence, and then when you tell the administraters, you can say that you were nly defending yourself, you had to {what ever you did} or else you could have been seriously injured. and your parents should support you, and you probably will get suspended, although you shouldnt because it was just self defence.

:)

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Me and my bofriend, Rob, have been going out about a month. We dated for about 2 months b4 I asked him out. It seems whenever we hang out its boring. He's already told me he loves me and wants to marry me. We're 16 and 17 btw. I recently met this guy named Ed. He seems cool and everything. Before Ed, everything with Rob was fine but since I met Ed the stuff between me and Rob seems boring and predictable. So my question is should I dump Rob and persue Ed or should I stay with Rob and see what happens?

Rob!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11


:)

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I have to switch schools (7th grade) and I'm so nervous. I have cramps in my stomach and I feel like I'm going to puke. I have talked to friends over the phone about it and they say I'll do fine but I don;t about that. Please, someone tell me what I can do to reduce nervousness of this change?

yah, that happened to me, i switched schools in 7ht grade, and on the 3rd day i went home sick! but i wasnt really sick, its just butterflys in your stumach, because your nervous. you just need to boost your confidence, well i guess, just dont think about what other people say or what they may be thinking!

:)

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Right now, my hair is REALLY blonde (i just dyed it, but it was still really blonde before i dyed it), and i want my hair the color of Paris Hiltons. Does anybody know if she bleaches her hair? or how does she get it that light?
xo

you should let your natural beauty shine! dont try to be like someone else! be yourself!
:)

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