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K this is a serious question but my periods ALWAYS beeen messed up but like 2 monthes ago i slept with this guy and he asked me if i was on birth controll and i said no .. and he didnt wear a condom .. but he pulled out in time .. and he said he even did .. but i havnt yet got my period and im a little freaked out weather im pregnant or not .. and I dont have money to buy a pregnancy test ? .. do you think im pregnant just from those sings and is it possible that i could be pregnant if he pulled out but he still wasnt wearing a condom ??? please help me ASAP????

You should of used a condom. I have no idea why people dont use them. The pulling out method is NOT always reliable. There IS a chance you are pregnant. I would reccomend you get money to get a pregnancy test.

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I have a best friend named Jonathan, and we're really close. We know everything about eachother and we do everything together.
Last weekend, we were hanging out at my house and we started making out. and it lead to sex.
But his penis was too big. and it hurt so we stopped.

It was so embarrassing. what do I do? we still hang out like old times. but I feel awkward. and how can I get over my 'little' problem?

Sometimes things like that happen. Its not anyone's fault. Next time you need to just lube it up more. It is going to hurt, but you basically have to take it slow and be patient and it will work. Also, need a lot of foreplay to get you wet so it'll work better.

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OKay, so about....3 or four weeks ago i slept with a guy...at a party. We used protection, and he didnt actually...'come'
but, ive now skipped my period...its like a week late and i am really worried i am pregnant. should i give it a few more days...or should i take a test and find out?
Also, if i am pregnant...what can i do? do abortions cost money?
thank you so much for your help

Youre 98% NOT pregnant. But, if youre worried about it then take a test. Dont get an abortion, you will regret it for the rest of youre life and you'll think about it constantly. Just take a test, and go from there.


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well...its really weird...i have this strange flap of skin coming out of my lady part. its on one side...and it just seems like its stretched out or something. the only problem is...it hangs out and rubs against my underwear and its really uncomfortable.

Some girls have that. Its nothing to be ashamed about. Everyones parts are different. When you get older i think they have a surgery or something to get rid of it. But, just try not to worry about it for now.

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What is up with these 13 yr olds and getting pregnant/asking for advice about fingering and sexual things like that. wtf is our world coming too.When I was 13 I was still playing coodies with the guys next door or riding my bike around the neighborhood. Gahsh by the time I turn 30, 5 yr olds will be worried about sex. WTH

youre absoluetly right. 13 year olds shouldnt be worried about if they have herpes, they should be worried about what dress their gunna put on barbie next. the world is a terrible place :\

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i wanted to make one of those myspaces where they have those contest i understand how to make it and stuff but how do i get all those friends, like all the other ones have? Anything is apreciated

I have a contest site. add me and send me a message and i will get you some friends =] I have over 1000


www.myspace.com/exquisitecontests4u

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i get so i guess you would say "wet" when i'm, with mt boyfriend i was just wanderin how i could maybe stop so slow it down b/c it kinda embarassing, because i know he wants to finger my but i push his hand away b/c i know he might find out it it would be gross.

Thats absolutely normal. If the guy knows that youre wet, he'll be proud of himself for turning you on. [guys are weird like that] When girls are wet, usually it turns the guy on too. If girls dont get wet, it will be harder for sex...like it wont just slide in, thats why its helpful =]


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One of my close friend's birthday is coming up in a few weeks. We've recently started hanging out more and i feel like i can really trust her with anything. I'd like to do something nice for her birthday to show her how much i appreciate our friendship. I'm not sure what I should do. I cant do anything that expensive because my family isnt doing that great with money right now. I'm open to any ideas, thanks in advance!

Well, if you have any pictures of you both together then make like a scrapbook of all the memories you and her share. If you dont have any pictures, in the next couple weeks take some pictures and make memories. You could put the picture in the scrapbook and then next to it write the memory or something along those lines.

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so there is this really sweet guy! and i like him. but he likes or liked this other girl. we have hooked-up and i really feel for him. but i was told he just breaks hearts left and right. i try to tell myself not to like him but somtimes i just think poeple are wrong. should i give him a chance or no?

Well, i went thru the same thing a couple times! I never listened to my friends when they told me he was a heartbreaker and in the end i always got hurt. But, my theory was that i wanted to find out for myself, and thats exactly what i did. So, one time i decided to find out FOR SURE if he was a player. I gave him a little test, and turns out he was. But, my advice to you find out if you know FORSURE that he is a heartbreaker. That means ask around, talk to his ex g/fs and ANYONE that you can to find info. If they know FORSURE that hes a heartbreaker then just dont give him a chance and move on. If you dont then find out for yourself.

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ok when i put some of my pics on myspace...they turn out to be really small... no how to make them gbigger? for free?

Download irfanview.


Try www.irfanview.com

OR

www.download.com and search for it.

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Whats the percent of if you get high with someone you have sex?

Its very slim. When people get high they still know what is going on. People that say otherwise are LYING. Although, some people told me that weed makes them horny. But, either way people still know what they are doing!


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Please don't lecture me on talking to random strangers online because I don't give out any personal information or plan to meet up with them anytime soon.

Anywaysm my question is when guys ask do you like to talk dirty or wanna talk dirty or something along the lines of that, is there a way to still talk to them without talking dirty to them? When I say no, they usually ditch. I know that I probably shouldn't spend my time wondering over this stuff and such but I want to really talk to them but I don't know how to...

If they ask you make a joke outta it. When they ask you if you wanna talk dirty say sure. and be like oh shit oh shit. lol

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What do you do if you fall in love with your best friend, and can't tell them?

From experience, i know its tough. If you tell him things may never be the same. But, what if he feels the same way? What happens if hes always felt the same way and just couldnt tell you? && if you do tell him, he might feel the same. If you keep it all inside, it might really really hurt you in the long run. If you THINK he likes you then i would tell him. If you dont, then maybe just try and move on.

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hi, i suffer from panic attacks and recently my stomach has been knotting up. are there any safe exercises that i can do to destress myself? any advice would be gratefully received

Well, i dont know of any exercises but why dont you go to a spa? It will definetly relax you. Or if you dont wanna spend that kind of money then do one at ur own house! You can also take a bubble bath and relax in the tub for a bit.


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Does anyone know that if a cellphone that fell in the bathtub can be repaired? Or is it gone for good?

Yepp, sorry hun but its gone for good :\

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HI people I'm 17. Sorry to ask something stupid like this. But I wanted to know a couple of things before i go out and get a belly ring. One, would it look ok or good on someone that's not overweight, but not a stick either. Two, does it hurt ? I mean I have a tattoo, but I’m not sure what a belly piercing feels like. Three, what are the goods, and bad’s of belly rings. If any of you can help me out with this it will mean a lot. Thanks and hope you all have a nice day.

A belly ring looks good on a lot of people. Unless they're really big, It doesnt really hurt much, its like a pinch. I have 19 piercings and that was the less pain out of all of them. It shouldnt hurt more than youre tattoo. The goods of a belly ring are sooo many! It looks great, you can change it, its just a cute girly thing. The bads are just a few or so. If it gets infected it will hurt very badly and if you dont clean it good it will get infected. Thats basically it. Well, unless you get into a fight and get it ripped out. Well, thats all you should need to know. Send me in my inbox if you need anything else.

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I don't know what to do ........ should I spit or swallow?

Well, the very first time i spit. The only reason was because i didnt really know what i was in for, so i just spit. Now, every other time after that i swallow. This is your own choice but cum is very high in protein and sometimes that can be a good thing. The taste depends on what the guy eats. It can be sour or sweet. If its ur first time i would spit so u get an idea of what it tastes like and everything. Then, if you like it or dont mind it then swallow =]

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What are some natural cures for headaches?

Well, i heard many different things. I heard that if you hold a pencial in ur mouth [lightly] it should get rid of it. I also heard that if you rub between your index finger and thumb that will get rid of it too. And lastly i heard that if you drink lots of water that should help as well. Water is great for tons of things. Its just that taste. :\

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Whats like the official definition of "hooked up" I thought it meant having sex, some of my friends just say like making out. So when I watch shows like Laguna and such, I never know what they mean!

Well, awhile ago it meant like having sex. Now, it means making out. Its kinda weird, but yea


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Im 13, and im a Chathlioc [sp?] Cristian. Well, in school, we went to Confessing. I told the preist all my sins, but one. I masturbate. I did'nt wanna just be flat out, I maturbate, because the priest is friends with my family. Is this wrong. As much as I love God and Jesus, I just can't say I maturbate. Is it a sin anyway?

Honestly, i dont think you had any reason to tell him. Masturbation is something VERY VERY personal && nobody reallly needs to know. Plus, youre only 13 i bet you would feel very very awkward telling this guy thats probably in his early 40s about what you do on ur personal time. Just talk to God alone and tell him that specific sin. I dont reeally consider it a sin though. But, yeah u get what im sayin. =]


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