im always here to help im really good at giving advice mostly about teenage problems not like my computer software crap! look im not supa smart, ask me questions that i'll know. but other than that im great! that doesnt mean i wont have questions of my own im still learning too so if i dont answer a question of yours than dont get mad b.c i havnt been through it. im very honost to people so if u ask i will certainly tell thats my motto! Just one more thing people if you dont like the way i type then get over it. thats how i am and its not like im typing to some important person. well you are but not that important!
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i have really fair skin with dark, thin hair on my upper lip. its not too bad but it really annoys me and i dont wanna have to worry about it so i was wondering if i should bleach it and if it would look okay. pleasee helpp. thanksss (link)
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well some people wax it off or shave it. idk about bleaching
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I need help picking a sn 4 AIM im cluless and i want somthing 2 do with tinkerbell,numbers,or mabie some cute girly things ... somthing like LuckyCharms .. everything i try is taken so ... i really need ur helpp ! anything cute and nothing 2 weird .. somthing cool and unique .. Id appreciate if you would help me think of one! (link)
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well you could use your name like say this is your name... susan and your last name has a b in the beginning then have it as susanB
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15f...
I have a boyfriend, and our one month will be on Valentine's day. We're really close, but he keeps being so tight-lipped about Valentine's Day!
I'd really love to know what to get him, since I have this weird feeling he's going to get me something.
I know everyone says chocolate, teddy bears, baked goods. But none of those things suit him. He doesn't like cds, he just buys online, he has no interest in fashion, and only wears, like, one color. He reads things that I don't know much about, like HALO. I'm not really sure what to do, because he knows exactly what I like, and I'm clueless as to what to get him. HELP! (link)
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no guy wants chocolate or teddy bears thats for sure and if he likes HALO thats a video game for xbox xbox 360.... i have brothers and i love that game haha even thought im not to good ... but ne way what you should give him is like at american eagle ther these braclets or at holister or american eagle some guys perfume its hott youll love the smell and you cant go wrong with it. or if he doesnt give you ne thing then give him a kiss and keep the gift for your self for some reason when the grils use the guys calone its hotter i use it sometimes.
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I want to do stuff with my boyfriend... but how do I know that I look alright down there? Like, I know my boyfriend will love and accept me no matter how I look.. but I just want to know I'm all good?
I don't want to go to my doctor, either. This isn't something I'd want to waste his time with. Thanks. (link)
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well if your going to do stuff with your boyfriend like sex then your going to have to see a doctor. you can get all sorts of diseases and ik you know that but its seriously something you have to think about and your doctor does need to know and the part of you looking good down there unless your growing a tiny daung then i think your ok they all look the same no girls vagina looks like a penis at least the ones born a girl if you know what i mean.
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ok so my sister puts me down a lot and it makes me mad and when we actually start talkin about how we get into fights and stuff she said atleast
99% of the time its my fault and it really makes me mad . also i started talkin to a 19 year old guy and we weren't really datin but my sister got
his number off my phone and started texting him
and they were going to become friends with benifits and that guy told me he loved me but when my sister told me about all of this it really made me mad because she went behind my back to a guy who i told her i loved and wanted to be with him. so my question is is my sister a good sister at all? also me and my sister fight a
lot and shes always callin me fat and sayin that
my friends are her friends and not mine which i know they're mine because theyre alround me a lot but anyways what should i do bacuse i really don't want her in my life because she always seems to ruin wat i have . so any advice is helpful and fyi im a 15 yr old girl . (link)
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what a biotch tell her off be like i dont like the fact that your ugly face is always around when im around i dont know who you think you are but im sick of it if your going to be like this then ill do it rite back to you. shes a sucky sister tell her you would love to get a long but if shes going to act like this then you dont think that this sister thing will work out at all. you guys have your whole life and shes ruuining it by acting like this i sware if my sisters did this i sure would do it back to them no one should make you feel like your nothing. a sister should be someone you can talk to when your feeling down when a guy at school or a friend is just being stupid and you need advice a sister should be someone you go shopping with and share cloths and make up. thats no sister if thast what you want then tell her thats what you want that what shes doing to you makes you sad and mad at her and that it makes you not want her around at all and thats sad be.case you should love one another im 15 and have three sisters its hard sometimes but its also fun if they are ever getting on my nerves i just try my best to forget about it or i talk to them ok yell but thats what sisters are like talking should be the best thing i dont recomend vilence you end up with scratch marks all over your hands or god forbid and may god help her when she scratches your face cuz if someone did that to me iwould rip their eyes out haha. i hope all works the best for you guys and that you become friends later on in life. i have a feeling that you will be. i talked to somone who went through this that one of them would steel the guy they like and they would get into huge fights they would say mean things to eachother. now they are friends. its just a sister thing im sure at some points you guys get along. it cant be all that bad. but if it is. you should really consider talking it out or yyelling what ever helps i guess. but dont throw a nailpolish bottle at the wall youll both end up cleaing it TOGETHER and that would be the worst haha.
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what the hell do you tell someone when they ask you "whats up"
i hate saying "nothing much" coz thats all i say everyitme and i am TIREd of it (link)
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well thats like are calling if someone says whats up tell them whats going on at that time theyll never do it again
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well the title kinda says it all!i really didnt meen to do it!we had been talking on the phone for like 4 hours and i was really tired and kept slipping into sleep then waking up!well we were talking and i axcidently called him by my ex's name!i immediately started like cursing at myself because i was sooo mad that i had just did that!i kept saying sorry and the whole time he was queit!i asked if he was mad and if he forgave me and he said no he wasnt mad and yes he forgave me!im still like worrying about it because thats like the worst mistake you could make!im like stressing about it and i want to talk to him but i dont want to be annoying about it or make him mad!i just want to stop stressing over it! should i be and how to i get over something like that?!? (link)
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i read about this saying sorry was the only thing you can do but keep bringing it up will ruin it more so just forget about it. dont stress about its no bigey
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Ok well i'm 17/M and my girlfriend would like me to shave "down there"
I was just wondering what was the best way to do this? Like shaving the testicles and the penis and everything. And what are good shaving cremes and razors to use also. thanks a lot (link)
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well i dont know if its different to save with girls or not but shave with shaving cream it doesnt matter what brang maybe you want it soft and go with like some girl shavin cream but thats just me. and after you shave all of it go over it with sope then deffinatley some cream to make it smooth!!!! thats what i do and im a girl but as i said b4 i dont know if it would be different between girls shaving there and guys
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ok i really really hope my friend doesnt see this . . .
ok by the way ! THANK YOU TO EVERYONE WHO ANSWERED THE ADVICED I ASKED BEFORE THIS !!
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ok i have a friend and she is very friendly, crazy, out spoken, LoVes pizza and candy !! like seriously ! and out of no where she'd be all "PIZZA ROLLAS !" or "CANDY !!!" with a very childish voice .
its annoying to me but i can 'bear' it . . . (?
shes is very smart and is easily ticklish and i always hangout with her . . .
this might sound mean but whenever i see her face i just want to SLAP it really badly cuz she annoys me 24/7
sometimes she doesnt know her limits to her immature childish like behaviour .
the number of us girls is 5 and we call our selves the 4 blind Azns + Glessy .. (its + glessy because she isnt blind [doesnt have glasses] !)
anyways~
we have days called 'Confession Days' so we can say what we could when we couldnt about each other. . . and we only do them on special occasions like birthdays or holidays . . today was suppose to be one but we ended up canceling soo we are doing one this coming up monday . . .and i was going to tell my friend about this but she is very fragile and i dont know how to tell her . . .
no matter how much i want to beat her up .
she is still one of my best friends .
but i really want to tell her so that she can at least know her limits to her behaviour and save the annoyingness for the rest of us whom feel this way .
i think my other friend feels the way i do about her .
but she is pretty much straight forward and dont hesitate because she knows that my friends will just laugh it off and propbably feel bad when she gets home . . .
soo waddya think ?
answer this one !
please and thx !^^
V(O.O)V
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well thats an odd relationship between a BEST friend maybe you need to slap her to get it out of your system haha (just kidding) but if shes making you and others crazy just say "susy" i feel that you can be immature at times and its a bothersom to me. i dont like it as much as you do. you just have to be straite foward to her other wise youll crack. and hurt her feelings worse
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Hi i was wondering if like watching porn/masturbauting could be considered cheating on a girl?
I was just wondering because i wouldnt wanna do it if its not right.
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no i dont think so but if u are flirting with girls online thats considered emotional cheating
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well i am 15 going on 16. is there any songs about the ages: 15 & 16.
i know there's one for 17 by ladytron.
but i want 15 and/or 16
thanks in advance! (link)
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sweet 16 by hillary duff
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Ive been with my boyfriend for 7 months. Since before we started dating, we've been saying "I love you" and I thought I did love him. But now I really know, I think I really love him. I mean it's so hard to describe. How can I really tell? And if I AM sure, how can I tell him that I REALLY DO MEAN IT. Some things he does makes me mad, but then when I think I'm mad at him I start crying because he's perfect. I never truly am mad at him. He's not like everyone else. I really am at a loss for words here. How can I tell if I really love him / if I'm in love with him. Thanks. I'd be willing to talk on email if you could really help. (link)
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you know your in love when theres no one you would rather be with then him. the little things he does like just walking behind you when you dont know it and he hugs you makes you smile from ear to ear. when you just lay next to him you both look into eachothers eyes and dont want to blink b.c your afraid he mite not be there when your eyes open again. everything with him just feels rite the thought of him not being here just makes you sick to your stomache. and other things ik the feelings to but i just cant describe. most important you know hell never cheat and trust him. you dont even think twice of him bein with another girl
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well there is this one guy i'm starting to like. just call him joe. okay so joe dated one of my x-friends, shes mad at me for something that happened a long time ago, but anywaysss... he likes me and everything and i like him too. but i heard from some people that he is "odd" and "a player" he told me that if we dated he wouldnt talk to any other girls but his best friends cause i said i still wanted to talk to him. oh yeah, hes 16 and im 14. :]
what should i dooo, give it a try.?
[ he doesnt seem like a player to me ]
kaythanks. (link)
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depends....if there are like girls saying they Hooked up with him and stuff like that i would believe it but if you think not just hope that you dont get your heart broken
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13/M
hi... ive been going out with this girl for about a year now and i love her alot. we get wild sometimes but not to wild. the furthest we have gone is that she gave me a hand job. but after she did i got a little worried and i didn't feel right. i thought i might be a little to young for these things.
am i to young?
are we going to far for only 13 years old? (link)
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ok weird feelings equals NOT READY im 15/f and if she keeps this up at that age by the time she gets to 9th grade shell be the class whore and you the pimp. and no girl likes a pimp and slut well her fault there. so ya i think your to young you yourself think your to young. if it feels wrong then it is WRONG. now if this were my lil sis who is at this age i would be like um wow dont do that! just think if it as if ur lil bro or sis were doing that now!
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15/f
I think im addicted to masterbating, and watching p0rn.
but i dont want to be.
you see my parents work at the church. and im sorda a really good kid, so i dont want to live this lifestyle. but every so often i have to go to youtube or whatever to look up bad things. and every night in the shower i use the showerhead to masterbate. I also do that in my bed. No one would ever suspect this of me. I am a perfect goody good. so should i be doing this?
is it normal? or should i stop?
if so, how can i stop?
and if i SHOULD be doing this, where can i see more footage, without looking up keywords like "sex'
because my dad has a fire wall on all the computers, and he can see everywhere i go.
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um i dont know where you can find key words like that but i do know that its perfectly normal for someone your age its what we do i personally think theres nothin wrong with it and my parents know that its normal so they dont flip shit that would be a lil weird any way you dont have to stop but if you feel you should then stop but i think theres nothin wrong with it your not a freack so dont fret haha!
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16/f.
My periods have been somewhat irregular since they started when I was 12 years old. Sometimes they come more or less on schedule; sometimes they don't. I've had as much as two months in between periods.
My last period started on December 19 and ended on December 26. According to my normal schedule, I should have started my period on January 16. I've not started it yet, but I'm still experiencing cramps and I've got a slight cold—I've always been more prone to sickness around the start of my period.
I've never had penetrative sex. The most I've ever done is dry humping with no exchange of bodily fluids (to my knowledge), so I doubt I'm pregnant. I took a pregnancy test just to make sure—it was negative.
I'm a semi-vegetarian, so I wonder if my significantly low iron intake could have anything to do with this.
Or do you think there could be something more serious going on? (link)
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it could be to the lack of nutreients your getting in your diet. and you could also be stressed out. and periods at this age are never regular unil like your 18 so dont worry about it! and if your still not sure just ask an elder who would know.
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hi :]
im getting over my ex like forsure, like i dont want to be with him at all relationship wise and theres this guy we'll call him Allen and we're getting really close! but his ex just broke up with him like a month ago and he's not over her and he's convinced im not over my ex which for the most part i am bc my ex is over it and doesnt talk to me , but Allen's ex keeps bothering him wanting to get back but he doesnt want to but still has feelings for her. so im kinda stuck here
because allen is really confused about it all, we hang out every day and talk on the phone till like 2am and its obvious he still loves his ex and i do still love mine but im ready to move on but i know allen isnt i can understand and am willing to wait but like i dont wanna wait it out then him just get back with his ex... what should i do, do you think? [ we were kind of eachothers rebound you can say but then we've talked and we both really like eachother] (link)
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sometimes theres nothing you can to do about it its his feelings if he really likes hi ex then its his ex if he likes you hell go with you see wht imsaying
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what's PMS and what does it stand for?? (link)
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Pms stands for Pre Menstral Syndrem or cycle idk but its like when a girl is going throu her period or about to and is all like bitchy its so annoying i hate it when i am one and sometimes i dont even know that i am being one so its a fun thing to go throuhg hahah
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Heyy can u guys give me tips to turn my boyfriend on pleaaaase!!i really dunno how to do that he's my first..nothing naughty :) lol (link)
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well turning a guy on is not that hard like flash them and they are on or uk making out i guess does too! have fun but not to much fun!!!
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usually on average when do you start really seeing a difference in body physique if you start going to the gym and strength training... i am pear-shaped and my abs are muscled (urghhh but u can see it under that layer of fat) my problem area is my butt and thighs (if you're comfortable visualizing it in terms of sizes my upper body is the size of a size two woman and my lower body is size 13/14) i just started to go to the gym with a trainer how long should it take for me to start SEEING the changes...i really want to tone up (i don't mind the proportions that much but i'd like to get down to a size 0 at the top and maybe 6 ir 8 at the bottom and see n feel muscles)
oh if it helps i'm 155 and my goal is 120.... i am assuming if i get to 145 i'd see the change but my trainer says that the scale isn't a decent way of telling coz muscles weigh more.... :S (link)
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it really depends on how your eating if your eating rite then it shouldnt be long and in like a week im sure ur gona loose a couple of pounds it doesnt take that long if u doing the rite stuff and at this young it takes only a couple of months!
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