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sister drama a whole lotta drama


Question Posted Saturday February 2 2008, 10:57 pm

ok so my sister puts me down a lot and it makes me mad and when we actually start talkin about how we get into fights and stuff she said atleast
99% of the time its my fault and it really makes me mad . also i started talkin to a 19 year old guy and we weren't really datin but my sister got
his number off my phone and started texting him
and they were going to become friends with benifits and that guy told me he loved me but when my sister told me about all of this it really made me mad because she went behind my back to a guy who i told her i loved and wanted to be with him. so my question is is my sister a good sister at all? also me and my sister fight a
lot and shes always callin me fat and sayin that
my friends are her friends and not mine which i know they're mine because theyre alround me a lot but anyways what should i do bacuse i really don't want her in my life because she always seems to ruin wat i have . so any advice is helpful and fyi im a 15 yr old girl .


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triquetra answered Sunday February 3 2008, 3:59 pm:
In each family, there is bound to be sibiling rivalry and this seems to be a case of it. Your sister isn't a bad sister, she's just somebody who wants to have want she wants and she just gets frustrated when things get in her way.
It's obvious to me that she also has got some feelings that she's got feelings for the guy. Just back off FOR A WHILE and wait to see what happens.
Speaking of which, i really don't want to be pushy but: don't you think that 19 is a little to old? I'm 15 as well and i find that 19 year olds are just way out of reach.
Just see what happenes between your sister and him and if they don't go out, you can decide what to do with him.

But please, i urge you to think about the age difference. I know that you've got feelings for each other but wait till somebody else who's just as worthy of you comes (and of your own age) and then you can have a relationship with him.

I hope this helped,
triquetra

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sml111992 answered Sunday February 3 2008, 3:50 pm:
what a biotch tell her off be like i dont like the fact that your ugly face is always around when im around i dont know who you think you are but im sick of it if your going to be like this then ill do it rite back to you. shes a sucky sister tell her you would love to get a long but if shes going to act like this then you dont think that this sister thing will work out at all. you guys have your whole life and shes ruuining it by acting like this i sware if my sisters did this i sure would do it back to them no one should make you feel like your nothing. a sister should be someone you can talk to when your feeling down when a guy at school or a friend is just being stupid and you need advice a sister should be someone you go shopping with and share cloths and make up. thats no sister if thast what you want then tell her thats what you want that what shes doing to you makes you sad and mad at her and that it makes you not want her around at all and thats sad be.case you should love one another im 15 and have three sisters its hard sometimes but its also fun if they are ever getting on my nerves i just try my best to forget about it or i talk to them ok yell but thats what sisters are like talking should be the best thing i dont recomend vilence you end up with scratch marks all over your hands or god forbid and may god help her when she scratches your face cuz if someone did that to me iwould rip their eyes out haha. i hope all works the best for you guys and that you become friends later on in life. i have a feeling that you will be. i talked to somone who went through this that one of them would steel the guy they like and they would get into huge fights they would say mean things to eachother. now they are friends. its just a sister thing im sure at some points you guys get along. it cant be all that bad. but if it is. you should really consider talking it out or yyelling what ever helps i guess. but dont throw a nailpolish bottle at the wall youll both end up cleaing it TOGETHER and that would be the worst haha.

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