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Love.


Question Posted Thursday January 31 2008, 11:30 am

Ive been with my boyfriend for 7 months. Since before we started dating, we've been saying "I love you" and I thought I did love him. But now I really know, I think I really love him. I mean it's so hard to describe. How can I really tell? And if I AM sure, how can I tell him that I REALLY DO MEAN IT. Some things he does makes me mad, but then when I think I'm mad at him I start crying because he's perfect. I never truly am mad at him. He's not like everyone else. I really am at a loss for words here. How can I tell if I really love him / if I'm in love with him. Thanks. I'd be willing to talk on email if you could really help.

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triquetra answered Thursday January 31 2008, 4:53 pm:
There is no real way to explain how you know you love somebody, you just know. It something which has never properly been explained as to how it feels and how you know. Maybe we will never know when we love somebody, it's just an instinct which tells us this.
It seems as if you've got the perfect man for you and you shouldn't give up, keep it going until...well, as far as you want it to go. Many girls/women in this world sometimes don't find Mr Right, but you're the lucky one. You found him and you know in your heart of hearts that you love him and don't be afraid to show it to him.

Good luck with the future,
triquetra

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sml111992 answered Thursday January 31 2008, 4:07 pm:
you know your in love when theres no one you would rather be with then him. the little things he does like just walking behind you when you dont know it and he hugs you makes you smile from ear to ear. when you just lay next to him you both look into eachothers eyes and dont want to blink b.c your afraid he mite not be there when your eyes open again. everything with him just feels rite the thought of him not being here just makes you sick to your stomache. and other things ik the feelings to but i just cant describe. most important you know hell never cheat and trust him. you dont even think twice of him bein with another girl

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HiChick answered Thursday January 31 2008, 4:06 pm:
idk if your in love with him. tahts huge and only you can figure it out for yourself. i think of being in love with sumone as them being a part of you. you think about them all the time and cant imagine not seeing them and being with them and thay are really part of you. i think it takes a good while before your in love with someone but thats just me. Just say you know how we have alays said i love you? he will say ya. then say well i dont think i really knew what that meant then. and he will be like ok and then say but now i really love you. and i just wanted to tell you that and how much you mean to me. or sumthing like that. i hope i helped :]
~HiChick~

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hollister_lover09 answered Thursday January 31 2008, 4:06 pm:
Hunny, thats how I feel about my boyfriend. I'll tell you about how I know I'm in love. I cry when we fight, even when its stupid things. I can't go to sleep without saying goodnight to him, he really is all I think about anymore. When we first started dating, the first couple of months, all I did was talk about him to EVERYONE. And all my friends were getting mad at me, haha. All I want to do is talk to him, 24/7, I text him every minute. Hes 2 1/2 hours away from me, and I just can't wait to see him when I can. I keep everything we do. Like go to the movies, I'll keep the tickets, flowers, I'll keep.
To show him you really do love him, just tell him. I LOVE wearing his clothes. I'll do anything for him, really. Anything. He's truely my best friend ever, he knows everything about me, and I'm not scared to tell him my deepest secrets. Its really a gut feeling, and if you have it, then you should know that you love him. No one can tell you that, but yourself. Not me, not your friends, or family. Only you.
Be like I hope you know, I really do love you. Maybe make him dinner, make him a scrap book(I did that, super cute).
If you need anymore help, inbox me <33

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