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My 10 year old sister.
My 10 year old sister has a 13 year old friend and that friend is a complete girly girl and she constantly talks about her crushes (she can have 16 crushes at one time) her make up her clothes her nail polish blah blah blah now my sister is a tomboy and im not girly but im not tomboy and my sister kinda thinks its weird that her friend likes all that kind of stuff but her friend is always saying when your 13 you will feel this way and blah blah blah blah blah blah and my sister really will not feel that way ever thats not the way she is she start throwing a fit whenever mom wants her to go to the mall with us and she plays football and goes to school in those basketball shorts and long t-shirts and baseball caps she isnt going to change much in 3 years and she really wants her friend to stop saying all that stuff because its not true and you know that teenager feel like they know best and stuff but she is acting really stupid my sister just wants her to stop what should my sister do thanks to whoever answers this
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the next time she says that, just say something like we'll see in about 3 years. or just agree with her for her satisfaction.
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Well, you REALLY need to use periods. That was hard to read. But I was a total tomboy in middle school, but whenever I was about 14 I started to dress more "girly" Not all out, like highheels, but better dressing. So she might change. But just tell your sister, so ask the girl to stop talking about and she should like me(your sister) the way I(your sister) am. Sorry I was mean about the period thing, I just like proper grammar. <3
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I TOTALLY understand you. I have a sister, Sarah, and I was like, laughing when I read this because your sister is EXACTLY like mine. Seriously. But my sister also has friends (not older ones, but still) who are totally girly, right?
But I don't think there's really a problem here. Just tell her to stop. Tell her, "Okay, whatever you say. Just watch, in three years I'm going to be the same exact person and I bet you're going to say, 'When you're sixteen you'll feel this way'. And you know what? I'll just laugh." Or something like that. She knows herself best right? Just roll her eyes.
Still, if she never stops, I don't think you should make a big deal out of it. Their friends, but friends can't be perfect and if a friend is so sure that her friend is going to change even if she isn't going to isn't that much of a bad thing.
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i suggest you let your sister confront her freind about this and tell her that shes not girly and she likes being a tomboy and to stop telling her shes gonna change.She can be whatever she wants.I know that you,bein her older sister can go tell her this instead but you just gotta let her do it herself so she can be stronger.If she needs help youll be there for backup but she should do mosta it herself.
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She should accept the fact that this is one small thing she dislikes about this person. There's obviously tons of things she does like about her or they wouldn't be friends. This is just part of this girl's personality and she's acting like a typical girl her age.
If your sister doesn't like this aspect of her friend's personality than she should say something to her. It's best if she ignores this trait as it will lead to a fight and damage a friendship.
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