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Maria

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Would it be safe to say im in love if...

he's always on my mind

i danced with him and every time i think about it my heart literally skips a beat

i cry when i think about him leaving me for a different school next year

i think you get the picture....

I guess so. But no one else can really tell you if you're in love or not except for your own heart. You'll just know.

♥ Always,
Maria

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Do you think it would be ok for a 14 year old girl to go out with a 17 year old guy? he's really responsible.

Well I'm 14 and I wouldn't go out with a 17 year old guy even if he was really resposible. I would much rather stick to the guys our age. I think they're more fun anyways.

♥ Always,
Maria

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Okay, i like alot of guys, but i'm told there is someone
out there for me. I wan't things to happen so fast, but that's not right.My question is how do you know when
the right guy for you is possibly the one right in front of you. sincerely, Lacey.

It's just that special feeling. It's like when you feel like you can do absoloutley anything as long as that person was with you the whole way. It's hard to explain. But it's the greatest feeling ever!

♥ Always,
Maria

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I am jewish, people tell me all the time that in their religion there is a trinity of some sort. My question is how can Jesus, The Holy Ghost, and _________ make up G-d? I dont know the third one either.

I'm just a little confused.

~Nokomis~

It's The Father, The Son, And The Holy Spirit. God is all three because he's split up into those three different things. It has nothing to do with logic; it's all about believeing.

♥ Always,
Maria

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hey do you get what this means>>>>>whats your flavor

*PONDERS* Nope. Sorry. But it sounds dirty (=.

♥ Always,
Maria

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I was wondering what HIV AIDS are. Could you please tell me what it is.

HIV can result from sharing needles from one another or sharing blood somehow

AIDS destroys your immune system and makes it not able to function correctly.

They both suck.

♥ Always,
Maria

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im an alternate and the team members dont really eed me at the competition with them but i go just to support them. I didnt go to 2out of 7 and i got yelled at by my coach. She gets really mad and especially cuz this is my last one

So what exactly is your question?

♥ Always,
Maria

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Im looking for a coushy job. I want something pretty consistant and that doesnt require a whole lot hard labor. I want something simple.. Im not in dire need of money at the moment. I would just like something simple. Any ideas?

Work at Starbucks! Free coffee means free energy! (=

♥ Always,
Maria

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Are you sure you're a punker?

I mean, I DO believe punk died out a loooong time ago. Do you even know what punk means? It doesn't mean you're "misunderstood." If you think that, then you're just a brat. The positive defition of punk (and most common) is a young person opposed to the government (like hippies) or some official, and protest in music, in...protests, and for a REASON.

What reason are you "fighting" for, you punk?

It's a SONG! By Something Corporate. It's titled Punk Rock Princess. Sorry if it offended you in anyway I guess...Well not really especially after you called me a brat pretty much when you don't know anything about me!

Maria

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There is a girl I know and she thinks of me as a brother or a friend more than a boyfriend. But she used to like me as a boyfriend, yet I didn't see it. I feel really attached to her now through some stuff we have done(no, probly not what youre thinking). Do you think she will go back how she was? I don't want to lose her to someone else. What can I do to get her to like me more?
M-15

Just tell her how you feel. When a guy is more open, I think it makes the girl feel like she is really something special to the guy and it'll make it almost impossible for her to say no to you.

♥ Always,
Maria

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Friday night I was at the movies. Me,my 2 friends and this guy that likes me took some pictures. I sat on his lap. I have a boyfriend of 3 months. Is that cheating and is it bad and should I tell my boyfriend? I feel really bad! Please help!

It's not cheating but it was definetly wrong. I think you should tell him about but make sure he knows that it meant nothing to you!

♥ Always,
Maria

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Hey guys, I always have to have a book to read for my reading class. My teacher calls it our independent reading book. Anyways, I was wondering if any of you could give me the names of some really good books that you've read before. I love reading, and I can't seem to find any good books right now, so I was hoping someone could tell me some good books. I like to read fiction books, mysteries, or something that has to do with romance/relationships in it. If you can, please helpt me out! Thank you so very much! :)

I love Go Ask Alice. It's a real diary of a young girl that gets into drugs and partying and running away from home. I love that book! The sad part is that she dies 2 weeks after she realizes she should stop the drugs /=

♥ Always,
Maria

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i was wondering if any of you guys had a few cute quotes for my profile. i dont really have good ones and if you could send me a few that would be great. thank you.

Sign up for xanga (www.xanga.com) then in the search bar, look up quotes and choose blogrings. There's always so many wonderful sites with quotes!

♥ Always,
Maria

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alright. for about two years i have been cutting myself. and at first it was very innocent (little scratches with saftey pins... butter knifes, things like that) then one day i ginaed access to a really sharp razor blade and cut extremely deep. and for a year and a half thats how i have been doing it, because it is so addictive. more than once a day, and so i can go to sleep at night. most of my friends found out, one way or another and eventually my best friend got me to tell the guidance counselor. my dad now knows, and so does my psychiatrist (whom i have been seeing since I was 8 and my mom died). but i know he doesnt want me doing it, and niether do my friends. so latelyt i havent. but things got worse. im always pissed off at everyone, and lash out. also, i have been thinking about suicide more and more. i always considered it before but never like this. but when i talk to my friends, all the do is beg and pleed with me to stop. I CANT. when i was on the bus, i started tasting blood in my mouth, and noticed I had been bitting a chunk of my lip off as a pain reliever involuntarily. last night, I cut again and felt SOOO much better. but im so afraid someone will find out and be angry. im on medicine, and everything, it just sux. snapping rubberbands, and all that doesnt help. I know this is long, but im so upset with myself, I just dont know.

I rate 5s.

Manda.

Hey darling. I have a freind that does that but sadly she got put into the state mental hospital and it's really scary. Just know that everyone around you loves you and cares about you and that your mom is always going to be with you and that she wouldn't want you doing any of this either. But good luck and I truly hope you feel happier SOON. Live your life to the fullest and try to forget everything bad that ever happened to you!

♥ Always,
Maria

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does anyone know and good, depressing, sad songs? not that im sad or anything, but i love listening to them, like sad songs by evanescence. does anyone know any other good ones?

Listen to Hawthorne Heights or Taking Back Sunday or Something Corporate.

♥ Always,
Maria

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I have this friend, and I love her so much!! (sisterly) And we are best friends, well, she just discovered boys and there is one that she really likes. whenever we're together, it's all she talks about and thinks about. all she wants to do is look at pictures of him and talk about him!! I love her so mucha dn i don't wanna lose her. I've tried talking to her, but she'll get all mad at me. PLEASE HELP!

I think eventually her obsession of boys will go away to where you two can talk about other things! Don't worry, you won't lose her. I think it's a stage every girl goes through! I went through it in 6th grade but now I can have conversations other than guys!

♥ Always,
Maria

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Ok, there is this boy named David in 1/6 of my classes. He sits in the last seat in the row next to me. My friend sits right behind me and whenever I turn to talk to her, I catch David staring at me and we suddenly make eye contact. Out of that infomation ( I might add more ), do you think he likes me?

He probably does. I mean, a guy doesn't just look at you for no reason!

♥ Always,
Maria

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ill admit, we had our bad days. Me and will, well we went out a coupl of time over the years. I always ended up being the one to break it off. it never seemed right. Then he asked me back out and this time it was diff. i mean we got along SO MUCH BETTER then we ever did. then on 8th grade graduation night, he dumped me for no reason. he says he is over me and i swore i was over him too. now its like an old flame is being rekindled. he doesnt wanna try again but i think there might be something here we can build on. anyone have any advice for what i should tell him??? please help me if you do!! Love Kels

Tell him exactly how you feel. If he rejects you, then the only thing you can do is move on and find someone new. But at least you know you tried.

♥ Always,
Maria

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my dad is in the navy, so 4 like 2 or 1 more year he'll be stationed in bahrain.
my mom 1 time answered his phone when he was here visitin and out golfin.it was a womans voice. and then again when she text messaged him.
im worried,and my mom has been cryin every now and then. i need desperate help. im so sad, i always feel like cryin and feel like goin goth.
plz help me

Maybe you and your mom are expecting the worst when it could be just a friend or something! Definetely be up front with him and ask him what exactly he's been up to! If it ends up that he was cheating on your mom, there's nothing that can really relieve your pain except for accepting it and moving on. That's what life is all about: Dealing.

♥ Always,
Maria

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