Ok, me -n- my b/f hooked up less than a week ago and he gives me a hug all the time...well at least a few times a day when I see him. And I really want a kiss soon tho. What do you guys think I can do to get him to kiss me without showing that I really want him to? Answer soon please cuz tomorrow is friday!!
anonymous -
I know you must be eager to receive that kiss from him, but there isn't really any way that you can get him to do it. My personal opinion, I'd advise not to try and pressure him into it because you've only been together a week and a possible reason he hasn't kissed you yet is because it want's the relationship to be at a steady pace.
But if you want that kiss really bad, you can make the first move. A lot of guys like that. :)
Hope this helps!
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what is oral sex and what do you do for it?
anonymous -
I'm not sure if you're a girl or a boy, but I'll include both.
To perform oral sex on a girl, it involves the boy licking the girl's clitoris and sucking her vaginal lips, often referred to as "eating a girl out".
To perform oral sex on a boy, the girl sucks the guy's penis in a repetitive motion, known as a "blowjob".
Hope this helps!
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ok my friend is like really selfish. and she is REALLY clingy. when she gives an example about something like a good singer she uses herself, and when i say like "or me" she says "o my god! just becaus i said im a good singer doesnt mean you have to turn it around on yourself!" i know im a way better singer than her. and she ALWAYS calls me a fat ass. she also always brags about how skinny she is by saying "o my god look how fat i am in my gym suit!" and i give her a really mean look and tell her to shut her mouth and stop bragging and she always laughs like im kidding and i tell her im not and she says "o my god! just because i think im fat doesnt mean you have to say im bragging!" she exercises soooooooo much!please help i dont wanna kill our frendship
anonymous -
I think the best thing to do in a situation like this is sit down and have a serious talk with her. She obviously is fishing for compliments with the whole fat issue and brags a lot. I hate to say, but she is the epitome of a conceited bitch.
You need to tell her that you're really bothered by her behavior. And if you, a friend, sees how she is and is able to tolerate it to a certain extent, I'd hate to know what others think about her. Confront her about what she's done, but at the same time keep things civil. Refrain from name calling and pointing fingers, just lay out the facts.
She needs to realize that by doing what she's doing that she's giving off a bad first impression to a lot of people. If she gets offended, reassure her that you're only talking to her about it cuz your friendship means a lot to you, and that the least she could do is listen to you and consider your feelings.
Good luck! :)
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i exercise a lot. i do at least 250 sit ups a day and i pogo-stick i also run. i eat like a granola bar 4 breakfast, a turkey sandwich for lunch with baked lays (1.5 grams of fat), and only like 10 grams of fat 4 dinner. im really fat, i weigh 128 lbs and im 13, 5ft 1 in, i have been since i was 12! i dont know why im so fat around my abs, above my hips, thighs, and stomach. please help, im desperste 4 weight loss!
anonymous -
That's not fat! Look at your friends entry a little below your question. :)
Since you said it wasn't what you asked, try doing cardio (running, jogging, etc). It gets your heart rate up and speeds up your metabolism. Green tea also helps metabolism, and you should eat reasonably. By depriving yourself of calories, it slows down your metabolism, making you more susceptable to gaining weight.
Hope this helps!
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my friend is 12 years old and she was wonderin if it was normal for a 12 yr old grl to be 5 ft 1 in and 128 lbs, im 13 if it helps. please help us
anonymous -
Yea that's completely normal. Some girls grow at different stages so I wouldn't worry about it too much.
I don't know why you titled this question as "overweight", but 128 lbs is pretty proportional. I'm 5'1 also, weigh about 120, and wear a size 4. Your friend has nothing to worry about! :)
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See, my friend has been going out with this girl since october, I'm very good friends with her, and liked her a couple months before my friend and her started going out. Me and the girl have known eachother for atleast 4 years, I'm friends with her brother, whos younger than me, Lately my friend has become annoyed with The girl (whos also my friend) avoiding her phone calls, stuff like that. Lately the girl has been flirting with me on IM, sending me kissy faces, saying I'm her best bud, always trying to be beside me in public places when (my friend, her BF is not around) hugging on me in a playful non shalont way, etc. But then she'll say something like i wish My boyfriend was here, or something like that. Which is kool, because i would never go behind my friends back, shes just a friend. But she asks if i could do stuff with her would I? If my friend wouldn't find out. I tell her no, not unless she broke up with my friend, and still probably wouldn't cuz he might be hurt. Whats goin on with this chick? Is she liken me? or my friend...or both of us? HaHa, shes acten weird, never has been like this before.
anonymous -
The vibe I'm getting from this girl is that she's trying to make your friend jealous by clinging to you. Because he's been avoiding her, she's upset and trying to get back at him. Either that, or she wants the attention your friend is depriving her of.
Us girls act weird, I know.
Hope this helps!
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i have a boyfriend, and we were having some problems over the past week! Then over the weekend my friend(lets name her A.) came up to me and said that my boyfriend was going to break up with me, and i was all upset!! Then on monday at school, someone told me that my boyfriend went to the movies with some people and was planning on meeting a girl there...(i found out later that it was the girl named A., the girl that told me that he was going to break up with me) luckly she didnt show!! Then i heard from someone else that my boyfirend was planning on making-out with her.... and so then i talked to my boyfriend on the phone that night and was like what is going on, and he told me his story and that the making-out thing wasnt true but meeting a girl there was true( he said that they were just going as friends)!!! Then i was like then why didnt you tell me you wanted to meet her,(they have never met before, they just know each other through me)and he just said that she invited me to see a movie and he said yes....and he went and everything but the girl said she couldnt go like 5 minutes before...i just dotn know what to do,should i give him another chance or dump him????
please help me!!!!
(in the past he cheated on one of his past girl-friends)
anonymous -
I wouldn't put all the blame on your boyfriend, it seems like your friend A is the culprit. I mean, she knows you and him were dating, yet she invited him to a movie without telling you. Seems a bit suspicious if you ask me.
With your boyfriend, I agree that it's wrong of him not to tell you about the incident. I don't know how long you've been dating him, but if it's been awhile and he's been loyal the entire time, I'd give him another chance. Just because he cheated on one of his past girlfriends, doesn't mean he'll cheat on you. Maybe his ex was just a biatch lol.
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ok.... my "so called friends" r blaming me for an email that I didnt write but they wont belive me. they were calling me names and crap then they wrot me emails that were really mean.. Everyone wants out of this expect the ppl blaming me!! so i have ICQ then this girl of me so called friens was cussing me out!!! then on the bus they were throwing paper at me now they really hate me... and the worst thin about the fight is that one of my friends r my science lab parenter!!!!! then she acts liked everything is ok but it is not
what should i do
i rate 5's!!!
signed
confused
confused -
These "friends" don't seem like friends at all! I'm not sure how all this email situation occurred, but if you want to gain your friends' trust and friendship back, you'd have to prove your innocence (i.e. submit proof). Words don't seem to cut it with your friends regardless of how sincere you are. They'll be persuaded with some good evidence.
If that's not possible, call them up on the phone and keep the conversation civil. Just reassure them to hear you out, because their friendship really means a lot to you. They should be curious on what you have to say. If not, email them.
Good luck!
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ok well i 13/m like this girl 14/f and we are really great friends and we trust each other with everything. So she recently broke up with her boyfriend of about a month. But she told me that she likes her ex of 1 year and a half. this is a problem because they might get back together soon so i was wondering id i should make a move? i really do like her and i have for a year.
anonymous -
I'd say give it a little time first. Cuz you don't want to force her into a relationship, especially if you don't know how she feels about you. Since she doesn't know what she wants right now, give her maybe a month to think things over; if she's still free, go for it!
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Ok...Here's the story. I have been friends with this guy since the 5th grade.We're both 16 and I have had a crush on him since 5th grade too. Finally, 5 years later,(2 months ago), we went out for a month. I thought "Wow, I can't believe this.It's what I've always wanted." Well it wasn't. He was always around his friends. I mean I don't see ANYTHING wrong with guy time,because I want girl time too. But he was ALWAYS with them. He barely called cause he was always with them. The funny thing was that before we went out we talked every night for like 4 hours! I adored him and I know he adored me. But being alone all the time just wasn't working. So we broke up. We THANKFULLY went back to being best friends again. Well now 2 months later we have a little problem. We went to a party and we kissed...I loved it and I know he did. Then 3 days later I asked if he liked me. His answer was "Yea but I don't see us as anything more than friends right now...but yes I do like you." I was devastated...did I read his signals wrong? Well we had a heart to heart and came to an understanding and hung up the phone with saying we loved each other! The next night we went to a basketball game, then to the pool hall. As he played pool and I sat there watching...our eyes met for the longest time,he smiled at me with the cutest smile, and my heart just melted! "Maybe he really does like me the way I like him!!" I thought. Well when it was time for me to leave he said "Bye I'll call you later" Without anything else...he usually hugs me or kisses me on the cheek!! Once again...a signal misread. My friend Beth, whom was there throughout it all, spoke to him one night about it. He said he didn't want me to like him the way I did because he didn't know what he wanted right now and that he didn't want it to end up like last time and him "hurting me". Problem was...he never hurt me! Now, almost a week later, we have yet to speak to each other. BIG CHARACTER HERE!! Morgan... a girl he is/was in love with has hurt him twice. They didn't even go out...she lead him on and then let him down. He claims he doesn't care anything for her. I believe him...but if I could just find out what it was that he loved about her I would change and just to gain AT LEAST one characteristic he loved about her! I have never been like this...I've always said I would never change for anyone! Especially not for some guy. But for him I will do anything. WHAT DO I DO!! Please don't say "Girl, don't change for anyone" or "Let him come to you"...seriously HELP ME!!
anonymous -
Hun, I know you really like this guy, but it's not worth it to change for him. If you want a relationship to happen between you and him, he has to like you FOR YOU. If someone doesn't love you for who you are, flaws and all, and you know you deserve better than that. The only acceptable reason for you to change a part of yourself is FOR YOURSELF, so that it will benefit you, not someone else.
What I'd suggest you do is maybe just sit down and talk with him about this. Tell him how you feel and clarify the "you hurting him" thing. I know this may be the last thing you want to hear right now, but if he decides that he doesn't want a relationship at the moment, as a friend, you should respect his decision. Otherwise, if you end up pursuing a guy that isn't interested, most likely you'll get hurt in the end.
With whatever decision you both agree upon, if you end up singled out, think of it this way, it's fun! You can flirt and mingle without having to worry about a guy back home. Just enjoy your life whether it's with him or not :) Life's too short!
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any web.sites that tell you like what happens to you when you have sex.. example your hips get bigger.. what other things happen?!
anonymous -
To start, just type in the description on google and something should pop up. Here's a good sex show website:
http://www.talksexwithsue.com
It's a show on the Oxygen channel and it has a lot of good information. Go under the forum and look from there.
If that isn't enough, just personally come ask me and we'll discuss. What I can tell you right now is that your hips don't get bigger! It hurts the first time because your hymen rips, but if you use tampons, it might not hurt as much. Only tips I have is use protection and lots of lube, otherwise all of the thrusting might rub you raw. Definitely not a good thing!
Hope this helps!
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13/f..Me and my best friend are going to florida (Disney World) over spring break and we are SO excited but also nervous. We promised eachother we'd both find guys to hang out with because were both single! But were both kinda shy to strangers and we dont know how wed meet people.? Were probably going to be at the pool alot cuz our hotel has a wicked nice pool and well of course be at Disney! HeLp!!
anonymous -
I hate to say it, but in order to find guys to hang out with, you may have to step out of your comfort zone and strike up a conversation! I'm a pretty shy girl too, but since you're going to Disney World, it shouldn't be too hard cuz you can find guys when you wait to go on a ride! Just make simple comments like compliment a guys shirt or hat then relate it back to you. For example:
"Hey, I really like you're shirt. Where did you get it? Oh that's cool, my name is ________ by the way and this is my friend, __________. So where are you guys from? What hotel are you staying at?"
Soon enough the conversation will continue on it's own.
Good luck and have fun! :)
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I'm 14 years old, I'm a male, I'm in the 8th grade and my girlfriends in 9th. Recently I have been hearing some sketchy stuff about her, that shes flirty at school and all over some guys. I asked her about this and she told me that its not true, then I had heard about some things she'd done in her past, and asked her about that and she told me that she hadn't done any of the things I asked her about, and that they were just rumors, then I found out in detail of what she had done, the guys name, where, when, what. And confronted her about it, then she told the truth and said she had done those things with that guy but was scared/embarassed to tell me. And i told her that i was having trouble believing that she wasn't flirty at school, and she got upset and couldn't understand why i didn't believe her, I told her i didn't know what to believe because on one hand i want to believe her, on the other hand she lied to me blatently so I'm having trouble deciding wether or not to believe her??? Break-up, take some time off????? Now I try to call her cell phone and she doesn't pick up, we haven't talked in a week, but we are both very busy, her with cheer, me with wrestling.I like her, but I'm beginning to think if we're both busy, and I'm making an effort to call her and she never calls back, apparently i care more than her about our relationship... What should I do?!?!?!
anonymous -
In my opinion, I think you should break up with her. Why because like you said, you apparently care more about the relationship. If she's not willing to work things out after this dispute, she's not committed to you and not worth it at all.
I've been with my boyfriend for nearly three years now, and what you're going through resembles one fight we had. I betrayed his trust once, and after that he had trouble believing my words just like your situation. Cuz after all, the mind tells you that once a person lies, they're most likely to do it again so you can't really trust them. He heard some things that I did, and I denied it cuz it was the truth, and he still didn't believe me. I did everything in my ability to prove to him that I was telling the truth. From experience, if your girlfriend is honest about not flirting, she'd try and prove it to you if she cared for you. And a busy schedule is no excuse for her not to pick up. The least she could do is reserve as little as 5 minutes to you.
I'm sorry, but your girlfriend sounds shady. Trust and communication are two of the most important foundations in a relationship. If she cannot fulfill both, find someone else.
Hope this helped!
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I like this boy at school. Were getting to know eachother. But I think I am starting to like him. He might know already that I like him but all most every girl in school likes him. Should I tell him that I like him or keep it to myself. And also my friend dared me to grab his dick, and I told him yesterday on the bus thats what I have to do should I do that too?
anonymous -
Doing what your friend dared you to won't prove anything to this guy. The only thing it will prove is that you're easy...and that's never a good impression to make on a guy that you really like!
If you like this guy, keep doing what you're doing and get to know him better. As for telling him how you feel, I'd say go for it if you think he may feel the same way. Guys like a girl that can express her feelings, compared to girls who tell their friends to talk to the guy cuz they're too scared.
Good luck!
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i've been with my current boyfriend for a long time and he means sooo much to me. but lately, i've become really good friends with my ex. i don't want to give up the bond we've made, but i'm starting to have stronger feelings for him than just friendship and i DON'T want to make a mistake that could hurt my boyfriend who i love! i really need some suggestions on how to clear up any fuzzy boundaries between a friendship and a relationship, please!
anonymous -
Obviously your ex is well...your ex. Apparently there was something wrong that it didn't work out; if you get back together with him, how do you know that what caused you two to break up won't happen again?
You love your boyfriend. That should be enough information to help you with your decision. :)
Good luck!
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I am an 8th grader and my boyfriend is a 7th grader. I really like him but i want to know what i should do when i go to high school and my boyfriend is still in middle school. Should i break up with him or should i keep the relationship and see him on the weekends?
anonymous -
A one year difference isn't all that bad. If you really care for him, it wouldn't matter how old he is. I'm assuming that you're afraid of the taunting that might follow this relationship, right? It's not that big of a deal, I can tell you that. Throughout my time in high school I had senior friends who dated freshmen (3-4 year age difference). So don't worry about it, age is just a number.
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Ive known this guy since 7th grade, were in 10th now. So anyways, we never really got along until about the end of 8th grade. And then i found out he has a crush on me, and it was the most obvious crush ive seen before, lol. I told him i wanted to be just friends and he said he was cool with that up until recently. He started acting like guy who was crushing on me again, and this time its more like a I WANT YOU HORRIBLY! type thing cuz he cant keep his hands off me. Now my problem is that part of me wants him, and he wants me, but im not sure if i should go for it because weve been friends for so long. I want to do it, but then i dont. Has anyone been in this situation, what did you do? It just feels so akward and confusing!
anonymous -
If you don't want to ruin the friendship and yet want to pursue a relationship with this guy, talk to him about it. Come to common ground like make an agreement that if you two were to ever break up, that the break up wouldn't influence the friendship (as hard as that may be). It really depends on your point of view; will both of you benefit from the friendship more or the relationship? After that's decided and done with, make your decision.
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I have a friend that consistently acts highly interested in everything I do and offers help that I don't really need. He extends invitations for me to participate in events he will be participating in. He seems excited to see me and strikes up conversation over redundant things. Recently I called him to take him up on an offer he made, he acted distant, cold and brief and said he would call back and didn't. What is going on? Is he interested, flaky, did I misinterpret his intentions, should I just brush him off now?
anonymous -
It is indeed odd for him to start behaving significantly different around you considering the information you provided. If your friendship with him means a lot to you, then I wouldn't brush him off. But if not, maybe you should consider it. Get to the bottom of it first before you make your decision though; it all might be just a misunderstanding.
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What hair products [ shampoo, conditioner, straightening balm, etc ] do you recommend that will make your hair STAY straight and shiny and smooth throughout the day ?? ♥
anonymous -
It depends on how curly/frizzy your hair is naturally. I have wavy hair that tends to get frizzy every now and then, and what I found that works for me is the rotating brush called the Revo-Styler. I'm not sure sure if it will work for you but here's the process I go through to straighten my hair:
-shower at night to let hair get a chance to dry and settle
-use rotating brush or round brush and blowdry (if using the rotating brush, make the brush rotate outward *like a flip* and blowdry tips to roots)
-get a flatiron or even a curling iron to put finishing touches
It stays straight all day! Hope this helps!
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Hey! My boyfriend and I have been going out for ten months in March, and I really think that him and I are in love. Not just in a physical sense, but him and I connect mentally. We both really enjoy intellectual discussions about anything and everything. We can talk about any problems that we're having and the other can almost always relate. We can stay on the phone for hours at a time and not get bored, and both of us are extremely loyal to the other. We're just like best friends excluding the romance part. We're really close. The only thing is, sometimes it gets so discouraging when people say we're too young to be in love. I know we're both in love with each other, but other than getting married when we're able to (He and I are both fourteen), how can we deal with annoying old people who think love can only be understood at a certain age? Thanks in advance.
anonymous -
Usually the reason why old people tend to jump to that conclusion is because at a young age, you're still growing physically and mentally. It's a given that as people age they change, and as people change, there is always that possibility to "fall out of love".
Don't get too discouraged about it though. I can understand how it can get very annoying because they aren't seeing things from your perspective, but they're just trying to look out for you to ensure that you won't get hurt by this guy. An odd way to look out for you, but adults tend to find interesting ways to express how they feel.
As for dealing with them, just reassure them that you are growing up, and explain exactly how you're in love to handle this misunderstanding. What matters is that you're happy, and they should be happy for you as well.
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