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Okay i like this song but i dont know who sings it nor what is the title

I am pretty sure its Cascada though... because it had that whole techno/dance beat to it

and i am not good at remembering lyric but only part I remember is

"We are in heaveennnnn"

so somebody please help?

I think it's 'Heaven' by DJ Sammy, but it's the techno version, because there's a slow version too.

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I'm doing a report on the social injustices of Anti-Abortion laws. Does anyone have any pro-choice opinions on why abortion should stay legal, and general opinions on the topic?

I honestly see both sides to abortion. I believe in the right for women to make whatever choice that they want to. I don't think it's right when people constantly don't use protection, and use abortion as a way out to fix their mistakes. I think that people should deal with the consequences of their actions, and they shouldn't kill a baby because they wanted to have a night of fun. At a same time, what if a woman got raped by a man and got pregnant? Even if the baby was technically hers, it's also the rapists' too. What woman would want to give birth to a child, when everyday she'll be reminded of that horrible day? Also, a teenage girl might get pregnant. She might decide that she honestly isn't ready, and knows that she can't support a baby. My boyfriend's friends girlfriend had an abortion, and this is what she said. She wants to be able to have a baby and give it absoltely everything, and she knows that she's too young to give that to her child now. It's not like she's absolutely heartless, and just forgot about the abortion and moved on with her life. She's constantly reminded of it everyday, and everyday the littlest things will remind her of it and she'll break down. She really wanted to keep it, but she knew she couldn't. I really believe it's the woman's own choice. I personally don't like the idea of abortion, but sometimes it really is a better solution than others. It's a sensitive topic and a lot of people have different ideas about it. It really is up to the own woman. Her body, her choice.

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how do you make your font bigger on myspace?

you can just do

your text here


if you do just one , it will increase one point size. if you go , it will be two point sizes bigger. you can just keep going up.

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my boyfriends friends are really perverted. and im fourteen and kinda big like 36d big. and they always say grose things to him about my boobs and they always try to grab me. and he tells them to knock it off but they dont listen and he just gives it up. they keep telling me one day when i least expect it there all gonna rape me. and he just tells me they dont have the balls to do that. and it really annoying what should i do?

To the person down there a bit, so maybe the boys DO think that you're hot. Are you going to let them walk all over you and threaten to rape you -even if they are kidding, just because they think you're hot? There's limit to when guys can show that they think you're attractive, and those boys crossed the line. No group of boys should ever say that they're going to rape you when you least expect it, and they should NOT be grabbing your boobs when you don't want them do. You have to tell your boyfriend that you're extremely uncomfortable when you're around his friends and by the way that they act. If they keep it up, you have to tell a trusted adult. Even if they're joking now, things can get serious because the boys know that they could walk all over you. You never know, they might take advantage of you when you least expect it.

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69.. what is it exactly.?
thanks..

It's short for a sex position. It's when two people are performing oral on eachother at the same time. It's '69' because their bodies kind of resemble that.

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when you masterbate can you get pregant off of it and what happens when you on your period and you masterbate at the same time.

You can't get pregnant from masturbating. Nothing happens when you masturbate when you're on your period. It's alright if you masturbate when you have your period.

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uhh yeah so this is weird but like im a girl and i was just wondering how some of you masturbate withought using anything you have to go out and buy. pleassssssse ansawer

if you go to www.solotouch.com or www.selftouch.com - i'm not sure which one it was, there's a 'techniques' section. you can look around until you find something that sounds like it'd work good for you. experiment!

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I need your help deciding what the ideal menu for a public dinner would be.

Not knowing what would be the best dishes to serve is making this an impossible task.

If you will tell me your favorite foods, or point me to your favorite recipes, it would really help a lot.

You can list as many things as you like. They don't have to be fancy things at all. I am all about the comfort food baby! :)

This will be a mixed group of people so I would like to have something for everyone.

Cooking for a banquet is not as hard as trying to figure out WHAT to cook!

Everyone will receive feedback.

Thank you!

P.S. If all that was a lot to digest, pun intended, here is a summary: Please list all your favorite foods.

Ice Cream
Ice Cream Cake
Lasagna
Pasta
Chicken
BBQ Pork Sandwiches
Chicken Ceasar Salad
Chicken Wing Dip
Chocolate
Sponge Candy
Mashed Potatoes
Pizza
Watermelon
Stawberries
Turkey Sandwiches
Stuffing
Grilled Cheese

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hm well i didnt know what to put this under put i have never used a tampon before and i am going to a waterpark this saturday and unfortunatly, i just started my perios =[. i am really nervous because i dont like being tuoched or anything being stuck up my vaginal area, its uncomfortable. my sister said to use ky jelly, does that help? im not sure how heavy it is gonna be but is it okay to start out with beginner tampons? and how much does it hurt to take out, ill probably cry. i get soo uncomfortable down there so if there is any tips please help!

thanks in advancee =]

I used to try to put in tampons, and they KILLED! It's because I was doing it wrong. When you're doing it right, you can barely feel the tampon going in & out. You just need to practice on finding the right angle. My friend learned how to use a tampon but using a mirror to look. It sounds gross, but she said it helped a lot. If it hurts, then it's not in the right way -it shouldn't hurt at all. The only time it hurts to take the tampon out, is when the tampons dry.

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what is dry sex/what is dry humping? thanks.

Dry sex/Dry humping are the same thing. Basically, you hump eachother with clothes on. It's like you're having sex, but there's no penetration, because there's clothes.

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im 14/f and im like a skater-type girl. (think lilly from hannah montana) and i hang out with my guy friends alot (even though i have friends who are girls) i straighten my hair and wear makeup and stuff but will guys not want to go out with me because i skateboard and wear like dc shoes and i dont wear like all abercrombie??

just because you skateboard and don't wear abercrombie, doesn't mean a guy won't like you. some guys don't care how a girl dresses or what her hobbies does, and some guys really think its hot that a girl can skateboard. different guys have different preferances. just don't ever change to suite some guy's preferances. =)

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ok i am just curious
when a girl gives a guy a bj
why should she enjoy this?
i mean isn't just the thought of having his thing in her mouth disgusting? and swallowing his cum... wouldn't that just taste and make you feel disgusting?! i'm just wondering cause i don't get it at all why anyone would want to do that!

Girls usually do it because they want to please the boy. A lot of girls don't really like doing it.

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I`m only 13 and my parents treat me like I`m 18 and they won't buy me ANYTHING! They make me pay for my clothes, my food when I go out to eat, staying at hotels for a family vacation, and basically everything. They won't even buy me a pack of gum! I'm only 13 and I can't really have a well-paying job and I already walk dogs but that can't pay for everything.. I can't even shop anymore because I don't have enough money for more then 2 shirts and as soon as I buy 2 shirts I have to save up for another 3 months until I have any money again.

It really annoys me because my friends always brag about how their mom took them to the mall and bought them 9 bags of clothes and they didn't have to pay. My parents haven't bought me any clothes since I was 11. My mom never takes me to the mall because she says "I don't like to drive and it's too far away." Yeah, the mall is literally 10 minutes away. I still have all winter clothes to survive in this summer because I have NO money to buy anything and my birthday has already passed.

Don't you think it's harsh to make a 13 year old pay for EVERYTHING including like gum and stuff?! The most I can do is walk dogs and it's not like they are punishing me for being a bad kid because I get straight A's and I'm never in trouble so it's not a punishment.. I think they are so harsh because clothes are a necessity and all of my friends sit on their butts and get everything handed to them and I`m trying to pay for everything and it's not going to work out.. I've already tried telling them that it's impossible to pay for my own wardrobe and food and stuff when my only way of getting money is walking dogs because my parents don't pay me for helping out around the house and stuff.. so how can I get them to lighten up and at least pay for SOME of my clothes and other stuff? because it would be helpful if they pitched in a little bit.

P.S if you think I should start babysitting to make money how do I bring this up with my parents?? and I ONLY want to babysit for my neighbors so should I tell them straight out I want to babysit or should my mom tell them?

That is tough. I'm 15 and I know I wouldn't be able to pay for absolutely everything of mine by yourself. Sit your parents down and ask them why you're so harsh. Tell them that you're a good kid and you get straight A's. Let them know that you know that they're just trying to prepare you for the real world and teaching you responsibility, but it's tough to get money to pay for all of your own things. Since you help out around the house, ask if you can get a weekly allowance. Tell that that you'll be easier to buy things. Ask them if they can lighen up a little bit, like buy you some new summer clothes because you've outgrown all of your old ones and your winter clothes aren't going to last that much longer and if they can buy small things for you like gum and such.

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Well you know that sign people sometimes make ware they make a peice sign and stick their tounge out between their fingers?

We'll i'm pretty sure i know what that means but two people told me it meant something different.

what does it mean?

To put it nicely .... basically represents oral sex to a girl.

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What are good foods and drinks to have during your period? What are bad foods and drinks?

You can basically eat anything. If you want to avoid being bloated, don't eat too much salt.

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Today is the first day of my period and which is usually one of the heaviest days. I have been sitting around most of today watching television and doing things on my laptop. Is it ok that I have been sitting down and not standing up? Will the affect my period?

Nope, it won't affect your period. :)

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my boyfriend punches me alot and calls me a whore,slut,hoe etc. i usually am good about hiding the bruises his friends tell me he doesnt mean it and should take him serious. he always apoligizes and i have been with him for a year and hes always nice to me. so i forgive him but im afraid of him. im not oignt oo dump him. does anyone have any toher advice?

That's abuse. Break up with him, NOW! If you stay with him, matters will get worse - because he knows that you won't leave him & that you won't tell anybody. Abusive relationships will scar you for the rest of your life, and you'll have trouble trusting people. Take it serious, and don't listen to his friends. His friends don't know anything.

Signs of an abusive relationship:
-harms you physically in any way, including slapping, pushing, grabbing, shaking, smacking, kicking, and punching
-tries to control different aspects of your life, such as how you dress, who you hang out with, and what you say
-frequently humiliates you or making you feel unworthy (for example, if a partner puts you down but tells you that he or she loves you)
-coerces or threatens to harm you if you leave the relationship
-twists the truth to make you feel you are to blame for your partner's actions
-demands to know where you are at all times
-constantly becomes jealous or angry when you want to spend time with your friends


If you can't love him without being afraid, that means that the relationship needs to be over. You shouldn't be afraid of somebody that you're with. Nobody can control you, and he's treating you like he can. Get out, fast. Try to look in your phonebook for crisis centers and teen hotlines.

http://www.kidshealth.org/teen/your_mind/relationships/abuse.html

there's some more information.

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Is masturbation healthy?

Yes. It relieve stress and sexual tension. It's perfectly fine.

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okay..so im 14/f and
theres this guy i liked-
i liked him so much.. and i liked him for like 8 months..
we are kinda close..
like i gave him a t-shirt for his birthday and he wears it often~
hes very nice to me and it seemed like he likes me too


our school had this festival thing today.. and i dedcied to confess. i was going crazy with my friends..!
i kno it souds stupid..when girls confess to guys
i called him after the festival and told him to come to the tennis court..
when he came... i couldnt say anthing.
i was just like...ummm.. i think i like you..
i wanna know if u like me too ..

well he said.. he just wants to be friends..

this all happend today and i feel so dumb now.
i've never asked any guy to go out in my life;
i feel so stupid and.. i hate this whole world now!!!!!!!
the thing is.. everyone thinks and knows that i like him
even my mom asked me today if i like anyone cause she heard a rumor about me..
i think some of my friends told their moms about it.

i wanna know.. does anyone(girls) got dumped by guys???when you ask them to go out?tell me please..!
ooo and do u guys tell everthing to your mom???
i dont.. but i realized today that my friends do.

thanx=)

It's happened to me before, so don't worry you're not alone. I felt the same way that you did, but after awhile you'll get over him and laugh and realize he wasn't worth the embarrassment. :)

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Theres a song that goes SOMETHING(not sure if these are the real words) like this:

do you feel like a man, when you push her around?
do you feel better now, when she falls to the ground?


Can you give me the artist, lyrics & the name of that song?


thankss!

Face Down by The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus

Hey girl you know you drive me crazy.
One look puts the rythym in my hand.
Still I never understand you hang around.
I see what's going down.
Cover up with make up in the mirror.
Tell yourself it's never gonna happen again.
You cry alone and then he swears he loves you.

Do you feel like man when you push her around?
Do you feel better now as she falls to the ground?
Well I'll tell you my friend.
One day this world's going to end.
As your lies crumble down, a new life she has found.

A pebble in the water makes a ripple effect.
Every action in this world will bear a consequence.
If you wade around forever you will surely drown.
I see what's going down.

I see the way you go and say you're right again.
Say you're right again.
Heed my lecture.

Do you feel like a man when you push her around?
Do you feel better now as she falls to the ground?
Well I'll tell you my friend.
One day this world's going to end.
As your lies crumble down, a new life she has found.

Face down in the dirt, she said "This doesn't hurt."
She said "I''ve finally had enough."
Face down in the dirt, she said "This doesn't hurt."
She said "I've finally had enough."

One day she will tell you that she has had enough.
It's coming round again.

Do you feel like a man when you push her around?
Do you feel better now as she falls to the ground?
Well I'll tell you my friend.
One day this world's going to end.
As your lies crumble down, a new life she has found.

Do you feel like a man when you push her around?
Do you feel better now as she falls to the ground?
Well I'll tell you my friend.
One day this world's going to end.
As your lies crumble down, a new life she has found.

Face down in the dirt, she said "This doesn't hurt."
She said "I've finally had enough."

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