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E-mail: jeanine0408@yahoo.com
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hey okay well i have been going out with my boyfriend for only about a month...well he has only been my like 3rd realy relationship and the only guy outta them 3 that i really really like. in my past ive always been known not to be the girlfriend type just someone to hook up with or do whatever with because everytime i see someone i like or they like me i just wanna hook up with them or do anything else. Im really scared that im gonna cheat on him and i don't want to because im actually starting to fall in love with him! what should i do? (link)
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then dont cheat on him!! if u really love him.. u will be able to stop urself from cheating if u get into that situation. if u cheat on him..and he finds out.. u've lost him. just refrain urself from getting into a situation where u might be tempted to cheat!!
if u need anything else.. drop one in the inbox!!
**Jeanine**
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This might sound a lil weird.. but im 15 and i was wondering when is the best age to start having sex? (link)
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Whenever u r ready. if u feel comfortable having sex, then ur old enuff to have sex. im only 14 and i have had sex before. if u dont feel comfortable with urself, then ur not old enuff or w/e.
Hope I helped!! Drop one in the inbox if u need anything else!!
**Jeanine**
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doesnt neone have any fun sites to go on wen ur bored?? (link)
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www.bored.com
www.pogo.com
yahoo games
www.candystand.com
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How many people are on a typical volleyball team? And what are the names of the positions, and describe what each postition does. (link)
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Well... there are 6 people on the court at one time. U have 3 in back row and 3 in front row. U have a setter, 2 or 3 hitters and ur backrow players that just pass the ball.
the backrow passes the ball to the setter after the serve or spike. the setter then uses their finger tips to push the ball up into the air to one of the hitters. the hitter than spikes the bal over the net at the other team.
Hope I helped! if u have any more questions.. just drop one in the inbox!!
************Jeanine************
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whats a good style of sneakers or brand or specific sneaker that i can wear to go back to school that not everyone will have but still come off as really cute.
im a girl.. if you didnt realize by now. Haha.. thanks for the help (link)
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HAHA! I wanted something different for skool so I went shopping and got me shoes that had the Superman Logo on the side. they are SOOO cute!! LOL They were $21.99 at Meijer. My friend said they also have them at Wal-Mart.. but I dont know.. i havent been there in a while.
Also, Adidas and Nike have CUTE shoes. Try them.. or maybe Vans?
Hope I helped!! Drop one in the Inbox if u need anything else!
**~~**Jeanine**~~**
**Try shopping at a local shoe store in the mall or something... that would be a good place to find cute shoes.**
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my boyfriend he doesn't like to do anything fun.. he's so boring!! and i went to this party n made out with his bestfriend, what should i do???? (link)
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Not have made out with ur best friend. Actually.. tell ur boyfriend u made a mistake. Just explain the WHOLE situation to him. If he truly cares about u.. he will find it in his heart to forgive u.
I did the same thing except i made out with HIS best friend to get back at him. i felt much better after talkin to him about it. trust me.. u will too.
Hope I helped!! Drop one in the Inbox if u need anything else!
**~~**Jeanine**~~**
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Okay my best friend just told me shes bi..And im a girl to.I dont know what to do, should I still be her friend or should I like not be..Im kinda creeped out cause I dont want her to like hit on me or nething.What should I do? Im only 14 to what should I do (link)
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Its her choice of who she likes. My best friend is BI and i have no problem with it. She prolly wont hit on u cause she already knows ur not into that. If she does hit on u.. just flat out tell her (nicely) that ur not into girls.
Hope I helped!! Drop one in the Inbox if u need anything else!
**~~**Jeanine**~~**
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Hey Everybody!!
Well...I'm engaged now, and I'm starting to plan my wedding. I'm not sure of my color theme yet...but I know that it'll most likely be on the beach, in the summer...mainly around July or Aug. My dress will be either off white or white. My question is...does anybody have an suggestions about colors on bridesmaids or..other things such as decoration. Thank ya'll soo much.
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When my older sister got married, she went with Baby blue and Lilac. For a beach wedding, u should go with more natural colors I think. Im only 14, but I would think that would be best for an outdoor wedding. Maybe like sky blue?
Hope I helped!! Drop one in the Inbox if u need anything else!
**~~**Jeanine**~~**
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Im a wild girl, but when it comes to makin the 'first moves' i get kinda shy. My boyfriend isnt that experienced so he's not really into making the first move either. So heres the problem: How can we get stuff one if were both like that bc its not like i dont want to make the first move its just more so that i dont want to get rejected or anything. Like im sure that he wouldnt or anything but still. Plus i HATE it when girls throw themselves on guys and that is how i would feel if i did that. So i guess that i just dont want to come off as that kinda person. Please give me advice! (link)
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If u want it done, u gotta do it. I hate making the first move too, but if u dont, u prolly wont get anywhere. I liked a guy that stayed the night at my b-day party (he wasnt supposed to be there) and i wanted him to kiss me soo bad. I finally gave in and made the first move. and since then, we've been dating.
Just make the first move, it will make things smoother between u guys.
Hope I helped!! Drop one in the Inbox if u need anything else!
**~~**Jeanine**~~**
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hey im 16 my bf and i have a long distance relationship he broke up with me and my feelings for him r still really strong. when he broke up with me he said that there could be a "us" again and i was all like ok whatever. but i was thinkin bout it do u think he is just using me?? also i kinda wanna get over him so how do i do that?? please help thanks (link)
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I know how u feel. Im in a long distance relationship right now. We're 2 states apart. If u guys dated for a long time, then he prolly didnt use u. but if it was a short/sexual relationship... then he prolly did. It will be really hard to get over him if u really fell in love with him. Just stop thinking about him.. and find urself a guy that lives near u. It will help..
Hope I helped!! Drop one in the Inbox if u need anything else!
**~~**Jeanine**~~**
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im a 15 year old guy. since i was 7 i wanted a serious relationship where id meet a girl in high school and marry her. now im in high school. i met a girl. and id love to marry her. but she doesnt like to think about commiting. i dont know what to do about. how to approach it. i wanna know if it can work between us, i wanna know if she could love me like i love her, eventally to the point where id be with her forever... (link)
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When ur in high school, u will meet so many different people. I had this convo with my mom already. U most likely won't spend the rest of ur life with someone u fall in love with during high school. Later on in ur life u will prolly feel this way about another girl too. Don't rush her into anything yet. Wait until shes ready to talk about it. Its prolly best for both of u.
Hope I helped!! Drop one in the Inbox if u need anything else!
**~~**Jeanine**~~**
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I just started using tampons. And when i wear them they hurt like heck. Did i not have it in all the way or what? please help! (link)
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You prolly dont have them in far enuff. If they hurt when u first put them in.. take it out and try again with another one. if u get it in far enuff.. u wont even feel it.
Hope I helped!! Drop one in the Inbox if u need anything else!
**~~**Jeanine**~~**
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i really love my hair being long but i sort of wanna cut it up to my shoulders so it looks thicker and just i think it'd look cute! but im scared that i'll hate it. should i play it safe and keep my hair long? my hair takes forever to grow. (link)
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Trust me... if u cut it.. then u will regret it later on. I did that.. and it ruined my hair. My hair used to be down to my butt.. and then i cut it to my shoulders.. and it stopped growing as fast. i really liked the cut at first.. but then i really missed my long hair
As long as u like ur hair long just a lil bit.. leave it alone.. u will most likely regret doing something to it. especially if ur hair grows as slow as mine does
Hope i helped!! drop one in the inbox if u need anything else!!
**Jeanine** AIM xoxjeaninexox08
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how can i get the guts up to ask my mom for tampons? (link)
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Just tell her u would feel more comfortable wearing them. I know how it is to ask your mom that. My first time asking.. i was sooo embarrassed. When its just u and ur mom.. just flat out ask her.. it makes it soo much easier for u if ur alone with her.
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Hi people! I am on a high school varsity cheerleading squad. And the thing is, there are 15 of us and we are 600.00 in debt cause the last year's coach bought the team new uniforms and never paid for them, and now we need fundraising ideas. We already got the basics like the car wash, bake sale, candy sales, and things like that. So if anyone has any other ideas rather than the one's above, IT WOULD HELP US OUT ALOT! We also have to buy new uniforms as well! Thankz for your time! ;) (link)
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It looks like u got it covered for the most part. A few years ago our cheerleading squad made over $1000 with just a bake sale. This years squad all donated their old stuff to a fundraising Garage sale. Just have everyone bring in their old clothes and stuff.. and hold a HUGE garage sale. That really helped them alot. They made like $400. If u do the bake sale or garage sale.. just set up a can or something for donations. That way people dont have to buy something to donate to u. They can just donate however much they want to.
Make sure u advertise ALOT. Put on the ads what ur doing it for. That helps alot too.
Hope I helped!
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Okay the past two days i`ve had volleyball camps for four hours, and i havent really been that active this summer so now im EXTREMLY SORE...it literally took me a minute and 47 seconds just to walk down 11 stairs. So from me knees up is EXTREMLY sore...and my butt n parts of my back, so does anybody kno any good stretches that will stretch those places?? im desperate need answers fastttt i cant take it (link)
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I too play volleyball.. the best thing to do to get into shape for camp/practice... u just need to stretch out REALLY good before camp/practice. Just like do some v-sits.. **u sit with ur legs apart and stretch ur arms as far as u can toward ur feet 1 side at a time** and do some arm stretches too. if u dont stretch out..ur likely to pull a muscle..
just be careful and be safe!! if u need anymore help... drop one in the inbox!!
Jeanine
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does anyone know any good places that hire 14 year olds? i really need a job! lol (link)
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The only place I found that hired Teens.. was called Pioneer... and u work in corn fields and soy bean fields... but thats also in Central Illinois.. i dont know where ur from.. try a local store
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My birthday is coming up in november and i really want to have a party..does anyone have any ideas of what kinds of parties i could have? I would want a lot of my friends to be able to come! (link)
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Well.. sleep overs are always fun. Since ur b-day is in November.. its a lil harder... Where r u from? That makes a difference... If ur from like the Mid-west.. then thats a lil tougher... but if its warm in winter where ur from.. try having a bunch of friends stay over and sleep out in the yard or in a tent.. Thats always fun cause u can do whatever u want all night and not get in trouble by parents for being awake.
But like i said... it all depends on where ur from too..
Hope I helped a lil!!
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my friend who i was REALLY close to now has a bf so obviously they do "things" together and stuff and i know she's been drunk b4 and stuff like that and i haven't and it just feels to me that we aren't as close because it's not as fun for her to tell me things anymore since i can't relate and i don't kno how to make things the way they used to be (link)
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I know what ur going through. Except im like ur friend in some ways. I have done more than most of my friends-- i've gotten High, i've drank alcohol (not been wasted) and i've had sex and stuff like that.
Since I told my best friend, our friendship has changed too. Just try to keep things as close as u can to the same. Tell her u don't like hearing about the stuff she tells u. That might make a small difference. Or just sit down and tell her that u feel like ur friendship has changed and u dont like those changes.
Just dont go out and do that stuff if ur not ready just so u and ur friend will have something to talk about. That would prolly be the worst thing to do.
Hope I helped!
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Can anydoby explain to me how to remove earrings? I can't seem to get them out, they're just regular studs. Thx. (link)
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U just hold onto the backs of the earings.. and then u carefully pull the front of the earing until the back comes off.. then u just take the earing out of ur ear..
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