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How do I make the first move without throwing myself at him? I am afraid of being rejected!
Im a wild girl, but when it comes to makin the 'first moves' i get kinda shy. My boyfriend isnt that experienced so he's not really into making the first move either. So heres the problem: How can we get stuff one if were both like that bc its not like i dont want to make the first move its just more so that i dont want to get rejected or anything. Like im sure that he wouldnt or anything but still. Plus i HATE it when girls throw themselves on guys and that is how i would feel if i did that. So i guess that i just dont want to come off as that kinda person. Please give me advice!
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Hang on, this guy is already your boyfriend? There is no chance you are throwing yourself on him when he is already yours, you can jump him whenever you want! (within reason of course) I can pretty much guarantee he will not reject your advances. Sounds like one of you needs to start making the first moves, and he could be holding back because you might get the idea that he only wants you for one thing. Go for it! The more you do it, the more confident he will become about initiating things with you also.
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Be casual about it, If you think he's into you then you could drop him hints that you want to be asked out. smile, flirt, compliment but don't over do it. Guys like a women who is confident in themselves and don't come on too strong. If you two talk then maybe when the time is right and things seem to be going over well you could say something like "Maybe we could go out sometime?" Boom, Ya got yourself a first date but maybe you could say "I was thinking...I know a really nice restaurant" There you just dropped another hint without coming off too strong and being awkward about it. If he doesn't get it then, Then I would probably just tell him you like him. Be cool about it and remember the confidence is important.
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well, if hes not going to make the move then you should. even if you dont like to but thats probebly the only way youre going to get somewhere. like go up to him and kiss him or something, (dont do too much to start) and leik by wat he says/does youll know if that was taking it "too far" but i doubt it will.
hope i helped. if u have any other questions feel free to ask.
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Hey Hun! Date him a little longer and when the time is right it'll happen! You'll know what to do. It like and instinct. Good Luck XOXO
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alot of girls have this problem,suprise suprise even guys!! jusT tell him your feelings and how yall could work it out to make things easier. thats what relationshaips are all about!
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well miss wild,
i never make the first move. when hes ready he will come to you i guess.
xox manda xox
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Just make the first move. Do anything a little kiss on the cheek start kissing his neck, eventually he'll get the idea. Alot of the time the guys just need a little push to get started. Hope that I helped. If u need to ask nething else please drop offf ur question in my inbox. Thanx, lots a love.
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If u want it done, u gotta do it. I hate making the first move too, but if u dont, u prolly wont get anywhere. I liked a guy that stayed the night at my b-day party (he wasnt supposed to be there) and i wanted him to kiss me soo bad. I finally gave in and made the first move. and since then, we've been dating.
Just make the first move, it will make things smoother between u guys.
Hope I helped!! Drop one in the Inbox if u need anything else!
**~~**Jeanine**~~**
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Hmm... start off by holding hands. Flirt a lot. He's your boyfriend, you should be comfortable with him. So, don't be shy. Just simply kiss him. Ya'll will like it, I'm sure. lol. And he's your boyfriend; you can kiss your own boyfriend without feeling you are "throwing yourself" all over him. It's okay, you can dooo itttt!!!! :D Good luck, babe.
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lead him on make him know u wanna go at it but dont make the first move or he will feel as if u have power over him (even tho u do...he dosnt need to know)
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Well if neither of you want to make the first move...Hmm well maybe you should start off slow..like you know holding hands maybe, cuddling and all...and slowly work your way up to kissing and ect. That way it sort of solves your problem of you looking like you're throwing yourself on him. Hope this helps someway!
-Chris
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