HI!!im caramella,id love to give advice for those who need it.You might not always like my answers but i dont care about ratings,cuz if i tell you something you want to hear all the time,and i get rated high and you end up making a big mistake,rating aint gonna solve the problem then.I want to tell you guys to think before you act and look before you leap in order not to make misttakes,if you have made mistakes NEVER regret it,regrets are a waste of time and happiness and wont change what happened,BUT it will give you expereince and teach you not to do it again and refine your future^_^regret over wasted time is more wasted time.
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im planning on taking a hiphop class (it starts tomorrow) but i dont know what to wear and im pretty sure theres some type of dress code of sorts you have to follow for hiphop... but any suggestions on what exactly im suppose to wear? tight fitting shirt or loose? baggy/cargo pants or not? tennis shoes or something else? please and thank you! (link)
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wear a tight top,baggy pants and vans...ull need baggy pants cuz if you wear tight pants in hip hop you might not be able to do the dance moves comfortabley.
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13/f
ok well i have a lot of guy friends...like half of my friends are guys...so thats not the problem. its just like in my group of friends, im kind of like the one they all tease (mostly in a nice way), but its just like its kinda turned off any guy wanting to date me, as weird as that sounds. The only guy i like outside of my group is totally off limits.
im really sick of being single. i dont want a boyfriend just for the sake of having one, but i want a boyfriend. i cant stand being single!
i mean its not like theres anything really wrong with em because i've had 5 boyfriends in the past two years.
i mean im a bit out there...like i dont really tend to give the impression i care what people think of me, but i know im not ugly, and ive been told by everyone ive kissed (and they've also told other people who told me they said this) that im a very good kisser...and as i said i've had boyfriends. so how do i get a boyfriend right now? what do i do?!?! (link)
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wow...you think your single for too long??dude your 13.True love comes when your least expecting it.Dont rush it to find a guy or youll end up with the wrong guy.
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Is one kiss considered "cheating"? (link)
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yeah,id consider it cheating.That one kiss might seem normal to you but to your loved one it can tear him up inside.
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Should I kiss on the first date? (link)
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i dont think so,he might get a wrong impression of you.
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sometimes classified as a psychedelic or a hallucinogen?I've never heard of anyone experiencing hallucinogenic effects because of it,so what's the logic behind this? (link)
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first of all taking too much of it changes what you see and hear and you dont always hallucinate right after tou take marijuana,some people hallucinate like a year after,its like the affect that happens afterwards.
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everybody in my school thinks i am emo or gothic.
so i dress black/red sorta different the others , look on the ground often , don't make eyecontact , mostly am sad (but that's just cause i hate the school and i'm lovesick lately) have naturaly black hair and naturaly white skin. yeah okay and i admit i hate myself , and hate my life blablabla
but does that make me emo?
cause i never thought about it that way (link)
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you only are what you say and think you are.
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okay. does anyone know what the symptoms are for TSS?
because although my period was 2 weeks ago, I just found a tampon inside of me. ewww....
and I've been feeling really ill for about two weeks. so can anyone help me see if I can diagnose this(without going to the dr) (link)
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OMG you had it in you for 2 weeks?!?If you have tss the symptoms are...diarreah,high fevers,vomitting,confusion,seizures,headaches,musleaches
and organ faliures like your kidney and liver might not work the same.I suggest you go to the doctor or pharmacist if you have any of these symptoms because trust me this can get worse.
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Im fifteen year old male. Everyone calls me a faggot Im a bit queit and everyone says I just talk to my one best friend austin the most! I only trust him thats it. I like to maitain only a few friendships? Ive had girlfriends before. I know the truth Im not gay? Is it my self esteem?
I know im not gay trust me I like girls. (link)
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YOu shouldnt pay attention to what people say because nowadays EVERYONE labels everyone and there is so much hatred in this world man.You know your not gay and you know who you are so what others think and say shouldnt matter.Nothings wrong with being a quiet guy,thats kinda a good thing.Talking to only one person(austin)isnt bad,what your doing is smart,your hanging out with the person you trust the most which is a LOT better than hanging out with a lot of different guys that you DONT trust.Do what you want and be yourself and stay strong and stand your ground.Nobodys opinion matters and them calling you a faggot isnt going to change anything,its not going to change you its not going to change them either.Theyre only making fun of you to feel better about themselves because they lack self confidence.
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im 13/f
i keep getting signs of deppression i used to be a cheerleader until i quit and iv just seemed to give up on everything im smokeing weed now i enjoy just getting drunk and stoned and iv lost all interest in boys and girls (im bi) and even sex at times i dont know what to do iv even cut my leg a couple times please help
*sleepiesheep* (link)
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my dear,you must start thinking of what is it that made you be like this is in the first place....what is it that started all of this??Why would you quit being a healthy cheerleader to have sex and go on drugs??Do you know if you have sex now,by the time you are 20,you will have a baaad reputation among the guys,you will have gotten pregnant,you will have STD's and you might even have brain damage because of the drugs you do!!And you might even get this disease that comes from cutting yourself!!i just dont remember what the disease is called haha.Cutting yourself wont make anything better,you can kill yourself and imagine this...if you kill yourself did you ever think of where youll end up after???definetly NOT in heaven!!!you will have lost your beautiful life thats ahead of you AND your afterlife!!imagine that!!You much be closer to God because mabey the reason you ended up like this was because you werent close to god and did alot of sins.What do you want to be when your older?A movie star?a doctor?Imagine what a beautiful career youll have and all the new freinds youll make and the life youll have if you pass school and go to college and have a great diploma!everyone will luv you and respect you but if you have sex and do drugs now,noone will respect you,you 13 and you do this?!what will you do when your older?Im 16 and i never did that.You must think of the consenquences of your actions.Ok heres what you do...the reason that got you depressed,end it now...go confront whoever is bothering you and dont tell me they wont understand..noones that retarted.And i want you to write down on a paper what are the things you are planning to change about yourself...start now!You have nothing to lose!GO BACK TO BEING A CHEERLEADER!!your so lucky you can be one!!i wish i could!!(grrr haha)STop having it with guys or girl or whatever change the way you see things,change your group of freinds,beilive in god and do everything that you wrote on your list that you said you will change.And about drugs...you have to stop.Stop it all in one day,it might be hard but one day of pain and anger is better than a lifetime of having a disease you wont be able to cure.On the day you stop drugs,make sure you do a lottt of things to get your mind off of it.Good luck oh and cutting yourself will not only bruise your skin it will bruise your life because when your older and you look at that scar...youll get depressed and remember all the rough times you were through!!
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I am thirteen and just started giving advice here. Well now I have a question. I am addicted to cofee. I really like it and drink it with my Memaw. Is it bad for me to have it? (link)
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yes it is because cofee has caffeine in it and caffeine is as harmful as some drugs.Once you start gettin used to cofee you want be able to stop,its like an addiction.Whats bad about it is caffeine keeps you awake and alert for a while and one cup of cofee has like 100mg of caffeine.I read on this article that a little amount of caffeine makes your heart beat slow and if you take alot of caffeine itll make your heart beat abnormally fast.And if you get used to drinking several cups of cofee a day and you stop for a day,youll get a bad headache or feel dizzy cuz your body will have gotten used to it.So the best thing you should do is lower the amount of cofee you drink bit by bit,like if you drink 2 cups a day,drink one and bit by bit youll stop.You can have coffe but little amounts so it dont harm you.hope i helped you:)
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Ok here it is I 15 and a male. I have a best friend. He's very important to me. He took me off his friends list on myspace. I mean Im third on his top 4. I used to be first for over a year. I have a manic depressive disorder he says its not because of that. He always says hes my best friend. However he makes fun of me. Hes the first best friend Ive ever had. We had so much fun together. I wish he would put me back on his number one spot. (link)
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Do you and him still hang out as much as you usually did and still go out and stuff?If you do then myspace seriously doesnt matter.I have my favorite best freind on my myspace on 2nd place and she has me 2nd too although we both know we like eachother as first place.It dont matter,myspace is kinda gay lol.Dont let this bother you ,nobodys worth it at all.And every year you meet new people and your best freinds change,thats just life man,its ok.As for him making fun of you,you have to tell him that this bothers you.Tell him you dont like it hell understand if he really is your best freind.If he doesnt stop then hes not a true freind and not worth you being mad over.Hope this helped you dude.:)
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13/f
ok i am recouvering from having two operations done on my stomach like now i know that it is scary and people care a lot about me but my teachers my dad and even my mom is treating me really differently like im 8 or something they always want to cook for me or do my laundry but usually they dont have the time of the day for me but its annoying me and iv tried telling my mom im fine cuz iv got a high tolerence for pain and im not feeling a thing but she doesnt get it so how can i help her get it? its been a week and a half since it was done and iv already returned back to school.
*sleepiesheep* (link)
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well thats normal for your parents to care about you when your 13 and just had two surgerys.One day youll be a parent and understand what its like.You might be ok now but your parents dont want you tiring yourself out because they love you that much.Let them do everything for you come on!WHO WOULDNT WANT THAT!?!lol
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I love my boyfriend to bits but he's just so depressed with his work right now.
He is such a beautiful person but I haven't seen that beautiful person latley. He's been working in his job for 3 years this year. he's 20 going on 21! He is the only young male that works there, the rest are all older women.
The pick on him Constantly, they never leave him alone. He is the only one that is basically mentally abused by these women.
He's been looking for new jobs but there isn't a wide range of job opportunities around in our small country town. Moving towns isn't an option. Both our families are here and this is where we plan to have ours.
He looses sleep over it so he's always tired. I just don't know how to help him anymore.
I love him so much and it hurts me to see him so sad all the time.
It isn't effecting our relationship and hopefully it wont, I wont let it go that far.
The worst thing is, he seems to bottle things up most of the time. I do get him to talk to me but he just ends up in tears.
What do I do? (link)
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tell him to hold on a little bit,trust me the people at his work dont matter at all,theyre all old ladies and theyre probably jealous he can move around and do more work then they can lool.You yourself need to be strong when talking to your guy so you can make him stronger,tell him how much you love him and that these people at his work can be mean to him mabey cuz he gets more money or is more succssful in his job.He should be mean back to the people that bother him and shouldnt let it get to him.Everyone goes through this stage in their lives,but its actually not bad that this happens cuz without the hard times in life we wouldnt have experience.Just be sweet and comforting with him and advice him with what i said and with what you beilive.
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Ok. My boyfriend had his first visit to my house today. It wasn't long, but in the little time we did spend together we had our first real "big kiss." [He knows kissing me on my neck makes me "excited"] So, of coarse he did and then started making out with me, and we started to lay down. [Him kinda on top of me, but not laying down all the way.] If my mom hadn't walked in the room we probably would've done alot more. I was just wondering, is this how things get out of hand and sex starts? I'm not using this as a question to start sex. I am not ready, and I don't want to give him impressions that I am. (link)
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yes,your giving him the impression that your ready and if your mom wouldnt have walked in on you then you woulda probably done it.Dont do it again if you dont want it to go further.Explain to him that your not ready if he asks.
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How do I get rid of upper lip hair?
If i wax it will it come back in faster and dark? so gross right? (link)
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just wax it,itll come back yes but not thicker.If you use a razor itll come back thicker.And dont use shaving cream or anything like that.Wax will give u the best results and no its not nasty cuz all girls have that.
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I really want to empress people because i have the personality but my family doesnt have alot of money to buy me new cloths. how can i put an outfit//hairstyle//makeup together to make me look like a million bucks? =] (link)
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To look a million bucks you dont have to dress all designer brands or look like a star.Its about the who you are inside thatll make ppl think that your even worth MORE than a million bucks.There are people that look gorgeous and dress in all brands and theyre personality isnt worth a penny.So i think its all about your inner not outter beauty,money is not what makes a person great.
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I sort of don't agree with a lot of society.I just don't agree with how people are most of the time.Occasionally,when I'm in a wild environment everything seems so absurd and crazy to me.I remember being at a few parties and being fine,but after a while I just went off alone because I couldn't handle everything.It just seemed so intense,but I realize that everyone was just being themselves.
Simply,I feel isolated. It feels like I'm an outsider and there's no one to connect with,not even other people that are outsiders.The funny thing is,I don't seem like the kind of kid that would be like this.But I just don't have anyone,and it's killing me.
Anyway,what's wrong with me?
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Being different does mean your weird in any way.You just dont accept people and how they act nowadays and dont get to like people that easily.Thats ok.I dont agree with alot of people and that dont make me wierd.You just see things in a different way,and whats so bad about that?Being different is better then being the same.Youll find some people that think and act like you,mabey the people you hang around just arent your type.
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What would happen if you devoured like 3 bottles of pills? (link)
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Youd obviously die,the effect of the pills would damage your brain and body organs so yeah...youd die or get paralyzed and never be the same.
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Crying is like a reaction or something. I'm not a cry baby or anything but when someone talks to me or I get chosen to read something or someone talks about something personal my face heats up and I start to cry! How can I stop? I'm not even sad or something or angry I just cry (link)
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You obviously got used to doing this ever since you were little.You used to cry when probably to get what you want ,even thought you might nota been sad,you just did.As the years passed you got used to this.To stop,you first have to have the urge to WANT to stop.That your sicka being this way.Try,itll take time but youll get over this if you put your mind to it.
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why is there so much hate in the world? Every one is labeling everyone. Today I got so mad cuase my friend who is emotional and likes black, some kid walked up to here and asked her if he could teach him how to be emo. It really hurt my feelings even though it wasn't towards me. But Even if you are emo. punk. goth, hard core, why does it matter? as long as everyones being thereselves then it should? why does everyone catorgorize everyone? it's rude.What is the difference between punk, goth, emo anyway? help please (link)
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That just the way the world is now.Everyone judges everyone by the way they look.And in order to live with all this hate that people feel with eachother is to completly ignore what other say about you or think.You know who you are and what you are so why should others opinions matter if its mean?Im arabian and trust me,i no longer care about all the shit people say about us.
punk is a culture that started in the 70's thats kinda similar to its music,its about being yourself and the way they express anger.Its no longer a real culture,punk people nowadays are just the remains of punk people before.Its not just a style of clothing,its a way of living.Its people that want to be different in some way,but a real punk never says he is,you can just tell.
Emo is also a genre of music that has unenthusiastic music and people singin in it usually sing about past relationships,broken hearts and rough experiences they had,and again the music is like the culture.
Goth people arent always depressed,suicidal people by the way.They just like dressing in dark clothes,and listening to heavy metal and theyre just like other people but have a different way of living and because they dont hang out with the popular people,theyre considered to be "gothic losers"
Hope this helped
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