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Im not gay
Im fifteen year old male. Everyone calls me a faggot Im a bit queit and everyone says I just talk to my one best friend austin the most! I only trust him thats it. I like to maitain only a few friendships? Ive had girlfriends before. I know the truth Im not gay? Is it my self esteem?
I know im not gay trust me I like girls.
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YOu shouldnt pay attention to what people say because nowadays EVERYONE labels everyone and there is so much hatred in this world man.You know your not gay and you know who you are so what others think and say shouldnt matter.Nothings wrong with being a quiet guy,thats kinda a good thing.Talking to only one person(austin)isnt bad,what your doing is smart,your hanging out with the person you trust the most which is a LOT better than hanging out with a lot of different guys that you DONT trust.Do what you want and be yourself and stay strong and stand your ground.Nobodys opinion matters and them calling you a faggot isnt going to change anything,its not going to change you its not going to change them either.Theyre only making fun of you to feel better about themselves because they lack self confidence.
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Hey, I had a friend that went through the exact same thing. He was called gay and everything like that. You'll just have to show people you're not. Don't let it get to you and don't let people see that it hurts you. try to get to know more people-that will help.
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if you know you're not gay, then it shouldn't matter what anybody else thinks. if they have to get their kicks by stooping to such a level by calling you gay, then that's retarded. maybe you should get more involved in your school to show your peers more of your personality. people are afraid of what they don't know, and it sounds like the kids at your school don't know you very well. but try not to take offense at what they tell you because they might not always mean it in a bad way. hell, i call my friends fags all the time and i don't mean it. so just keep your head up :)
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If you're not gay and you know it, then whats the problem? People call other people gay like if it was a greeting or someones name. I mean... they just say it, and dont mean it. Even if they did meant it, it shouldnt bother you, because you know who you are whether people believe it or not. Being quiet doesnt mean you're gay, you're just quiet. Wow, big woop. Those people need to get a life, and you need to forget about them.
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Why does it bother you...these people arent anything to you? Even if you were which i know your not gay who cares...Their ignorant and you just leave it at that. Why would you care what people with that kind of attitude think..you know who you are and who your not? Their the ones who are shooting their mouths off when they dont even know what there talking about...So what its better to be caleed gay and not be then to be a considered a bigot like them. Big deal you only talk to a few people its better two know who your friends. At least your not the predjudice moron calling people faggots whether they are or arent..which in this case you arent.Just ignore them and stay away from them they sound like a bunch of jerks anyways.
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hey, well you shouldnt let the people get to you. you know your not gay. that should be all that matters. when people say stuff to you, let them know that it doesnt bother you (even if it truly does). the only reason why people make fun of others is to get the satisfaction of seeing another person get put down. once the satisfaction is gone they will stop because its not "fun" anymore.
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