13/f
ok well i have a lot of guy friends...like half of my friends are guys...so thats not the problem. its just like in my group of friends, im kind of like the one they all tease (mostly in a nice way), but its just like its kinda turned off any guy wanting to date me, as weird as that sounds. The only guy i like outside of my group is totally off limits.
im really sick of being single. i dont want a boyfriend just for the sake of having one, but i want a boyfriend. i cant stand being single!
i mean its not like theres anything really wrong with em because i've had 5 boyfriends in the past two years.
i mean im a bit out there...like i dont really tend to give the impression i care what people think of me, but i know im not ugly, and ive been told by everyone ive kissed (and they've also told other people who told me they said this) that im a very good kisser...and as i said i've had boyfriends. so how do i get a boyfriend right now? what do i do?!?!
stl_girl123 answered Sunday February 4 2007, 9:47 pm: Your still young have some fun, life is not all about guys believe me I KNOW. ive had my far share of guys. Just have some fun and sooner or later youll meet a guy that you really like. You never EVER want to go with a guy just because you feel that if you go with him you'll get to like him, that dosent work...Just give it time and sooner or later you'll find the perfect guy for you....I'm only 16 and I've had 3 boyfriends, 2 of which i just dated because everyone else was doing it and i really didnt like them that much and the third one i dated because he played hard to get a lot (and all i wanted was him). You will find someone just give it time youre still young,dont make a stupid mistake like i did of just dating guys hoping to like them later in the relationship!!!
christina answered Sunday February 4 2007, 9:47 pm: Why is it so important to have a boyfriend? Just spend time to yourself. Boys shouldn't be needed for happiness. If he's off limits because he has a girlfriend, wait until they break up to purse him. [ christina's advice column | Ask christina A Question ]
audra answered Sunday February 4 2007, 9:44 pm: well, seeing as how you've already had 5 boyfriends in the past 2 years, you should have some idea on how to snatch one up, i mean it isn't like you've never had one before, and therefore you don't even know where to begin. at the young age of 13 i think that the best thing that you can do for yourself is to just continue to develop yourself as a person, and an individual. your education, your family, friends, hobbies, etc. don't worry about finding a boyfriend they will come along when you least expect it, and then they are so much more meaningful and fullfilling then if you hunt them down and try to make a relationship happen...
also, if you have already had 5 boyfriends, i doubt that you are an undesireabe girl. most girls your age have never even been in a relationship let alone been kissed. so just take your time and before you know it love will come knocking at your door. :)
yourrtrustyhelpline answered Sunday February 4 2007, 9:17 pm: i don`t think you should really worry about having a boyfriend right now. you`re only 13. don`t worry about it, just have fun. if you find a guy that you really like, get to know him better. hang out with him. maybe you`ll get a relationship then [ yourrtrustyhelpline's advice column | Ask yourrtrustyhelpline A Question ]
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