Hi, my names Melanie.
I'm fifteen years old.
I love fashion, hanging out with my friends,
and drawing and writing along with a bunch of other stuff.
I used to have an old account here that was quite known for awhile,
but I sort of just lost touch with it,
so I decided to make a new one.
I'll try and help you the best I can,
just hopefully I didn't lose touch with my good advice, haha.
And feel free to IM me with your problem too.
I also put my myspace in a link down below,
if you ever want to add me & talk.
But incase you don't see it or something, it's:
www.myspace.com/themelinat0r
Website: my myspace!
E-mail: melledisko@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Pittsburgh
Occupation: student.
Age: 15
AIM: mel le disko
Member Since: July 2, 2006
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i wanna know how you can tell when a guy is mad at you because my friend isn't even that talkative with me ever since we made out... (link)
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Well, lots of people have different ways of showing their mad or acting whenever they're mad, so I couldn't really tell you exactly if he is or not. Some do give "the silent treatment" others yell, others cry.
It doesn't sound to me like he's mad though. He just might feel awkward, probably like any friendship would after they just made out. After making out with you, he might've developed feelings and he doesn't know how you feel back so he might be shy and quiet. Or he just might be, like I said, thinking it's really awkward to look at you again without thinking that the two of you guys made out awhile ago, and he just doesn't know how to make conversation around that and get past it.
I would just go up to him and ask him why he hasn't been so talkative lately, and is it because of the fact that the two of you guys made out? And if it is, then just talk to him about it and explain to him that you can see why it's sort of awkward between the two of you, but you both should try and make it less because you still want to talk to him and everything, and you hate it how you guys haven't really talked lately.
If it isn't because of that, ask him why he's not talking to you. Is it anything else? And find out why, and resolve it if there is a possible issue.
But like I said, I think he just feels awkward being around you because of the making out situation, and doesn't exactly know what to say to you and conversate about. So try and talk to him about it, get it out of the way, put it in the past.
I hope I helped.
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What do you do when your boyfriend tells you he wants to take a break because he has so much going on with work and homework and school and basketball and with his parents fighting all the time? but he still says he likes me and loves me and wants to be with me forever? I feel like i should respect what he wants but at the same time i feel i should be there for him and help him through it becuase after all thats what girlfriends are fo to help you through hard times and to give you advise and stuff. i love him to death and i dont know what to do! HELP im DESPERATE IN NEED FOR ADVISE!!! (link)
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If you want to help him out, what you need to do is respect his wishes and give him the break he needs. I know that's not what you probably want to hear or anything, but that's what would be the best thing.
Just let him know that you're there for him and if he ever does need anybody to talk to, or to help with anything, he knows you'll be there for him and all he has to do is call. This'll show him how much you care about him and still want to be his girlfriend, but are respecting his wishes, like a great girlfriend should.
He just might want to take this break because he might feel all the time he's spending focusing on his school and sports and family and everything, means less for you, and he might feel bad just having you sit there, and he might feel like right now, he's just not giving you all the attention you deserve. So at least this isn't a breakup, which is an extremely good thing. Just keep minor contact with him ( if he wants to ) and see where it goes from there.
I hope I helped.
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How do you attach a song to an email? (link)
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I don't know where you do your email, like on Yahoo or anything, but all emails should look pretty much the same.
Well, first of all, make sure the song you want to attach into the email is saved into a folder you'll be able to find quick and easily so you don't have to go on a hunt for it.
What me and my friends do on ours (Hot Mail) whenever we want to send songs to eachother, is you go to a new email so you can write out their email adress and everything, and then type whatever you want to type ( if you want to type anything at all, that is ).
Then near the top or somewhere on the page ( you may have to look around ), there'll be a button or a link or something that'll say "ATTACH" on it. And then click that and then click "FILE".
A little window of your documents will come up, so just look for the song you want to upload onto the email, and click it, and then the song should come up onto your email as a link sort of thing.
If you don't have hot mail though, and you're still having trouble finding it and everything, just message me and I'll go to your email site and look around and see if I can find it and tell you how from there.
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Okay I do have many skills with acting I have always wanted to goto disney,nick,cartoon network. But I am currently in Houston tx. So if I want this career will hiring a agent get me any where? (link)
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Possibly. I can't tell you exactly if it's going to get you anywhere, because believe me, thousands of people try to become actors. Some make it, some don't. You just have to be extremely lucky to be in the right place at the right time, and have that certain.. flare they're looking for.
There's many famous people from Texas, though. Usher, Beyonce, I believe, Jessica Simpson, Hilary Duff, Ashlee Simpson, it can go on. So maybe if you do some research and see what agency they've worked for, you can try and get in with theirs, because their agencies have obviously helped them out.
But if you want to get real jobs, and try and get better noticed, you'd have to go from Houston out to LA or somewhere from time to time. I don't know if there's many acting jobs out in Houston, but who knows.
Like I said, just try researching behind all the actors and actresses in Texas and find out all the agencies they've worked for, see if they're any good and if you approve of them, and then hire an agent.
I hope I helped, and good luck!
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What does it mean when a guy call you and said, "Wanting to see you" when he's drunk?
Does he like you or just horny?
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It really could mean either, it depends on how well you know the guy and everything. If this were to be like, an ex-boyfriend maybe and he's all "I want to see you sooo badly", maybe he still has feelings and wants to see you.
But sometimes whenever guys get drunk, obviously, as to what happens at most parties or wherever there's alcohol, there's also sex, so he may just be wanting a hook up.
It's really very hard to tell cause I ( obviously ) don't know the guy myself, so I'm not able to give a true view on things cause if I knew him better then I could say "well, knowing him, it was probably just this..."
Like I said, it depends, because alcohol can also give people the care-free feeling, and whenever they're drunk they let loose and don't care what other people think of them, really, so it might've given him a boost of gutsiness to just give you a call and blurt out that he likes you.
I would contact him again if you know his number or anything, and just let him know what happened the other night and tell him what he said, and just asked him why he said that ; what did he mean? He might not have recollition (sp) on the thought, but hopefully, he does and he'll be able to tell you.
But I hope I helpeD!
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hi
this is the girl who asked what to do about my friend wanting her period sense i just started myself. thanks it did work joking with her about it.
Actually I bet she will start very soon to. I cant wait till she does so then she will stop asking things like what does it feel like or what does it look like,
i hate it,
thanks for your help it certainly helped my problem.
bye oh do you live around bangor?
if so where? (link)
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I'm glad I helped, if you ever need help again, you know you can always leave a message in the inbox.
:)
Bangor?
I don't know where that is,
but I live in Pennsylvania.
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I am 13/f and lately my mom has told me that i am acting weird. I dont like mushy stuff anymore (like...i think you are so lovely- example.) I dont like when people touch me and i dont like my grandam (well she gets on my nerves. ) I know this sounds mean but i dont know why i am doing it, it just happening. i get mad easier and sad and deppressed and i just dont know what to do so please, please tell me whats going on and how i can be better. (link)
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It's completely normal, yes, you're turning into a teen. ( DUH, DUH, DAHHHHHH! *scary music* )
You're going to go through lots of hormones and you can get very emotionally every now and then and you look back on it and realize how weird you were being, and that it wasn't anything to be emotional over.
I've just learned to kind of control it by whenever I'm getting annoyed or upset I just take deep breaths and if it's someone whose annoying me, I just avoid them so I don't snap at them and hurt their feelings or something. And I just go on and think of something happy that'll cheer me up and make me smile, so just do something that'll cheer you up and put you in a better mood. :)
I hope I helped.
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would the lip smackers lipgloss that looks like this: http://content.ulta.com/images/products/large/1071004.jpg be considered as a chapstick? thankss (link)
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Mm, it's really more lip balm then chapstick, but it can be considered chapstick too. Chapstick is really more used for dry lips to make them less dry and to make them feel better if they're cracked and they're hurting and everything, which Lipsmacker's stuff can help you with, and it also makes your lips glossy and soft and everything at the same time.
Haha, if you think about it, it's sort of like a chapstick, lip balm, lip gloss all ruled into one ( if you can find that right kind that gives you glossy lips ). Chaplipglossbalm!
I hope I helped.
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Ok so this is for my best friend leigh leigh.
she has a bf thats really devoted into their relation ship and on tuseday its ganna be one month. Her bf is like a really good friend to me like he's awesome but his name is asim like how u say awesome whoa off topic there but yeh he's like omg the best but leighh doesnt know if she wants a bf right now but she still likes asim and she doesnt wanna break his heart what should she do?
ps. send me the advice so i can send it to her
kay thanks lovess (link)
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Well if she feels she doesn't want a boyfriend right now at the moment, she needs to break things off, or just take a break for a little while to see if she wants to date or not. She can't keep it continuing just for his sake. She should do what's going to make her happy ; and trust me, it'll only break his heart more in the end if he ever finds out she was thinking of breaking up with him, and didn't because she didn't want to upset him, which means it's sort of like a pity relationship.
She should just explain to him that she does like him alot and everything, but she's not too sure if she wants to be dating anybody right now, so if they could take a break and just see what happens.
If she does decide to be single for awhile, in a nice, calm, tone she should just explain to him that she's really sorry, but she just doesn't really want to be in a relationship right now, and she knows he's probably mad right now, so she'll leave him alone, but if he wants to at least be friends, that'd be great. So just talk to her whenever he's ready to.
I hope I helped.
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Recently I saw my ex bf's friend at the bar. When I was dating my ex I always felt that his friend had feelings for me because he was always so nice and he seemed to really care about me. I remember once me and my ex got in a fight and he tried to make me feel better. Anyways; he never acted on his feelings because he had; and still has a gf. Well when I was dancing at the bar; although I never talked to him his gf kept glaring at me. I had no idea why because he's WAY to old for me and I am not interested. He is in his 50's and I'm in his 20's. Why do you think she was glaring at me? Do you think she sees me as a threat? She is probably in her early 40's. (link)
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It probably is because she may feel threatened by you. Girlfriends are always tending to get jealous whenever a pretty person is in the room, or they see a girl who their boyfriend used to like alot.
He may have told her about you, and she may feel you're just going to walk over to him and steal him away from her or something.
I would just ignore her ; you know you don't like him like that, and that's all that matters. If she wants to sit there and glare at every woman in the room, that's her problem.
I hope I helped.
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Hey! Um, how do you know if someone excepts you or denies you as a friend in myspace from a Myspace friend request? Thanks :) (link)
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There really is no REAL way to be able to tell, but just remember your friend number and see if it goes up one ; then you'll know they added you.
Also, if they're profile's private and you can see it now, that means they added you as a friend. If it's not private, the next time you're on their myspace, go and click "add comment" if it doesn't say "you need to be this person's friend to send a comment", then that means they're your friend.
Also, you could just message them and let them know that you sent them a friend request not too long ago, and were just wondering if they've added you or not.
I hope I helped.
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there is this guy
i really, really, really like him and i told one of my friends that i have a huge crush on him
now its really awkward in me P.E. class, which he is in, because i think she told him
now he is always looking back at me and turning to see me sometimes even showing off
how should i act?
wat should i do?
HELP!!! (link)
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If he's always looking at you, and trying to show off infront of you, these are usually signs that a guy likes a girl.
So just try talking to him and flirting with him a bit, and just pretend your friend never said anything. If he doesn't know you know, he'll probably just try and talk to you. I doubt he'll just turn around and ignore you or something right infront your face - unless he wants to be a jerk.
So just start up a conversation with him about gym or whatever and just keep it flowing, and flirt with him here and there inbetween the conversation.
I hope I helped.
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I like this guy and i sent him a not asking if he likes me and he said yes and i no he does because his friend says he talks about me alot and really wants to go out with me. I really want to go out with him but i don't want to ask him and he's not very confident so i think he's afraid to ask me. Should I ask him and ever since he told me he's kinda of ignored me. Also we are 13 too. (link)
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It's normal for him to ignore you ; he's not tryign to be mean or anything, or it's not that he doesn't want to talk to you, he's probably just embarassed that he told you.
I would ask him out. If you like him and want to date him, and you don't ask, and he doesn't ask, how are you two ever going to go out? There's nothing to be nervous about - you already know he'll say yes!
Besides, guys like it whenever the girl makes the first move instead of the guys doing it all the time. It shows confidence.
I hope I helped.
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My friend, Rachel, who just happens to be my boyfriend, Dane's, ex girlfriend is always trying things with him! I catch her gazing at him during band all the time and she always laughs when he says something funny, and she's always talking to him and trying to make him laugh. She even told him, "Dane, you know you still love me..." And she said it to him when I was right next to her! I can't believe her!
I didn't do anything, I just pretended like I didn't care. It's impossible for me to tell her to back off, but she needs to learn that he's with me now. I don't know what to do. I think I'm just going to ask Dane if he still likes her, and if he says no, (which he better! lol) I'll tell Rach that I asked him that and that he said no.
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You need to talk to your boyfriend and let him know you feel uncomfortable with her whenever she's saying things like that, especially with you around him. Ask him if the next time she tries anything like this, can he please just explain to her,"I'm with ____ now, and you know that. Sorry."
Also, another thing to do which might show her "hey, he's with me now" and get her to back off, and make it a little fun for you and make her jealous all at the same time, is just whenever you're with him and she tries this stuff, pay him extra attention in front of her face. Maybe give him a kiss on the lips or hold onto his arm and rest your head on his shoulder or hold his hands and hug him and just look at her with a look that gives her the message "he's minnnnnnnneeee :)". Then she'll get annoyed and hopefully back off.
I hope I helped.
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Okay so heres the thing my best-friend is going to the movies with me and her boyfriend is bringing a friend who happens to be my biggest crush...its only going to be us four and he already knows I like him and stuff and we talk all the time n always hangout but I have no idea what to say to him....should i just start talking to him or should there be sometimg specific i should say to him because i dont want to embarrass myself or make him think anything bad of me... (link)
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Well, I know this is going to sound corny, but just be yourself. Don't try and make up conversation and act a certain way to impress him, cause if he winds up liking you, it'll be something else, not you.
Just talk to him like you normally talk to him or like any friend, but don't forget to add a little flirting with him here and there so he'll still know you still are interested him and not over him. Just maybe give him a hug whenever you're leaving, and whenever you guys are waiting for the movie to start or if you're waiting in line or whatever, sit close to him and maybe even share your popcorn with him or ask if he wants some of your candy or whatever. (It's cute, and will also show you're kind and thoughtful ).
That's the good thing about the movies, you don't have to talk for most the time, and whenever the moveis over, everyone always talks to eachother about their favorite scenes and everything, so there'll be instant conversation there.
Also, this gives something to talk about the next time you guys see eachother. Like, if there was a funny line in the movie, you can say it to him as sort of like an inside joke you guys got together or something. :)
I hope I helped.
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iv been with my bf for about a month and we havent kissed yet. i really wanna kiss him but im too shy to make the first move. Is there any signs or something i could do to get him to kiss me? (link)
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Just slowly work into it. More and more each day give him more eye contact, and more hugs and everything, and then start giving him pecks on the cheek, showing him you don't mind kissing him, which might be keeping him from kissing you. He may be already ready, but he might not know if you'd get upset or not.
Then the next time you two are hanging out, just look him in the eyes for a long time. Not like a staring contest long time, but just for awhile and stand really close to him or sit, whichever and just sort of with your body language and eyes give off the signal "kiss me". Maybe even lean in a little, and see if he leans in also, and see what happens. :)
I hope I helped.
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Question: If you got a girl/guy's number(or email) at the party, and you think she/he is cute.
How long does it take for you to call/email her/him?
Is it different between girl and guy?
Is it always better for guys to call the girls first? (link)
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I would probably just give it a day or too, so you don't sound like, obsessive or something, calling him like 4 minutes after you guys met.
Also, mm, I'm not sure what you mean by differnet between a girl and a guy. If you mean like, the difference of a guy calling a girl, then girl calling a guy ; then yeah, it can be different, I guess. Girls are a little more hesitant to call cause they sit there and think how they'll look and what the guy'll be thinking and everything, whereas a guy just might ring her up and be like,"Heyyyyyyyy".
It can be better cause that for one ensures the girl that the guy likes her and really does want to talk to her and everything ( because sometimes guys get annoyed when girls call cause they don't want to talk to her or she might call too much, etc. ) So it'd give you a better idea on his thoughts & feelings and it might make the conversation less nervous and easier since you're not the one waiting for the phone to be picked up and thinking of a starter conversation.
But it can be really good if the girl calls first, because it shows confidence in the girl, which alot of guys are into. Who wouldn't be into a gutsy girl? Sometimes guys like it when the girl makes the first move for once instead of teh guy always having to guess what's on the girls mind and doing it.
I hope I helped.
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i went trick or treating by myself and i feel like such a loser
WHO GOES TRICK OR TREATING BY THEMSELF!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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Haha, well, I did, last year.
You're not a loser! Alot of people wind up trick or treating by themselves cause either everyone already made plans, or nobody wants to go anymore, which was my situation last year.
But I just figured this year, I'd make sure I'd have someone to go around with, and I figured anyway, who cares!? I got candy. :)
I hope I helped.
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ok so... for some reason, recently my hair has been coming out alot. like if i brush it it will come out.. take a shower.. run my hands throuh it.... and its annoying cuz its just annoying!!
is this normal??? my friends say it is because like i constantly have my hair pulled back and now its down..but i dont know... (link)
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It is normal for your hair to fall out. About 100 strands of hair fall out daily, and especially in the shower and whenever you come your hair because whenever your hair's strands are "dead", they sort of just sit there, and not all of them fall out as easily until whenever you brush or shower, so it only seems like there's alot coming out at once, when really it just may be strands that are stuck in your hair during the day.
It could possibly be because you're always wearing your hair up. If you make a ponytail TOO tight, sometimes it can cause hairs to fall out.
I hope I helped.
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Would you concider asking questions/questioning someone cyberstalking/stalking? thanks. (link)
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It depends on the questions, and how many are being asked, really. If you're sitting there, being like,"Where do you live? What do you wear to bed?" and all sorts of personal questions they're uncomfortable with, and don't want to ask, then yeah, that's considered being stalkerish.
I hope I helped.
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