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why was she glaring at me?


Question Posted Thursday November 2 2006, 4:18 pm

Recently I saw my ex bf's friend at the bar. When I was dating my ex I always felt that his friend had feelings for me because he was always so nice and he seemed to really care about me. I remember once me and my ex got in a fight and he tried to make me feel better. Anyways; he never acted on his feelings because he had; and still has a gf. Well when I was dancing at the bar; although I never talked to him his gf kept glaring at me. I had no idea why because he's WAY to old for me and I am not interested. He is in his 50's and I'm in his 20's. Why do you think she was glaring at me? Do you think she sees me as a threat? She is probably in her early 40's.

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MelLeDisko answered Thursday November 2 2006, 5:07 pm:
It probably is because she may feel threatened by you. Girlfriends are always tending to get jealous whenever a pretty person is in the room, or they see a girl who their boyfriend used to like alot.

He may have told her about you, and she may feel you're just going to walk over to him and steal him away from her or something.

I would just ignore her ; you know you don't like him like that, and that's all that matters. If she wants to sit there and glare at every woman in the room, that's her problem.

I hope I helped.

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Razhie answered Thursday November 2 2006, 4:56 pm:
Why does it matter?

Maybe she is threatened, maybe she recognized your face and just couldn't place you, maybe you had food in your teeth, maybe she was looking for a good moment to come over and say hi, maybe she wasn't even looking at you or maybe she thought your shirt particularly ugly.

If you aren't interested in her guy, it doesn't matter at all. It's a waste of your mental energy to even bother worrying about what this random woman thinks of you. Unless you are telepathic you will never know what she was thinking, which is okay, because her feelings will never affect you in any way.

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