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Q: How do you get rid of dark eye lids and dark circles around your eyes?

the yellow colored concealer (not green!). or if you can buy the eye rejuvinating chanel cream!! it works soooo good!

hope this helps- :)

Q: Did anyone see the end of making the band 3 on MTV, i watched all the episodes and i missed the last one who wins! Pleasseeee tell me !!!!!!!

p diddy was like none of yall are that great so im not gonna make the band at this time. so theres gonna be a making the band 3: season 2. he did announce that 2 or 3 of the girls (morgan, older african american woman, and someone else i think) were gonna come back for the chance of making the band in the next season. ugh it sucks! its gonna be in like november? i think im not sure but yeah..

hope this helps- :)

Q: I'm sixteen, yet I still haven't developed my breasts yet! I know everyone says this, but I really don't want some answer like, "Be happy with who you are." Does anyone know ANYTHING.. at ALL. to make them bigger? Any foods to eat or anything? Please help.... No surgery. All natural. XOX

well if your willing to gain weight, then that wil make your breasts bigger. but its not guaranteed that the fat will go to your breasts. but thats really are they are is fat.

wish i could help more- :)

Q: I have always wondered that if you have sex a few days after your period how much of a chance is there that you will get pregnant?

im taking health and we just learned that you do actually have a greater chance after your period. then, in order,right before your period and then acutally during your period is the least.

hope this helps- :)

Q: Hey... Yesterday I woke up with a MAJOR hurt at three in the morning. It hurt so bad that I couldnt' sleep until nine, and I didn't go to soccer or cheerleading. I slept on and off all day and I barely moved because my right side hurt SO BAD. I figured it would go awake, but this morning it woke me again at six! I slept from about eight to eleven and I don't know why my side is hurting. It's like right below my rib cage to my hip and a lil' on my right side of my lower back. Anybody know what it may be or what I can do to help it. RATE HIGH

for quick, short-term fixes, try heating pads in that area, laying on your left side, and/or pepto bismal. but if these symptoms last longer than a week or so, i would definitely reccomend going to a doctor. it could just be nothing! or it might be something more serious but im sure you'll be fine!

hope this helps- :)

Q: ok, i have to choose between two schools. so you read this and in your answer, put which school you think i should go to. ok, the first one, i already found transportation to, but its far from my house, so thats a problem because ill have to use a fake address. this is school 1. the other school is closer to my house, but i havent found transportation yet. i could always go live with my aunt because she lives in front of the school. if not, i could take public transportation. this is school 2. anyways, my parents CANT take me to school...not even the first day....help!

definitely school 2! you should really think about living with your aunt if you feel comfortable with her. but also taking the bus is fun and you'll probably meet some really cool people there too that might go to your school! its a great way to meet new friends!

good luck- :)

Q: Im sorry its quite long but i really really do need help! I know its kinda bribing but I will give you 5 if its any reasonable answer! lol!
I have a friend, lets call her Hobbit because she is very short. Now she is, not that im being mean, rather unatractive but quite a nice person. She met this guy on the internet, we will call him Ent because he is very very tall.
Ent and Hobbit got together when he asked her out about a week or 2 after they started talking. He is 21 and she is 17. Quite a lot of her friends didnt like the idea of this so she told them she had dumped him but was actually still going out with him. I didnt really like the sound of it but i knew someone would have to stay on her good books to help her if things went pair shaped. Anyway, she met up with him for the first time last saturday and I came too because i wouldnt let her go on her own because he had been sounding more and more freaky by the day. When i met him though i thought yeh maybe he is alright, but i have discovered recently just how tempremental, slightly peverted and freaky he really is, oh and he also likes to mess with peoples minds for fun.
How can I convince someone who thinks the world of him, who falls for anyone who comes her way, that he is bad news and that i am scared for her, i have tried explaing to her but it just wont get through and im really really worried for her.

well it sounds like her love life usually isnt so great so shes just excited to have an acutal 'boyfriend'. if this guy isnt physically dangerous and threatening to her, then i would just let her figure what an ass he is for herself. its really good that your scared for her, but it sounds like youve already tried and you cant get through to her. if they go on more dates or whatever, try to make it into a double. dont let her go alone if you can! just give her time and hopefully she can figure it out!

hope this helps- :)

Q: i need some suggestions on how to earn some extra money. I don't really like to babysit but i do anyway and thats not really cuttin' it. I really want to buy a few new things, but i don't know how i can pay for it all! any suggestions?

well if your 14 or under its hard. some stores higher at 15 to be like a bagger at a grocery store. andy pretty much any place highers at 16.

if your under 14, you could have like a pet sitting service. or take care of neighbor's plants when they go out of town. or you could run little errand for you neighbors, like if they needed a short list of things at the super market. or you could always ask your parents if you could be paid to do random things around the house (mop, dust, sweep, etc)

good luck & hope this helps- :)

Q: ok so you kno the skin or "fat" that is usually called love handles? well how do you get rid of it.. are there exercises u can do? Its summer and it would be nice to not be self conscience about my body. I know i shouldn't be but i just want to know if anyone has anythign that would help thanks a bunch =D

hey you know bicycles for your stomach. where you put your elbow to your opposite knee while your on your back. they help the outer stomach where the love handles are. do 15 of these, then rest for about a minute and do 15 more. thats two reps. do two reps at least 4 times a week. start increasing the amount if your up for the challenge!

good luck- :)

Q: I spend about 3 hours in the sun every day, and I want my skin to appear tanner, but it doesn't get that much darker each day. It's barely noticeable! How can I get my skin to tan faster?

USE TANNING LOTION!! (i like banana boat) instead of getting burned, it will make your skin appear more tan. there arent really any other ways to make it tan faster. but be careful though, 3 hours is a lot for everyday. could you just do it maybe every other day? any how, wear chapstick w/ spf to protect your lips from sun damage.

hope this helps- :)

Q: Okay, I'm 14 years old, a male, and I am a homosexual FYI. I lived with my mom until her drug problems escaladed and I had to move with my grandparents. During that time, I became friends with this guy who I am friends with but am totally not attracted to whatsoever. I stayed there for a few months and we signed up for summer P.E. together and everything was going good. Then, I moved with my mom again and I became friends with this other guy who I am totally attracted to and I guess that kinda boosts his personality. I ended up blowing my other friend off and dropped out of summer P.E. to be with the guy I like/love or whatever. Is it bad I kinda ditched my best friend even though its my life and I should be able to do what I want and if this other guy makes me happy that should be the only thing that matters right? Anyways, my summer P.E. friend calls and says I blew him off to be with Ronnie and smoke drugs which isn't entirely false and he hangs up on me. Is it bad that I did this and what should I do now. Also, remember its too late to sign back up for summer P.E. and its also nice to know my summer P.E. friend is a republican and doesn't know I'm gay or anything like that. Please help me out of this bind.

yeah man that was kinda mean that you ditched him and quit the summer class. you could just tell him that you decided it wouldnt fit into your schedule and your really sorry that he felt like he was ditched. hopefully yall can get your friendship back. but you need to be the one to say sorry. if you say it genually, and he still doesnt forgive you, then thats when you shouldnt feel bad.

its cool that you found another guy though. but tell this old friend that he's the reason you ditched him. yano? it sucks but some people might freak out about the fact that ur gay. (i think its cool though lol).

hope this helps a little- :)

Q: when i got my first boyfriend i felt loved but then, i realized how rude he was and broke up with him. after that he always cussed at me and glared. when we talked we always ended up yelling and now, i feel like we can't be friends because of something HE put on him self. i mean, he was nice and cool when he wanted me and was just friends, but after that...BOOM!!! should i still be friends with him or ditch him. i rate high...if its useful k

well i see that your open to a frienship, but it doesnt sound like he's as mature as you in that sense. if he's still gonna be mean, then what's the point? you don't need someone like that as a friend. but if you maybe talk to him and he wants to be friends again then that would be good. but from your question, i get that he is very rude, so you probably just want to forget him as a friend.

hope this helps- :)

Q: ok so i have had boyfriends before but they all turned out to be jerks i was just wondering if any one knew any body or something that might want to date a 13 year old girl brown hair/eyes and a great personality because i really want to find some one

hey um this site really isn't used for a dating service. but go to http://www.budypic.com
you can have a profile and put your pic in and everything and there are TONS of guys on there your age!

good luck- :)

Q: okay .. one of my really good guy friends is moving away. im 13/f and we just finished 8th grade.. well i want to have a moving party for hym and make it a suprise..
what kind of theme do we need ??
What Gift Should We Give Him??

i rate high bc thys kid is pretty much y best friend

pools are always fun (assuming that you or a friend has one that would let you borrow it for a night). pizza is always good. but also supply over snacks like chips n' salsa and cheese and crackers and easy stuff like that. or if your friend happens to love bowling, then why not have it there? or putt putt etc.

for a gift, i like the idea of downloading about 15 songs that really have a true meaning for your friendship (like graduation by vitamin c is cute). if yall had any good times while listening to a certain song then put that on the playlist!

hope this helps- :)

Q: I'm 13/f && I'll admit it, I have a big nose. I know I'm too young for plastic surgery but I'm really self consious of it so is there any way I could minimize it? Like is there a way I could do my makeup to make it less noticeable?

xO* GiiRL iiN NEED

you could try wearing more visible eye makeup (like eyeliner, mascara, and a light eyeshadow. that way people would look at your big, pretty eyes instead of ur shnoz. lol

hope this helps- :)

Q: okay im a singer as some of yous may know i have a really great voice and sing at places the probelm is i smoke..i noticed my voice cracks sometimes.I really need advice to quit smoking because my parents smoke also so it will be hard and any tip to improve my singing.Please help me!

quit cold turkey! seriously im taking health and its supposed to be the best way to quit. even though the withdrawal symptoms are a little more severe, they dont last nearly as long if you had quit gradually. just tell youself NO MORE!! and you gotta stick with it! you can do it!! if you really feel the need, a patch might help, but itd be better to go without it ifyou can!!immidiately, your body will start to clean itself. and your singing voice will improve!!

GOOD LUCK!!- :)

Q: im 14 and i go to a highschool in plano texas ,
my case is a little bit different i suppose
my shrink diagnosed me with a mild-severe social paranoia meening i afriad everyone is always judgeing me and watching me , like im some zoo animal, even if sum1 isnt around.
iv also got mild social axiety bah like i know what that means for sure
i have "hyper-hydrosis" wich is a condition i was born with where my hands are always moist wich makes it wierd to hold hands with girls
iv liked this girl since she moved to the school, shes always been reay nice to me and iv always been nice to her, just recently iv been realy wanting to be in a relationship with this girl but i cant bring myself to ask her out in fear that she would say no in fear that i might make an attempt on my life (this is i guess social anxiety?) , i dont think she even knos i like her and she doesnt seem to even realy i know i exist sometimes
she tells me about all the guys that she likes and that realy hurts my feelings becuas im not the tallest (at 5'1" im far from it) im not the fit-est or the most handsome , i have acne and a steryotypical "Jewish Nose" wich many predjudists remind me often about.

i just cant help but feel that she wont accept my offer to start a relationship

this girl is truely beutiful in every sense of the word ,in class since i sit behind her i just stare at the back of her head and go off into "lala land"
on several times iv tried inviting her to movies or something but she always seems to have something else to do

any and all help wud be most appreciated

if u want to talk to me just chilling and stuff y AIM is forty5calpsyco

Thanks So Much

hey i think you just need more confidence. then she may see that in you. dont feel like everyone is judging you because really, were all thinking about how WE look. its good that youve tried asking her to the movies. im surprised she hasnt gotten the hint from that that you like her. just take it slow. and if the time feels right, THEN you should tell her how you feel. if shes doesnt like you back, then what the hey? at least you tried! right? but if she does like you then im sure you'll be thrilled! wait for signs that she may like you back. and in the meantime, try not to get jealous over the guys she talks about.

hope this helps & good luck- :)

Q: MEMEnplease honestly your advice is horrible. and i think your rude.

examples:

Shave your head and then with wood glue paste your pubic hair on your head.

HAHA you pussy

Well, i hate to tell you this. But.... thats not sunburn. You have crabs. You shouldn't have fucked around you whore

If anyones who planned on kidnapping you has read this, then they will realize your a waste of a good kidnap. Also a waste of life.

Just fuck him and get it over with

The best way to make new friends and to have sex.

ewwwwwwww what sick asshole asks some question like that.

I think you should probly just fuck the little guys brains out.

You should probly just have sex with the guy.

yaaaa.. have some respect you jerk! none of that was even an answer to peoples questions. this sites for ADVICE not put downs and nasty comments.

if you want to see this columnist banned, then you should fill out a 'report abuse' thing under 'miscellaneous' on the side bar.

hope this helps- :)

Q: does anybody know the title and the band that play the song that goes

"i'm a bitch i'm a lover, i'm a child i'm a mother, i'm a saint i'm a sinner..."
thank you

bitch by meredith brooks

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Q: i need to find a one peice racing swim suit for swim team. i really want it to be speedo or something like that. all the websites i look at are all for adults and the smallest size is a 22. but i need a size 15 or 16. does anyone know a website that i can find that type of size of a suit?? please help i need it soon!!!

umm im pretty sure academy has speedo ones. or oshman's or any of those other kind of sporting good stores. or if you do know your EXACT size then you can probably order it off of spedo.com

hope this helps & good luck- :)