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I want to start telling people that I'm Bi but everytime I've told someone I can't seem to think of a better way to say it than just to say, really bluntly-'I'm Bi'.
Can anyone thing of a more subtle way of telling people?
Humm, I don't think there is a suble way to do it. Maybe you could re-phrase it: I'm of no fixed sexuallity [very bad example, I'm sorry]
Good luck :)
I've written a few books and I just LOVE to write. So many things and idea's I could put. I also love to be noticed for great things i do. I really want maybe one of my books to be published or known. I'd like to submit it but I don't know where to. That's why I need your help can someone tell me somewhere I could submit a book to? Please!
~Desperate for fame~
It really depends on what you have written, what contry you are in and how long your 'books' are.
Option one is to submit things to litterary jornals. Buy one first to see what sort of thing they publish, how long and if they accept serials.
Option two is to write to independant publishing houses, giving a synopsis, approximate word length and asking if they will read it. Be careful not to write to vanity publishes. Rule of thumb is, if the House asks for money from you, then they are a vanity publisher.
Option three is to get an agent and be submitted to some of the bigger Houses.
I would go throught the options one by one and see where that gets you. Good Luck
These dreams go on when I close my eyes
Every second of the night I live another life. i swear im living another life but these dreams seem so completley REAL! i feel lik in supposed to be in a diffrent world or place could these dreams come true?? also i think or dream about stuff one day and it comes true the next day and i already saw it the night before this only happens once in a while though?? what is going on help!!!!
I think in terms of the 'my dreams come true', it might just be coincidence, esspecially its about simple things, like your best mate gets a cheese sandwich insead of a tomato one.
Many dreams can see very real, even when we are awake. I suggest if this is really concerning you, you go see a theripist as they are qualified to deal with this much more.
I have social anxiety disorder but I want to ask Orlando out...what do I do?
Social Anxiety Disorder is something that I JUST CAN'T GET OVER just like that...and it's hard. Please help. Sometimes I fall really hard for him...and I just want a chance with him.
From,
My heart skips a beat
Orlando? Please tell me this is a guy at your school/work.
I'm sorry to have to say this, but you are going to have to get over your SAD if you want a chance with this guy.
Maybe you could first writ him a note asking to meet him someplace private, that way you don't have to deal with hords of people being around at the same time.
Good Luck whatever you do.
im in a relationship but i have not had a good sex life im in my 30's and i just need it women who are of my age would understand my point im sure anyhow there is this other guy who likes me alot he knows i am in a relationship he is single and more closer to my age than guy im in a relationship with i kissed the other guy today wow it felt like great im not sure i can choose at least not right now please dont put me down especially if you are the type that dont need or have the desire to have sex or are getting sex whenever you want it i know maybe i should choose but i dont know the guy i kissed that well and the guy im in a relationship with is not that bad except for no and i mean no sex HELP HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!
I don't belive life should just be about sex, but I guess it's up to you to chose what is more important to you; the guy you are with at the moment, or sex.
If you love the guy you are currently with then you should forgive him his lack of libido and try and work things out with him, ie sit down and talk with him about how you don't feel satisfied.
If you love sex more then go with this other guy and have lots of carnal pleasure.
Listen I'm 14 years old and I am above the 9th grade level in my reading and writing but i'm home schooled and so I have tought myself pretty much everything that I know. (I posted a question about not having an education on here before) Well I really want to be a Pastry Chef. (Yes there is a difference between a Pastry chef and a Chef.) But I'm not sure what kind of grades I need to get into a Culinary School. I know that my reading and writing really doesn't count but I don't know what kind of grades I need. Like do i need to have more than just good grades to be a pastry chef? I really love baking and baking anything that is like for dessert or sweets. Get the idea. I am really good at it too. I want to go to college to become a Pastry Chef and then get my own business and sell desserts/sweets. I want to call it "lil' bare's Pastry's"
So really any advice would be appreciated.
Signed
A Pastry Chef In The Making
I would say get on the net, or go down to your local libary and reserch what collage/ unis teach patsry, baking and confectionary. Then you need to write off to said institutions and explain your situation and ask what they would be looking for grade and portfolio -wise. I would also look into doing buisness studies if you want your own, and not just to work for someone else.
My brother is 11 years old. He is looking for a girlfriend. I know all of you are going to say "This isn't a dating service!" But he is really looking for a sweet nice girl. Well anyway, He lives in Florida, Boca Raton. He would really apperciate if you would answer me. Please he is very despreate.
Love
Despreate man and his sister~
Ok if the kid is 11 he doesn't *need* a partner. Maybe you should explain to him that he is far to young to be looking or even wanting a girl, and that he should enjoy his childhood whilst it lasts, becuse pretty soon thing are gonna start getting messy anyway.
And I would just like to point out that at 11 he is still a child. One doesn't become a 'man' IMO untill they are 20-something.
My friend told me that me an dmy boyfriend make a good couple but he never talks to me even though we just started goign out like a day ago.. But still.. Shouldnt he be talking to me, maybe he is juts shy like me.. Im really shy and I think Im gunna just talk to him (try) tomorrow anyways... but I needa know why he isnt talking to me.. !!!
One question, how well do you know your b/f and how old are you both?
It just seems odd to me that you would date some one whom you don't speak to. Do you even see each other? Maybe you and he don't have anything to talk about, like have in common, so try and find somthing.
Hope that hepls, and good luck :)
I was just wondering if anyone knows what kind of grades I would need to get in order to get into a University College. Right now I have a 4.0 weighted grade but only because I'm taking honors classes. Does anyone know what kind of extra curricular activities I'm going to have to do in order to be able to make it into a UC?
I'm not sure about in America, but I know that Universities in the UK look for just with good grade, but that are 'well rounded persons'. What that means is, they like to see prospective students with a couple of different extra curricular activities [ECA]. For example, maybe you take an art class, so your ECA might include the technical side of drama and somthing science-y. And vice versa, you take pure maths, you should try some form of art ECA or sport.
I hope that helps, and good luck getting into the Uni of your choice :)
Assuming u are in loved with a guy and you can't tell him and he do offer you on outing and you do agree but really in love ,pls what can you do because people believe girls should not woo aguy but guys should do so.
You say 'fuck convention, I'm going to do it any way'
In this day and age it is [at least should be] fully acceptable for a girl to woo a guy. If you want to make things work, you have to let him know how you feel, maybe after this 'trip' invite him to a movie or somthing. You don't have to give him chocolates or flowers [thought he still might like the former], but let him know in other ways :)
Good Luck on your outing :)
Okay, look, I just want everyone to know that Catholics ARE in fact Christians, and if you don't belive so, research it. We DO NOT pray to Mary, we honour her! Just because of a few minor differences doesn't mean we aren't Christians, that's the whole bloody point of the different denominations! AT least we're accepting of other religions, while some of you claim we're pagans and non-Christians go to hell no matter what, thanks a bloody lot. I just want to know, what makes you people think we're not Christian, and I'll clear this whole mess up and explain things to you. I'm not looking for converts, just understanding. I believe Jesus taught peace, love, and understanding, n'est-ce pas?
Umm are you the same one that posted a simmilar question a while back? I really think you ought to direct your question at whomever specifically though that catholics aren't christian. The christian faith is made up os so very many 'cults', its hard to know the difference sometimes.
It was also my understanding that the catholics, as a group, where one of the least tolerant cults. [who is it hates gay preists? who was it burned Jone D'Ark? et al]
But you yourself sounds like a pretty tolerant person, so you go and live the life of 'peace, love, and understanding' :)
Hi, im 13 years old. I am a female. I am having a problem with a lot of girls in my school. 2 of my friends kept sayin the other one was saying things aboyut me.Ashley of them said that Paige was saying stuff about my mom. The Paige said it wasn't true. Paige that said it wasn't true is the Ashley's friend still. I told her if it isn't true then why would you still be her friend if she is lying and she said because she is not going to not be my friend just because she said something that wasn't true. Now i'm neither of there friends. Because they ae always telling me lies. and saying things behind my back. I don't know what to do. What should I do? Thanks for listening.
It sounds like you have done the best thing; You have dumped them. You sound like a smart person, they don't deserve you. Who cares if they are spreading rumors or whatever, it doesn't matter because *you* know they aren't true and if any one asks you you can tell them its not true. People like this just have small minds and don't deserve you attention.
*hug*
I want to build a web site with a 3d walk through town on it. What software should i use and where can i get it. (free if possible)
The only way you can do this is if you get hold of a 3d engine and know about codeing in C/+/++ or Perl [for instance]. I would recomend you try asking your question on slashdot.org or serching on google for 3d rendering engines, tutorials et al.
I need help. My friends are well, my friends. And my b/f is my b/f. I get the feeling that my friends are up to something. I dont want them to get hurt! What should I do??
SAM
You're having mate/partner conflicts? You need to sit down with eeryone, find out what there problem is with the other pary and try and sort it out. People may be hurt, and there is not a lot you can do about that. Good luck :)
Ok there is this thing during lunch and I am like, idk, like all WHATEVER! about it. and my friends want me to go and i want to go but i think the preppies in my school are like, oh yeah look at me, and I dont like people like that. But deep down i feel that if i go that i'll become good friends with them. What should I do?
Umm could you please re-itterate you question a bit clearer. Maybe tell us a bit about this 'thing'?
But I think you need to be true to yourself, don't do something just becuse you think it will make poeple like you better. Any mate who says you can't be yourself around them isn't your mate :)
Im a straight A student and I have never really cared much about my grades. It isn't hard for me to get a A at my school. I am in 6th grade and I know this isn't very serious but I'm worried. I have gotten a B+ on my test in math...yeah I know no big deal...and I know it isn't. I just took it as a sign to pay attention in class, which I do. I recently got a A+ on my math test so everything is fine in math. I'm not worried about any of my other classes except language arts. For the past two quarters its been a easy A. I got a B or a B+ on one of my tests and I was like alright, that was just a mistake I made and I'll be sure to pay more attention. Well we did these powerpoint presentations on the book 'The Cay' and I got a C on it. I was at a 92% and I'm not sure how far this will drop my grade. I really don't want to have to get a b+ on my report card. I know I sound pretty preppy or whatever but it's not that. My dad has been having 'trouble' letting go of me lately because boys have been asking me out and my friensd are trying to get me to go to the movies with the boys and I've been buying shorter skirts...and I know he isn't exactly the happiest man in the world. I just know he would be dissappointed if I came home. The real question is , is there anything I can do to bring my grade up?
Well, I would guess that your grades are dropping because you think it should still be easy for you, but in actual fact the curriculum is getting harder, but you are still carrying out the same amount of work.
I would suggest going and seeing the teachers for the subjects you are worried about and ask them what they suggest you do. They may give you extra work, or say you can stay behind after school for exrta lessons or somthing, although it doesn't really sound like you are struggling, just a little supprised that things aren't so easy any more.
Good luck
Catholic, 'not' a Christian? Sorry, but I think that could've been worded a little better, it kinda implies you aren't Christian, but I digress, that doesn't matter. See, if every one else on this column does, you still have no right. I've seen the answers you've given people, and I'm pretty sure you're suposed to give advice. Maybe you should think about yelling at the other columnists, I know I'm off to. Sayonara, may our paths not cross again. And why can't you people use a freakin' period at the very least? See, .? It's that easy! . Did it again.
I'm wondering who this was aimed at. But you are right, Catholicism is just another 'cult' of cristianity, I would suggest that if you are that unhappy with the advice given to you by a particualr collomist that you should leave feedback on the question/ advice. If you have a look at the suggestions collom [http://advicenators.com/column.php?u=advicenator_admin] you will see that the point of feedback is for the admin to weed out collomists who are getting lots of bad feedback as this would indicate that they are giving lots of bad advice.
as some of you know, im trying to set a world record of watching the same movie over and over again, and right now i watched it 44 times.
Does anybody know what the world record is???
http://www.guinnessworldrecords.com/
This site has everything you could ever want/need to know about how to set/break records and what the current records are.
im 13 and my penis is like 2 to 3 inches is that about right for my age
I don't really think there is such a thing as a 'right' size. Most men I know are about 6-8 inches when errect, but they can shrink to as little as 3 inches when 'at rest'.
I know you are coming into adolesance and all those hormones are starting to kick in, making you wonder if you are 'ok' and 'normal', but really there is nothing to worry about, and you should just enjoy the reminant of your childhood whilst you still can because from here on in, it gets pretty messy.
how can u tell if u hav deeper feelins 4 ur close friend and he may hav the same feelings as he flirts with u and says ur attractive etc.....
You explore the possiblity. Go out for drinks, a movie etc and see how you [and he] feel about each other after a while