im in a relationship but i have not had a good sex life im in my 30's and i just need it women who are of my age would understand my point im sure anyhow there is this other guy who likes me alot he knows i am in a relationship he is single and more closer to my age than guy im in a relationship with i kissed the other guy today wow it felt like great im not sure i can choose at least not right now please dont put me down especially if you are the type that dont need or have the desire to have sex or are getting sex whenever you want it i know maybe i should choose but i dont know the guy i kissed that well and the guy im in a relationship with is not that bad except for no and i mean no sex HELP HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!
jbdreamer answered Friday March 19 2004, 10:40 am: If you are not satisfied with the relationship you are in, maybe you should end it. It is unfair to both him and you if you are cheating on him. I can understand you are sexually frustrated, but are you willing to give up the relationship you are in for sex? Only you can answer that question. [ jbdreamer's advice column | Ask jbdreamer A Question ]
alpha answered Friday March 19 2004, 10:01 am: If the only good thing you can say about your current relationship is that it's "not that bad," then I don't think you're really invested in the guy. Why stay with someone whom you clearly aren't excited about? In this particular case, I would take your attraction to other guys as nature's way of telling you that this isn't meant to be; it seems like there are even deeper problems than the lack of sex. [ alpha's advice column | Ask alpha A Question ]
DruidX answered Friday March 19 2004, 8:58 am: I don't belive life should just be about sex, but I guess it's up to you to chose what is more important to you; the guy you are with at the moment, or sex.
If you love the guy you are currently with then you should forgive him his lack of libido and try and work things out with him, ie sit down and talk with him about how you don't feel satisfied.
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