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Question Posted Friday March 19 2004, 11:27 am

There is this guy who REALLY likes me and he is REALLY cute but he acts tooo preverted. Whenever I get around him and then leave he acts all depressed. How can I tell him nicely that I dont want to go out with him? ( without hurting his feelings)

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sweatheart answered Sunday March 21 2004, 10:44 am:
If he has an email address, you can simply tell him through mail or phone inorder to tell him and also by begging him not to be too upset

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foxshadow answered Friday March 19 2004, 10:20 pm:
Sit him down and tell him simply, "I'm sorry, I value you as a friend, but I really don't think I can go into a relationship with you." Tell him nicely, of course. Good luck! :)

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Siren_Cytherea answered Friday March 19 2004, 8:27 pm:
Just let him down gently. I know that's pretty much an oximoron, but really, that's what you're gonna have to do. Just be nice about it. For instance: "You're a really great guy, but I just don't reciprocate your feelings for me." I've had to do that, and it sucks to see the look on their face if they really like you, but you just have to be as gentle as you can. Good luck. =)
-Siren

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endilwen answered Friday March 19 2004, 2:11 pm:
Just tell him that you value his friendship but you don't have any other feelings for him. That way he'll know that you still care about him without being harsh :)

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jbdreamer answered Friday March 19 2004, 12:12 pm:
Just tell him the truth. Tell him you are flattered that he likes you, but you just do not have the same feelings for him. He is going to feel hurt no matter how nice you put it, he is being rejected. That hurts anybodys feelings. But don't feel too bad, thats just life and we move on.

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