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My friend told me that me an dmy boyfriend make a good couple but he never talks to me even though we just started goign out like a day ago.. But still.. Shouldnt he be talking to me, maybe he is juts shy like me.. Im really shy and I think Im gunna just talk to him (try) tomorrow anyways... but I needa know why he isnt talking to me.. !!!
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guRl just dump him, even if hes shy he still shoud should hbe talking to you. Don't wanna sound neg. but chances r migh not like you that much, guys will some times like you at frist and than a day or 2 later, thay relly don't like you like that NE more. But you do need to talk to him, find out wuz up with him.
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I bet he's shy. Either that or he doesn't feel comfortable around you. He might be a mute. In any event you should ask him why he is having trouble talking to you. If you think it's okay then keep going out. If not, break it off quick. Don't let things get too complex before you decide to break them if they don't work in the beginning.
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Hmmm...interesting. Maybe you're right. Maybe he is just shy. Or maybe he's been so busy, he just really hasn't had the time to sit down ah=nd have a nice chat. (After all, you've only been going out for a day.)
Then again, he could just be going out with you just to have a girlfriend. If he is, drop that jerk like a flaming potato!
Just try and talk to him first, like you said. Don't end the relationship yet, just wait and see what he's like. Of course, if he still doesn't talk to you and/or is being a jerk to you, definitaly tell him to shove off. Good luck!
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i know why ur bf isnt talkin to u, he is shy exactly what u said, but if u dont talk to him, itll ruin your guyz relationship so jus talk to him, he may be testing u. my friends and i all go through the same type of stuff
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That's how it used to be at my old school. People go out with eachother just to have a boyfriend or girlfriend. Why would you go out with someone who doensn't talk to you. That really doesn't vount as having a boyfriend. If you are too shy to go up and talk to him and he's not talking to you...then DON'T GO OUT WITH THE KID.
What grade are you in?
You seriously need to talk this out with him (and if you feel you can't) then obviously you both aren't meant to be a couple because you guys can't even go up to each other and talk things out with each other.
I'm sorry, but that is STUPID.
Just because your friend says you two make a good couple doesn't mean it's meant to be. If you guys aren't even talking to each other, then you're just wasting your time so dump him and find somebody who will actually AT LEAST act like friends with you if they aren't ready to kiss or whatever yet.
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well he isnt talking to you because he dont like you (da) if he liked you he wouldnt stop talkin to you girl heres a really good advice leave him you dont need him sorry life go's on
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How can you be a good couple if you don't even talk to eachother? You two are just shy and unsure of what to do. That is why he is not talking to you. If you like him talk to him! He won't be surprized to see you comming since apparently he is your boyfriend.
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One question, how well do you know your b/f and how old are you both?
It just seems odd to me that you would date some one whom you don't speak to. Do you even see each other? Maybe you and he don't have anything to talk about, like have in common, so try and find somthing.
Hope that hepls, and good luck :)
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You are probably right about your boyfriend being shy. Both you and him will get used to your current situation as "girlfriend and boyfriend." It may take some time to settle in but after the first week or so everything should be back to normal. Talking to him is a very good idea. He's probably too shy to talk to you himself. If I'm wrong and your relationship is suffering from any other problems, just mail me back.
-Joce
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