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Coming Out
I want to start telling people that I'm Bi but everytime I've told someone I can't seem to think of a better way to say it than just to say, really bluntly-'I'm Bi'.
Can anyone thing of a more subtle way of telling people?
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Why do you want to announce it? I have never felt compelled to walk up to anyone and say that I am straight. You are what you are, you don't need to take out a banner. Just live...
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When the topic of relationships comes up amongst people who you would like to share your sexual orientation with, you could say something like "If a person is attractive to me and has a pure heart, I am comfortable accepting love and affection from them and offering love and affection to them regardless of their gender". Best of luck to you.
Kind wishes,
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I'm not sure there's any need to announce this to the world. I mean, I'm not saying you should hide your bisexuality, but think of it this way: have you ever heard of anyone going around informing people that they're straight?
Just be yourself. If anyone asks, tell them. Otherwise, let them figure it out on their own ^_^
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Just tell people that you are and if they don't like it its their problem! i have friends that are bi and their proud of it! You souldn't care what ppl think and if your friends ditch you because you are bi their not ture friends! Just say hey i am bi what do you rhink about that? if they have a nasty comment... screw them.
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Well- whoever you are, i am bi as well, and i know where you are coming from. Just come out and say it, and if somene doesnt understand you, try saying something like "i think i might be interested in someone other than so n so, and its not a guy.." or "i like girls as well as guys"
Something like this should get someone to understand you. I've told many people and its gotten out to others, some seem to understand and not care, and others act like i dont exist, like they dont care about me, like they've never did.. but the only thing i can say, is do whats best, with the people you trust.
:)- hope this helps!
Crystal
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its no other way either way you say it your just saying the same thing so tell them you bi thats all to it
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That depends on who you're telling really. You need to be open and honest about your feelings, but saying "I'm bi" might be a bit more of a shock. Perhaps just saying "I like both sexes", or "I find both girls and boys sexually attractive", it may not be as much of an eye-opener. Good luck :)
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You don't need to necessarily tell people at all if you're uncomfortable about it...they'll find out through the grapevine eventually because that's what people do - talk about each other. But if you want to tell close friends I'd just tell them. If they're really your friends they'll respect you for being so honest and like who for who you are. Also make sure to quash any of their pre-conceived notions and stereotypes and answer anything they may ask you.
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Just sit people down and tell them straight out. That's really the only thing you can do.
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Humm, I don't think there is a suble way to do it. Maybe you could re-phrase it: I'm of no fixed sexuallity [very bad example, I'm sorry]
Good luck :)
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