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Hi my name is Lee Ann. I am 29 years old and Graduated from Bethany college obtaining a bachelors of music. I am a happily married woman with two kids, ages3 and 2. I currently have six books out on the market, all of which can be found on amazon. The first is called The Leaf: One fallen heart and a burning desire, my second is called Avengement of Glory, my third is called Spiral of Enlightenment, fourth one is called Prodigy of the Immortal, fifth one is called Augment in the Realm of Darkness, and my sixth novel is called Bond in the Spiritual Heart. I started this advice column to see if I could give good advice. Turns out I am pretty good, better than I thought actually. I enjoy seeing people smile when I give them good advice and they use it. It makes me feel better as a person to help people. I want to make the world a better place and I think that starting an advice column is the right way to begin. Writing is a huge part of my life, without it, I wouldn't be able to function properly. After seven years, I think I have done pretty well as an advice columnist.
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plz help me my boy friend dumped me for family problems and now he won't atlk to me i keep teling him that i love him but he wow listen plz help love keely xxxxx
When it comes to family, it is really hard to deal with girlfriends or boyfriends. He needs time to straighten things out with them. He is not dumping your for good but temporary, if he sees you are willing to calm done, wait for him, be there for him, understand his decision, and let him know your support him, and give him some space, he will come back to you in no time. He just needs time get things in order before he plans out his own.
Im going on a vaction to cuba with a bunch of friends and im supposed to get my period the day we leave, so i will have it the entire time were there. I was wondering if there is any way to make it start even a couple days early so that the worst part with be over when we go.
The only thing that really has any control over that would be birth control where you can pretty much plan out when you will have periods. If you ask the doctor who prescribes this to you, he will be able to explain all the details.
im almost 16 my bf is 16 and we went to have sex for both our first time and when he was about to put his penis in it went soft we tried later on the same thing happened i gave him a handjob but he couldnt get another erection hes really embarrassed what can we do?
Well, since you tried and didn't go thorugh with it, in the back of his mind it might have ended up turning him off. Maybe subconciously its all he wanted and when you did the second thing, it didn't seem as good. Give it some time, maybe a week, and try again. Right now, I think it is his pride but within time he should be back to himself.
16/f
what is some eye make-up that i can use to bring out my hazel eyes. i love eye liner but would black work. any eye shadow? i also need new ideas of how to do my eye make up. im kinda of punker.i have beige skin and dark brown hair.
pics of how to do my make up would be nice
For beige skin I would light browns or something that is a little darker than your actual complexion. The way to bring out hazel eyes is to make your skin look as natural as possible. There is a cover girl makeup that you put on your face that is blue, looks like a toilet seat for 9.00 at walmart. It is a liquid foundation but at the same time it is powder like, I think. It works really good, makes your skin soft, and natural. Go family dollar and they will have eyeshadow with 10 colors, mostly brown. This combination makes your skin look wonderful. For eyeliner, I would definitely suggest black. There is one eyeliner that works wonders in family dollar that you twist to make it come out, it is a skinny tube, completely black with a white eraser thing at the end in case you miss your target. For blush I would go with a light pink or something that gets the job done but isn't overkill. This will definitely help get what you want.
18/f
I had sex 3 months ago in beginning of January around 2 days after seeing my period. I saw my period in February and in March. But now in April it is a week and 2 days late is it possible that I may be pregnant or could this just be stress. The bottom of my belly hurts me at time. Please help me as I am worried and confused.
I don't think that you are pregnant but may have a cyst or something that is causing you to have pregnancy symptoms. It happens to alot of women and it is nothing to worry about, though paying a visit to your doctor is the best bet for you because if it is a cyst, you need to get a prescription from your doctor.
what can i do to make both of my infected pierced ears heal?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?! i am like afriad that i will have to go through surgery or something. the earing is embeded in my ear and i ca't take it out! help!!!
Take a cup of water and mix it with salt. Take a q-tip, use it to swerve around and behind your ears. This will help take the swelling down, if you don't have either of these things then go to a store where they sell earrings and they should have solution to sell you to take the swelling out. Once the swelling dims down you will be able to take the earring out. Relax, you can still get out of this.
well i have pretty good skin but lately ive had a lot of pimples! i used to not wash it twice a day but now im really determinded to have good skin so ive been washing it twice a day and taking off my makeup and using pore strips and moisturizing and using masks and doing everything like your supposed too but i have a lot of pimples STILL!!! i have no idea what else to do and how to get rid of them so please tell me how to get rid of my pimples!! thank you very much! :)
Go to proactiv.com or maybe it is proactive.com. If the website doesn't work then go to google.com and type in proactive in the search engine. They sell really good products. It gets rid of even the most amount of pimples.
i know.. gross but my tongue is always always white... like it has a disgusting layer of white on it.... and i tried everything mouth wash salt and water gargling tongue scraper.... you name it... nothing works!!! what can i do!? i've always had it. and i think i am a pretty health person otherwise. i exercise three times a week i eat alright i'm clean....I REFUSE TO KISS MY BOYFRIED and he's getting frustrated as am i! help!!
Ok it is nothing serious so you can relax. You may be eating healthy but your body isn't recieving the right amount fo vitamins and such. A way to truly get rid of this and make your tongue completely pink is to go to rite aide, walmart, k-mart etc. and get those fruity pills, they are either flintstone ones or scooby-do. Within a couple of weeks, your tongue should look normal.
my knees are dark! why? and what can i do to get them to match the rest of mu body?!
Your best bet is to go to your nearest Walgreens, CVS or other drug store and buy a cream that lightens dark spots on the skin. You'll find it in the same area that that has all the other facial creams, like Oil of Olay, Biore, etc. Look for one that specifically says it will lighten dark patches of skin. I know it's out there, because I have seen it, I just cannot remembe the name of the product.
PS~ I know these things work, cause I have a cousin who uses the creams.
http://www.makari.com/
http://www.whiterskin.com/
http://www.fairandflawlessskin.com/
http://www.skinlight.com/main.html
I'm sorry if this is the wrong topic to talk about this, but I really need advice. I just absolutely hate throwing up. I always feel so awful. Then, sometimes I get dreams about my siblings or relatives throwing up in the dreams. When I wake up, I feel quesy. Also, in like class at school, when someone throws up, I feel queasy again..OR, if I hear that someone threw up. What I'm worried about most is that when I go to California this year for a vacation, and then we will have to drive from LA to San Diego, it will be a 2 hour ride. And then my cousin is coming, same with my aunt, and they get car sick, and I dont want to have that feeling the whole way. It's not because I'm carsick. Then I'll be having my period, so having that feeling might make me feel worse. Is there any way to not make me feel this way? Or something to do? Thanks a lottttttt!!! :)
Listening to music is definitely a soathing way to realx and you won't be able to hea or feel anyones sickness. Also bring a clear pop like sprite, or up. It helps from getting quesy or that feeling of having to throw up. Also for cramps or bloating eat chocolate, maybe buy a small bag of chocolate bits. Take pills before you leave for your cramps or to prevent any kind of pain. If you are uncomfortable that usually where the trouble begins. I woudln't suggest reading a book, the flow of words and reading inside your head might make you sick even before you really leave. Request a spot when the air will be flowing directly at you. If sit in front of the air, it will keep you cool especially when you get hot, sweaty, and eventually nauseated. This will help prevent that.
Well, my computer has a problem where it randomly opens up a million myspace pages. Like, I'll be typing something up, ot even USING the internet and suddenly, it will start opening up myspace. It keeps opening up pages until I turn my computer off. and if I try to exit out of them, It replaces them rapidly. I don't have any idea why it does this but it's EXTREMELY annoying. Please help?!
Your computer has been hacked and being tampered with. The best thing to do is to go to the library and access their computer. Access your myspace and change your password to something else. Make your password a letter then a number, letter, number, and definitely write it down. Bots can't decode a password that has multiple letters and number put together. When you have changed your password, let you computer be shut off for at least two days, then slowly reboot. Changing the password of your myspace and whatever instant messanger thing you use, basicly anything that needs a password, change it.
what are some things that can delay your period besides pregnancy? i'm always 2-3 days earlier than i was the month before and i'm never late, but i am now.
There are alot of the things that could be delaying it. Stress, low-calcium, low-iron, low in vitamins. It is definitely nothing to worry about. Actually when you get older it tends to get worse because your responsibility starts to build.
Me and this guy have known each other for almost two years now, and we started out going out and broke up after a month, but just got alot closer. Anyway a year and a half later we are really close and we like each other. Anyway, there is something that is keeping him from me. SO there is this other guy that likes me and I had feelings for him but my feelings for this other guy that I love was keeping me from saying yes to him. So I asked him (the guy who I like) what he wanted, and he told me that he didnt want me to be with the other guy because he would miss me and he wouldn't know what he would do without being as close as we are now. I told him I needed to a reason to stay,And he said that he liked me but he wasn't ready to date me, because any relationship we would have would be serious and he didn't want a serious relationship. I asked him what he was ready for, and joking he said "some hoe on the street". I told him he wouldnt care about her, and he told me that was the point, he cared about me too much. He said because we are in high school breaking up would inevitable (he is one grade ahead of me) and he couldn't risk our friendship. I told him he made me happy and that I wanted to be with him, and he told me I made him happy but he couldn't give me the relationship he knows I dream about. What I need to know is if this is true, I'm not sure if this is an excuse or what makes guys not ready. And if he liked me how come he doesn't want a serious relationship. He says he cares about me. I told him I didn't really want a serious relationship but he said he didn't believe that because I get emotionally attached. At that moment we almost kissed (both of us have never kissed anyone before). But we were in his doorway to his room and I didn't want his parents to walk in on us, so I told him not now. When I texted him this morming I asked him if the feeling of kissing me had passed (because we are hanging out next weekend and I want to kiss him then) and he texted back that he told me yesterday that he wasn't ready to date me so it wouldn't be fair to me. Was that a rejection, I do want to kiss him, and I know he wants to kiss me. I just don't know what to make of this situation. And I need thorough advice on how to go about this. I love him, and I really think he loves me. HELP PLEASE!!!
He is scared and he is right when it comes to high school, it is a drama pot that is constantly turning. As a couple it is inevitable to avoid this. Losing someone he souly cares about is frightening especially for a guy. He is not lying about the kiss, it is rare to find a guy who wants to wait for the perfect moment to kiss. This means he is thinking more than just a relationship, he wants to wait becasue he thinking about marriage. Not marriage right now but in the future.
ok so I've been wearing make-up forever now and only recently my eyes have become super blood shot. They started doing that towards the end of the school year &+ now. I don't suppose I'm allergic or anything because my eyes didn't do that in the beginning or the middle of the year. I really don't know what it could be. My mom thinks it's my eyeliner (but we're not really sure) and she also wants me to stop wearing make-up altogether. So is there a way that I can still keep wearing eyeliner without it making my eyes blood shot? Maybe I should switch to a different eyeliner brand? or what? Does anyone have any suggestions?
thanks,
Michellemonster
When you put eyeliner on and then go in front of the air conditioner or in front of cold air at all, it will make your eyes water. When you rub your eyes, it irritates them, causing the blood shot eye look. You need eyeliner that won't do that or don't stand directly in front of air. There is a brand of eyeliner that is cover girl that you can find in Family Dollar. It is a long stick, black, thin, and you twist the eyeliner up instead of sharpening it. It will also have a white eraser looking thing on the end that you can use to wipe off the excess if you mess it up.
can some one translate these lyrics. plz and thk you. :]
I never promised you a ray of light,
I never promised there'd be sunshine everyday,
I give you everything I have, the good, the bad.
Why do you put me on a pedestal,
I'm so up high that I can't see the ground below,
So help me down you've got it wrong, I don't belong there.
Chorus:
One thing is clear,
I wear a halo,
I wear a halo when you look at me,
But standing from here, you wouldn't say so
you wouldn't say so, if you were me
And I, I just wanna love you,
Oh oh I, I just wanna love you
Verse 2
I always said that I would make mistakes,
I'm only human, and that’s my saving grace,
I fall as hard as I try
So don't be blinded
See me as I really am, I have flaws and sometimes I even sin,
so pull me from that pedestal,
I don't belong there.
Chorus:
One thing is clear,
I wear a halo,
I wear a halo when you look at me,
But standing from here, you wouldn't say so
you wouldn't say so, if you were me
And I, I just wanna love you,
Oh oh I, I just wanna love you
Why you think that you know me
But In your eyes
I am something above you
It’s only in your mind
Only in your mind
I wear a
I wear a
I wear a Halo
One thing is clear,
I wear a halo,
I wear a halo when you look at me,
But standing from here, you wouldn't say so
you wouldn't say so, if you were me
And I, I just wanna love you,
Oh oh I, I just wanna love you
Haaaa ha-ha halo (x9)
This writer is a person who lives two lives. One in which she pleases another and one where she is completely herself. The person has changed her and she feels like she has to be that person in order to make the spouse love her. She didn't promise him that she would be completely perfect, she didn't promise that she would be nice everyday. Sometimes in a relationship, the partner has high expectations, resulting in the person losing themself in the process because of those expectations. She is telling him that those expectations he has of her are not right. She wants him to accept the person she is. The halo represents her behavior. When she is around him, she tries to act perfect to please him but he doesn't see that. He only sees the mistakes she has made and not the efforts she made. She is trying to talk to him by saying she told him over and over that she has made mistakes and she will continue to make them. All she wants is his love and for him to accept her love. She is saying that when he looks at her, he sees something that is not even her. He doesn't know her and she is trying to make him understand that.
I am 18 years old and married to my husband who is in the army..before you even read i am going to say now this question does not need answers or appreciate answers of people saying omg your too young to be married or anything like that...now with that said...
my husband got flagged over 2 months or so ago and appealed it a little over a month ago..they told him he would know if it was lifted within a week well its been a month and a half and we still don't know anything...he was going to go to the IG and talk to him about his case and get him to push buttons n move it along..but his sgt advised him to try n wait because right after its lifted we must put my command sponsorship papers in so we can get housing and all that and he said that the upper command if pissed off by the ig..could say ''lose'' our command sponsorship papers..and screw us over more...so we really don't know what to do...anybody who actually is familar with the army please help..not just random young teens or random adults who are guessing.
The first step in this situation is to calm down. Everything will be fine, if you think positive. I grew up in the army so I know alot about it. The Sargent is right, if your husband talks to anyone more about it, it may end up making things worse than better. These people really don't like to be pushed especially in the predicament we put ourselves in. Even if you are trying to push things along so you don't have to stress about it anymore, they won't really see it that way. Don't let it completely go but while you are waiting, ask the Sargent here and there if it is the right time. He should have no problem telling your husband when it is the best time to talk about your case, it is part of the sargents job description.
So I've known this girl for about 8 years,
But never really got to know her until a couple months ago.
We started hanging out, and have become really good friends, but we both wan't to be more than just friends. The thing is, we are both a little hesitant to start 'dating' (we kinda skipped that one) because we don't want to make things awkward, and lose our friendship.
Let me mention that I'm 18, and have never had a girlfriend before. (so I really have no idea what I'm doing) I try to break a few barriers by putting my arm around her, holding hands, etc,
and she seems to enjoy that, but when I've talked to her about going further, she said the same thing.
On a somewhat related note, my dad's income just got reduced HUGELY, so now he wants to move 2,000 miles away from here, to try and find a better job.
So that's one more thing holding us back.
Pleeeease help me out, I'm going nuts!
There is nothing to fear about being more than friends because I can tell you really like her. The only time a relationship splits when it comes to friendship is when the couple feels obligated, pressured, or confused about oneself. Don't stress about a long-distance relationship, if u both are willing to commit to it, everything will turn out fine.
My ex boyfriend moved to Sweden for two years, and we've talked on msn every day and stuff, and now he's moved back to our town.
I was so fucking happy when he called me and said ''I'm back in town, let's meet at Starbucks at 12''
So I go there to meet him, and I didn't see him anywhere.
I look around and there's a guy waving at me.
And I did a double take.
Before he left, he had blonde hair, messy, some piercings, and gauged ears.
Now, he has black long hair, more piercings and something that makes me want to cry, he's gauged his center lip piering to a 00g
( like this guy's lip:
http://www.bmezine.com/pierce/05-lips/A80502/high/npqe-rafa-e-dessa-9829.jpg)
Meanwhile I've had some boyfriends, and he's had some girlfriends, but I wanted to start dating him again.
But now...I feel so unattracted to him :(
I mean, I can't even kiss him. And he talks all weird.
And he's changed too. He's obsessed with gauging his lip now, and he thinks I should gauge my lip too.
What do I do now?
I still love him, but I feel like I love him as a friend, and he wants to get back together.
Help?
The first thing that needs to be done is telling him you don't want anything piercing through your lip. Changing yourself for someone else will just end in you losing yourself entirely. I have had that happened to me and it is not a path I would suggest to anyone. Not knowing who you really are or who you once were is a scary thing.
A good way to gently tell someone you want to be their friend is to tell the truth. The truth is when he first left you both were on the same page, had things in common, and had a very good relationship. The time you have been apart has changed both of you. You don't know him anymore and he doesn't know you. You realize now that you have grown apart as people. You are not sure if you can have the same relationship you once had because it has been so long and you both have changed so much.
Hi. I have been pulling my eyelashes out since I can remember. I am young and I can't stop. I know it sounds absurd, but I know theres something wrong. My right eye is almost completely bald, and I sometimes can't take it. It's hard because I don't know why I have this problem. I don't know anyone else that does. Can anyone offer any suggestions or help me?
Yes, I had the same problem for a long time. What I did was kept myself occupied all the time. I made sure whatever I did it involved me using my hands. We usually get into our nasty habits when we are bored and have nothing to do. If you make up a schedule to occupy yourself for a couple of weeks then you can slwoly get out of the habit. The trick is scheduling every bit of your time so you have no room to get back into those bad habits. Once I got through the first two weeks it became much easier.
alright, so i'm italian and of course have the really, really dark eyebrows. (jet black). but my hair is actually an auborn brown color. this, annoys me the most. so i've been dyeing my hair darker every few months. but lately it's gotten so annoying, not to mention my hair is completely dead.
my question is instead of dyeing my hair, would it be possible for me to dye my actual eyebrows a lighter, maybe a dark brown* color? would this be a good idea? (it wont turn my eyebrows orange, will it?) thankyou !
Yes, you can use dye to match your haircolor. I suggest going to a haricut salon or some kind of shop where they can do it professionally. It won't turn oranage but they are alot of steps that you have to take that are much different from just dying your hair.