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army problems
I am 18 years old and married to my husband who is in the army..before you even read i am going to say now this question does not need answers or appreciate answers of people saying omg your too young to be married or anything like that...now with that said...
my husband got flagged over 2 months or so ago and appealed it a little over a month ago..they told him he would know if it was lifted within a week well its been a month and a half and we still don't know anything...he was going to go to the IG and talk to him about his case and get him to push buttons n move it along..but his sgt advised him to try n wait because right after its lifted we must put my command sponsorship papers in so we can get housing and all that and he said that the upper command if pissed off by the ig..could say ''lose'' our command sponsorship papers..and screw us over more...so we really don't know what to do...anybody who actually is familar with the army please help..not just random young teens or random adults who are guessing.
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The first step in this situation is to calm down. Everything will be fine, if you think positive. I grew up in the army so I know alot about it. The Sargent is right, if your husband talks to anyone more about it, it may end up making things worse than better. These people really don't like to be pushed especially in the predicament we put ourselves in. Even if you are trying to push things along so you don't have to stress about it anymore, they won't really see it that way. Don't let it completely go but while you are waiting, ask the Sargent here and there if it is the right time. He should have no problem telling your husband when it is the best time to talk about your case, it is part of the sargents job description.
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