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i have this huge problem this boy jus broke up with my best friend lizy and today i sorta hung out wit hym but he grabbed my bff emme's ass i mean she is supper skinny and totally dosent have one lol but she ii let hym do that cuz i really really like hym o should ii oo idno please help me!!!!!!! PLEEASEE (link)
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Hi,
No offense, but please slow down when typing. The previous advice giver found it hard to understand what you meant and the question itself.
From what I understand you have a friend who just broke up with someone you like and want to be with. Then this guy grabbed your friend's rear-end either as a joke or for sexual reasons as an attention grabbing thing.
The first problem is easy to solve. If your friend just broke up with him she's still upset, angry, emotional and has feelings for him still. If you go up to him and start a relationship just now your friendship is over as she will not be happy at all.
You did not give both of them adequate time to heal and or move on if you approach(ed) it in this way. It's too early for this and even if it were not it will never be "cool" with your friend.
Secondly, if a guy grabs your friend's bottom either playfully or not wanted by her it's her issue to solve and not yours. in this case MYOB and whether or not she liked this or not is something she has to deal with not you.
Finally, if I were you I would not date this guy for the world because of how your friend would feel and secondly if he just out of the blue grabbed your friend's butt or tried to move in on her it proves he is a player and that's extremely weird behavior for having just broken up with someone he should have cared about don't you think? Stay away--like the black plague you don't want it/him in your experience.
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whats espn?
cioz remember in mean girls the dumb girl said that she thinks she has ESPN? (link)
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It's a joke to show she does not know the difference between ESPN which is the acronym for Entertainment and sports Programming Network which is the U.S. sports network that is oft-imitated in other countries for his signature programming such as Sports Centre and Friday Night Fights.
ESP stands for Extra-sensory perception. It's hard to explain how ESP works and what it is so this article link might help if you are still curious. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Extra-sensory_perception
I hope this helps answer your question for you.
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Ive seen the previews for "epic movie"
any one know the rating?
i heard its rated "R"
i hope this isnt the case! (link)
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You should be able to get in provided you are 13-year-old alone on your own in U.S. theatres. The rating there is PG-13. It will be rated differently province to province in Canada and city by city in the UK or overseas. The U.S. always has a fixed rating for all sites. I hope this helps. The movie opens on Jan. 26th.
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I get absolutely no respect from my younger sister. We are only one year apart (I am 16; she's 15). All she does is give me smartass comments when I try to be nice or give her reasonable advice on something (when she asks for it). She never mentions me to her friends. Her friends don't even know I exist. She doesn't mention me on Myspace. She is always claiming to everyone we are not even sisters and deletes all of my comments. I am always seeing sisters saying "I love my sister even though we get those fights". I wish my sister would do something like that, ya know? Like I want her to be proud I am her sister, but she is embarrassed of me. She also says rude remarks to me when she is around friends.
Also when we get into fights my parents tend to take her side over mine (ironic because I am older than her) and I will admit I can start it and make up ways to aggravate her (but who doesn't do that?) however she does the same thing but it's always her word over mine. There are times my parents either stay neutral or take my side but it just always seems that my sister is "better" than me.
She also shows no expression of love for me (as sisters, of course). I will say "I love you!" and she will just say "OK, so?" And it hurts me so much. I can't even answer to myself that she even really does love me deep down because she gives out no emotion towards me except such hatred and angst. She is a tomboy so I guess that explains some of it, but I wish she would be more open and more respestful towards me. I am not asking for total worship or anything, but I am asking that she would be more respective and nice.
I need advice on how I can deal with this! Thanks. (link)
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There are some things you may not have considered here. First of all, is she normally moody and difficult in general? Her attitude can be influenced by puberty and mood swings. A lot of young people can be quite surly for no reason because of hormonal changes.
Secondly, people show love and respect in different ways. She might be the kind of person who does not show it outwordly but feels it inside. She probably finds it weird that you always seek a compliment, respect, attention when she wants to give you a silent nod or show it to you in a different manner.
It's not that she does not love or respect you. She probably does but you're always seeking that comment etc is what is making her annoyed. I'm being brutally honest here even if is not what you want to hear as it's the truth.
The thing about Myspace is a non-issue. A lot of people do not mention their siblings, parents, etc on Myspace and it does not mean she loves you less etc. She has her friends, you have yours and her Myspace account will reflect that. she may be angry over the comments because you posted several rather than one or two here and there.
She is not embarassed over you and the fights are normal and parents will always take the youngest's side because the oldest is supposed to be the one who should know better than to continue a fight she may have started.
I think she is respectful of you but you may not see it as people don't have to hug or say how much they love one another in a family just to feel it.
You need to deal with your insecurities here and why you feel she must always say "I love you" or show respect. Nothing here illustrates disrepect or her being embarassed of you. There's a problem here and it's not really about her.
It's about you always needing this kind of attention to feel accepted even if you truly are by others. What's causing that fear in you? As long as you give your sister some space, privacy (especially online) things will go well.
As far as friends go and never mentioning you most people do not mention siblings at all unless they introduce their friends to them. Your sister probably just has her group of pals and you have yours. That's all it is.
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i really dont know what to do...i really really really like this guy and he's always in my mind forreal i think i've fallen head over heels for him. he went out with one of my friends and i kinda had feels for him last year i thought i got over but this year im just totally into him. its strange because i dont know why i like him its just that something is getting me. me and him have been talking and hes always askin me to go to things to cheer him on but i never get the time to go. so theres this big ball and im going because my friends invited me and i think that hes going and i've asked him already and he said he might be going. theres this other girl that really into him and hes sorta into her too. well hes sorta a big flirt. i dont know i want to kinda tell him that i like him but i dont want to mess things up. its just i dont want to keep waiting for him to do something. if i dont straight up tell him i was just gonna ask him what he thinks about girls tell him they like him? please just help me because i really cant do this anymore... sorry its soo long... (link)
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This is a better situation than you might think. You have an "in" with him and it's attending these games. Ask him when the next one is and make a habit of going. Why? He's testing you and putting out feelers to see if you like him. Odds are he feels the same way but inside rejected or feeling you do not like him back because you never go.
See what attending a few games and talking to him afterwards does for you. Obviously, he is not into this other girl who is a real flirt as more than a friend/aquaintence if he has not made a move for her as he's not stupid and can see what she's doing. He's probably waiting for you but won't be much longer unless you show interest back.
When it comes to the dance just ask him if he has found a date yet? If he hasn't then you can tell him (even if it's a lie) that nobody has asked you and you were A) not going to go or B) wondered if you could go as friends? That should solve things.
Try to get to know him and include him in parties, habging out etc and over time see if you have something you can turn into a relationship. It's up to you to make a move as he already has by inviting you to cheer him on. Trust me, no guy is going to invite a girl he is not friends with to cheer him on unless it's a girl he's interested in.
He's probably giving you a maybe on the whole dance thing because he feels you snubbed him over the games he invited you to and may wonder why has she taken so long? now she wants to be around me because she doesn't have a date... etc. Who knows what's going on in his head but you need to start making moves to figure out if you should spend any more time thinking about him.
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Every time I turn on my computer it re-boots its self so EVERYTHING on it is deleted expect certain programs.
My iTunes is on it and it delted ALL my songs.
My AIM is on it and it delted my screen name.
Same thing with other programs..
Anyone know how I can fix this without paying a lot of money?
[It's not a REALLY old computer, four years]
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I'm no computer expert but it sounds like you have a virus here or hard disk crashing. The only thing I would recommend trying if you are sure it is not a virus is to get the discs (usually CDs) that came with it and slide them in just before it tries to boot into windows.
These discs are labelled "System Recovery" It should restore your computer back to the state it was in the day you bought it. The downside is you lose all your files and songs but from the looks of it that seems to have happened anyways.
Again, I'm not sure if this will handle your issue but it might. You may however, have a far more serious issue than any system recovery disk could fix but you might as well try every suggestion you get at this point as you have nothing to loose at this point.
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oay i really love this guy but i know he doesn't know that i do still love him he thought i got over him and i know he would freak if he still knew.....and i'm scred to tell him becsue it might ruin our friendship....how do i keep my felling "on th down low" without hurting inside becasue i hate knowing that he doesn't know but I CAN"T TELL him....very confusing story and i don't wnat to explain it...what do i od? (link)
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I recommend being honest with yourself and honest with him about how you are feeling. Why hide the truth? The truth always comes out and you have control of how it plays out. If something like this is eating at you inside you need to release it.
I understand that you are scared but what if he feels the same way about you? Trust me, the guy will appreciate knowing the truth either way. Even though you said you were over him at one point and obviously are not that's okay.
Love and feelings for someone else are like that sometimes because you denied to him/yourself the truth and tried to supress the overwhelming truth that you do in fact have feelings for him. You can try and try to put that aside but until you deal with this issue it's going to confront you until you confront it.
I would tell this guy the truth and mention no matter what you want to be friends regardless of what you are about to tell him and get him to promise that no matter what you tell him that he'll be alright with it and the friendship continue.
If you have been friends as long as you say you have than there is nothing that either one of you could say to the other that would kill a friendship. Think of it this way: You are letting go of something that has been bothering you. The best thing that can unfold is a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship.
The worst? Well, he does not feel like you do. At least you will know and the friendship will continue as long as it's built on solid ground to begin with.
Guys are usually always flattered and respect the amount of guts it takes for a girl to tell them how she feels even if they do not feel the same. The only way to do this is tell him the truth no matter how scary it is. Once you've blurted it out it's over and you can relax.
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I think the psychiatric doctor I have and the psychiatric nurse that I regularly go to, conspirated against me.
I needed to get a drivers license psychiatric paper that I can drive and he was very negative, asked me all crazy stuff like my psychosis illness and If I have had a psychosis the last time etc, and I got very scared and pulled up in a corner , and I left them and I sent a sms to the nurse saying the f word and that I hated them, and now I think I have f... up really badly and now I dont feel good I was in a psychosis yesterday and I felt they were conspirating against me, I really need your help!
Apologise my poor English , I am foreign. (link)
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Hi,
I have had bouts with mental illness and although what I am about to tell you may not be want you want to hear right now it's the honest truth. The doctor nor the nurse have any reason to conspire against you nor are they doing so.
Part of your illness is believing that people are out to get you and do things to harm you or that are against you. This is a sign that you just are not well right now and need medical help.
The doctor cannot sign any forms entitling you to drive if you are delusional or pose a risk to yourself or other drivers and pedestrians on the road. It's nothing personal, it's following the law and common sense because this doctor will get into trouble (criminal) and be liable for giving you the go ahead to drive.
It's the exact same thing with eye doctors. If they feel someone has vision problems to the point they cannot drive they can put a legal suspension on preventing you from driving. It's not personal, it's about being safe and ultimately, all of this protects you.
The psychiatrist and nurse have to ask you what appear to be weird questions to you to gauge what your delusiions may still be. They want to see if you are having weird thoughts, voices etc and things you ought not to experience if well but will if you are in need of help.
Bottom line: they're out to make you well, not conspiring to put you in the hospital. If you are hearing voices, think people are appearing in your room and then vanishing or there are strange shadows, blobs or people melting or evaporating etc it's signs you have a problem. You may be relapsing here and not knowing it.
I agree with the first poster that you need medical attentionhaving been in your situation. You see, to you everything appears normal as that's part of the illness. What you are thinking/doing/hearing seems normal to you but not to others as the person with a mental illness needs to see this and will after getting help which i pray you do.
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im 14 and my penis is only 4.5 inches when erect and 3 inches when limp why is it only that big and will it get bigger soon (link)
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You are normal and so is the size of your penis. When erect it's close to 5 inches and flacid (non-erect) about the same size as you mentioned. Don't worry about size too much. It may get bigger as puberty continues until you are 18 and stop growing/developing. For now, know that everything is A-okay there.
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So this year, in my class.. I have my friend, Terry and this girl, Katie.
Terry has been my friend for almost 3-4 years. We were at the same middle school so she knows me.
But this new girl, Katie... is really weird.
Our class is Biology.
And since I had to retake .. I'm aware of all the things we have to do. Katie.. is a baby about it. She won't touch things or work with us. I'm quite tired of doing things by myself. She often comes into Terry and I's group.
She's annoying sometimes, assuming everything about everyone.. and she doesn't even know me.. and she talks about me like she does. It just bothers me.
So in this lab before.. she didn't know what she was doing and I was trying to explain it to her.. but she was messing up our slides. So I took over and Terry said at lunch.. Katie said she hated me?
I didn't really care because I need good grades this year. And if I have to do things myself, I must do so. After that I let her lead the group and we had this drawing thing to do.
She made us start over 3 times so I took the paper home and did most of the work. She got mad at me. Even though I left work for all of us to do.
I may sound mean. :I
Terry stole something off of Katie. I was laughing at Terry because she's a funny person. The whole stealing thing wasn't my idea. So Katie noticed her missing things and while I was laughing at Terry.. she thought it was me! She called me a bitch and came up to me cussing me out. "Give me my fu*king things!" so Terry put the items on my desk under my bag. And I would not move because obviously it looked like I stole it.
And my word against hers.. is poo. So Terry took the blame and Katie still seems to hate me? She said she was sorry but I know she somewhat hates me.
I don't know what to do.
I work well with my friend Terry but not someone that doesn't pay attention in class and almost destorys our experiments. We have this egg project and we had to leave an egg in a beaker full of vinegar. Yeah? Well she takes out the egg and just.. throws it onto the table when the teacher said not to 3 times. And if there's a crack.. we can't continue the lab.
We told her not to touch certain liquids and then she got skin eating liquid on herself.. and she blamed me! I don't know how she got it on herself because we all touched the same beaker. (There was a blister)
I don't know what I'm doing wrong. She's annoying me and my friend now.
What can I do? Do I sound like a bitch or something? (link)
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I would be compassionate here towards her as she is clueless when it comes to socializing and does not have those skills. She sounds like she needs friends pretty desperately. I have the feeling that she has no idea how she is coming across to others here. She may have a learning disability where being boisterous, beligerant, and social inept is part of the problem.
Nobopdy said you had to be her friend or work with her. Pick your own partner and make sure she finds someone else if you are concerned about your science or group work. Odds are, the teacher knows the girl messed things up, tries to take control of everything etc. and has marked the three of you differently.
If concerned mention to this teacher how she is impacting you and your partner's work negatively and let the adult handle it here in a tactful way. She may have more problems to deal with than you know. Be friendly towards her as you'll attact better things from her with honey than vinegar.
As for her hating you, she just might be saying that out of frustration or think that you dislike her. I don't know, and you are not sure so I would not worry over it. All of this will sort itself out if you show no signs of reacting to it or being troubled by it.
Treating her badly like she did with you will get you nowhere and into even bigger a problem that the two of you are experiencing now with her. It gives her ammo too if a teacher talks to her on your behalf as you're being the same way she is.
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I'm really shy and I think I'm developing a crush on this guy.
How do I get his attention?
Should I wear my hair differently?
Because I already smile at him and strangely.. he smiles back. This rare cute smile.
Sometimes he comes up to me and tries to sit next to me.
Today, this lady handed out pens for everyone (math class~ to correct) and he didn't get a good pen. So he decided to take mine.. and he started to walk away. Then someone said something.. and he turned around and I gave him a /look/ .. he stopped and smiled.. and laughed.
I'm going to start to play this game (that he told me about) .. will that help bring up conversation? Like.. can you help me with the game. Explain it to me sort of thing?
Even if he doesn't like me. I'll love to have him as a friend that I could talk to and hang out with.
He's a year older than me though. He's a junior. Are juniors really interested in sophomores? (link)
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Hi,
I think he will like you for who you are and that your hairstyle will have no influence on that. It seems he has an interest in you here with the sitting with you, telling you about a computer game, borrowing the pen etc from you rather than anyone else.
Odds are, your problem is he is waiting for you to make a move and vice versa you are waiting for him. Definitely get into this game and use it as a launch pad to discuss other things with him.
I know you are shy but talk to him about his interests, yours and maybe ask him on a group date to a movie or invite him to a party etc. Age really has nothing to do with love. Juniors can be interested in sophmores and date them. At this stage age is no big deal.
Keep doing what you are doing as you have already attacted hin by doing everything you mentioned here. Keep that up but eventually you have to talk to him more and let him know how you are thinking.
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is their a way i can hit higher notes? thanks (link)
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The best way to learn how to hit higher notes, figure out your range, and how to sing better, vocal techniques, breathing etc. etc. is to get a voice or vocal coach to teach you and assess where you and give you a game plan for reaching you goals in singing.
You should also approach your school music teacher but to learn how to hit those higher notes you definitely will want the private tutoring oif a voice or vocal teacher who is trained to help people sing better.
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(14/f)Ok I'll attempt to make this brief. My best friend and I tried out for a more advanced program at another school. I got in, she didn't. Now whenever I talk to her she always manages to sneak in a "Your school sucks, can't believe you ditched us to go there" etc... And everytime I talk to her it's always because she wants something"Can you do this question for me, can you go to my meeting for me"etc.. (needless to say the answer tends to be no, I'll help a bit but I won't do it for you. Which causes her to throw tantrums. Anyways...).
So all of this makes me want to avoid her as much as possible, the thing is that she and another one of my friends get out of school earlier than I do, and go to my house and wait outside the door for me to come home, most of the time wanting food and/or entertainment. When I come home I tend to be a nervous wreck and I tend to spend at least a good 4 hours or so on homework. Except when they come over they refuse to leave. I'm serious, even if I tell them that I'm busy and that they should go home they always say something to the effect of "We're bored, we've got nothing else to do so we'll stay here"(they're currently not talking to me because last time they did that I told them to stop harrassing me, harsh I know).
So... any ideas of how I can keep my sanity and NOT strangle them next time I see them?
hmm... attempt to make a brief question failed, it's rather long... (link)
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It seems your friends suffer from an inferiority complex and do not think highly of themselves or their own ability to do things. They see you as smart and having chosen a gifted program of which they probably yearn to be in at another school over them.
You need to illustrate that this is not the case and that it was for you to advance and have more opportunities but that they are smart, useful and have their own place too.
They just need to open there eyes to how important everyone is and not just you. If the jealousy continues then it's their problem and you need not give them or it any of your time.
When it comes to their homework tell them that you have your own to do, here's a few suggestions etc. but your teachers are looking to see what you can and cannpt acheive at X and not what I can. Refuse to do their work for them and if they do not like it tough. It's not your problem.
Let them know in as simple an explanation as possible that tantrums do not work and are the sign of immaturity and they need to start acting like 14-year-olds. Sometimes if people just do not get their behavior is gross you need to be forceful in telling/showing them.
If someone invites themselves over to your house without your consent or knowledge and or are in your driveway point out you do not have time to play and have tons of homework. Tell them you will call them afterwards and see if we can do something etc. etc.
Then close the door, lock it. If they push their way in then you need to get an adult or wait for one to send them packing.
Bottom line, you do not have to put up with this garbage or even stay friends with them because they are not acting likr your friends and are in fact taking advantage of you and using youby making you feel guilt over certain things.
If it were me I would move on, get other friends, and send a message to them this way that it's time to grow up. perhaps point out to them that their immaurity, tantrums, behavior is the one reason you want nothing to do with them. They need to be taught severa importantl lessons about their behavior and attitudes.
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what is a wet dream? do girls and guys get them? (link)
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Actually, the person who gave you the last bit of advice wasn't entirely right. Yes, a wet-dream is when someone (usually) a male is sexually aroused for reason or other during sleep and ejaculates. It's very normal but happens more to guys who do not masturbate regularly than those who choose not to release semen that way for whatever reason.
Do girls have wet-dreams? Well not in the same sense guys do. Girls do not have penises nor do they ejaculate sperm. They do however, become aroused during sleep like guys do and their vagina, vulva and underwear can become wet or moist with lubrication.
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Now, lately, (okay, for the past month) I haven't gotten a single email. At first I thought it was just because no one had sent me any emails but a little bit after that I thought it was strange because usually I get spam once a day around.
I tried sending myself an email from another computer, and I never got it. I use Outlook Express, if this helps. How do I fix this problem?
(PS: The send/recieve button doesn't bring up any errors, and restarting does not work, either.) (link)
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Hi,
You mntioned nothing comes through at all when you press send or receive. Does your test message that you send yourself actually leave your Outbox and comes up in the sent mail box?
If so, your problem is that your ISP has changed the incoming server's info and you do not have your incoming and outgoing server set correctly. You can easily have this fixed when you call your ISP up and ask for the POP and SMTP settings and have them walk you through set up on Outlook Express. They'll test that you can send and recieve or help you figure out what the problem is otherwise.
A big problem here is your safe-list settings. If you have your spam guard set ultra high and do not have your friend's e-mail addresses in your safe-list the spam folder will accumulate with their e-mails until you go look and empty it and add their e-mail address to the safe list.
Sometimes, the spam folder erases everything or just blocks them period from getting mail to you. Try calling your ISP or get a hotmail account for all your e-mail needs.
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ok so i see this boy in the train every morning. and he is really cute. i want to get to know him. he goes to my school but we dont have classes together. what can i say to him witout looking stupid?. (link)
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Hi,
Usually if someone approaches a stranger on the train the person is bound to react in a negative way. To avoid that you should say "Excuse me but I noticed you in the halls at school." Ask his name and introduce yourself. Hopefully it goes well as you have a legitimate excuse to talk to him.
Talk about your classes and his if the conversation keeps going and things are well and then give him an e-mail address and leave it up to him to make the next move. I'm sure you will do fine when trying to talk to him on the train but do not be discouraged if he doesn't want to talk back.
It can happen and if it did it's his problem not yours. I'm sure you will find lots of intelligent things to discuss once you get past the introduction and the question I mentioned above that you should ask him first to get him to talk with you.
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ok i have this best friend of 9 years.. shes like my other half.ok whenever i get grounded or w/e and i cant hang out shell go out and do something with someone else. thats fine i dont have a problem with it. its just we do everything together and when i hear shes hanging out with other people its like i feel jealous and i get mad at her but its not like im reaklly mad at her. is that wrong? and i know she feels the same way when i go out because she always says you could have told me you were going out but w/e but is it wrong to feel this way when shes with other people? (link)
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You both need to understand that even the best of friends for nine years or not sometimes need a break from eachother and an opportunity to meet other people or socialize with other friends on their own. This is normal behavior and expected for both of you.
If she is out with other people or you are out with others and she's not there that's okay. Your friendship will continue as normal as long as neither of you get jealous over something that you both should be doing regularly with others.
You and for that matter she may not have invited you because she and or you in your case felt as though she/you would not jive well with who she invited or have anything in common. It's nothing personal. Just remember any time that you feel jealous or excluded that she always comes back and includes you in other things.
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Okay uhm...
Lately, I've been looking at porn a lot.
Specifically lesbian stuff.
Videos, pics, anything.
I just wanna know...
Is this normal?
Cause I'm a 15 yr old girl.
You wouldn't think I 15 yr old girl would be interested in that kinda stuff.
Idk why I do it.
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Is it normal?
Is it perverted?
Is it wrong?
Is it weird?
HELPP!! (link)
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You are normal and none of this makes you a lesbian unless you are interested in being with girls rather than guys which I do not think is the case here.
You are curious and that's natural you want to know what other girls look like and maybe are curious over what being gay is like and how people in general (heterosexual, lesbian etc) do in a relationship.
Is it normal? It is unless it's an obsession and you cannot think of anything else. Is it wrong? no it's not wrong to look at pornography or enjoy it provided nobody gets hurt but you should stop until you are of age to look at this (18) as it's not meant to be for younger people.
You are not perverted either as other people (girls/guys) look at pornography (gay or straight) when they are curious about sex. If you are concerned about this try looking at it less and finding other things to do with your time until you have no desire to be looking at it.
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ok. so i've lived in my house for my whole life (litterally). and now, my mom says we're moving. at first i was upset. but now i'm ok with it. my parents are divorced and my dad is trying to stop us from moving. and if he does, we don't know what's going to happen. should i confront my dad? or just let this whole thing go?
ps. if we DO move, i'll lose ALL my 6 cats and more. (link)
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I'm sure your mother must not want to move either and nor does she want you to lose your pets or anything else. As a single mother she has to rely on the money she makes and your dad paying your child support checks monthly.
She must not be able to make ends meet to afford keeping a whole house rather than an apartment if it's only you (and maybe a sibling or two) to inhabit it. Bills like heat, air, electric, cable etc all add up.
Your father may actually have legal rights that you are unaware of being a kid and all regarding joint custody that stipulates he must be able to see you for visitation and have both of you live near him for that.
If he's trying to stop you from moving consider whether or not this means he cannot visit. Then you'll know why he is challenging your mother on it.
I do not think you should talk to him about it as sadly that can be used against your mom in court. Let your mom know what you think and allow the adults to figure it out. I have always believed in what is meant to be will be. Either way do not worry too much as life has a way of working out well for people despite less than great situations in the beginning.
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This is gonna sound really wierd, but my girlfriend of four years, has arranged for one of our mutual friends, a cute girl our age, to have a threesome this thursday...i dont know what i want to do... i mean, this IS kinda every guys fantasy, but i dont know if its RIGHT...you know? should i go ahead with it? i know my girlfriends not bi, and that shes probably doing it for me, but she seems so enthusiastic about it, and so does the other girl...and even if i go ahead with it, if the other girl is doing stuff to me, is it okay to show that i like it? would that make my girlfriend jealous? im just looking to try and enjoy this (i do WANT to do it) and not offend anybody i can...i love my girlfriend with all my heart, and shes the light of my life, i dont want to hurt her...ANYTHING you have to say will be helpfull...thanks...by the way im looking for girls opinions too... (link)
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It's difficult to tell what your girlfriend and this girl's reasons for even suggesting doing this are. I would proceed with caution there as something does not sound right about that and about everything.
Think about it for a moment how many people do you know of with girlfriends who have a friend that they would even mention the idea to let alone someone who wants to do it? Is there any chance both of them could be having you on to prove something about your character and what you would actually would do and or think about such sexual matters?
If this makes you feel really weird or unsure of things do not proceed with it and tell them that it's not something you want to do and not to reintroduce the idea ever again.
Going through with it can split up relationships and lead to major problems there. As far as I'm concerned you ought to stay a one woman man and make sure that neither you or your girlfriend associate with this other female. She might have a hidden agenda by trying to do this. Bottom line: Don't, in my opinion proceed.
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